Plenty of fish in the sea
If you get turned down, I wouldn't take it to heart tbh. Some woman out there will appreciate your business.
As the saying goes, there's plenty of fish in the sea. I've gotten turned down before from escorts because of my age (I'm young).
Side note:
Apparently Linda doesn't work at Angela Spa anymore? Cmon man. Heard she was thick and wanted to pay her a visit.
Right Spa / correct me if I'm wrong.
I have a few dislikes of Rite*Spa. . they need a door person, tired of the ladies going in and out to open the door. They leave the door open during service, tongue action is a turn off, 69 is rushed, and double sessions is too, too fast and usually aimed in CG position.
Behind the Green Sign With Soomi / Soda
After reading about Soomi at Nature I had to check her out during my lunch break. Texted for an appointment at 12 pm and they were so busy she didn't come in until 12:15 pm. But holy shit, Soomi looks like the super hot girls in virtually every massage parlor ad, yet is real. She looks like what would come out if you told your AI to create a hot Asian girlfriend with perfect tits and ass.
I nutted in the morning to attempt to last longer but it was of no use. My brain couldn't comprehend why this perfect creature was sucking my balls then attempting to DT, which after a few strokes I had to stop. She tried again and I had to ask for the cover. After a few minutes in missionary, I just couldn't hold it in anymore and finally released. I'm disappointed I didn't' get a chance to get her in doggie because that ass was awesome.
On the flip side, I'll say she wasn't very much into DFK. Certainly nowhere near what I experienced with Coco. But that didn't stop me from having a super memorable and enjoyable experience with a chick I could only dream about getting in real life.
I suppose next time my brain won't be as shocked seeing her and hopefully I'll last longer, or I'll have to do an hour and go for two.
Not paying is unlikely cause to turn down a guy based on race.
[QUOTE=OcAmper;6905619]I was in Believe one day, when they were open. Bunch of commotion going on, a black guy comes in and presumably wants a line up. Ends up leaving without getting service. The lady I was with, indicated she didn't like blacks because they didn't pay.
I'd guess, like almost everything else, it only takes a few bad apples to ruin something for all. In OC, blacks visiting parlors probably isn't a common occurrence at all. One black guy, being too rough, too aggressive or burning the ladies stays in their memories far too long.
Ladies definitely have their part in this, but I'd guess the bad apples also have a large part.[/QUOTE]In most of the parlors, including Right, they demand payment upfront. It is highly unlikely that they would turn down a new customer before asking him to pay if non-payment is a problem.
Nature / bait switch, what the f*
Bros, Don't go to nature / I called for Sommie / soda, they said she was working. While waiting for Soomie / Soda, I was watching the Monitor that they have in the room and SOME FOOL HOPPED THE COUNTER AND LURKS AROUND, AND HAS THE BALLS TO COME BACK IN AS A CUSTOMER, WTF!! I WANTED TO leave, but then money hungry MASSUES said" oh, wait, wait,. JUST WAIT. . OK, THEN waited and came in some fat chick, what a Joke that was, , no turn on at all,. Just went with the flow. No Soomie that I saw in the house. Fuck it, I'll go to Right Spa next time. Did i go to the correct place where Soomie was working???
Thank you for answering every question
[QUOTE=CarlosD3;6905945]Soomi would probably be the hottest chick at Right Spa by a half mile. But at least for me she barely kissed and did not show the incredible enthusiasm of the RS ladies, notably that she didn't suggest we get married or that she loved me. So service for me would go RS but Soomi is now in the top 5 hottest chicks I've ever boned lifetime.
So don't choose, just go for it. And I don't see why she wouldn't do an hour, just get there early or on a weekend when it's slower. She's here for 10 days she said.[/QUOTE]Appreciate your info.
You sold me LOL.
Reason why I was considering is because OC is a drive for me. I'd have to go out of my way. But if it's truly worth it, the adventure is worth it.
If I lived in OC, my financial situation would be a lot more volatile LOL you guys have it great over here. My dumbass is still in LA, maybe for the best LOL.
Advice to Newer African American Mongers
[QUOTE=Hellfyreclub901;6902707]So my other experiences of getting turned away haven't been at AMPs (I'm still new to this, going to Right Spa would've been just my 4th AMP visit ever). They've been with sex workers on the internet who say "No African Americans" after I say my race or sex workers on Beach who see me and immediately look away.[/QUOTE]Hey, usual lurker here because I don't usually have any seasoned input, but this is a topic I can definitely provide some help with as I happen to be black. So here is some advice from a new monger (I've only been to about 17 different places), to newer mongers or guys who want to try it out and are black but don't know how it will affect them.
While OC Amper is 100% right that a few bad apples can ruin it for everyone especially in OC considering we are about 2% of the resident population. While that MAY cause you to get turned down, there are lots of things you can do to prevent this and receive service whenever you go out. As someone who's never been turned down, with the worst I've gotten being initial refusal when I asked for "bang bang" and then eventual agreement after making it clear that is the only service I would pay for (this happened once), it is 90% presentation and 10% location selection.
-Try to get a shower in if you hadn't that morning or the night before.
-Wear something nice. Not saying it has to be formal, I always go in street clothes, but instead of the hoodie, sweats, and vans opt for say the Nike, Gymshark, or any other nice name brand, some jeans / pajama pants, and Air Forces.
-Brush your teeth or at least get some gum in (obviously).
-Don't act jittery or aggressive, just relax and everyone else will too.
-A smile never hurt.
-When it gets down to it do not be rough, unless they ask / want you to.
-Being chatty is always a plus with these ladies.
-Try to cover any large tattoos initially, once they have taken you in there is no chance they will turn you down after they begin and finally notice them.
-Try to avoid VERY popular places, as the more popular, the more likely they have had a bad apple before and that won't help your chances. Stick with low volume to only relatively popular places (on and off days).
This is a compilation of all the general bad things black friends of mine have done while being turned down, and general advice they have given me. I am 5'10, bulky, and have dreads so if these tips have worked so well for me, there is no reason they shouldn't work for you. When it comes to escorts and hookers that's a whole different ball game, I'd need another post for that.
Good luck.