General Reports

[QUOTE=Dick Lipschitz]It's quite possible this is all true. It has happened before; it will happen again. But, as previously said, the fair thing would be to hear some response from the owner of the other site before reaching any conclusions.

Sometimes, of course, no response is the most telling response.

Cheers,

DL[/QUOTE]While I am not the owner of the site in this discussion, I am a moderator and long term member.

I realize that some of you may not believe or care, but I know there are members on this forum who are truly interested in the truth about who we are.

The first truth, as Shadow Rider 2 stated, is that the Backpage posting regarding Domino and TSMFE were in fact placed by a disgruntled former member who infiltrated and was discovered and asked to leave. He is also someone who is known and has been mentioned within this very thread. He has a history of creating havoc.

The next truth is that no one is allowed to post fake pictures on the site. If the pictures are found to be fake. The provider is told to change them or leave.

The next truth is that the owner of the site does not solicit freebies from the girls. And freebies in exchange for good reviews are not allowed. If anything, the providers respect the heck out of him and will often offer him a session. He devotes a great deal of time to the hobby he enjoys and has a great deal of respect for the women who risk being a part of it.

The next truth is that membership in the forum is based on hobbyists and providers who come there recommended by other members. So yes it is a closed and very discrete group. Membership is not open to just any one who applies. Gentlemen who respect and honor the hobby and hold it in high regard as well as providers who value their chosen trade and act honestly and with respect to the hobbyists are invited and welcomed.

The next truth is that there are negative reviews allowed and encouraged on the site when necessary. What is not allowed is hurtful and in appropriate discussion or the rating of providers as though they are a piece of meat. The moderators mediate misunderstandings between members and inappropriate behavior.

Most of the members are respectful of one another. The guys treat the ladies with respect and receive the same in return. The owner of the site would have it no other way.

If you ever see the site advertised on BP or CL or even here. It is always going to be by a disgruntled ex member who is out for revenge. Be it hobbyist or provider.

My hope is that someday it won't be necessary for us to hide behind the cover of forums and fake screen names in order to seek and find erotic experiences. My hope is that through activism and education that we can make our own choices about what and with whom we can do with our bodies and our sexuality.

Thank you for reading this.

Happy Hobbying to all.

[QUOTE=PeterPiper52]Care to share what chatline you used?

Quest, or some other line?[/QUOTE]I've met some girls from quest. Both here and in New Orleans. I've met sluts, pros, semi pros, and a couple that I think were fulfilling a fantasy about being a working girl. It is very hit or miss, a lot more miss than hit. It's always good to ask if they have a camera phone, cause most of the girls are not very attractive.

[QUOTE=Tantrika]While I am not the owner of the site in this discussion, I am a moderator and long term member. ... [ snip ]
[/QUOTE]

I think that's a fair response. Of course, no one can ever be certain of anything, but at least someone from TSMFE came forward to state this does not happen. Thank you for adding the other voice to the debate ... now the members of this forum can weigh the entire conversation for themselves rather than relying on one side of the argument before they choose whom to believe.

Cheers,
DL

[QUOTE=Mojoworks]I've met some girls from quest. Both here and in New Orleans. I've met sluts, pros, semi pros, and a couple that I think were fulfilling a fantasy about being a working girl. It is very hit or miss, a lot more miss than hit. It's always good to ask if they have a camera phone, cause most of the girls are not very attractive.[/QUOTE]It was quest.

She was cute.

Her name is Crickit.

I have been a member of the forum for a while and it is indeed a privledge and an honor to be a member. Tantrika is totally correct in all she says. Dom provides a professionally run, discreet and informative service. Let's keep it alive and not have it slammed by those not in the know, or those holding a grudge.

[QUOTE=ArthurTpa]I have been a member of the forum for a while and it is indeed a privledge and an honor to be a member. Tantrika is totally correct in all she says. Dom provides a professionally run, discreet and informative service. Let's keep it alive and not have it slammed by those not in the know, or those holding a grudge.[/QUOTE]

As a member, How do you know what goes on back channel?
1#Did you know about the freebies? And several other Providers have said the same thing. Some freebies weren't offered, Taken!
2#How does a Provider get her Website posted on the Home Page?
3#Do you know the reason several Providers have left or stopped posting?
4#Do you know when or why a Hobbyist gets booted?
5#A lot more but lets agree too disagree.
No Grudge here. Hell, I'll take a freebie. LOL Yes, I know about it.
This was discussed because of an Ad on BP that I thought he posted because it said a fee to join and had his ID. It didn't have Mar*
Site was started for Freebies and Fees. Freebies & Donations now! Fees soon!
Lets end here and change the subject. Happy Hunting

[QUOTE=Mongeur]You can bet they keep some sort of record. Even if unintentionally. Modern cell phones hold on to a pretty lengthy list of sent/received calls, and of course their service provider (cell/ISP) has records that can be obtained by LE as well (if they cared to bother which they probably won't).

Last September I remember hearing a sound byte on the radio of Polk County Sheriff Grady Judd speaking of their recent "Operation Hot Date" prostitution crackdown. Referring to the prostitutes they had just busted he said (somewhat pompously in my opinion) "We have their black books and their BlackBerries, and those of you who use their services, we'll be in contact with you. And for those of you who are married, it will be certainly a surprise for your wife." ([url=http://www.baynews9.com/content/36/2009/9/14/520879.html]link[/url])

A little paranoia is a good thing. When you contact someone, think about what "tracks" you're leaving behind. For phone purposes savvy mongers advocate a "monger phone" (prepaid cell, refreshed with cash).

For the email (IP address) issue, look into Anonymizer.comand their anonymous email ([url=http://www.anonymizer.com/consumer/products/nyms/]link[/url]) offering. I'm sure there are other providers of similar services but Anonymizer is one of the biggest.

In an electronic age you've got to be a little savvy if you want to stay in the game.[/QUOTE]I use hushmail.com. They are located outside the country, so getting their records would require an international subpoena. No hick sheriff will have the pull to make that happen. The interface is not great, but it works, and it is worth it for my piece of mind.

Tev was much promoted and advertised. TSMFE is like some super-secret hush hush society. I never heard of it until it was mentioned here. It's like Fight Club. The first rule of Fight Club is you never talk about Fight Club.

The Mermaid and her running buddies Mikila and Sunshine were involved in TEV. Mermaid gave $200 per hour specials to TEV members. That was pre-augmentation. Mikila and Sunshine were said to be assistant administrators. Based on info given to me by one of them, their role was exagerrated. I think Josh used them to add legitimacy to his site.

[QUOTE=Tantrika]I did not say that the site owner does not get free sessions. What I said was he does not SOLICIT them. He is OFFERED sessions and more often than not he graciously declines the offer. Why? Because he has a life to live, a job to do and a respect for himself and others that many could not possibly conceive. He is not on the prowl. The providers as well as the hobbyists on his site appreciate all the work and expense that goes into maintaining the respectful environment as well as in keeping the site free of stress and discovery.[/QUOTE]I am sorry but that is not true. I will not disclose who I am, but I am no longer on that site because of the fact I told Domino I was not interested in his reviews, but he kept asking me, not once, or twice, but 7 times until I had enough and decided to leave. He may not have asked you for a session because you were in the industry for a while and wouldn't try you like that, but I was tried like that.

From friends I still have on that site, the word is I supposedly got kicked off, but that's not true, I just simply told Domino I was leaving and not interested in being a member of that community. TSMFE never brought me business, so it was not a big deal. Could TSMFE has brought me business, had I decided to do a free session? Maybe, but I wasn't going to take that risk.

Maybe the older providers on TSMFE feel the need to give it up because as "Tantrika" put it (that experience is as wicked good for me as it is for him) but for me that's not a experience.

I hope some of the providers on TSMFE come to their senses and realize we don't need a man to make or break our business, and the men on their realize that the man you respect so much is not doing anything different than what other site out there that exploit women do.

That's all i have to say on this issue. Please dont both pm'ing me because This is the last time I am getting on this site. The only reason I did was because a friend from TSMFE told me to check it out.

I am the "Dom". That says it all pretty much

I was a member of TSMFE for a few years. I didn't find anything on TSMFE that I couldn't find here or on my own. A list of "high price" as well as a section for "under the radar" massage offered. You have to be recommend by a "trusted" member so being a member was like being in this privileged group.

With her permission, I listed a LMT that offered extras. I was swamped with requests for more info about her. Even da Dom wanted to know more. He asked me to ask her into full time membership. I relayed the request to her and she declined. He came back at me saying I just couldn't sweet talk like he could. Whatever. She told me he even called her which annoyed her at the time. Somewhere along the line, this all got weirder. I was kicked off the site. It seems the Dom said someone had been harassing an associate member I. E. Me harassing the LMT I introduced. Duh! Kinda of dumb of me to harass somebody I had listed. Seems a bit coincidental that he was hot to see her twice a week and me disappearing from the scene? I guess he has found out by now that she is bipolar and has been "in and out". She is really nice but some issues You will never get a female on that site to say anything about the Dom. I asked a few other girls about him. All glowing remakrs: "he is so nice" The people there want a sense of security and safety. Somehow, he continues to make them think he is their protector. I dislike manipulative and power people. I. E pimps, although I am sure a mother still loves them.

If you have a yahoo, gmail, etc account, your IP is "buried". The law isn't interested or do they have the resources to back track your "gmail" address. Seriously, do you think your ass is that important?

As far as phones. Dude. I like saying dude like the beer commercial. You ever walked through a Walmart and seen the $20 throw aways? So when you activate you don't list your real name and activate from your "gmail" acct, duh!. For 50, I got an "anonymous" phone and 5 hours. You spend the money on the females so why not some cheap peace of mind?

[QUOTE=Markstpete]I am the "Dom". That says it all pretty much

I was a member of TSMFE for a few years. I didn't find anything on TSMFE that I couldn't find here or on my own. A list of "high price" as well as a section for "under the radar" massage offered. You have to be recommend by a "trusted" member so being a member was like being in this privileged group.

With her permission, I listed a LMT that offered extras. I was swamped with requests for more info about her. Even da Dom wanted to know more. He asked me to ask her into full time membership. I relayed the request to her and she declined. He came back at me saying I just couldn't sweet talk like he could. Whatever. She told me he even called her which annoyed her at the time. Somewhere along the line, this all got weirder. I was kicked off the site. It seems the Dom said someone had been harassing an associate member I. E. Me harassing the LMT I introduced. Duh! Kinda of dumb of me to harass somebody I had listed. Seems a bit coincidental that he was hot to see her twice a week and me disappearing from the scene? I guess he has found out by now that she is bipolar and has been "in and out". She is really nice but some issues You will never get a female on that site to say anything about the Dom. I asked a few other girls about him. All glowing remakrs: "he is so nice" The people there want a sense of security and safety. Somehow, he continues to make them think he is their protector. I dislike manipulative and power people. I. E pimps, although I am sure a mother still loves them.[/QUOTE]Well, this is interesting. You know exactly why you were kicked off the site.

The process for kicking someone off the TSMFE forum does not happen at the drop of Dom's finger to the delete key. There is an investigation first and if the issue can be mediated it is - if it is something that compromises the safety of a provider or a hobbyist then there is no if's and's or but's about it. The culprit is deleted from membership.

One of the things that bugs stalkers who think they can get by with their crap is that the Ladies on the site share information with each other.

So best think before you speak out - I remember your case very well. It is not at all the way you represent it.

Yes, The provider corner. Which Domino go into. The place that some providers also bit*h about hobbyists being cheap. I believe you were one of them. (Dom) can and does kick people ( Hobbyist & Providers out without your permission. You may have an investigation on some but not all.
Red Head Nikki in St. Pete was let in to TSMFE because DOM wanted freebies from her. Didn't you Providers talk about that? YES!
Have you been the Provider of the Month? That you HAVE to give DOM a freebie for? NO!
Have you ever had your website on the Home Page that you HAVE to give him freebies for? NO! Don't be so naive.
I guess I know a few Providers there. :0) and not all are naive as you. Evelynn
Can we move on past TSMFE?
Looks like DOM has his hands full with whoever he pissed off.
And as Moderator, don't you know that you're not to talk about TSMFE here?
And how on TSMFE, all of you talk down about this website.
Why hasn't Dumino posted? He reads all of this.


[QUOTE=Tantrika]Well, this is interesting. You know exactly why you were kicked off the site.

The process for kicking someone off the TSMFE forum does not happen at the drop of Dom's finger to the delete key. There is an investigation first and if the issue can be mediated it is - if it is something that compromises the safety of a provider or a hobbyist then there is no if's and's or but's about it. The culprit is deleted from membership.

One of the things that bugs stalkers who think they can get by with their crap is that the Ladies on the site share information with each other.

So best think before you speak out - I remember your case very well. It is not at all the way you represent it.[/QUOTE]

I could not agree more. I think we all have given our 2 cents and agree to disagree.

Have a great 2010 and Happy Hobbying to all!.

Get on with more important and pertinent topics.

Thanks for listening.

[QUOTE=Master Baker]Yes, The provider corner. Which Domino go into. The place that some providers also bit*h about hobbyists being cheap. I believe you were one of them. (Dom) can and does kick people (Hobbyist & Providers out without your permission. You may have an investigation on some but not all.

Red Head Nikki in St. Pete was let in to TSMFE because DOM wanted freebies from her. Didn't you Providers talk about that? YES!

Have you been the Provider of the Month? That you HAVE to give DOM a freebie for? NO!

Have you ever had your website on the Home Page that you HAVE to give him freebies for? NO! Don't be so naive.

I guess I know a few Providers there.: 0) and not all are naive as you. Evelynn

Can we move on past TSMFE?

Looks like DOM has his hands full with whoever he pissed off.

And as Moderator, don't you know that you're not to talk about TSMFE here?

And how on TSMFE, all of you talk down about this website.

Why hasn't Dumino posted? He reads all of this.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Tantrika]Get on with more important and pertinent topics.

Thanks for listening.[/QUOTE]Amen! On with hobbying!