Non SM posting for info in a load of places
[QUOTE=DyerMan;5340994]If anyone has any info DM me.[/QUOTE]You have asked the same question in 6 places the last week.
Louisville KY.
Greensboro NC.
Ashville NC.
Charlotte NC.
Columbia NC.
Charleston SC.
You are a non SM that claims to have had a broken marriage in Dec last year. Why the sudden interest to find this girl? You even PMed me about her.
Is she your ex and you are after creating trouble for her?
This board is not for such a use. Please stop.
SA.
I rarely interact with newbies
[QUOTE=Djapa1234;5351768]So I have interacted either on the app or offline with all of the below but conversations have stalled. If anyone has intel or seen any of the below please report.
1) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/946e9fd2-1aab-4e25-a9bc-ba634ef026ec[/URL] (asking for 5 agreed shed consider 4 then we set up a meet and greet but then went silent.).
2) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/16d0f16b-44ad-4292-a431-6cbdada18623[/URL] (texted back and forth, sounded very promising and reasonable, then went silent.).
3) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/020cc97c-f050-4a96-bb27-7c8782454b58[/URL] (chatted briefly on the app, but aside from hello, how are you, she won't engage, although reads all messages.).
4) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/25c7826e-8986-4299-85f2-aa64d9887a05[/URL] (texted offline, went silent quickly, was very chatty on the app but as soon as I asked for mote photos, crickets).
5) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ceaf2114-c984-47c1-aada-72d51f46850d[/URL] (I think she is just trolling cause asked for 6,000 a month. Bless her heart.).
6) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/send/76cdd7ee-b9e7-4759-9990-fcc98fb80b8e[/URL] (chatted on the app but when I asked what she is looking for never replied.).
7) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/37740959-2871-4267-a4d8-6ce66425ec48[/URL] (chatted on the app but stopped replying shortly.).
Also, some of us here on the board have better success than the others. At the end of the day I know its mostly about numbers / averages but I'd like to hear from the ones that are having consistent luck with the ladies and if so give us pointers.
I try to customize messages as to not come off a scammer but mostly I just send them a copy pasted spiel of what I am looking for and I do try to avoid putting numbers in messages but when they ask I try to answer in terms of monthly, rather than ppm. I have one private photo which I immediately reveal prior to messaging. These days about 80% of the messages go unopened for me, and I know its not my photo cause I am relatively decent looking guy in early 40's. Maybe its just how things are these days.
Have a good weekend everyone![/QUOTE]In my experience, new, young members rarely pan out. I look for members that have been on the site for months, not weeks, and have a more complete profile than a lot of the early 20-somethings. Occasionallya newbie will pan out but it's a rare exception. I approach them with a couple compliments, some humor and wit, and try to find something in common with them. I also try to get them to text asap. If they won't go to text, they're not really interested. I don't discuss allowance until the first meet, which is usually over coffee or a drink. Treating a woman more like a date than someone you just want to pound has paid off for me.
I chatted on and off with her (him?)
[QUOTE=Longduckdong1;5355199]Ummm. Does anyone else think she might be a he or at least post op?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/30b47b97-049a-4141-9759-b16729243458[/URL][/QUOTE]On Ashley Madison a couple years ago. Never struck me as being a dude, but she was rather secretive about pic sharing, which might have been a sign.