Definition of A Strip Club
1. A bar or lounge featuring females who take off their clothes for money.
There now. Now that we got that straight lets cut right to it. If you advertise as a "strip club" that opens at noon, how about having some STRIPPERS! Because if you don't have any an hour and half after opening, you are NOT a strip club, you're just another sleazy bar blasting crappy music. Right BRASS FLAMINGO?
At the Vue, there was 3 girls plus Ellie. Noticed Ashley, former barmaid at Pops was there dancing. Apparently Pops has decided they don't want barmaids with personality or looks. Spent some time with Ashley, enjoyed it.
Went to Pops to let Michelle know she screwed up again, she was already in full ***** mode so I let it slide. Was going to leave after one beer when "Betty Page" beckoned me. Had a little fun with her, left feeling happy that overall my wallet didn't suffer too bad.
Funny, I was in Ft Myers a couple weeks ago and actually had more "fun" in a club there than I have here in a long time.
LT.
You've got that backwards, that should fall on the girl not the guy
[QUOTE=AlbinoLord;6083758]... Gents! The ladies are there to make money, we are there to have a great time. If you aren't going to take her to the back--move on and let someone else have a crack ....[/QUOTE]I've been in on both sides of that situation before. There have been plenty of times where I've been where you were (flush with cash to spend while the object of my desire ignored me in favor of guy who's spending nothing), but I never blamed that on the other guy. And there have also been times when I've just been hanging out with a dancer (typically with someone I'm already seeing regularly outside the club). In those cases, where I've noticed a potential customer, I've done just as you've suggested. Said "Listen honey, I love talking to you but I realize you're here to make money, so if you need to circulate I'll understand. " But that's me being me and a reflection of my consideration for the financial well being of the girl rather than fairness for the other guy.
But I completely disagree with you that turning the girl away is the responsibility of the guy she chooses to sit with. First of all, there are also PLENTY of times where these same girls ignore their potential customers in favor of their smartphones or their fellow dancer friends, so to say this is somehow about the other guy, completely misses the point.
But, even putting that rather obvious point aside, if a pretty girl chooses to spend time with a guy for free, isn't that something most guys would actually aspire for rather than turn away. Besides, it's not like they're chaining the girl to their tables. It's really that girl's choice not something the guy is forcing on them.
Of course, if I see another guy looking my dancer's way, I'll let the her know that I'm not going to be spending money on her right then and there (assuming after all that time she's too stupid to have figured that out for herself already) and also let her know she's got another potential customer and under no obligation to stay with me, But it's really not my job to be on the lookout for those situations, it's hers. And there have been times, even after pointing out potential paying customers, that the girl has blown them off, for whatever reason, and continued to hang out with me. So go figure