The Sugar Thread: Intel / Reviews / Contacts

[QUOTE=Frequent904;4586814]I'm on [URL]Seeking.com[/URL], I have a paid profile, and I still don't see much of anything. Every link that you guys post on here shows up that the profile is unavailable. Wth am I doing wrong? Thanks! -F904.[/QUOTE]Not sure why that's happening unless they have blocked you. I use my cell most times so sometimes it'll show me that when my signal is bad but I just back out and deselect the link again. Sometimes I have to go in "filters" and click "reset all". Other than that not sure why your having issues.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/eb707cd9-494e-48dc-876d-278025475cd7[/URL]

Would not meet and greet for fee. Wanted the new standard 300 to hangout. Lots of delayed replies to texts (days later) Agreed to meet for alot less then went comms dark before she gave me her location.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6c93c693-63bb-4349-8a59-7cde5c08d9a8[/URL]

Got her digits, agreed to meet and greet for free. Sent me a pic. Comms dark the day we agreed to meet.

[QUOTE=Ghostrunner;4586665]Here's the link for her.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f9281a3d-6524-4103-8835-b3286e65bcb3[/URL]

I'm going to say she's a scam but hopefully someone proves me wrong. I had a slightly different experience. She contacted me saying that she looked over my profile and she loved what she saw and she's very interested in knowing more and she sent her number. Well I looked into it and she hadn't even viewed my profile so I'm going to call scam. Like I said, maybe someone will prove me wrong.[/QUOTE]I'm not quite sure. After she sent me a few confirmation pics, I sent her gas money to get to me. 30 bucks nothing I would be too pissed about losing, Incase she was a fake. She says she lives out in St. Augustine so an hour to get to me. The thing is tho as soon as I did her uncle had a heart attack and she couldn't make it. Crazy thing is though she offered and did refund me the gas money I had just sent. So who knows with this one.

[QUOTE=FirstTimeH;4587053]I'm not quite sure. After she sent me a few confirmation pics, I sent her gas money to get to me. 30 bucks nothing I would be too pissed about losing, Incase she was a fake. She says she lives out in St. Augustine so an hour to get to me. The thing is tho as soon as I did her uncle had a heart attack and she couldn't make it. Crazy thing is though she offered and did refund me the gas money I had just sent. So who knows with this one.[/QUOTE]The gas money thing is becoming more and more common. Here in Jax and in Nashville where I also hang out. It think it is a scam to make 20 or 30 bucks here and there. I never send money before meeting anymore because of this.

[QUOTE=RuggerForFun;4587296]The gas money thing is becoming more and more common. Here in Jax and in Nashville where I also hang out. It think it is a scam to make 20 or 30 bucks here and there. I never send money before meeting anymore because of this.[/QUOTE]Yeah sending 20 or 30 bucks may not be a lot, but if they do it 10 times a day then they are making some cake. And if it works then why not add more fake profiles and continue it. As a matter of fact, I could use $200 to $300 a day just for "gas money".

[QUOTE=RuggerForFun;4587296]The gas money thing is becoming more and more common. Here in Jax and in Nashville where I also hang out. It think it is a scam to make 20 or 30 bucks here and there. I never send money before meeting anymore because of this.[/QUOTE]There was one a couple of months ago, who said their cousin died on the day of the meet & greet, no biggie $20 isn't much to loose. Reached out again & she said she needed $20 for gas, told her I'd give it to her in person, day of the meet & greet she told me her cousin had died said she needed $20 gas money for her funeral. Told her damn that's tough losing 2 cousins within a week. Never heard from her again. LOL.

[QUOTE=SeekingHead;4587445]There was one a couple of months ago, who said their cousin died on the day of the meet & greet, no biggie $20 isn't much to loose. Reached out again & she said she needed $20 for gas, told her I'd give it to her in person, day of the meet & greet she told me her cousin had died said she needed $20 gas money for her funeral. Told her damn that's tough losing 2 cousins within a week. Never heard from her again. LOL.[/QUOTE]Unless its anything other than providing them a little extra money for gas IN PERSON when you meet. 99.9% of it is Bullshyte. And my God the time they will spend chasing a $20 scam. Whenever possible, I send a few texts to waste their time, followed by blocking.

Anyone who has spent time on SA has either been cancelled on or ghosted at the last minute or stone-cold stood up -sometimes after booking a hotel (and Never pre-book a hotel on a first meet).

I'd like to encourage people to post thost the links to those that stand you up or jerk you around. Then, other brothers might return the favor to these ladies- after offering generous terms.

Yeah, I know its kind of petty. But might weed them out.

[QUOTE=FirstTimeH;4587053]I'm not quite sure. After she sent me a few confirmation pics, I sent her gas money to get to me. 30 bucks nothing I would be too pissed about losing, Incase she was a fake. She says she lives out in St. Augustine so an hour to get to me. The thing is tho as soon as I did her uncle had a heart attack and she couldn't make it. Crazy thing is though she offered and did refund me the gas money I had just sent. So who knows with this one.[/QUOTE]She's setting you up for the big payday. Confidence artists do just that, build up your trust in them then hit you hard. She sent back the $30, next time she'll need the entire amount of the date upfront and you'll feel like she's trustworthy and be more likely to give it based on her previous actions. Then she'll ghost you. I guarantee it. This one is smart, she's playing the long con.

[QUOTE=Ghostrunner;4586665]Here's the link for her.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f9281a3d-6524-4103-8835-b3286e65bcb3[/URL]

I'm going to say she's a scam but hopefully someone proves me wrong. I had a slightly different experience. She contacted me saying that she looked over my profile and she loved what she saw and she's very interested in knowing more and she sent her number. Well I looked into it and she hadn't even viewed my profile so I'm going to call scam. Like I said, maybe someone will prove me wrong.[/QUOTE]Unless it's someone who blocked me. Seems that profile is no longer active.

[QUOTE=Frequent904;4586814]I'm on [URL]Seeking.com[/URL], I have a paid profile, and I still don't see much of anything. Every link that you guys post on here shows up that the profile is unavailable. Wth am I doing wrong? Thanks! -F904.[/QUOTE]Took me a while to figure this one out. When you click the link HERE, it will more often than not show up as unavailable. Then click on 'reload' or 'refresh' on your browser, and most of the time, the profile will then show up.

Anyone have any intel on this one?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b44423bf-2117-4667-b8f3-0b50fb4147ab[/URL]

Name is Dianna allegedly.

Been in comms with her for a little bit. She seems pretty cool and legit and contrary to her name hasn't seemed to GPS. Seems pretty laid back.

Wanted to see if anyone has had any encounters with her before I pull the trigger. She sent me some pretty good pics too.

Thanks for any info.

[QUOTE=Scooter6;4588464]Unless it's someone who blocked me. Seems that profile is no longer active.[/QUOTE]She blocked you. I can still see her profile.

[QUOTE=Scooter6;4588477]Anyone have any intel on this one?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b44423bf-2117-4667-b8f3-0b50fb4147ab[/URL]

Name is Dianna allegedly.

Been in comms with her for a little bit. She seems pretty cool and legit and contrary to her name hasn't seemed to GPS. Seems pretty laid back.

Wanted to see if anyone has had any encounters with her before I pull the trigger. She sent me some pretty good pics too.

Thanks for any info.[/QUOTE]Nice girl.

Teeth are F'd.

Body is slim and fine. Just Appalachian teefs.

[QUOTE=ZoomLens2013;4588572]She blocked you. I can still see her profile.[/QUOTE]That's strange. Looked thru my messages and don't see that URL to any that have that grey circled out icon.

What is her username?

[QUOTE=Scooter6;4588926]That's strange. Looked thru my messages and don't see that URL to any that have that grey circled out icon.

What is her username?[/QUOTE]I believe the username you're looking for is toocute4 u_ and no I've never seen her before.

[QUOTE=Frequent904;4586814]I'm on [URL]Seeking.com[/URL], I have a paid profile, and I still don't see much of anything. Every link that you guys post on here shows up that the profile is unavailable. Wth am I doing wrong? Thanks! -F904.[/QUOTE]I don't know. I don't even have a paid account there and I can see most all of the links posted here.

Unless you put something in your profile that automagically screens out your account for a lot of them. Like "flat broke. Has herpes, bad!

[QUOTE=PlayTiem;4589044]I don't know. I don't even have a paid account there and I can see most all of the links posted here.

Unless you put something in your profile that automagically screens out your account for a lot of them. Like "flat broke. Has herpes, bad![/QUOTE]It depends how you're seeking to use the link. Because (usually) the link is truncated here on this site, if you merely right click and copy the link, it won't work in your other browser window. If, on the other hand, if you right click and choose "copy link location", it should work.

Hope this helps!

[QUOTE=JohnSmith1855;4588933]I believe the username you're looking for is toocute4 u_ and no I've never seen her before.[/QUOTE]Now I see. That was a while back.

Yeah same scam she wanted me to send her $ just to meet for coffee. Said that's her rules because too many guys waste her time.

When I told her I'd consider giving her gas $ when we met in public she blocked me haha.

Scam.

[QUOTE=Gorilla2525;4588722]Nice girl.

Teeth are F'd.

Body is slim and fine. Just Appalachian teefs.[/QUOTE]I was afraid of that in looking at pics she sent me. That sucks.

I had high hopes. She seems fun.

[QUOTE=DonJon;4574850]Guys, Please help a brother out.

I've been on for a week and all I have found are:

1 - young scared chicks that are NOT willing to meet and just time wasters.

2- The few that are willing to meet are ok looking at best. No better than STG (backpage) chicks.

3- The rest are looking for someone to marry or some shit.

How are you guys getting these younger 20 something girls to meet?

I'll tell you now that tried the direct approach. In saying I'm a nice guy but looking to meet girls that are serious about an arrangement.

I also tried the nice guy thing and selling them the dream like in the movies. But that brought out the time wasters and when it came down to. Lets meet. They want dark.

Did I just waste $89 on a membership or What's the secret??

- Don Jon.[/QUOTE]I wish we could get some good intel like this on the vegas and L. A. Threads, so thanks for sharing and here is my 2 cents in the BOLD adding to Sparkish post.

Dude, I don't think there's a secret. As an earlier poster said, it's like shooting fish in a barrel. That's not to say it won't take a little time and effort and you absolutely will message and spend some time on more girls than you actually have a successful rendezvous with; but again, my experience has been better quality, cleaner, more dependable, and generally more appreciative girls once you get the leg work out of the way. - AGREED.

Don't hit every girl with the same approach. Ask questions, get them talking. That will reveal much and give you time and space to fine tune your approach. About 10% will get to a PPM indicator pretty quickly if that's what they are there for. Do what you want in that case. - AGREED IF YOU GOT THE TIME.

Be clear that intimacy (that's a great word to use) is expected; but don't discuss details of what that means on site. If they want to know know more, then move them to text or kik or similar. Don't cave on this point. Offline for those discussions. - AGREED.

Don't be just about intimacy. Talk about other interests, offer coffee or lunch. Ask them about their interests. Not because you care; but because once you get them talking, they will drop information you can use to home in on their particular formula. - AGREED.

Don't be in a rush. Read over your earlier comms. I'm going to guess you're telegraphing some over eagerness or worse, desperation. Just like regular girls, that's a turn off for them. I'm not telling you that to be a dick. I'm just saying text conversations are more open to interpretation than live ones. - AGREED.

I don't feel like this is required; but I think it's a good idea: insist on a platonic meet first. For my part, I want a girl that wants that level of discernment. No I'm not fooling myself about how many dicks she's sucking. I'm just pointing out that some standard is better no standard and it generally translates to better interactions, personally and physically. - I ALWAYS GIVE THEM THE CHOICE OF PLATONIC OR INTIMATE FOR THE FIRST DATE.

Don't get impatient with the girls that don't answer fast. They've got lives too and you should hope that they do. One of two things is true: 1) a good prospect will get back to you; and 2) if they aren't communicating, then they probably can't be depended on. - AGREED.

If I understand you correctly, you joined about a week after the first of the month. That's not optimal. Rent is paid, Christmas cash is coming from their family (for the lucky ones). They aren't feeling their needs as acutely as they will near the end of the month. December may be an aberration here. The girls with kids may want a little extra cash to make their kids Christmas nice; but the daddy's girls are probably getting gifts and such that make them a little less needy. January should improve in this regard. Maybe around the end of the month, reach out to a few of them again and see if you don't get a little more bounce from them. - I NEVER WORRY ABOUT THE TIME OF THE MONTH UNLESS IT INVOLVES AUNT FLOW.

OK, last point, I don't know what kind of financial arrangements you're discussing. You'll find a range of opinions on here and I may get some grief on this from both sides; but IMO, 200 - 300 is the sweet spot. The girls that are better know it and they know they can get it. The girls that come along for much less have been, in my experience, uniformly undesirable ultimately. I don't normally go above that unless we're talking a multi-hour, multi-pop situation. - AT THOSE RATES YOU COULD BE A CIRCUS CLOWN IN UNIFORM AND GET LAID.

Good luck to you man. Patience is your friend. Believe it or not, most of them need you more than you need them. Just keep that in the front of your brain. Don't be arrogant about that, just know that it's true and run your decisions through that filter. - 100% AGREED.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4589458]I wish we could get some good intel like this on the vegas and L. A. Threads, so thanks for sharing and here is my 2 cents in the BOLD adding to Sparkish post.

Dude, I don't think there's a secret. As an earlier poster said, it's like shooting fish in a barrel. That's not to say it won't take a little time and effort and you absolutely will message and spend some time on more girls than you actually have a successful rendezvous with; but again, my experience has been better quality, cleaner, more dependable, and generally more appreciative girls once you get the leg work out of the way. - AGREED.

Don't hit every girl with the same approach. Ask questions, get them talking. That will reveal much and give you time and space to fine tune your approach. About 10% will get to a PPM indicator pretty quickly if that's what they are there for. Do what you want in that case. - AGREED IF YOU GOT THE TIME.

Be clear that intimacy (that's a great word to use) is expected; but don't discuss details of what that means on site. If they want to know know more, then move them to text or kik or similar. Don't cave on this point. Offline for those discussions. - AGREED.

Don't be just about intimacy. Talk about other interests, offer coffee or lunch. Ask them about their interests. Not because you care; but because once you get them talking, they will drop information you can use to home in on their particular formula. - AGREED.

Don't be in a rush. Read over your earlier comms. I'm going to guess you're telegraphing some over eagerness or worse, desperation. Just like regular girls, that's a turn off for them. I'm not telling you that to be a dick. I'm just saying text conversations are more open to interpretation than live ones. - AGREED.

I don't feel like this is required; but I think it's a good idea: insist on a platonic meet first. For my part, I want a girl that wants that level of discernment. No I'm not fooling myself about how many dicks she's sucking. I'm just pointing out that some standard is better no standard and it generally translates to better interactions, personally and physically. - I ALWAYS GIVE THEM THE CHOICE OF PLATONIC OR INTIMATE FOR THE FIRST DATE.

Don't get impatient with the girls that don't answer fast. They've got lives too and you should hope that they do. One of two things is true: 1) a good prospect will get back to you; and 2) if they aren't communicating, then they probably can't be depended on. - AGREED.

If I understand you correctly, you joined about a week after the first of the month. That's not optimal. Rent is paid, Christmas cash is coming from their family (for the lucky ones). They aren't feeling their needs as acutely as they will near the end of the month. December may be an aberration here. The girls with kids may want a little extra cash to make their kids Christmas nice; but the daddy's girls are probably getting gifts and such that make them a little less needy. January should improve in this regard. Maybe around the end of the month, reach out to a few of them again and see if you don't get a little more bounce from them. - I NEVER WORRY ABOUT THE TIME OF THE MONTH UNLESS IT INVOLVES AUNT FLOW.

OK, last point, I don't know what kind of financial arrangements you're discussing. You'll find a range of opinions on here and I may get some grief on this from both sides; but IMO, 200 - 300 is the sweet spot. The girls that are better know it and they know they can get it. The girls that come along for much less have been, in my experience, uniformly undesirable ultimately. I don't normally go above that unless we're talking a multi-hour, multi-pop situation. - AT THOSE RATES YOU COULD BE A CIRCUS CLOWN IN UNIFORM AND GET LAID.

Good luck to you man. Patience is your friend. Believe it or not, most of them need you more than you need them. Just keep that in the front of your brain. Don't be arrogant about that, just know that it's true and run your decisions through that filter. - 100% AGREED.[/QUOTE]Thats a long reply brah.

[QUOTE=Scooter6;4589422]I was afraid of that in looking at pics she sent me. That sucks.

I had high hopes. She seems fun.[/QUOTE]Just going to jump in on this talk. I wouldn't worry about the teeth. They aren't terrible, just less than perfect. Nice girl, sweet as pie, sweet little body, down for anything. You won't regret it.

Thanks for the tips. I got it figured out and now I see thousands of ladies. All I can think now is, "why the hell have I been on STG for so long? This looks to be a numbers game. Run through a few dozen with messages, 15-20% will filter out and about 5%of those will meet my needs at my desired rates. Thanks for the help! I'll be sure to share as I play. -F904.

[QUOTE=PlayTiem;4589044]I don't know. I don't even have a paid account there and I can see most all of the links posted here.

Unless you put something in your profile that automagically screens out your account for a lot of them. Like "flat broke. Has herpes, bad![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sicilly;4589897]Thats a long reply brah.[/QUOTE]I thought it was excellent.

[QUOTE=Frequent904;4590133]Thanks for the tips. I got it figured out and now I see thousands of ladies. All I can think now is, "why the hell have I been on STG for so long? This looks to be a numbers game. Run through a few dozen with messages, 15-20% will filter out and about 5%of those will meet my needs at my desired rates. Thanks for the help! I'll be sure to share as I play. -F904.[/QUOTE]LOL, I reread my quoted post there, and I actually was asking if YOUR profile said you had herpes and no money, and that's why they had all blocked you. But, I realize now that it could be read they other way.

Anyways, I guess a 1% success rate out of a few thousand girls ends up being 30 bang-worthy and affordable chicks. I guess putting in the time screening them out is better than time wasted sitting in a sketchy parking lot, but SA just keeps seeming a like like dating mostly younger chicks. I'll be interested to hear your experience as it unfolds.

[QUOTE=LatinaHunpster;4590679]I thought it was excellent.[/QUOTE]Didn't say it was bad. Just longggg.

So, there's a late 30 ish Cher look alike out at the beaches. DTF, gives a fanfukntastic BBBJ with swallow. Nice and clean place and once she took my load she kept on it until little me got hard again.

You'll know her if you see her.

[QUOTE=Scooter6;4589422]I was afraid of that in looking at pics she sent me. That sucks.

I had high hopes. She seems fun.[/QUOTE]I saw her several times. You won't notice the teeth. She is quite a lot of fun and very accommodating. Is suspect she is higher volume than she lets on. Big drawback: she will pester the hell out of you if you engage her on Cashapp.

[QUOTE=Sicilly;4594594]So, there's a late 30 ish Cher look alike out at the beaches. DTF, gives a fanfukntastic BBBJ with swallow. Nice and clean place and once she took my load she kept on it until little me got hard again.

You'll know her if you see her.[/QUOTE]Don't make it hard for everyone. Link or pic?

[QUOTE=DildoBaggins1;4594770]I saw her several times. You won't notice the teeth. She is quite a lot of fun and very accommodating. Is suspect she is higher volume than she lets on. Big drawback: she will pester the hell out of you if you engage her on Cashapp.[/QUOTE]I don't have Cashapp so that's a plus haha (my bank must not recognize it because I tried signing up twice and it said it 'approved' the debit card but when I tired to use it, it fails every time? Idk).

I suspect she is a little higher volume than she lets on. Which was other reason I haven't pulled the trigger yet.

Body does look nice though.

Haven't ruled out a future encounter.

[QUOTE=Sicilly;4594594]So, there's a late 30 ish Cher look alike out at the beaches. DTF, gives a fanfukntastic BBBJ with swallow. Nice and clean place and once she took my load she kept on it until little me got hard again.

You'll know her if you see her.[/QUOTE]I know who you are talking about. She is a lot of fun and down for pretty much anything. She can be very kinky.

Thanks for the detailed tips.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4589458]I wish we could get some good intel like this on the vegas and L. A. Threads, so thanks for sharing and here is my 2 cents in the BOLD adding to Sparkish post.

Dude, I don't think there's a secret. As an earlier poster said, it's like shooting fish in a barrel. That's not to say it won't take a little time and effort and you absolutely will message and spend some time on more girls than you actually have a successful rendezvous with; but again, my experience has been better quality, cleaner, more dependable, and generally more appreciative girls once you get the leg work out of the way. - AGREED.

Don't hit every girl with the same approach. Ask questions, get them talking. That will reveal much and give you time and space to fine tune your approach. About 10% will get to a PPM indicator pretty quickly if that's what they are there for. Do what you want in that case. - AGREED IF YOU GOT THE TIME.

Be clear that intimacy (that's a great word to use) is expected; but don't discuss details of what that means on site. If they want to know know more, then move them to text or kik or similar. Don't cave on this point. Offline for those discussions. - AGREED.

Don't be just about intimacy. Talk about other interests, offer coffee or lunch. Ask them about their interests. Not because you care; but because once you get them talking, they will drop information you can use to home in on their particular formula. - AGREED.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BillBlaskey2;4595322]I know who you are talking about. She is a lot of fun and down for pretty much anything. She can be very kinky.[/QUOTE]Ok, scrolling and there are plenty of brunettes who say late 20's, which usually means 30's. Who could be Cher-ish. Name? Tiffany xo? AllAboutthegs? Palmer?

I normally don't drive high mileage, but if it involves exceptional performance ratings.

I setup a lunch meeting with PersonalTrainer904 a few weeks ago. Comma were good on the drive however when I reached then location in OP she went dark. She claims she is a personal fitness trainer at Plant Fitness in OP but have never seen her there.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e84b9505-7656-486c-85f8-0605c20165c1[/URL]

Also wanted to see if anyone had any information on this girl. She asked for a dick picture right out of the gate and claims she lives on Kernan and Atlantic. When I asked about meeting comms went dark.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/79b064cf-1d5c-45b0-8c40-fa4251ddd4aa[/URL]

[QUOTE=BillBlaskey2;4595322]I know who you are talking about. She is a lot of fun and down for pretty much anything. She can be very kinky.[/QUOTE]Between the two of you can you just provide a link already so we aren't playing 20 questions and / or having to guess?

[QUOTE=Scooter6;4597289]Between the two of you can you just provide a link already so we aren't playing 20 questions and / or having to guess?[/QUOTE]I think they are just trying to maintain plausible deniability if she later objects to being discussed here; but based on the clues provided, I'm pretty sure this is the one:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/39ce736b-e100-43a0-b6d4-d5b2303fbded[/URL]

She is a total waste of time, but I have some media on her that might interest you. PM me.

[QUOTE=Jax411;4597243]I setup a lunch meeting with PersonalTrainer904 a few weeks ago. Comma were good on the drive however when I reached then location in OP she went dark. She claims she is a personal fitness trainer at Plant Fitness in OP but have never seen her there.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e84b9505-7656-486c-85f8-0605c20165c1[/URL]

Also wanted to see if anyone had any information on this girl. She asked for a dick picture right out of the gate and claims she lives on Kernan and Atlantic. When I asked about meeting comms went dark.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/79b064cf-1d5c-45b0-8c40-fa4251ddd4aa[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sparkish;4597416]I think they are just trying to maintain plausible deniability if she later objects to being discussed here; but based on the clues provided, I'm pretty sure this is the one:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/39ce736b-e100-43a0-b6d4-d5b2303fbded[/URL][/QUOTE]That would be my guess too.

She is a tall drink of water for sure.

I have talked with her briefly. She is down for ppm. We never did discuss rates though and comms have been spotty. But she is on there pretty frequently.

SB: what's your ppm allowance?

SD: Are you asking me or the two hot girls above and below you? Because, theirs is $200, so it doesn't matter what mine is.