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[QUOTE=JBravos;2925765][URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/BodyRubs/providing-the-touch-that-you-might-be-looking-for-prostate-massage/28373907[/URL]

Has anyone seen her before? I like older ladies and am always curious if someone claims they can give a legit prostate massage.[/QUOTE]Hard pass. This is my experience not seeing her, and the nested post has someone else reporting how he TOFTT with her:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?7597-BackPage-Advertiser-Reviews&p=2883106&viewfull=1#post2883106[/URL]

From what I've seen, there aren't that many providers who know how to really work a prostate outside the domme community. A shame too, because getting your prostate handled just right during a handie or (even better) a BJ turns your orgasm from matching five white lottery balls into hitting the Powerball. And on a side note to the haters, no, it's not gay if it's a woman doing it to you, so go ahead and unclench your sphincter. Um. Poor choice of words?

So, out of curiosity, an open question -- should I have posted my shitty phone experience with her that made me decide not to visit? I assumed that anyone else would get the same phone treatment but apparently not.

[QUOTE=Garbonzo;2926878]Hard pass. This is my experience not seeing her, and the nested post has someone else reporting how he TOFTT with her:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?7597-BackPage-Advertiser-Reviews&p=2883106&viewfull=1#post2883106[/URL]

From what I've seen, there aren't that many providers who know how to really work a prostate outside the domme community. A shame too, because getting your prostate handled just right during a handie or (even better) a BJ turns your orgasm from matching five white lottery balls into hitting the Powerball. And on a side note to the haters, no, it's not gay if it's a woman doing it to you, so go ahead and unclench your sphincter. Um. Poor choice of words?

So, out of curiosity, an open question -- should I have posted my shitty phone experience with her that made me decide not to visit? I assumed that anyone else would get the same phone treatment but apparently not.[/QUOTE]Honestly I am not very educated on the process of a prostate massage, but it did inspire me to google it. My impression is that the prostate gland and the process of "massaging" or "milking it" seems should be left o someone who knows what they are doing for fear of damaging it. Is this an accurate assessment? If so, there is no way I would trust someone from BP, CL, etc. To do such a thing. Maybe I am just too paranoid about this having never had it done to me before.

[QUOTE=Garbonzo;2926878]Hard pass. This is my experience not seeing her, and the nested post has someone else reporting how he TOFTT with her:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?7597-BackPage-Advertiser-Reviews&p=2883106&viewfull=1#post2883106[/URL]

From what I've seen, there aren't that many providers who know how to really work a prostate outside the domme community. A shame too, because getting your prostate handled just right during a handie or (even better) a BJ turns your orgasm from matching five white lottery balls into hitting the Powerball. And on a side note to the haters, no, it's not gay if it's a woman doing it to you, so go ahead and unclench your sphincter. Um. Poor choice of words?

So, out of curiosity, an open question -- should I have posted my shitty phone experience with her that made me decide not to visit? I assumed that anyone else would get the same phone treatment but apparently not.[/QUOTE]Just my opinion, but I think it's fine to post her phone tirade- mainly because why she was mad because it alerts the rest of us. I don't think you did anything wrong. Either posting it or the actual call. Plenty of us have gotten or tried to get a massage on the spur of the moment with certain gals. She was probably having a bad day.

Edging is great- I'm not sure if she does it though. After reading the original review it sounds like it might have been a typo for ending. Maybe the original guy who saw her can let us know. I used to see a cute Indian gal, Neeva, who did that. I had no idea what it was at the time but became a fan. Not a fan of the prostate rub though. Don't want a massage in that area, but to each his own.

ETA: My apologies, I didn't realize this post was so fucking long. I got a little carried away.

[QUOTE=RonM;2924048]Indies work for themselves. What they charge is what they make. I'll pay more than the provider's rate because of exceptional service and / or special requests. What I pay just depends on my request and if she's willing to do it.[/QUOTE]In a massage parlor, where you're paying a door fee, or any other situation where you're not paying as much as you should because of the house taking a large cut (thinking of some brothels I visited in NYC in the late 90's), then a tip is definitely in order so long as the experience is even halfway decent.

As to indies, it may sound sort of crazy, but especially after I get over the $180-$200/ hour range, with my regulars I feel like I'm interacting with a professional services provider. I mean that in the sense that I often pay professionals an hourly or fixed rate to render their services and expertise for my benefit -- get your minds out of the gutter, I'm talking about my lawyer, my accountant, my doctor, and so on. I wouldn't offer my lawyer a tip after she does an extremely good job in getting a court order approved or quashing opposing counsel's motion, especially if she achieves equivalent results by negotiating with the opposing counsel, which is an even happier ending in terms of cost / stress / having to go to court. (11 years later, my divorce is still providing me excitement and drama!) It's part of her job and I pay her to do it; if she couldn't do it, I'd retain a different lawyer. Likewise, with a higher-end adult provider, I wouldn't offer a tip. It's the same principle, though when I engage my lawyer I'm trying not to get fucked or to make someone stop fucking me, and, well, you can figure the rest of the joke out yourself. Or, if you prefer, it's a lot more fun to pay for an hour for some professional services than for others.

A higher-end provider who pushes for a tip is one I likely won't see again. All parties know that this is a commercial transaction and there is a set rate. If my accountant said, "Hey, didn't I do a great job lowering your tax liability? How about I tack a little extra onto your invoice so you can show your gratitude? Next year I'd be looking for a new tax accountant.

It also has to do with perceived status and role. Strange example, but once at the end of a week on the road, after leaving the client site I stopped by the hotel's front desk to pick up the luggage I had left in storage for the day. When the lady at the desk wheeled it out to me, I slipped her a couple of bucks, and she said, "I'll make sure this gets to one of the busboys. " It turns out she was a manager, and it wasn't appropriate (in her mind) to take a tip.

Even for the lower-priced indies as well as the Euro services, I usually don't tip, under the same principle. (It seems to me providers at the Euro services keep a decent amount of their pay and control how much / often they want to work.) If I have an excellent experience from a provider, they'll get my repeat business and / or a good review. The exception is when something extra that's not expected as part of the service is provided, especially if it's unasked for or if I don't get nickel-and-dimed for it. I once was a regular of a great indie body rub provider. One day, I asked her if we could do a specific extra thing. She said yes. She didn't upcharge me for it, so I tipped her. Whenever we did that extra bit from then on, in my mind it was almost like there was a different hourly rate rather than I was tipping her each time. (Sort of the same way my lawyer charges me a higher rate for courtroom time than office time.).

But it's all case-by-case, and I think it mostly has to do with your character, motivations, and how you want to influence your next session. Last example: I tip cab drivers, hotel maids, and shoeshine guys well. I do this for cab drivers because they have one of the most dangerous jobs in America, statistically more deadly than cop or fireman; hotel maids and shoeshine guys because they're both doing jobs I would not want to do, and incrementally it's not that big of a deal to me. (Giving someone a $10 for a $7 shine and saying keep the change is no real financial hit.) But to be brutally honest with myself, a big part of it is if I didn't tip these workers who usually don't make much money, I'd feel like a cheapskate, and I don't like to feel that way. Some of it might be me being a nice guy, but a larger part is that I don't want to feel like a jerk.

Has anyone ever seen this girl?

[URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/50-spls-dont-miss-your-chance-a-v-a-i-l-a-b-l-e-realest-best-provider-in-town-open-now/34851654[/URL]

I read that long posting. I get what your points are.

When I'm seeing a provider / massage therapist I expect the session she's offering at the very least. I'll ask her if she's willing to do X or why. Most of the time they'll accomodate my requests. No upselling or asking for more money on top of their rate that I'm paying. I tip according to what they'll do. At least 50 dollars for CIM (WS) or COF. All seem surprised about getting a tip for special requests.

This past weekend in Chicago I had a wonderful visit with Erica. She is an early 40's mild with a fantastic body. Very friendly and I left very happy. I will see her again the next time I'm in town.

[URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/knock-knock-whos-there-john-john-who-well-reviewed-t-e-r-242471/36358034[/URL]

I saw this visiting Russian to LT. I hadn't been there in a while but it's still the same setup as before. Anyways I had a real positive experience with her. Check her out if your into petite blondes.

[URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/BodyRubs/logan-tantricas-new-girl-valery-and-latina-katie-mandy-and-marteen-well-reviewed/36373501[/URL]

[QUOTE=Garbonzo;2926855]I'm not saying I know for sure something bad didn't happen to you, but your story is a little hard to swallow. Not because crazy shit happened in it -- there are tons of crazier stories around here -- but because I can't even follow what happened. I'm not even sure if this is an outcall or an incall encounter. With it being so unclear, I'm not sure if I'd take it as a real red flag, coming from someone with only three real posts since his arrival in February. (But I'll confess I didn't post as much as I should have for a long time after I started.).

Then again, to be fair, if I had been attacked by someone with a taser -- who somehow missed? -- I might not be able to calmly relate what happened.

In any case, I love the video in her ad; she gives off sort of a mild tranny vibe (anyone else get that?) while wearing those oh-so-sexy steel-toed boots.[/QUOTE]Ok so people want to know how crazy this shit got. I normally laud myself as a good writer but I just didn't want to give too much details because I was sketched out and it was a really fucked up situation.

I'm staying at a friends house for a week so I was hoping for an outcall on Friday. I browse, I search images and look up reviews, and since there was scantly any information on her I figure it's a go. Hell you saw a video on there too.

I call at 1:00. She says to have an envelope ready and she will enforce a handshake or kiss to confirm my monger status. I'm psyched and get myself ready. Says she will be there in 25 but she arrives at 2:05.

She calls at that time and asks how she should come in. I tell her to walk through the gate and go to the front door. She asks if there is a side door, and I say "oh that'd be better" since the downstairs neighbor would be none the wiser if there was a guest coming through the front. Those of you that know Chicago homes know that some back porches are covered and there is a back door at the bottom of the stairs that leads outside. I tell her I'm on my way and I see the silhouette in the fogged window step to the side as I approach the door. I open the door a crack and she sticks her foot in the door. I see instead of this girl in the ad that she is a butchy black girl that smelled of booze and cigarettes. I ask "Where's Stephanie?" And she says "Oh she's in the car. She works for me and I have to make sure you are ok. " I know from reading in here that this was a no go so I say "No you're not welcome and I start to close the door and she's not moving. She calmly says "No it's ok! Look let me explain myself but first things first. " And she looks at me and slowly reaches down to give me a tap and she said "that's just to make sure you are you say you are. Let me come up and we can talk".

I figure with that move she actually might be legit. She goes up little run of stairs and tell her that's far enough. She says "She (Stephanie) works for me and I go in to scope out the place" she explained that just the other day she got into a situation with 5 guys waiting for her in a room. The door to the apartment is wide open the lights are on. You can see through he kitchen down the hallway and into the living room. I say "Well look there's no one here!" And she says "I don't know that! I can't be sure!" And then she does this stupid mini gasp and points into the place and says "Whoa what was that? I don't take my eyes off her and I say this is stupid and that her girl can just come by while on the phone to tell her she's safe. She insists this is the best way and at that point I say "No I don't want you here you have to leave" she gets confused and is like "Wait you call for an escort service" and I then start telling her (in a calm but stern voice) "No it's time to leave. " She starts talking and all I say is "No, no, no, whatever it is you want to do its not happening and I'm going to call the cops". She says "Well if you call the cops they are going to know what you are doing and they have call logs to prove you are doing stuff". I am so sick of what is happening so I ask how much will it cost for you to go away. She says to make an offer so I offer her 40. I take out 49 and she says "how do I know if that's even real money you got to hold it up to the light". I am even more irritated and I tell her that this is stupid and why would I have fake money. I give her a 20 and tell her to feel that and she holds it up to the light and says "Look this is fake!" as again she tries to redirect my attention. I say that it wasn't and I pass her the other 20 thinking she'll leave, but she takes the money sand says "well that was my fee but now you have to the the cancellation fee".

I am totally done dealing with this lunatic so I laugh and turn to close the door to the apartment. She wriggles her way halfway inside and pushes back hard (again she is pretty butchy and stocky) and gets the door to open. I am trying to push her out but then I hear the crackle and see the blue spark of her taser as she tried to get me. I thankfully have a long reach and I held her back from her weave while she wriggled and attempted maybe 5 times to get a good tase in. I make a few jabs to the face and she falls to the ground. I am still holding her hair. I yell at her to leave but she wirthes around, still trying to tase me. She has an iron grip on that shit and also I don't want to know how that would feel like. I knock some more sense to the back of her head and she cries out "My baby! My baby!" I'm so sick of this asshole that I don't believe her lies any more. I tell her to fucking leave and that she lost and it's over. In between sobs she is telling me "I'm trying to go you're not letting me". I'm trying to push her out (she's on the ground) but her fucking hands and barring herself from leaving. I tell her again to just leave and we do the same thing again. Meanwhile I have a firm hold on her taser hand and I wasn't letting go for anything. I get her into an arm lock and she finally starts to actually make it through the door. I am now on the back porch and she pushed away and tries to attack again. This time I feel the prongs of the taser touch me but when she turns it on, she has drained the battery so much hat it feels like one of those fake hand buzzers. I want to push her down the stairs, but she only stumbles back down a step. I run in the apartment and I lock it. She is still in the stairwell outside pounding on the door asking me for her hat and her phone. I run for my phone and call the police. I see her phone on the ground and I run to the front and throw it outside on to the street. She comes around the front and rigs the door bell and I meet her at the door and I flip her off and say her phone is somewhere in the street. She picks up her phone and walks away. I throw her hat in the trash.

The police only drove by an hour later.

[QUOTE=Gitty;2883233][URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/BodyRubs/sofias-upbeat-smilepics-are-truly-me-i-promise/36573697[/URL][/QUOTE]She has 8 reviews on The othER site and none are good.

[QUOTE=JBravos;2925765][URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/BodyRubs/providing-the-touch-that-you-might-be-looking-for-prostate-massage/28373907[/URL]

Has anyone seen her before? I like older ladies and am always curious if someone claims they can give a legit prostate massage.[/QUOTE]I have not seen her personally, but her oThEr reviews are nothing short of terrible.

[QUOTE=DaddyOne23;2927091]I saw this visiting Russian to LT. I hadn't been there in a while but it's still the same setup as before. Anyways I had a real positive experience with her. Check her out if your into petite blondes.

[URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/BodyRubs/logan-tantricas-new-girl-valery-and-latina-katie-mandy-and-marteen-well-reviewed/36373501[/URL][/QUOTE]Seems pricey for no full service. Looks like their rates went up. I thought sessions started at 40 for body rubs.

So a couple questions:

First, I normally do a quick search through BP providers for "red" or "redhead" and go through and look for potential dreams. For some reason today I have had a few new potentials pop up and with ads far enough back that I should have seen them weeks ago, anyone else ever have this experience?

Secondly, one of the redheads looks incredible and like she might not be TGTBT. Anyone have any info for the girl below?

[URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/55-lovely-gorgeous-italian-redhead/36755394[/URL]

Lastly, I have been trying to set something up with Classy Cris for months now, but there's always some reason why she has to cancel the day of and I'm trying to figure out if she's worth my continued effort. I am really into the MILF thing, but am starting to get pretty frustrated. Anyone on here ever have a dream with her? [URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/mature-frisky-fiery-redhead/37440193[/URL].

So to the fellas who order outcall and the woman is not to your satisfaction, what do you usually do or what usually happens in that situation? If you have your own room at a motel and see her before she sees you for example.

[QUOTE=UpscaleGent85;2926297]This asshole:

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Hello no. Never again. I had an experience with this one that was brutal and violent after she tried to forcefully come inside and use a taser on me. Thank goodness I was unharmed and she had no backup, though to be honest I'm confused why there wasn't any soft of retaliation. The situation was weird and I never wanted any part of what showed up, but once that foot was in the door, she did not take a single step back, trying to assuage me (like hell she's in the car), suspiciously trying to convince me to "scope the place", and demanding more donations to go away while trying to redirect my attention at every turn (fake money?) to make her move. I don't have anyone else to tell, so all I have to say is good luck folks. I have been picking up some providers here and there, and I think I will post more often to get more cred. Not knowing almost got me.[/QUOTE]A little advice to a newcomer. If you cannot find reviews on this sight or any other, move to another provider. Get some experience with some reviewed providers and then you will develop some spidy sense to keep you relatively safe. Hind sight is 20 20 but when the wrong person showed up at the door I would have played stupid and acted like you were not expecting anyone. If she tried to push her way in I would have immediately called the police. Also if you read through the forum you will see many members advise not to do out call for safety reasons. If you do get a crazy, do you want them knowing where you or in this case your friend lives?