Interesting Day Looking at Art
Okay. So this isn't a typical monger report. I have a legit friend I am seeing almost every day. Mentioned her before. Devout Buddhist and got robbed a couple weeks back. Today was her day off and I took her to the Chicago Art Institute. I am very glad I did. I never saw anybody so enthralled with the place. Giddy, actually. Took her to the Chinese artwork (of course) and the Buddhist artwork. Modern art. French Impressionists. American Realists. She loves nature and paintings of nature. So I showed her that sort of stuff. I suppose most people know the Chicago Art Institute is one of the great art museums in the world. So I told her, before she moves away. Before she returns to China, I wanted to leave her with a special memory. It is interesting to see a person from the other side of the world enjoying the same things that we enjoy. Sort of a universal language. Yeah we did kiss in some dark corners of the museum.
Now, one other thing you should know. Admission is [U]free for Illinois residents[/U] until Feb 11, weekdays. Best deal I can think of. Normally $25 per person.
Now did I get laid after going there? No. At least not yet. But if you have a friend and you want to do something nice on their day off. Consider the Art Institute. Bob.
Free Art. Getting too close
Yeah. You are right. I have not come clean about any of my activities with any person about any other person. So clearly my moral compass is broken. The only honest thing I have done is tell each one I am married and that we can't ever go beyond being friends. This friend has told me she will leave Chicago some day. So, in this case we both understand the relationship is temporary. Correctly, this is not mongering, so I accept your points 100%.
My real motivation in writing the post was to mention the free admission to the Art Institute for the next 30 days. A few guys have told me take girls out on their day off. Normally, this place is a bit expensive. But now it is free. Who knows how many massage girls care about art. But I was astonished at the way this outing affected my friend. Maybe somebody else will discover the same thing with their friend. That was my only motivation. Bob.
[QUOTE=Truthfu11;2753514]Geeze, Bob, This belongs in the Christian Mingle section. Your affections are going in the direction of dating or LT relationship. I guess we all have to draw our own line when it comes to respect and developing a relationship with a provider. Personally, I prefer to have a connection with a provider but I don't ever want it to become something that is so comfortable that I feel as though I could take her home to meet mom.
Maybe the real test for you is 1) have you told her about your previous mongering activities? And 2) does she know (or have you continued) to seek relief from other providers?[/QUOTE]
For Those who have already partaken
[QUOTE=Riina;2763981]I'm thinking about doing the 262 Inessa Pamela twofer. We have never had the opportunity in Chicago to do a double with two authentic twenty year old Ukrainians.[/QUOTE]For those who have used the 262 already, are there donations and then "tips" or just donations? If you get my drift.
Putting the shoe on the other foot.
I was in the break room with a legit MT friend. Shop was empty. Its after dark. We were listening to music and kissing. Front door opens. (I'm out of sight) and a guy asks price. Promises to return, etc. Another couple guys come in. Similar result. Then a third guy arrives. Half hour massage. I'm getting ready to go home. She comes back in and says, "Please stay half hour, I'm scared. " So I stay. They are in the room next door. Can't really hear them. Feeling a mixture of jealously and concern. At one point I hear her say: "No no no no. " I start to get up in case she needs me. But it calms down and he goes maybe 10 minutes later. So I will assume that he was at least civilized about the rejection. When she returns, she apologizes and thanks me profusely. I ask "Are you ok?" Yes. She says "He was a bad man". I have to leave. But I'm left with a feeling of sadness that she has to wait alone, for God-knows-what every night. Pissed at the owner for leaving her unprotected. And feel some hypocrisy, yeah major hypocrisy for my activities.
Many members might then say: "Get out of the business. " That's probably true, except she's a legit MT in a legit place. She not working at an HE place.
And you know, that customer didn't really do anything wrong. He just asked for the wrong thing in the wrong place with the wrong woman. Read that story every day on this forum. And he stopped when she told him to. So my message is to those guys. Who sort of stumble into the wrong place. And fumble around. And waste their hard-earned money. Don't just randomly go into a place. Try to do some research. I replied to a first time poster in Aurora just now. Same topic. Same advice. (So I won't repeat it here.) If you want to test the water, leave the towel off. If she covers you up, she is sending a message. If she does not put the towel on you, it's a different message. Most of my friends are legit MTs. But over time, you get close. And anything is possible. But don't expect to score on the first visit. Bob.
Looking for Outcall Location Recommendations
May start entertaining outcalls soon. Seeing if anybody can vouch for any hotels / motels with the following:
Don't require CC.
Preferably doesn't require I'd.
Discreet; Nobody "Hanging out" outside or in the halls; doesn't look like it could be raided at any moment.
Goes without saying but, relatively clean on the inside (no bloodstains, rot, bedbugs, leaks, etc).
Looking in primarily 2 locations:
Chicago North of I55 (and close Burbs)
South/Southwest Burbs and NWI (close to 80 or 294).
Thanks in advance.
Teaching A Woman How To Drive.
[QUOTE=Bob521;2766456]Be careful driving around 51st & Cottage Grove. I'm giving driving lessons again. Two different Chinese women. (Different times, not a four-hand driving lesson.) Goddam, it is scary watching them steer my car randomly around the parking lot. But I will say, if you are willing to throw caution to the wind, and put your car at risk, its quite the aphrodisiac. Bob.[/QUOTE]My Car is a 6 speed manual transmission. No way a woman will learn to drive a manual transmission car.
Even more interesting if.
[QUOTE=DMichaels69;2768824]They need phone books to see over the steering wheel they so short. LOL.[/QUOTE]I always find it amusing when seeing a 5' Asian gal steps out from a full size SUV in one or even two steps. They still need a phone book to see over the wheel and enjoy the higher line of sight of the big ass SUV.