First rule about the forum is, Do not tell providers about the forums
I made a post some time last week about a provider to see if I could get some info. Was suppose to have a meeting today but was not sure if she was legit so I passed. Got an email from her this morning telling me to take down my post on the other website because I could ruin her life. How she knows about this forum is beyond me unless one of the few people I was talking about her to told her. Now what kind of chimp is going to go run to these ladies and tell them about what we do here. You have to be completely stupid to let them in on this. What could you possibly gain from doing so? There is only one person I think it could be, I will gladly rat him out for the greater good if you guys want. Just let me know. Also I will delete my post about this lady but have no clue how, can anyone help?
Think before you get wound up
[QUOTE=TomDoe;1837828]I made a post some time last week about a provider to see if I could get some info. Was suppose to have a meeting today but was not sure if she was legit so I passed. Got an email from her this morning telling me to take down my post on the other website because I could ruin her life. How she knows about this forum is beyond me unless one of the few people I was talking about her to told her. Now what kind of chimp is going to go run to these ladies and tell them about what we do here. You have to be completely stupid to let them in on this. What could you possibly gain from doing so? There is only one person I think it could be, I will gladly rat him out for the greater good if you guys want. Just let me know. Also I will delete my post about this lady but have no clue how, can anyone help?[/QUOTE]Actually, a lot of providers know about this and most of the other 'hobby' sites. Odds are pretty good that if the provider you're talking about has been in the business for a while, she knows about this place. From there to picking up on details that could only relate to your encounter with her isn't going to require a Sherlock Holmes, so it's good odds no one's talked about you.
Provider Pre-Approval To Share Info.
[QUOTE=ChiHappiness;1838707]If a girl requests no reviews then I agree with you, but this forum would be less useful with only negative information. Of course you still need to be responsible but it's ludicrous expect to get preapproval to share.[/QUOTE]Well I plan on seeing my current Provider for quite a while. I am not going to mess this up. So she asks me not to share her info, then I'm not. No Exceptions.
Did you mention her name?
[QUOTE=TomDoe;1837828]I made a post some time last week about a provider to see if I could get some info. Was suppose to have a meeting today but was not sure if she was legit so I passed. Got an email from her this morning telling me to take down my post on the other website because I could ruin her life. How she knows about this forum is beyond me unless one of the few people I was talking about her to told her. Now what kind of chimp is going to go run to these ladies and tell them about what we do here. You have to be completely stupid to let them in on this. What could you possibly gain from doing so? There is only one person I think it could be, I will gladly rat him out for the greater good if you guys want. Just let me know. Also I will delete my post about this lady but have no clue how, can anyone help?[/QUOTE]Personally I think she is a little paranoid, if you didn't mention her name or a lot of information on the public board how can you ruin her life? Maybe is like you said somebody you gave her info to went and told her.