[QUOTE=NoseJelly;5879993]Does she have a green massage table? Asking for a friend.[/QUOTE]Well we do know she has a nice collection of monger's pics per her screening policy. Tell your friend that.
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[QUOTE=NoseJelly;5879993]Does she have a green massage table? Asking for a friend.[/QUOTE]Well we do know she has a nice collection of monger's pics per her screening policy. Tell your friend that.
I came over here to get away from the fking Oprah Winfrey show on the review board. -jeezus.
I am not going into names because that is not my point. I just don't understand the sycophant mentality of some of the guys in here who think they will win some brownie points by telling a provider what is said here (especially a PM). Man, did I get burned. I share information about an appointment I had with a fellow monger (purpose of this site right?) and this little shit went and told the provider who not only gave me the riot act but ban me from any future appointments. Can we just be men about this and keep our private conversations private. Anyway, thanks a lot you asshole.
[QUOTE=Moonglow913;5895253]I am not going into names because that is not my point. I just don't understand the sycophant mentality of some of the guys in here who think they will win some brownie points by telling a provider what is said here (especially a PM). Man, did I get burned. I share information about an appointment I had with a fellow monger (purpose of this site right?) and this little shit went and told the provider who not only gave me the riot act but ban me from any future appointments. Can we just be men about this and keep our private conversations private. Anyway, thanks a lot you asshole.[/QUOTE]Simps are going to simp. Sorry that happened, sucks to find out your PMs were used against you, and that kind of punk ass behavior discourages sharing. No doubt this simp thought he'd get an extra hug or something, the best providers are the best because they know how to manipulate your emotions, which keeps you coming back. Or maybe he's one of those idiots that thinks a provider will fall in love and run away with him. Probably a newbie. Or a veteran with delusions of grandeur, more rare but it happens. Either way, it sucks that our community has a few bad apples.
[QUOTE=Moonglow913;5895253]I am not going into names because that is not my point. I just don't understand the sycophant mentality of some of the guys in here who think they will win some brownie points by telling a provider what is said here (especially a PM). Man, did I get burned. I share information about an appointment I had with a fellow monger (purpose of this site right?) and this little shit went and told the provider who not only gave me the riot act but ban me from any future appointments. Can we just be men about this and keep our private conversations private. Anyway, thanks a lot you asshole.[/QUOTE]F that. Name the name.
[QUOTE=Monger01;5895521]F that. Name the name.[/QUOTE]Then it'll become a big shit show. Besides, I talked with two members and I can't be sure which one was the weasel. Besides, I wanted the focus on guys not being such douche bags. This was bullshit!
[QUOTE=Monger01;5895521]F that. Name the name.[/QUOTE]Yes.
Just post the name without any other text. That way you haven't slandered them. Just post a name.
[QUOTE=Benz1;5895683]Yes.
Just post the name without any other text. That way you haven't slandered them. Just post a name.[/QUOTE]I agree the persons name should be revealed so it doesn't happen to anyone else.
[QUOTE=SoulJamane;5895709]I agree the persons name should be revealed so it doesn't happen to anyone else.[/QUOTE]Totally agree with this. If it happened like you said to protect other guys who may run across this simp you should post his screen name. And that will give him a chance to respond if he feels it's warranted. I also think the name of the lady would be good to know who she is to play those games. Maybe we shouldn't see her either! Always 2 sides to every story and would give them a chance to agree or disagree with your version of events too!
[QUOTE=Moonglow913;5895253]I am not going into names because that is not my point. I just don't understand the sycophant mentality of some of the guys in here who think they will win some brownie points by telling a provider what is said here (especially a PM). Man, did I get burned. I share information about an appointment I had with a fellow monger (purpose of this site right?) and this little shit went and told the provider who not only gave me the riot act but ban me from any future appointments. Can we just be men about this and keep our private conversations private. Anyway, thanks a lot you asshole.[/QUOTE]Back in the day 10 plus years ago a guy would get banned from the Mens Room if he shared a private conversation. Ahh the golden days 10-15 years ago.
[QUOTE=Blackfire;5895768]Totally agree with this. If it happened like you said to protect other guys who may run across this simp you should post his screen name. And that will give him a chance to respond if he feels it's warranted. I also think the name of the lady would be good to know who she is to play those games. Maybe we shouldn't see her either! Always 2 sides to every story and would give them a chance to agree or disagree with your version of events too![/QUOTE]Its poetic justice. Do to him what he did to you. Reveal.
[QUOTE=Monger01;5896060]Its poetic justice. Do to him what he did to you. Reveal.[/QUOTE]But I am in the hobby for fun and not the drama. Shitheads like this guy will get his due in due time. Once again, it was the violation of the "code" that pissed me off and I just wanted to stress the importance of keeping things confidential. The backbone of sharing information. I know, naive. I was stupid and shared with someone I hadn't dealt with before and didn't know. What's crazy is he didn't have to, he did it purely to win favor I guess. I just regret the whole mess because I lost a good thing with a provider I had a blast with.
[QUOTE=Moonglow913;5896256]But I am in the hobby for fun and not the drama. Shitheads like this guy will get his due in due time. Once again, it was the violation of the "code" that pissed me off and I just wanted to stress the importance of keeping things confidential. The backbone of sharing information. I know, naive. I was stupid and shared with someone I hadn't dealt with before and didn't know. What's crazy is he didn't have to, he did it purely to win favor I guess. I just regret the whole mess because I lost a good thing with a provider I had a blast with.[/QUOTE]I'm finding my posts and PMs are not always appreciated by both mongers and providers alike. Some mongers appreciate specific details and others don't like the glowing reports. And some providers appreciate a detailed menu of options described in a review. But most seem to not like this level of detail as it either raises the level of expectations for new clients, or it reveals too much about her personally. I've made mistakes in this area and hopefully can find a good balance going forward.
Some more seasoned members here have long stated that most providers prefer a recommendation in a review but little details as to menu or pricing. I can see the truth in that as it allows the provider to give a more open menu to a dude with a good connection but limit the menu for dudes who are creepy or too pushy. I've heard several providers state that having a guy force his tongue into her mouth is a huge turn off. And that's just the kissing aspect of the appointment.
I also believe it's a good philosophy to figure that anything in a PM should be viewed by the sender as being as private as a public post here is. Sharing intimate details in a PM that can be forwarded or read by others can have a chilling effect on a relationship with a provider. I would guess that some providers can be very adventurous and intimate if the mood is good, or the cash is large. But they may either regret that later or not wish details of that intimate encounter to ever be shared with others. And if it is a provider with a complicated personal life, her response to that might be irrational and extreme to us mongers, but entirely appropriate to her feelings of wanting to protect her privacy or anonymity.
Just my opinion. But I'm now using PM with a thought of it being more public than private.
G2.
[QUOTE=Gene2;5896910]I'm finding my posts and PMs are not always appreciated by both mongers and providers alike. Some mongers appreciate specific details and others don't like the glowing reports. And some providers appreciate a detailed menu of options described in a review. But most seem to not like this level of detail as it either raises the level of expectations for new clients, or it reveals too much about her personally. I've made mistakes in this area and hopefully can find a good balance going forward.
G2.[/QUOTE]However you want to express your encounter with a provider is up to you. We've seen JumHall (goofy but entertaining) to the full blow Bloggers.
IMO what we need to see in a review is everything another monger can expect to see and get when he visits the provider reviewed.
Adding extra pics that aren't photo shopped like their advertising uses could be very helpful too.
We all no every provider doesn't do everything for all of us, including YMMV is helpful too.
Many escorts will perform the same service for everyone and that's helpful to know too.
How to review a provider has been a long standing debate on this site. I have a lengthy review template we could all follow so we never miss a detail.
Let me know if you'd like me to post it again.
Just trying to help.
[QUOTE=Benz1;5897266]However you want to express your encounter with a provider is up to you. We've seen JumHall (goofy but entertaining) to the full blow Bloggers.
IMO what we need to see in a review is everything another monger can expect to see and get when he visits the provider reviewed.
Adding extra pics that aren't photo shopped like their advertising uses could be very helpful too.
We all no every provider doesn't do everything for all of us, including YMMV is helpful too.
Many escorts will perform the same service for everyone and that's helpful to know too.
How to review a provider has been a long standing debate on this site. I have a lengthy review template we could all follow so we never miss a detail.
Let me know if you'd like me to post it again.
Just trying to help.[/QUOTE]Posting the template again would likely be helpful. Thank you.
Likewise, I think it was you that had stated several times that while escorts are typically fine with detailed reviews, those providers who post as massage services don't like much details posted or reviewed. I'm seeing that this is true with many of the providers, and especially for the parlor owners. It also gets complicated when there are hybrid providers, who advertise as massage but provide more than HJ for selected clients.
This same principle seems to apply to PMs. It's too bad that Moonglow had a PM fiasco. I think that's a valuable lesson for all of us. PMs have to be viewed as non secure and not private. They can easily be forwarded or read by others who are not the intended recipient.
And if I get special treatment from a provider, I can now see keeping that session and any extras private might be important. I will continue to post reviews but I will use PMs with appropriate cautions.
G2.