The Woodshed

I made sure to turn off the option to allow fb to use my contacts and email. I haven't seen anyone in my "people you may know" list from the hobby life show up in my feed. These apps are tricky and are making it harder to keep the wall up between hobby life and personal life. For those with something to lose if an SO finds out, you're probably better off with a burner with a lock.

[QUOTE=WestsideRandy;2779202]I made the mistake NOT having a burner phone and found 4 providers I saw as possible friends BECAUSE my number was in their contact list.

Lesson learned.

1. burner phonesONLY.

2. block immediately when I see a provider.

3. deleted FB account.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=WestsideRandy;2779202]I made the mistake NOT having a burner phone and found 4 providers I saw as possible friends BECAUSE my number was in their contact list....[/QUOTE]Wow. That is scary awesome. I wouldn't have seen that coming.

[QUOTE=AlleyFromCin;2777078]OK so I have always loved looking at this site for shits and giggles, cause there has been some funny shit posted on here, and some even funnier fights. But is this really happening right now? I am just confused as to what the problem is, people lie on a day to day basis some of it is silly little white lies, no I really did leave five minutes earlier than I did, I swear I turned the coffee pot off, so on and so forth. Let me say this and I am not trying to get into the middle of anyone else's bullshit, cause to be honest, we all have our own issues in life, and I do not need to deal with anyone else's. But for one I do not think this girl is married to any of you, your not her father right? Not your sugar baby, girlfriend, or anything of the nature so why would it matter what she is doing, who she is doing it with, or for what reason? She is under no obligation to tell you or anyone else anything. Depending on the nature of your relationship and from what I can gather in one way or another it appears to be benefiting her financially so just keep that in the back of your mind. Not everyone is a liar or a thief, but any outsider looking in can tell, that just based on the things that have been said, someone or multiple people are spending time with her, no one has to prove this. ITS NO ONES BUSINESS. Who cares enjoy the relationship for what it is, and I would say it should be for entertainment purposes, and let it be. I have known chicks that drive themselves insane over what they think that their man is doing, I had no clue men did it to over women they were not even with. That shit kills me, why should someone have to answer to someone who is not there husband, family member, finacee or whatever you get the damn point here. Just my two cents, and I am done with this convo other than sitting back and rolling my eyes at whatever comes next.[/QUOTE]If only more more mongers and providers behaved that way.

However, there is a group of providers that are "afflicted by 'the hustle" that will text bomb and invoke "I thought we were friends" or "I thought we connected" (my personal favorite) to entice a monger to give her money, stuff, etc. And even after you call them on it, threaten to block them. They continue. And then become annoyed after you cut them off.

Thankfully there are enough providers that approach the process more professionally and respectfully.

As I said, not all providers are bad. Not all mongers are good. But this forum provides some of us the opportunity to sort through the rabble.

J4 me.

[QUOTE=WestsideRandy;2779202]I made the mistake NOT having a burner phone and found 4 providers I saw as possible friends BECAUSE my number was in their contact list.

Lesson learned.

1. burner phonesONLY.

2. block immediately when I see a provider.

3. deleted FB account.[/QUOTE]Burner phone, tied to fake facebook account and Voila! Now you can be friends.

*No real self photos in FB account to avoid any possibility of their face-recognition / auto-tag software catching it.

As a plus, you can now go play on Tinder too.

[QUOTE=WestsideRandy;2779202]I made the mistake NOT having a burner phone and found 4 providers I saw as possible friends BECAUSE my number was in their contact list.

Lesson learned.

1. burner phonesONLY.

2. block immediately when I see a provider.

3. deleted FB account.[/QUOTE]I went to see a provider a long time ago and I guess I used google to look up her address she gave me because a little while later she was coming up as someone I may know. Be careful.

[QUOTE=JaxForMe;2779587]If only more more mongers and providers behaved that way.

However, there is a group of providers that are "afflicted by 'the hustle" that will text bomb and invoke "I thought we were friends" or "I thought we connected" (my personal favorite) to entice a monger to give her money, stuff, etc. And even after you call them on it, threaten to block them. They continue. And then become annoyed after you cut them off.

Thankfully there are enough providers that approach the process more professionally and respectfully.

As I said, not all providers are bad. Not all mongers are good. But this forum provides some of us the opportunity to sort through the rabble.

J4 me.[/QUOTE]Hey you are right it goes both ways, it is a process on both ends to weed out the bad apples from the rest and it is not always an easy task. So finding someone you think is real, and on the up and up as much as one could be I suppose is difficult. But to behave and demand someone prove something they are telling you to spare you from future hurt (or at the least humiliation is beside me. I mean if you met someone and it starts as a paid relationship and this apply to all areas of life, a therapist is a paid relationship, a house cleaner is not your best friend you pay for a service, lawn maintanice whatever the case may be add to that sex workers, bartenders, dancers, so forth and so on, well its a paid relationship. How honest are either of you really being with one another? And how do you get to make demands to know about things, that are none of your business? And I am sure some providers do all sorts of insane things, why would you blow up a mongers phone? To me no matter how good of a time that may have been had, its still a service provided, when the other party is ready they will contact you again, it should not be the other way around. That is not to say I have not sent an occassional email or msg thru here to say hi, to someone but not to harass them or try to coerce them out of money. I may put a different value on money though cause I work a normal job as well 6 days a week, so I get that sometimes we want to do extra things for ourselves but we all have a life to lead and bills to pay this is a hobby for some and a stress relief for others, I am not sure when or why a provider would think it is a good idea to stress out a visitor they have. If you stress me out why the hell do I want to be around you or need you in my life, but that is just my two cents.

[QUOTE=FredZeppelin;2780630]Similar results on FB for Tia / BabiLove's number:

[URL]http://jacksonville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/the-one-the-only-boom-boom-room-by-babiluv/7764023[/URL]

Do you really want to take the chance that you might be interrupted by one of those guys?[/QUOTE]I actually don't Facebook because I think it's a pretty silly waste of time, personally. I asked the question because I knew that's what your comment was really about, going sideways around an A2 no-no getting into a crap storm. I'll say first as a six figure earner that can have anything I want, I resent your premise as I am "one of those guys". It would be more fun getting back to opinions about providers and services they offer.

[QUOTE=PTMonger;2780647]I actually don't Facebook because I think it's a pretty silly waste of time, personally. I asked the question because I knew that's what your comment was really about, going sideways around an A2 no-no getting into a crap storm. I'll say first as a six figure earner that can have anything I want, I resent your premise as I am "one of those guys". It would be more fun getting back to opinions about providers and services they offer.[/QUOTE]I don't have a clue as to what you're talking about. FB is just another resource to get info and stay safe. My point was that the numbers these two ladies use in their ads belong not to them but to some guys who would seem to be managing them, so when you call or text their numbers, you aren't dealing with an independent provider, as the ads would seem to imply. I've no earthly idea why you would find pointing that out to be offensive.

[QUOTE=PTMonger;2780647]I actually don't Facebook because I think it's a pretty silly waste of time, personally. I asked the question because I knew that's what your comment was really about, going sideways around an A2 no-no getting into a crap storm. I'll say first as a six figure earner that can have anything I want, I resent your premise as I am "one of those guys". It would be more fun getting back to opinions about providers and services they offer.[/QUOTE]Just so you know, 6 figure incomes aren't shit in these times. In the real world, it places you squarely in the middle class. Thanks Obama!

[QUOTE=FredZeppelin;2780630]Similar results on FB for Tia / BabiLove's number:

[URL]http://jacksonville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/the-one-the-only-boom-boom-room-by-babiluv/7764023[/URL]

Do you really want to take the chance that you might be interrupted by one of those guys?[/QUOTE]Whats wrong with this fellow? Hes smiling in all his pictures. Holding a young man who I presume to be his son, and thanks God for the pearly whites that he brushes 4 times a day and gets cleaned on a bi-annual basis.

Dear LuckyG.

I can't seem to find that review you made of mongering Abby's sweet pussy. Along with any other provider reviews. Could you post the link any links in case I'm overlooking them all?

When you want to stop trolling and giving out bs Intel about providers you never met then let me know. I have a few provider friends I could set you up with if you ready to get off the bench and get in the game for real.

What bothers me the most is that some regular members or unsuspecting seniors may use your Intel and references in making a decision to see a provider. That's not fair when your just making things up. You are cleaver at it too.

#MS.

[QUOTE=FredZeppelin;2780898]I don't have a clue as to what you're talking about. FB is just another resource to get info and stay safe. My point was that the numbers these two ladies use in their ads belong not to them but to some guys who would seem to be managing them, so when you call or text their numbers, you aren't dealing with an independent provider, as the ads would seem to imply. I've no earthly idea why you would find pointing that out to be offensive.[/QUOTE]Providers read all the stuff on these pages and use this site as a resource, so you might think you are helping hobbyist but really you are killing that resource because most of these ladies who you think are dumb providers are really smart ladies cashing in on a fellas need to get off. How they use your money after they get it is their choice but now they know to remove their phone numbers from Facebook and you chuckle about how smart you think you are. I bet even hobbyist who think they are getting brownie points with providers by telling them doesn't help either. Maybe its just me thinking this but oh well.

I agree that resource will be gone!

[QUOTE=OmegaZ;2786615]Providers read all the stuff on these pages and use this site as a resource, so you might think you are helping hobbyist but really you are killing that resource because most of these ladies who you think are dumb providers are really smart ladies cashing in on a fellas need to get off. How they use your money after they get it is their choice but now they know to remove their phone numbers from Facebook and you chuckle about how smart you think you are. I bet even hobbyist who think they are getting brownie points with providers by telling them doesn't help either. Maybe its just me thinking this but oh well.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=OmegaZ;2786615]Providers read all the stuff on these pages and use this site as a resource, so you might think you are helping hobbyist but really you are killing that resource because most of these ladies who you think are dumb providers are really smart ladies cashing in on a fellas need to get off. How they use your money after they get it is their choice but now they know to remove their phone numbers from Facebook and you chuckle about how smart you think you are. I bet even hobbyist who think they are getting brownie points with providers by telling them doesn't help either. Maybe its just me thinking this but oh well.[/QUOTE]Why is it that mongers want to leave as little carbon footprint in this hobby but want to know all the business of these providers. I tell any of the providers I know to remove their number form FB if you want to keep some kind of privacy. But we promote burner phones and app numbers. Also we mongers tend to want to know where these providers are at all times. Just look at the guys looking for Rikki in the BP thread. She doesn't post in a couple days and mongers get to chatting and asking questions. Personally I wouldn't want anyone to be available 24/7. These are people not gas stations. Also mongers like to know the full names so they can wait on the release date of a girl. Who does it benefit for her to go right back to selling pussy and or doing drugs. Not the family and friends who love her.

Mongers seem want drug free hookers but don't want to pay what a woman with her shit together would charge to be used by strangers. Most of the Jax providers has some type of drug addiction. Even if you can't tell by appearance. I am guilty of want to to pay less. Most times I do but that's another story. But I will admit to telling some of the providers I know to charge more. I have a friend I won't name, that for what she does and the reviews she gets. She should raise her rates. I have never had to pay her for sex but I know her reviews vs others who charge more for less happiness.

I have another who just retired. I have gotten a couple pms asking about her. I passed on the messages to her. Some wishing her the best and others feeling sorry for their dicks. Guess men forget these are real women and not part of our dreams. They are daughters, sisters, mothers etc.

Pussy brings out the best and the worst in men. What won't some men do to get a nut?

CB1.

Free advice not brownie points.

#MS.

[QUOTE=OmegaZ;2786615]Providers read all the stuff on these pages and use this site as a resource, so you might think you are helping hobbyist but really you are killing that resource because most of these ladies who you think are dumb providers are really smart ladies cashing in on a fellas need to get off. How they use your money after they get it is their choice but now they know to remove their phone numbers from Facebook and you chuckle about how smart you think you are. I bet even hobbyist who think they are getting brownie points with providers by telling them doesn't help either. Maybe its just me thinking this but oh well.[/QUOTE]Dudes think they can put their info here and the girl will be none the wiser. All the while telling them about this site. LOL. Not exactly smart is it?