BBQ and fight thread

[QUOTE=WadsOfWood;4479814]This guy is trying to do all of us a favor. He's the ine out there finding these girls and letting us know his experience. If you want to partake then you can trust him. If nit then that's your problem. He has been above reproach with me. Stand up dude in my opinion. And as always don't be a wanker.[/QUOTE]He toned it down quite a bit from threatening that he knows the guy's address to just wanting to alert us about a guy who would make a girl wait in 90 degree heat. Each will have to make their own decision. I don't like threats and want to be pimps, so I know what my decision will be. I don't trust the boy and never will.

[QUOTE=DieselBoy502;4479662]Wannabe pimp? Not even close. I have a great job and use this board because it keeps everyone involved in the hobby safer. I just take issue with someone leaving a young girl stranded in the other side of town with no way home on a day where its boiling hot outside. He knew he was completely stitching her up and that is way out of bounds imo. You can think what you like about me, you're free to form your own opinions. It's really none of my business what you think about me. Take what you like and leave the rest, YMMV.[/QUOTE]You might be the finest guy around. I don't know about you and you don't know about me. When I see a guy threaten that he has another guy's address, all my alarms go off. I don't think that is unreasonable. I will tread carefully and avoid you and anyone that you recommend. Not calling you any British insulting names, or American for that matter, and not wishing you ill, just stating that you crossed the line with me. Others can trust you if they want and won't hear a word from me. Best wishes to you.

[QUOTE=Ulysses75;4479131]This dieselboy makes me nervous. I can't stand the want to be pimps on here. He is recommending too many unknowns and then calling out a guy for being a no-show, albeit a douche move, but how does the diesel boy have this information if he is not pimping out these girls or setting up mongers for something unpleasant? I don't want anything to do with him. The "I know where you live" shit is way out of bounds.[/QUOTE]I have met girls this monger has recommended and they were all safe and real!! He is just sharing for the girls and his fellow mongers benefit. Something that many on this board fail to do. And what the jerk did was wrong and needed to be called out. These girls don't deserve that shit no more than we do!

[QUOTE=WadsOfWood;4479814]This guy is trying to do all of us a favor. He's the ine out there finding these girls and letting us know his experience. If you want to partake then you can trust him. If nit then that's your problem. He has been above reproach with me. Stand up dude in my opinion. And as always don't be a wanker.[/QUOTE]I've benefited from his contacts he shared with me.

[QUOTE=TwoNutts;4480539]I've benefited from his contacts he shared with me.[/QUOTE]I agree. I think he is the real deal and I truly appreciate him sharing his info. His advice has worked for me!! Thank you, DB!

Dieselboy502 is legit and seems to be helping a lot of people on this board.

[QUOTE=DieselBoy502;4479687]I was just responding publicly to some direct communication. After having her wait outside for like 20 min texting and stalling her saying he would give her money to get home or a ride he decided it was cool to leave someone stranded in 90+ degree weather. I thought that was information that warranted sharing so that others could make an informed decision as to whether they wanted to give a referral to someone who would do that.[/QUOTE]Maybe reread my original post. In my post, I basically agree with what you just said. I said it was a definite ass move and totally understand not sharing with him. I probably wouldn't have shared a UTR info with him to begin with, guys that have been a member that long and don't share anything are either seeing providers and just don't share the info or they don't actually see many to begin with so good likelihood they won't come through. Maybe scroll down a little in this thread and you can see a post where I said I hope you're somewhat screening. I don't think anyone can say you're not sharing and doing reviews. Just maybe a little screening could have prevented your rant to begin with. But to word it the way you did as your threatening him, that was my original question you didn't answer. All the ghosting that goes on by the girls, if someone came in here and said such and such provider ghosted me after I drove all the way there, I know where you live you B* I think most would have a problem with that.

HC.

[QUOTE=TwoNutts;4480539]I've benefited from his contacts he shared with me.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SixtiesDude;4480770]I agree. I think he is the real deal and I truly appreciate him sharing his info. His advice has worked for me!! Thank you, DB![/QUOTE]2 nuts and 60's, not at all questioning your all contributions here. Thanks for all the info you all have shared in the past. Its what makes this forum work.

[QUOTE=ColonelHogan;4481267]Dieselboy502 is legit and seems to be helping a lot of people on this board.[/QUOTE]Still waiting on you to step up Homie. Still no reviews, just a lot of oh I miss that one, why not do a review when you see them. Help others make an informed decision.

[QUOTE=WadsOfWood;4479814]This guy is trying to do all of us a favor. He's the ine out there finding these girls and letting us know his experience. If you want to partake then you can trust him. If nit then that's your problem. He has been above reproach with me. Stand up dude in my opinion. And as always don't be a wanker.[/QUOTE]If he's been above reproach and helped you out, why not do a review of who you saw? 27 post and 20+ on FH. Can you not review anyone there than her?

If all of you are saying you've seen some of these providers, there are no reviews from any of you on any of the ones Diesel has introduced. The only one whose mentioned anything was Lionhaart who gave an update on the GB. No one else. Why not do reviews?

HC.

[QUOTE=ColonelHogan;4481267]Dieselboy502 is legit and seems to be helping a lot of people on this board.[/QUOTE]If you guys aren't worried about a guy who threatens another monger with the fact that he knows where he lives because he got that information from one of the girls, then all I can do is wish you well. Odd that he never offered any explanation for that or admitted that he might have overstepped a bit with the threats. He seems to be popular right now and I have no stake in making him unpopular, so I will stop talking about it.

[QUOTE=HoosierCream;4481383]2 nuts and 60's, not at all questioning your all contributions here. Thanks for all the info you all have shared in the past. Its what makes this forum work.

Still waiting on you to step up Homie. Still no reviews, just a lot of oh I miss that one, why not do a review when you see them. Help others make an informed decision.

If he's been above reproach and helped you out, why not do a review of who you saw? 27 post and 20+ on FH. Can you not review anyone there than her?

If all of you are saying you've seen some of these providers, there are no reviews from any of you on any of the ones Diesel has introduced. The only one whose mentioned anything was Lionhaart who gave an update on the GB. No one else. Why not do reviews?

HC.[/QUOTE]Maybe there wasn't any reviews on the ones he has offered because they were utr and if you review then that's gone out the window. Maybe he put me in touch and couldn't get the stars to line up but the info was still good and offered. And you are correct, a lot of my reviews were about FH. But that was because I found someone that checked all my boxes and we had a lot of fun for an extended amount of time. Add to the fact that maybe I want to stay in the shadows myself. That I might be in the public eye as well. So take care of ones self and lets not question each other but defend a guy who does put himself out there and reports and offers his findings to the betterment of us all.

[QUOTE=HoosierCream;4481357]Maybe reread my original post. In my post, I basically agree with what you just said. I said it was a definite ass move and totally understand not sharing with him. I probably wouldn't have shared a UTR info with him to begin with, guys that have been a member that long and don't share anything are either seeing providers and just don't share the info or they don't actually see many to begin with so good likelihood they won't come through. Maybe scroll down a little in this thread and you can see a post where I said I hope you're somewhat screening. I don't think anyone can say you're not sharing and doing reviews. Just maybe a little screening could have prevented your rant to begin with. But to word it the way you did as your threatening him, that was my original question you didn't answer. All the ghosting that goes on by the girls, if someone came in here and said such and such provider ghosted me after I drove all the way there, I know where you live you B* I think most would have a problem with that.

HC.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Ulysses75;4481561]If you guys aren't worried about a guy who threatens another monger with the fact that he knows where he lives because he got that information from one of the girls, then all I can do is wish you well. Odd that he never offered any explanation for that or admitted that he might have overstepped a bit with the threats. He seems to be popular right now and I have no stake in making him unpopular, so I will stop talking about it.[/QUOTE]Screening is an imperfect science, but I generally share only with Senior members, or those whose post go back several years. I also generally try to glean what kind of person they are from the tone of their posts, I. E. Do they sound respectful, professional, etc. I have had only a couple of issues. I gave a referral to someone who turned up to a booking drunk and dangerous. When I was notified by the girl what had happened (she was really shaken up) I immediately contacted him saying WTF and was clear that he needed to make it right, whatever that might be. I haven't posted anything publicly about it, because he did reach out to the woman in question to apologise about his state and behaviour, and she was satisfied with that. I won't be making further referrals to this person however.

In this particular situation, when he left the girl stranded, she contacted me upset and let me know what was going on. She sent screenshots of the convo as well. Since I had been in direct communication with this guy about the GB, I messaged him saying that what he did wasn't cool and that he needed to make it right, at the very least giving her a ride home or paying for a taxi / uber. At this point he decided that it would be better to threaten me. It's one thing to be defensive, but another to to go after someone who tried to help him out. I ended up getting her out of there, not because I am her pimp, or white knight, or whatever, simply because it was the right thing to do. She had no way home and I was able to help. Before doing that I told him he had one more chance to make it right before I post in this section.

So yes I made it clear publicly what he did, and in response to his threat merely reminded him that I had his address. Many on this board who have met me in person have attested to my character. I really appreciate that, because anyone who has met me knows that I am as laid back and positive as they come, and would never initiate confrontation with anyone. You come after me, though, and you get a completely different response.

I'm completely secure in who I am, so I need no validation from anyone, let alone anyone from this board. As I said before, what anyone thinks of me is none of my business. I'll keep doing me. This board is a tremendous resource, and I contribute for the greater collective good, both us and providers. Popularity means nothing also, I don't share for kudos, I share out of enlightened self-interest. If anyone would care to discuss this further, feel free to PM me, as this horse has been flogged enough already methinks.

Cheers!

DB.

Well said. Lets get back in the game.

[QUOTE=DieselBoy502;4482289]Screening is an imperfect science, but I generally share only with Senior members, or those whose post go back several years. I also generally try to glean what kind of person they are from the tone of their posts, I. E. Do they sound respectful, professional, etc. I have had only a couple of issues. I gave a referral to someone who turned up to a booking drunk and dangerous. When I was notified by the girl what had happened (she was really shaken up) I immediately contacted him saying WTF and was clear that he needed to make it right, whatever that might be. I haven't posted anything publicly about it, because he did reach out to the woman in question to apologise about his state and behaviour, and she was satisfied with that. I won't be making further referrals to this person however.

In this particular situation, when he left the girl stranded, she contacted me upset and let me know what was going on. She sent screenshots of the convo as well. Since I had been in direct communication with this guy about the GB, I messaged him saying that what he did wasn't cool and that he needed to make it right, at the very least giving her a ride home or paying for a taxi / uber. At this point he decided that it would be better to threaten me. It's one thing to be defensive, but another to to go after someone who tried to help him out. I ended up getting her out of there, not because I am her pimp, or white knight, or whatever, simply because it was the right thing to do. She had no way home and I was able to help. Before doing that I told him he had one more chance to make it right before I post in this section.

So yes I made it clear publicly what he did, and in response to his threat merely reminded him that I had his address. Many on this board who have met me in person have attested to my character. I really appreciate that, because anyone who has met me knows that I am as laid back and positive as they come, and would never initiate confrontation with anyone. You come after me, though, and you get a completely different response.

I'm completely secure in who I am, so I need no validation from anyone, let alone anyone from this board. As I said before, what anyone thinks of me is none of my business. I'll keep doing me. This board is a tremendous resource, and I contribute for the greater collective good, both us and providers. Popularity means nothing also, I don't share for kudos, I share out of enlightened self-interest. If anyone would care to discuss this further, feel free to PM me, as this horse has been flogged enough already methinks.

Cheers!

DB.[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=ItsAllFun57;4496591]You run a website and you don't archive or protect your data? Honestly should you even be an administrator to a website? I am very disappointed.[/QUOTE]Don't let the door smack you in the ass on the way out.

Do you know why they're gone? If so, enlighten us. If not, why are you flapping your pie hole?

[QUOTE=Zomby;4496664]Don't let the door smack you in the ass on the way out.

Do you know why they're gone? If so, enlighten us. If not, why are you flapping your pie hole?[/QUOTE]I don't have the qualifications or the inclination to bad mouth the admin for whatever happened to the escort board. I do find it odd that a guy, or few guys, who usually communicate well are so silent on this issue. No conspiracy theory or insults here, just don't know why there has been no communication.

[QUOTE=MistFall;4516269]Could someone explain or pm me how the dollar signs work when reporting damage? THanks![/QUOTE]There are people who seem to think that not mentioning numbers somehow hides what's going on, so they "encode" prices in a way that law enforcement will [I]never [/I]figure out.

Generally, each dollar sign to the left of the decimal point represents $100. The number, if any, represent fractions of a hundred. So $$. 5 means $250, $. 20 means $20, etc. Much, much simpler and more clever than using boring, mundane numerals, huh?

Of course, now that I've revealed the super secret code, we'll have to come up with another one. Plus I'll probably lose my membership card for the Super Secret Society of Super Clever Mongers.