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[QUOTE=KittyLikker;2771642]Guys, the obvious solution is the best of both. I just have them meet me at JaxDogs place, they all know where it is. Only problem is he blows out their o-rings before I get a chance to. But hell, at least it's safe.[/QUOTE]That's was pretty funny KL, one thing I will miss is the levity of some mongers on this site. I can always count on a few chuckles when reading the some of the posts. JD.
[QUOTE=RedTalon;2771250]Do me a favor and name one provider that you have seen that is on to better things and is a productive member of society. Productive being the key word here. Once they venture down this road, 99.9% spiral the drain.[/QUOTE]I guess I used the word try but I am sure we all have the lady from the hobby that no longer advertises that we still see now and then who have improved their lives, I didn't say they were not fruit loops but got a leg up from the hobby. There are some ladies out there that laugh at the fellas who get upset while they get thousands from fellas who compete for their time. I recently spoke with a provider who said they are making 15 k to 20 k a month and have guys throwing money at them to try and lock them up and its a juggling act too keep them all going. I have know her for years and she is no dummy and leads 2 lives and is selective, your nice and transparent you will have no issues because just like guys she likes variety also. Purses and shoes don't lead to a future or retirement but hey you got to live your life the way you want too.
[QUOTE=GufyFosho;2771633]You have be selective when you do this. There is practically no risk at all of being busted when you do an outcall (especially when you mandate she come alone). That's the only kind of provider I will ever see. Outcall and has to drive herself. It's the safest way. Even if you get a hotel yourself and do an outcall by having her come to you, do you really want the hotel experience? There are cameras everywhere in hotels. What's going to happen if you visit a provider at a hotel and she decides to shoot up right after you leave and ends up ODing? Well guess what, you are going to be the last person seen leaving her room and it will be on tape. Do you really want that in your life regardless of being married or not? Girls that will see you in hotels are junkies, and thieves. Why anyone would risk that will continue to baffle me. Pay more, have them come to you and alone. Can't put a price on safety and freedom.[/QUOTE]We both have a lady in common we have seen when she was working that have improved her life and has moved on from the hobby now that she has saved enough to get her where she wants to be.
[QUOTE=JaxDog;2771780]I know quite a few former providers that have moved on to live a "normal" life. One started her own business and is doing very well, I actually throw her some work every now and then, no quid qua pro either, just straight business. Another got married and lives not too far from me in a very upscale neighborhood, I'd dare to say her house is nicer than mine, new husband has no idea that she ever was a working girl! I see her at the grocery store every so often and we just kind of wink, laugh and keep on going. Just like strippers eventually most providers will move on, this life can really beat a woman up and if they don't end up in jail or, god forbid dead, most will go on to lead a life in relative obscurity as we all do. One has to remember that their human just like you and I. Many men look and treat these woman as nothing more than a piece of meat and some working girls deserve such treatment because they treat their customers with similar disrespect. I for one have always tried to be nice, respectful and kind. I know this goes against many a mongers philosophy to treat them harshly and show no weakness but like my dear departed father always told me, you get more attention with honey than with vinegar. I believe having this nice guy approach has yielded untold benefits for me in this hobby, have I been taken advantage of, sure, but I also have been able to get lots of added "extras" I. E, reduced cost on subsequent visits, many times I've been able to do things with these women that surprise and shock many of my fellow mongers. Like HuntDog said, while I'm no saint I'm not the devil either. Here's a picture of just what I'm talking about, an old favorite of mine that is now an out of the business UTR girl that many of you would know if you've been around a while. I'm not naming any names, she'd be pissed but I've seeing her on and off for some time now, sorry guys she's not taking on anyone new, has a regular job and a boyfriend. She's one I'm sorely going to miss, you know how the Jdog loves a deep anal finish! JD.[/QUOTE]But that doesn't mean they don't have bad intentions. Ask yourself what kind of woman actually does something like this? These women more than likely come from all walks of life. They come from fatherless homes, abusive pasts, and who knows what else? They're desperate and feeling there is no way out so they turn to hooking. That's how low they go. Selling the snatch for cash to make it. Sounds pretty desperate if you ask me and that's a crying shame. I'm no saint and no devil either, but these girls will put themselves before you in a minute. ALL OF THEM! That's how desperate they are. Keep your head on the swivel brother.
[QUOTE=GufyFosho;2772164]But that doesn't mean they don't have bad intentions. Ask yourself what kind of woman actually does something like this? These women more than likely come from all walks of life. They come from fatherless homes, abusive pasts, and who knows what else? They're desperate and feeling there is no way out so they turn to hooking. That's how low they go. Selling the snatch for cash to make it. Sounds pretty desperate if you ask me and that's a crying shame. I'm no saint and no devil either, but these girls will put themselves before you in a minute. ALL OF THEM! That's how desperate they are. Keep your head on the swivel brother.[/QUOTE]Plenty of women are successful and do very well for themselves but there are some who need money but want it to come easy, I see most come from middle class lives where they played video games or dolls never having to lift a finger or taught how to pay for something with sweat or a job, power bill, rent what's that? The lure of easy money has a very strong appeal. Perhaps you could understand it better standing in their shoes but its the ultimate enticement lack of money blues. Desperation means the pay offs and the rip offs or the things nobody saw.
[QUOTE=GufyFosho;2772164]But that doesn't mean they don't have bad intentions. Ask yourself what kind of woman actually does something like this? These women more than likely come from all walks of life. They come from fatherless homes, abusive pasts, and who knows what else? They're desperate and feeling there is no way out so they turn to hooking. That's how low they go. Selling the snatch for cash to make it. Sounds pretty desperate if you ask me and that's a crying shame. I'm no saint and no devil either, but these girls will put themselves before you in a minute. ALL OF THEM! That's how desperate they are. Keep your head on the swivel brother.[/QUOTE]While I agree some providers do indeed have bad intentions it's been my experience their the exception not the rule. Most providers are looking to get you off as quickly as possible and get paid so they can go purchase whatever their drug of choice is. Still others find themselves in a bad situation and are just tying to make money to support themselves and their kids. I've met a number of younger providers that are doing it for the thrill of the experience. I had a thirty something year old provider that I was seeing for a long time call me one day and asked me if I'd be willing to see her 19 year old sister who was wanting to try fucking for money for the hell of it. I asked my "friend" if she thought I'd like her sister and she told me absolutely, so I figure what the hell. I said sure give her my number, she calls me and we set up a meeting, her sister shows up at my place, all I can say is holy fuck batman, she was smoken hot but obviously nervous. I'm cool, though on the inside I'm going like a million miles a minute not believing what's was standing in front of me. We both relax a little talking on the couch. I get her something to drink and we talked some more, I've been told I'm not a bad looking guy for my age and she seemed to like me, well with in fifteen minutes we end up back in my room fucking like a couple of highschool kids. She was awesome and I gave her a 100, she seemed thoroughly pleased with the arrangement and I ended up seeing her for almost a year. I even tried to see if she wanted to get with a couple of my buddies but she never took me up on the offer, she'd come over once or twice a month and fuck my brains out until she told me after about a year she'd gotten pretty serious with her boyfriend and was go to have to stop our fun. She even planned our last visit together. She was a sweetheart and I've seen many a provider that were like that, not devious, no bad intentions just trying to make some cash. So while I agree one must always be vigilant you can also meet some real and decent women as well. JD.
[QUOTE=KittyLikker;2771642]Guys, the obvious solution is the best of both. I just have them meet me at JaxDogs place, they all know where it is. Only problem is he blows out their o-rings before I get a chance to. But hell, at least it's safe.[/QUOTE]Funny! My 2 cents is that they enjoy my house. Better lighting for pics and I roast a chicken with sweet potatoes.
[QUOTE=Singer5411;2772757]Funny! My 2 cents is that they enjoy my house. Better lighting for pics and I roast a chicken with sweet potatoes.[/QUOTE]Also, everyone gets to chill without looking over their shoulder looking for the bogyeman. I'll never do the car date thing again.
[QUOTE=OmegaZ;2772151]We both have a lady in common we have seen when she was working that have improved her life and has moved on from the hobby now that she has saved enough to get her where she wants to be.[/QUOTE]And she was the best, hands down. Better than Maliyah, and everyone else's favorites here. She knew how to do this and do it well.
[QUOTE=JaxDog;2772462]While I agree some providers do indeed have bad intentions it's been my experience their the exception not the rule. Most providers are looking to get you off as quickly as possible and get paid so they can go purchase whatever their drug of choice is. Still others find themselves in a bad situation and are just tying to make money to support themselves and their kids. I've met a number of younger providers that are doing it for the thrill of the experience. I had a thirty something year old provider that I was seeing for a long time call me one day and asked me if I'd be willing to see her 19 year old sister who was wanting to try fucking for money for the hell of it. I asked my "friend" if she thought I'd like her sister and she told me absolutely, so I figure what the hell. I said sure give her my number, she calls me and we set up a meeting, her sister shows up at my place, all I can say is holy fuck batman, she was smoken hot but obviously nervous. I'm cool, though on the inside I'm going like a million miles a minute not believing what's was standing in front of me. We both relax a little talking on the couch. I get her something to drink and we talked some more, I've been told I'm not a bad looking guy for my age and she seemed to like me, well with in fifteen minutes we end up back in my room fucking like a couple of highschool kids. She was awesome and I gave her a 100, she seemed thoroughly pleased with the arrangement and I ended up seeing her for almost a year. I even tried to see if she wanted to get with a couple of my buddies but she never took me up on the offer, she'd come over once or twice a month and fuck my brains out until she told me after about a year she'd gotten pretty serious with her boyfriend and was go to have to stop our fun. She even planned our last visit together. She was a sweetheart and I've seen many a provider that were like that, not devious, no bad intentions just trying to make some cash. So while I agree one must always be vigilant you can also meet some real and decent women as well. JD.[/QUOTE]I agree with you JD.
Not all providers are bad. Not all mongers are good.
Treat others as you wish to be treated: with dignity and respect.
Do not judge, lest you be judged. Or have some of you married dudes (you know the overly cautious ones) so quickly forgotten that you "are "judging" the very same people you seek for your infidelities.
That's why we shouldn't judge. Because by doing so we invite others to judge us. And well we all know where that leads.
Hug a provider, they're people too.
J4 me.
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[QUOTE=JaxForMe;2773022]I agree with you JD.
Not all providers are bad. Not all mongers are good.
Treat others as you wish to be treated: with dignity and respect.
Do not judge, lest you be judged. Or have some of you married dudes (you know the overly cautious ones) so quickly forgotten that you "are "judging" the very same people you seek for your infidelities.
That's why we shouldn't judge. Because by doing so we invite others to judge us. And well we all know where that leads.
Hug a provider, they're people too.
J4 me.[/QUOTE].
But it's pretty ironic you would use scripture to talk to people that look at and use this board. Yes we are all sinners, but no one is judging anyone, and not all of us take pride in our deviance. BTW, aren't you doing the same thing by saying don't judge least ye be judged? Glass houses my friend, glass houses. Also, please remember truth is not judgment. It's just truth.
[QUOTE=JaxDog;2772462]While I agree some providers do indeed have bad intentions it's been my experience their the exception not the rule. Most providers are looking to get you off as quickly as possible and get paid so they can go purchase whatever their drug of choice is. Still others find themselves in a bad situation and are just tying to make money to support themselves and their kids. I've met a number of younger providers that are doing it for the thrill of the experience. I had a thirty something year old provider that I was seeing for a long time call me one day and asked me if I'd be willing to see her 19 year old sister who was wanting to try fucking for money for the hell of it. I asked my "friend" if she thought I'd like her sister and she told me absolutely, so I figure what the hell. I said sure give her my number, she calls me and we set up a meeting, her sister shows up at my place, all I can say is holy fuck batman, she was smoken hot but obviously nervous. I'm cool, though on the inside I'm going like a million miles a minute not believing what's was standing in front of me. We both relax a little talking on the couch. I get her something to drink and we talked some more, I've been told I'm not a bad looking guy for my age and she seemed to like me, well with in fifteen minutes we end up back in my room fucking like a couple of highschool kids. She was awesome and I gave her a 100, she seemed thoroughly pleased with the arrangement and I ended up seeing her for almost a year. I even tried to see if she wanted to get with a couple of my buddies but she never took me up on the offer, she'd come over once or twice a month and fuck my brains out until she told me after about a year she'd gotten pretty serious with her boyfriend and was go to have to stop our fun. She even planned our last visit together. She was a sweetheart and I've seen many a provider that were like that, not devious, no bad intentions just trying to make some cash. So while I agree one must always be vigilant you can also meet some real and decent women as well. JD.[/QUOTE]I have had the same thing happen, referrals are good, I get a call every few months from a lady that goes hey do you remember me or hey I have a friend you might like that needs some help or I am back in town or looking to make some cash and you got any work. I usually am surprised how hotter they are out of the hobby or very very low volume.
[QUOTE=MouthHunter;2771648]I think we have a club owner as a member! Anyway yes Harvey, your food is also good and at reasonable pricing. Make sure you keep the 2 for 1 beer specials during the entire dayshift though. That's where the gold club and scores fuck up.[/QUOTE]No, I'm not a club owner and my name isn't Harvey. Sheryl is a friend and I'm simply apprehensive about whatever comes out of her mouth because she's a stripper. She told me last night that she's never had sex with anyone she's met at the club and there are no nude pics of her from any guy that she has gone on a date with. That's why I asked you to show me just 1 pic of her as she's been truthful to me up to now versus any other dancers. I do not share anything with her on this site either.
[QUOTE=Techi1;2773699]No, I'm not a club owner and my name isn't Harvey. Sheryl is a friend and I'm simply apprehensive about whatever comes out of her mouth because she's a stripper. She told me last night that she's never had sex with anyone she's met at the club and there are no nude pics of her from any guy that she has gone on a date with. That's why I asked you to show me just 1 pic of her as she's been truthful to me up to now versus any other dancers. I do not share anything with her on this site either.[/QUOTE]Do you know how many times a stripper have told me I never done this before, you are the first and don't tell anyone. I can also tell you that because Stripper A gave Monger be and see and a lollipop it does not mean Monger the will get one and Monger E can get the whole bag of lollipops. Why does MouthHunter have to prove he did what he said, what if I told you I have seen many pics and videos. I have seen these same strippers come up to him and speak while we were recently in two clubs. I have no reason to lie on pussy, I don't want to own any of these young ladies, I use them for the service they provide. Their not your Friend, they are to make money and will tell you anything. Hey MouthHunter show the pic where she's bent over getting it at both ends. This message has been brought to you before my morning coffee on my mobile.
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[QUOTE=OldSchool;2774361]Do you know how many times a stripper have told me I never done this before, you are the first and don't tell anyone. I can also tell you that because Stripper A gave Monger be and see and a lollipop it does not mean Monger the will get one and Monger E can get the whole bag of lollipops. Why does MouthHunter have to prove he did what he said, what if I told you I have seen many pics and videos. I have seen these same strippers come up to him and speak while we were recently in two clubs. I have no reason to lie on pussy, I don't want to own any of these young ladies, I use them for the service they provide. Their not your Friend, they are to make money and will tell you anything. Hey MouthHunter show the pic where she's bent over getting it at both ends. This message has been brought to you before my morning coffee on my mobile.
IS.[/QUOTE]If you have a picture of Sheryl getting fucked outside the club I'd like to see it so I can drop the ***** since I really don't date or fuck strippers period. Too much drama obviously! I'm 55 and don't need that kind of bullshit but I'm giving her the benefit because many guys like to say what they do with women but none actually shows they really did anything with them. I'd sure appreciate it otherwise it doesn't do me any good because it's hearsay.