About 4 months ago I connected with a sexy Asian SB in the Shakopee / Savage area. Only did the meet and greet at Caribou and couldn't get our schedule right to connect. Her profile is gone now, and I cannot find her number. Anyone have any leads?
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About 4 months ago I connected with a sexy Asian SB in the Shakopee / Savage area. Only did the meet and greet at Caribou and couldn't get our schedule right to connect. Her profile is gone now, and I cannot find her number. Anyone have any leads?
If you spend enough time on Seeking, you will come across SN's with it in them. These are mostly scammers or headcases. Here is an example:
SN: russianitgirl.
Phone area code 763 ends in 4916.
I don't think this is a girl at all. But a bored guy, who has setup a fake profile.
Does dates for ppm. Its a date that it. Allowance expectation 200-400.
Any intimate activities? No. My account literally says platonic.
And the abusive texting begins.
So I blocked this one, and moved along.
So I came to visit my son in the Monticello area. Made a connection with naughtily after I booked my trip. She texted me week before I arrived. Made arrangements to meet up last night at a dayuse hotel. Arrived when she said she would be there. We chatted for a bit then off to the races. Great BBBJ lots of attention to the boys then she mounted me and after a few minutes was reverse cg she's an ex strip so she treated me like a customer in a club. All postions and multiple rounds played very nice provider had a blast with her. Plan on seeing her again in the near future trip to the twin cities. She does have a friend who's on site also which I was talking to also. So my next trip will be a threesome. Man I can't wait!
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/nDEo2v9r57LrzK406jWqempk[/URL]
[QUOTE=BigStud47;6761919]So I came to visit my son in the Monticello area. Made a connection with naughtily after I booked my trip. She texted me week before I arrived. Made arrangements to meet up last night at a dayuse hotel. Arrived when she said she would be there. We chatted for a bit then off to the races. Great BBBJ lots of attention to the boys then she mounted me and after a few minutes was reverse cg she's an ex strip so she treated me like a customer in a club. All postions and multiple rounds played very nice provider had a blast with her. Plan on seeing her again in the near future trip to the twin cities. She does have a friend who's on site also which I was talking to also. So my next trip will be a threesome. Man I can't wait!
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/nDEo2v9r57LrzK406jWqempk[/URL][/QUOTE]I am not a member of whatsyourprice.
Would you mind sharing the digits or asking if you can share? Would value the ability to reach out.
What was the damage for you?
Answers is PM work please.
[QUOTE=BigStud47;6761919]So I came to visit my son in the Monticello area. Made a connection with naughtily after I booked my trip. She texted me week before I arrived. Made arrangements to meet up last night at a dayuse hotel. Arrived when she said she would be there. We chatted for a bit then off to the races. Great BBBJ lots of attention to the boys then she mounted me and after a few minutes was reverse cg she's an ex strip so she treated me like a customer in a club. All postions and multiple rounds played very nice provider had a blast with her. Plan on seeing her again in the near future trip to the twin cities. She does have a friend who's on site also which I was talking to also. So my next trip will be a threesome. Man I can't wait!
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/nDEo2v9r57LrzK406jWqempk[/URL][/QUOTE]BigStud47 - your inbox is full.
At Lasts. I have WYP so can look up any potentials you want.
WTF is up with these women posting on sugar sites? And maybe more importantly, WTF is up with the men that must for some reason be putting up with it?
OK, some men may only be looking for things like a night out with an attractive woman, platonically. And if this is a significant number I will accept that I am wrong on this. But some of these profiles have women saying things like "they want to be wined and dined and taken out to interesting sites etc" which I'm fine with if we are DATING and she is PUTTING OUT. I'm not going to on top of all of this pay just for the privilege of setting this all up and paying for her.
The old cliche goes we don't pay for the sex, we pay for them to leave. Again, I know not everybody is like this but gees, I have plenty of friends, male and female and I go out plenty. If I'm paying any cash directly for her, it is for one thing and one thing only.
ALSO (yes, I'm on a roll), I use Secret Benefits which isn't the preferred site around here but there we are. "Let Me Be Your Secret". It is actually a great way to instantly filter these women. It is amazing how many despite their glowing photos reveal their dead eyes and attitudes by how they deliver that message. Of course, half of the profiles are full of duck-face and half of the ones that aren't also have all sorts of app scribbled dog ears and mouse whiskers or whatever the fuck they think is attractive? Playful?
Most of these women I wouldn't take out or fuck for free.
That said, I've had some reasonable meetups, enough to keep me browsing a bit. It still is kind of interesting and fun but I have better success just with cold approaches and game. But they don't want to leave.
Anyway sorry for the rant why'all. I had absolutely no reason to do this other than to just put down some of the random thoughts I've been having about the sugar thing lately!
[QUOTE=RandMcNasty;6770562]WTF is up with these women posting on sugar sites? And maybe more importantly, WTF is up with the men that must for some reason be putting up with it?
OK, some men may only be looking for things like a night out with an attractive woman, platonically. And if this is a significant number I will accept that I am wrong on this. But some of these profiles have women saying things like "they want to be wined and dined and taken out to interesting sites etc" which I'm fine with if we are DATING and she is PUTTING OUT. I'm not going to on top of all of this pay just for the privilege of setting this all up and paying for her.
The old cliche goes we don't pay for the sex, we pay for them to leave. Again, I know not everybody is like this but gees, I have plenty of friends, male and female and I go out plenty. If I'm paying any cash directly for her, it is for one thing and one thing only.
ALSO (yes, I'm on a roll), I use Secret Benefits which isn't the preferred site around here but there we are. "Let Me Be Your Secret". It is actually a great way to instantly filter these women. It is amazing how many despite their glowing photos reveal their dead eyes and attitudes by how they deliver that message. Of course, half of the profiles are full of duck-face and half of the ones that aren't also have all sorts of app scribbled dog ears and mouse whiskers or whatever the fuck they think is attractive? Playful?
Most of these women I wouldn't take out or fuck for free.[/QUOTE]Good old female nature. If anything, it's reliable. Most women in this business have nothing but contempt for men. So, they get their rocks off on "one upping" men. Men who follow their rules and are nice to them are pay pigs and they'll what they have to to string them along. Women are not what they seem to simp men. Simp men are looking for a "good" girl to have a long-term relationship with. But they don't understand that the "good" girl is simply more attracted to them. Simp men have no game, they rely on money, or some kind of luck of the draw with women. For context, a Chad can simply walk into a place and attract girls with his looks. Those women will do anything for Chad, lie, cheat, steal, for him. Just like a Pimp and his stable. If Chad has game, those women will likely never leave his side. But if the women don't like you like that, you're just another sucker she can drain resources from until a better man walks into her life. For these men, she will have boundaries, rules, be busy and won't have time for you, doesn't initiate talking / texting, etc. If you find yourself in the latter, I hope you don't take it seriously and be prepared for the incoming breakup via ghosting, text, or hearing about her other relationship (s).
My advice. If your pimp game isn't strong, you're going to be a sucker for life. All women are good women. If you're the right man. Never ever try to control a woman, make her ponder her choices and make sure you know how to deliver her choices to her so that your choices are the most benefit to her at the time. Give her the illusion that she's always in competition. And most importantly, whenever she fucks up, make sure the consequences fit the bill and take away your presence. Lastly, be a man of your word. If your word is done and done is done, you won't need to say much. Just give her a look and she'll comply. The moment she doesn't means that she's up to no good again and it's time for you to check her and / or leave.
Good luck pimpin out there fellas. As they say, "pimpin ain't easy."
[QUOTE=RandMcNasty;6770562]WTF is up with these women posting on sugar sites?
Anyway sorry for the rant why'all. I had absolutely no reason to do this other than to just put down some of the random thoughts I've been having about the sugar thing lately![/QUOTE]It's a slog now. If you're just venting, I get it. I've pretty much stopped using Seeking though it could pick up if the economy gets worse. Secret Benefits works if you only send messages. Never open ones you get or pay to see pics, prioritize messages. The avg attractiveness is lower but PPM is the default. WYP and SDM are owned by Seeking.
Take a longer view and occasionally take a break to let the pool replenish. I can vet all potential SBs in 2-4 weeks, meaning from the time I go premium and filter appropriately, I can go through everyone who's been active in the last 3-4 weeks, choose potentials, reach out, get #s, and set up meets. After that you're paying to be able to consider 3-5 new SBs each month (more join but most log in a few times then abandon their profiles). I avoid the ones I've seen super active for a long time. They've self-corrected to their market and always want more than I'm willing to pay.
[QUOTE=RandMcNasty;6770562]WTF is up with these women posting on sugar sites? And maybe more importantly, WTF is up with the men that must for some reason be putting up with it?
OK, some men may only be looking for things like a night out with an attractive woman, platonically. And if this is a significant number I will accept that I am wrong on this. But some of these profiles have women saying things like "they want to be wined and dined and taken out to interesting sites etc" which I'm fine with if we are DATING and she is PUTTING OUT. I'm not going to on top of all of this pay just for the privilege of setting this all up and paying for her.
The old cliche goes we don't pay for the sex, we pay for them to leave. Again, I know not everybody is like this but gees, I have plenty of friends, male and female and I go out plenty. If I'm paying any cash directly for her, it is for one thing and one thing only.
ALSO (yes, I'm on a roll), I use Secret Benefits which isn't the preferred site around here but there we are. "Let Me Be Your Secret". It is actually a great way to instantly filter these women. It is amazing how many despite their glowing photos reveal their dead eyes and attitudes by how they deliver that message. Of course, half of the profiles are full of duck-face and half of the ones that aren't also have all sorts of app scribbled dog ears and mouse whiskers or whatever the fuck they think is attractive? Playful?[/QUOTE]Does Secret Benefits require payment via cryptocurrency? Sugar dating is a tricky thing emotionally. You don't want to feel like you are paying an escort, but on the other hand you are not looking for a girlfriend that cling to you. Or as you said won't go home ha ha. If you are the kind of person that enjoys a good conversation then perhaps some patience with sugar babies is warranted until things progress. If not, then proceed directly to an AMP or escort, right?
[QUOTE=Rambo21;6771408]Does Secret Benefits require payment via cryptocurrency? Sugar dating is a tricky thing emotionally. You don't want to feel like you are paying an escort, but on the other hand you are not looking for a girlfriend that cling to you. Or as you said won't go home ha ha. If you are the kind of person that enjoys a good conversation then perhaps some patience with sugar babies is warranted until things progress. If not, then proceed directly to an AMP or escort, right?[/QUOTE]They don't require it but they do accept some forms of crypto. With SBs it's all about communication and being clear what you both want / don't want. Patience is important but be careful not to get rinsed. Covering expenses and maybe giving a small gift should be enough to show your interest. If they want full PPM to meet and then work your way up to intimacy, chances are nothing will happen or you'll be paying triple rate.
[QUOTE=WiseTraveler;6772770]They don't require it but they do accept some forms of crypto. With SBs it's all about communication and being clear what you both want / don't want. Patience is important but be careful not to get rinsed. Covering expenses and maybe giving a small gift should be enough to show your interest. If they want full PPM to meet and then work your way up to intimacy, chances are nothing will happen or you'll be paying triple rate.[/QUOTE]Good advice! That said, my most satisfying arrangements have moved fairly slowly. And I will admit I am hesitant to be clear on what I want when I first meet a sugar baby. For some reason I feel like if they trust me and like me, I will get what I want ha ha.
[QUOTE=Rambo21;6771408]Does Secret Benefits require payment via cryptocurrency? Sugar dating is a tricky thing emotionally. You don't want to feel like you are paying an escort, but on the other hand you are not looking for a girlfriend that cling to you. Or as you said won't go home ha ha. If you are the kind of person that enjoys a good conversation then perhaps some patience with sugar babies is warranted until things progress. If not, then proceed directly to an AMP or escort, right?[/QUOTE]Agree on the video to filter. I am just shocked at how poorly these girls come off on the video. They must wake up and decide to bun their hair, put on some attitude and glasses and think we don't notice how casual and lazy they are. The videos are generally terrible.
W Buck.
Just started looking on SB. Much more interesting profiles in my area. Even a few that are active on SB that were on seeking. But used there profile for like a week and never logged back in.
How many credits do you guys usually buy? I am thinking the 500 credits.
[QUOTE=WoozerBuck;6773545]Agree on the video to filter. I am just shocked at how poorly these girls come off on the video. They must wake up and decide to bun their hair, put on some attitude and glasses and think we don't notice how casual and lazy they are. The videos are generally terrible.
W Buck.[/QUOTE]Yes, the videos are show that the ladies can hide behind their edited pics. Some of the videos make the ladies look plain, and many of the videos give off a bad vibe where you sense negative things about the lady.
[QUOTE=Nashorn;6773622]Just started looking on SB. Much more interesting profiles in my area. Even a few that are active on SB that were on seeking. But used there profile for like a week and never logged back in.
How many credits do you guys usually buy? I am thinking the 500 credits.[/QUOTE]I do 100 credits at a time. Whenever I get close to running out, I get a "special" offer for a pretty big discount on buying more credits. For me, 100 lasts a while, so unless you are messaging a bunch of sbs, asking to see private pics, answering their questions, then you don't need a lot. FYI, I don't open private pics, answer their questions, anything that costs extra other than the initial message.