Seeking Arrangements (SA)

She just sent me her number yesterday. I was going to see where it could go, but I can't afford to invest time in drama. There's way too many more on SA.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9745d4b9-0a98-42e9-9d3b-9bf5733ac16c[/URL]

This one is sweet. I met her for drinks, stayed for a couple of hours, or maybe more. She text me after saying she had a good time. While setting up another meet, I decided to set the expectations of where this was going. She said she wasn't sure about taking g it to another level, not just with me, but in general. Who k kw, I'm learning how all this works, or maybe it was me she's not interested in, or maybe she just wants to date, get cash, and move on.

I'm not ugly, I'm not fat, our conversation was great, so if anyone else has better luck with her, I'd like to know. I'm just trying to gauge my game!

[QUOTE=FitDaddy3;3375347]This girl is a total waste. She talks nonstop and that is made worse by her being nutty as a fruitcake. She's a huge pothead and stoned most of the time. She always has a need for you to front her money for some sex that will come soon. She swears some guy from the website gave her 300 the other day to give HER head. This girl is nothing but drama and to be honest, when you see her in person, she has obviously just recently had a baby. Her tits look pretty nice and she likes to send out pics of them but the rest is a jiggly, sloppy mess if you ask me. I never pulled the trigger but if I had the gun would have been aimed at my own head for giving this one my hard earned cash.

Fit.[/QUOTE]

Looks like that slide down hill did hit Rick bottom.

Look under KAR.

[QUOTE=VolMan6203;3371797]What a long sad downhill slide. Such a shame. Just say no! Just a matter of time I'm afraid until she's in the gray bar inn.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SerenityNow1;3376252]She just sent me her number yesterday. I was going to see where it could go, but I can't afford to invest time in drama. There's way too many more on SA.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9745d4b9-0a98-42e9-9d3b-9bf5733ac16c[/URL]

This one is sweet. I met her for drinks, stayed for a couple of hours, or maybe more. She text me after saying she had a good time. While setting up another meet, I decided to set the expectations of where this was going. She said she wasn't sure about taking g it to another level, not just with me, but in general. Who k kw, I'm learning how all this works, or maybe it was me she's not interested in, or maybe she just wants to date, get cash, and move on.

I'm not ugly, I'm not fat, our conversation was great, so if anyone else has better luck with her, I'd like to know. I'm just trying to gauge my game![/QUOTE]Make a run at her she was hitting me up to meet on first message when she got off at midnight. Just don't give an option it's meetvtomplaybor move on.

This onewould allow me to third base (her words not mine) for low low price of $$. So I'm going to spend that to play stink finger. Not happening. Considering I've better looking one let me do everything but bring a donkey for $. 5 I'll pass.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b054df1f-63c1-4070-b0cf-df4cd8f4615b[/URL]

[QUOTE=EasyGoingKnox;3376572]This onewould allow me to third base (her words not mine) for low low price of $$. So I'm going to spend that to play stink finger. Not happening. Considering I've better looking one let me do everything but bring a donkey for $. 5 I'll pass.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b054df1f-63c1-4070-b0cf-df4cd8f4615b[/URL][/QUOTE]3rd Base? Damn Easy, you better watch out. She might want to go steady! Haha I think it was Tuesday she told me she has finals all week and then spending the rest of this month in maryland (where she's from) and would be back on 6/1. When she gets back, or so she said on Tuesday, she going to meet me at a hotel and l get to hit a home run for $$. Do I believe it. Hell no. What I find happens is these new girls get on the site and if they are approached right away by a realistic guy like me or you, they're offered maybe $$ for some sex and they agree. When they agree, though, you need to hit that as soon as possible. You give them more than a day or two between accepting your offer and meeting, they are approached by Dash Riprock who has more dollars than he has sense and offers her whatever. But you understand that whatever is significantly more than she had been offered by you or me. She takes that offer, which she can't spend of course, and tries to put the squeeze on us for more cash. I've had that exact scenario happen to me more times than I can count. Whether or not Mr. Riprock and his wad of cash ever shows up, who knows? By the time they are due to meet up, I've pissed her off to the max and there is no going back on that pussy. So I guess I'd like to take this opportunity to say, fuck you Dash Riprock. (admin. I hope you know, dash riprock was a fictional character from the beverly hillbillies tv show).

Fit.

[QUOTE=VolMan6203;3371797]What a long sad downhill slide. Such a shame. Just say no! Just a matter of time I'm afraid until she's in the gray bar inn.[/QUOTE]You are a prophet. Went on a trip the 3rd it seems. And her pic is wildly different.

Cmoney96.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/48e8aa2f-6ae3-4fca-bf61-b11d4ad1e6a7[/URL]

Wants $300-$400 just to have dinner together.

TNWhiskey21.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b054df1f-63c1-4070-b0cf-df4cd8f4615b[/URL]

Wanted $400/ meet.

[QUOTE=KnoxTNman;3376904]Cmoney96.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/48e8aa2f-6ae3-4fca-bf61-b11d4ad1e6a7[/URL]

Wants $300-$400 just to have dinner together.

TNWhiskey21.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b054df1f-63c1-4070-b0cf-df4cd8f4615b[/URL]

Wanted $400/ meet.[/QUOTE]Wanted 200.00 just for fingering her Whiskey21.

EZ.

Some of need to give this gal a home.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/cd961687-8ee1-40e8-9c9b-24f7824e4d12[/URL]

[QUOTE=KnoxTNman;3376904]Cmoney96.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/48e8aa2f-6ae3-4fca-bf61-b11d4ad1e6a7[/URL]

Wants $300-$400 just to have dinner together.

TNWhiskey21.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b054df1f-63c1-4070-b0cf-df4cd8f4615b[/URL]

Wanted $400/ meet.[/QUOTE]I would suggest you skip the meeting and just finger her. It's half the price and you don't walk away feeling so stuffed. Haha.

Fit.

[QUOTE=RyanRivera;3376894]You are a prophet. Went on a trip the 3rd it seems. And her pic is wildly different.[/QUOTE]And currently an inmate. On one hand, her decline and fall is a really sad story, a beautiful, intelligent woman who has now lost her marriage, custody of her kids, her apartment, her car, her good looks to some extent (judging from her mugshot), and now her freedom all due to pills. On the other hand, karma is a *****.

[QUOTE=FitDaddy3;3376870]3rd Base? Damn Easy, you better watch out. She might want to go steady! Haha I think it was Tuesday she told me she has finals all week and then spending the rest of this month in maryland (where she's from) and would be back on 6/1. When she gets back, or so she said on Tuesday, she going to meet me at a hotel and l get to hit a home run for $$. Do I believe it. Hell no. What I find happens is these new girls get on the site and if they are approached right away by a realistic guy like me or you, they're offered maybe $$ for some sex and they agree. When they agree, though, you need to hit that as soon as possible. You give them more than a day or two between accepting your offer and meeting, they are approached by Dash Riprock who has more dollars than he has sense and offers her whatever. But you understand that whatever is significantly more than she had been offered by you or me. She takes that offer, which she can't spend of course, and tries to put the squeeze on us for more cash. I've had that exact scenario happen to me more times than I can count. Whether or not Mr. Riprock and his wad of cash ever shows up, who knows? By the time they are due to meet up, I've pissed her off to the max and there is no going back on that pussy. So I guess I'd like to take this opportunity to say, fuck you Dash Riprock. (admin. I hope you know, dash riprock was a fictional character from the beverly hillbillies tv show).

Fit.[/QUOTE]I just leave my offer as my last word the usual response a day or two later is I can do that if they've been classy about it we meet if not buh bye. Too many options with zero or little restrictions to go for that crap.

I think it's time to take off the gloves, I've been treating some of these gals, mostly via messaging, like traditional dating, it's not. I can go to the old folks home, sit with some one, exchange pleasantries for free and actually accomplish something rewarding. Too many of these gals want $ for a meet and greet. I'm afraid it sets the tone for what's to come. I'm learning, quickly how to play this game.

[QUOTE=EasyGoingKnox;3376561]Make a run at her she was hitting me up to meet on first message when she got off at midnight. Just don't give an option it's meetvtomplaybor move on.[/QUOTE]

This one emailed me. So I am willing to bet she will negotiate a buttload on that $$ My biggest issue with SA is that I rarely see anything I would donate more than $$ for a no-clockwatching romp. They are becoming fewer and fewer, and the ones I wouldn't see for free (messed up teeth, not a perfectly flat stomach, sagging funbags (I prefer bolt-ons) and cottage cheese asses) are asking for $$ what's this world coming to?

[QUOTE=FitDaddy3;3376870]What I find happens is these new girls get on the site and if they are approached right away by a realistic guy like me or you, they're offered maybe $$ for some sex and they agree. When they agree, though, you need to hit that as soon as possible.
Fit.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CrazyEddie;3377725]This one emailed me. So I am willing to bet she will negotiate a buttload on that $$ My biggest issue with SA is that I rarely see anything I would donate more than $$ for a no-clockwatching romp. They are becoming fewer and fewer, and the ones I wouldn't see for free (messed up teeth, not a perfectly flat stomach, sagging funbags (I prefer bolt-ons) and cottage cheese asses) are asking for $$ what's this world coming to?[/QUOTE]
Keep in mind that one should not apply the same financial principles to SA as they do to professional providers, although the lines are becoming more blurred. Applying the SA approach to pros may get you cursed out quickly or flat-out banned.

I've asked a few SA members about where they get their expectations or delusions (depending on your perspective). I still don't see them getting the $$ (should be far less than that, realistic is relative) they request considering that the SUPPLY GREATLY OUTWEIGHS DEMAND on SA. For that price point, just go to a pro and call it a day. Many have reported seeing "This Is Life with Lisa Ling. Sugar Daddies, Sugar Babies" and figure that they can get $$ for meeting in a Starbucks because an older dude wants to to been seen with a pretty young hottie. If a dude only mongers once every blue moon, sure pay the premium, but anyone who mongers 3-5 days out of the week will quickly scoff at what they're requesting. I'd never offer any of them $$ for their time regardless of whether that time is spent between the sheets or not. It's not being cheap, it's being prudent in this buyer's market.

Happy Hunting,

Milfman.