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Just read on the Foxy's fb page they are moving and only a few weeks left at the current location.
Just a reminder that this weekend is when the Duke porn star will be dancing at the nude club in Cary. I really wish I could go, especially if it would be possible to get a dance from her.
I have to agree with the general opinion that management and security there is the biggest bunch of douchebag asshole, just like everyone says. They are a bunch of gym rats who look down on the customers. The parking people and door people seem OK.
[QUOTE=Jquillin;2223325]Just a reminder that this weekend is when the Duke porn star will be dancing at the nude club in Cary. I really wish I could go, especially if it would be possible to get a dance from her.
I have to agree with the general opinion that management and security there is the biggest bunch of douchebag asshole, just like everyone says. They are a bunch of gym rats who look down on the customers. The parking people and door people seem OK.[/QUOTE]She will be giving dances. Well not giving but charging. LOL. I might go Saturday night.
[QUOTE=Jquillin;2223325]Just a reminder that this weekend is when the Duke porn star will be dancing at the nude club in Cary. I really wish I could go, especially if it would be possible to get a dance from her.
I have to agree with the general opinion that management and security there is the biggest bunch of douchebag asshole, just like everyone says. They are a bunch of gym rats who look down on the customers. The parking people and door people seem OK.[/QUOTE]I agree the management and bouncers are jerks! I use to visit every so often but I was treated so bad my last visit I decided to not visit again.
[QUOTE=Jquillin;2223325]Just a reminder that this weekend is when the Duke porn star will be dancing at the nude club in Cary. I really wish I could go, especially if it would be possible to get a dance from her.
I have to agree with the general opinion that management and security there is the biggest bunch of douchebag asshole, just like everyone says. They are a bunch of gym rats who look down on the customers. The parking people and door people seem OK.[/QUOTE]I went to PG on Friday night and was surprised it wasn't busier. I got charged. 25 at the door but I had a good time inside. The bouncers and management seemed cool to me. I asked one of the bouncers how I can get a lap dance from Belle and he told me he thinks she's charging $ for a dance. I gave him. 25 and told him to get her for me. He went to the back and got her and brought her to me along with her own bouncer. Her bouncer collected the money from me $ $ for 2 dances and then I went to the back room. Kind of steep but what the heck, she looked hot. She was kind of shy and looked a bit uncomfortable. I had a blast though because I kept reminding myself she's only 20 something years old.
[QUOTE=Dsrtp1;2226706]I went to PG on Friday night and was surprised it wasn't busier. I got charged. 25 at the door but I had a good time inside. The bouncers and management seemed cool to me. I asked one of the bouncers how I can get a lap dance from Belle and he told me he thinks she's charging $ for a dance. I gave him. 25 and told him to get her for me. He went to the back and got her and brought her to me along with her own bouncer. Her bouncer collected the money from me $ $ for 2 dances and then I went to the back room. Kind of steep but what the heck, she looked hot. She was kind of shy and looked a bit uncomfortable. I had a blast though because I kept reminding myself she's only 20 something years old.[/QUOTE]That sounds like the way to do it! And why didn't I think of that? The next time I see a porn star dance, I'm going to try tipping a bouncer to get her for me.
So, did she let your hands roam at all?
[QUOTE=Jquillin;2227584]That sounds like the way to do it! And why didn't I think of that? The next time I see a porn star dance, I'm going to try tipping a bouncer to get her for me.
So, did she let your hands roam at all?[/QUOTE]No hands roaming and I didn't try because her bouncer was standing close. Earlier in the evening when she was dancing on stage some guy tried moving his head a little too close to her ass while she dancing and her bouncer came over and yanked his head back by his shoulder and had one of the club bouncers throw him out of the club. So, when I saw that go down I was a very very good boy and made sure her bouncer saw my hands were no where near her.
[QUOTE=Dsrtp1;2226706]I went to PG on Friday night and was surprised it wasn't busier. I got charged. 25 at the door but I had a good time inside. The bouncers and management seemed cool to me. I asked one of the bouncers how I can get a lap dance from Belle and he told me he thinks she's charging $ for a dance. I gave him. 25 and told him to get her for me. He went to the back and got her and brought her to me along with her own bouncer. Her bouncer collected the money from me $ $ for 2 dances and then I went to the back room. Kind of steep but what the heck, she looked hot. She was kind of shy and looked a bit uncomfortable. I had a blast though because I kept reminding myself she's only 20 something years old.[/QUOTE]$200 for two dances. Fuck that, she isn't nearly good enough looking enough to justify that in my opinion.
[QUOTE=Dsrtp1;2227764]No hands roaming and I didn't try because her bouncer was standing close. Earlier in the evening when she was dancing on stage some guy tried moving his head a little too close to her ass while she dancing and her bouncer came over and yanked his head back by his shoulder and had one of the club bouncers throw him out of the club. So, when I saw that go down I was a very very good boy and made sure her bouncer saw my hands were no where near her.[/QUOTE]How close was he? That club really does treat the customer as the enemy. It seems like they could have handled that a little more gently. But she is a celebrity, so I guess there is some justification.
200 for two dances? Thats a lot of money. She's hot but for 200 big ones the songs would have to be really really lonooonnngggg.
I'd like to take a lady friend of mine to a club Sunday night, but, due to allergies, it needs to be smoke free, or at least have a significant nonsmoking section. My first choice is The Men's Club. I sent an email to them asking, but haven't heard back. Are any of the Raleigh area clubs smoke free?
[QUOTE=Jquillin;2228042]How close was he? That club really does treat the customer as the enemy. It seems like they could have handled that a little more gently. But she is a celebrity, so I guess there is some justification.[/QUOTE]He was obviously very drunk and his head was getting close enough to sniff her sweaty snatch, for sure. Believe me, it was justified. I could see it developing from 15-20 feet away. It was like the guy was moving in slow motion because his reflexes were delayed from being so drunk.
[QUOTE=HeyGuys2006;2228348]200 for two dances? Thats a lot of money. She's hot but for 200 big ones the songs would have to be really really lonooonnngggg.[/QUOTE]Personally I wouldn't pay that especially for a no touching dance. Then again if you have the money and a fan of her it might be worth it.
[QUOTE=Jquillin;2228042]How close was he? That club really does treat the customer as the enemy. It seems like they could have handled that a little more gently. But she is a celebrity, so I guess there is some justification.[/QUOTE]Pure Gold's customer service is worse then either CC or TMC and that's saying something. I had a bad experience earlier this year and haven't been back. As for the situation with Belle Knox not being there it's tough to say if it was justified or not. I'm also wondering how close was he.
[QUOTE=Dsrtp1;2228540]He was obviously very drunk and his head was getting close enough to sniff her sweaty snatch, for sure. Believe me, it was justified. I could see it developing from 15-20 feet away. It was like the guy was moving in slow motion because his reflexes were delayed from being so drunk.[/QUOTE]Thanks for answering.
And just how sweaty was it?
It may have been justified, but what worries me about Pure Gold is that I like to see what I can get away with at strip clubs a little and with a willing dancer. I don't want to get hurt, though. I wouldn't do anything crazy like the drunk guy, but with a normal dancer I might try for fiv in a private dance. But the atmosphere there is very unpleasant to me. I have no problem of course with a dancer saying no to extra stuff, and I don't have a problem with management monitoring what goes on. I think it is better for clubs to make the dancer get in trouble for allowing too much.
[QUOTE=RtpExplorer;2228393]I'd like to take a lady friend of mine to a club Sunday night, but, due to allergies, it needs to be smoke free, or at least have a significant nonsmoking section. My first choice is The Men's Club. I sent an email to them asking, but haven't heard back. Are any of the Raleigh area clubs smoke free?[/QUOTE]Pretty much all clubs are nonsmoking since NC made that the law a few years ago. TMC is nonsmoking but the smoking area is right at the front. The only local strip club I know of that's allows smoking is the Foxy Lady since it's considered a cigar bar.
I used to work as a bouncer at several clubs in Raleigh, including Thee Dollhouse (now the Men's Club) back in the 90's when I was bodybuilding and quite a bit bigger than I am these days. 95% of the bouncers were steroid-fueled meathead gym rats that were just looking for a reason to bust someone up. I did it for the extra money. And the pussy. LOTS of pussy. I did not like the whole atmosphere and as soon as I matured a bit more I was out!
[QUOTE=Dsrtp1;2226706]I went to PG on Friday night and was surprised it wasn't busier. I got charged. 25 at the door but I had a good time inside. The bouncers and management seemed cool to me. I asked one of the bouncers how I can get a lap dance from Belle and he told me he thinks she's charging $ for a dance. I gave him. 25 and told him to get her for me. He went to the back and got her and brought her to me along with her own bouncer. Her bouncer collected the money from me $ $ for 2 dances and then I went to the back room. Kind of steep but what the heck, she looked hot. She was kind of shy and looked a bit uncomfortable. I had a blast though because I kept reminding myself she's only 20 something years old.[/QUOTE]Wow! You are rich sir. If I am spending 200 I am having sex.
They posted today one more week in current location and they would announce this week the new location. Then again they said the same thing last week so we shall see.
[QUOTE=SportsFan;2233381]They posted today one more week in current location and they would announce this week the new location. Then again they said the same thing last week so we shall see.[/QUOTE]Now closed still no official word on the new location. Rumor is it will be on Hwy 70.
Guess the club is desperate as employees of the club are posting google reviews saying how great the club is. Guess they aren't that bright as they used real names. Seen several former PG dances at TMC and CC. They all said money is way down at PG. Looks like the nude thing helped for a while but now people have learned the club just isn't that good.
[QUOTE=SportsFan;2244407]Guess the club is desperate as employees of the club are posting google reviews saying how great the club is. Guess they aren't that bright as they used real names. Seen several former PG dances at TMC and CC. They all said money is way down at PG. Looks like the nude thing helped for a while but now people have learned the club just isn't that good.[/QUOTE]One thing I have learned from going to strip clubs. If it has a Pure Gold sign in front, it's a waste of time!!
[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2244579]One thing I have learned from going to strip clubs. If it has a Pure Gold sign in front, it's a waste of time!![/QUOTE]I really don't understand why topless clubs do better than byob nude clubs. I'm speaking in general, not about PG.
Back 25 years ago before the bald Beaver was so common, at some nude clubs like Cheetahs in Atlanta you couldn't see anything but Bush and girls were often forbidden from spreading their legs. Back in those days there wasn't much difference between topless or nude. But now, it's like a peepshow onstage.
I wish PG was better, but even with rude bouncers at least you can sit at the stage and watch snatch and see buttholes.
Any nude club recommendations? I miss Sugar Bears in Greensboro. You could do anything there.
[QUOTE=Jquillin;2244701]I really don't understand why topless clubs do better than byob nude clubs. I'm speaking in general, not about PG.
Back 25 years ago before the bald Beaver was so common, at some nude clubs like Cheetahs in Atlanta you couldn't see anything but Bush and girls were often forbidden from spreading their legs. Back in those days there wasn't much difference between topless or nude. But now, it's like a peepshow onstage.
I wish PG was better, but even with rude bouncers at least you can sit at the stage and watch snatch and see buttholes.
Any nude club recommendations? I miss Sugar Bears in Greensboro. You could do anything there.[/QUOTE]Back 10-15 years ago I use to like Southside Johnny's in Greensboro. Haven't been in years as my last visit sucked and the reviews haven't been good. As for PG shame the bouncers are such assholes because if they weren't I would visit some. I just don't feel like paying over $20 to just get in and then be treated like shit.
OK, gentlemen, I am curious who has actually had luck getting "take out" from a strip club. The closest that I have yet to get was a while back at Capital Cabaret. I and a group of friends went one night and I was completely fixated on one particular girl from whom I had a few tableside dances and finally a private room dance. Once in the private room, she suggested that she might be talked into doing much more, and so I asked her to name what she wanted. It was extraordinarily high, but at the time, I was completely willing and able to make it happen. She gave me her phone number and said to call her tomorrow, and so I did. But never heard back. Ha. Joke's on me, I suppose. But on the bright side, she certainly allowed a LOT more in the private room than I'd have ever guessed possible. No idea what happened to her, but this was well over a year ago. Anybody had actual success and would be willing to share your secret?
[QUOTE=PlanetSide;2246184]OK, gentlemen, I am curious who has actually had luck getting "take out" from a strip club. The closest that I have yet to get was a while back at Capital Cabaret. I and a group of friends went one night and I was completely fixated on one particular girl from whom I had a few tableside dances and finally a private room dance. Once in the private room, she suggested that she might be talked into doing much more, and so I asked her to name what she wanted. It was extraordinarily high, but at the time, I was completely willing and able to make it happen. She gave me her phone number and said to call her tomorrow, and so I did. But never heard back. Ha. Joke's on me, I suppose. But on the bright side, she certainly allowed a LOT more in the private room than I'd have ever guessed possible. No idea what happened to her, but this was well over a year ago. Anybody had actual success and would be willing to share your secret?[/QUOTE]In the past. About 5 years ago it was fairly easy at Thee Dollhouse. The day shift was the time to go. First there was a very hot dancer named after a fruit. She was young, 20 or so and was my go to dancer. One day she offered a BJ for $100 after work. Went to a near by lot and got a great bbbjtcws. It progressed over a few years to sex in the club upstairs, her house, my house etc. For 100 to 200 for full bb included. After she got knocked up continued on there by seeing a well known provider who I met when she first started escorting. Then after adding bolt ons she went to work at Thee Dollhouse briefly then worked for a service who's owner passed away. On a date we went to the club and ended up bringing her friend to our room which lasted all night. Then there was a blond older MILF. Absolute perfect body, fake boobs, a 40 something hardbody. Face should wear and tear but k9 who cares. Bb, cip, at her place in North Hills apartment cheap, $100. Then when bringing dates we would choose a dancer go upstairs to the private room with a balcony looking over the club your private server for drinks, tip Nick the bouncer and one hour of pure bliss. $300. Coming later Pure Gold Cary day shift.
[QUOTE=SportsFan;2246095]Back 10-15 years ago I use to like Southside Johnny's in Greensboro. Haven't been in years as my last visit sucked and the reviews haven't been good. As for PG shame the bouncers are such assholes because if they weren't I would visit some. I just don't feel like paying over $20 to just get in and then be treated like shit.[/QUOTE]That's the thing though. I can't stand going to any strip clubs in America. After going to a certain land of smiles, I am way to accustomed to strip clubs where the men are treated with a decent amount of respect. Like some kind of patron or client, imagine that! In lieu of an armed thug or desperate idiot with $300 to throw away for an air dance like it has become in America. I am used to clubs where you can merely look at a girl, thus bringing her over, and you would pay $60-$100 to take her back to your hotel for hours. That's clearly not something that exists in the states. Anyway, I have a hard time going to a strip clubs even in a prominent city like San Francisco now, where extras are common. It's so strange to me, to be treated like shit, and then expected to pay $100+ on the ladies merely to be "respected".
Anyway, to your point about GC in Raleigh. Haven't been, but I can totally believe what you're saying with regards to the bouncers and the overall vibe there. I think I actually want to go, just to contrast the two and realize how fortunate I am? Although with stories where guys in America are shoved into the bathroom and beaten by moron bouncers, I'm probably just not going to go. For reference: [URL]http://www.wcreplays.com/forums/showthread.php?t=133843&pagenumber=&133843-Platinum-Premier-Strip-Club-bouncer-beat-up-guy-gets-posted-on-youtube=[/URL].
[QUOTE=PlanetSide;2246184]OK, gentlemen, I am curious who has actually had luck getting "take out" from a strip club. The closest that I have yet to get was a while back at Capital Cabaret. I and a group of friends went one night and I was completely fixated on one particular girl from whom I had a few tableside dances and finally a private room dance. Once in the private room, she suggested that she might be talked into doing much more, and so I asked her to name what she wanted. It was extraordinarily high, but at the time, I was completely willing and able to make it happen. She gave me her phone number and said to call her tomorrow, and so I did. But never heard back. Ha. Joke's on me, I suppose. But on the bright side, she certainly allowed a LOT more in the private room than I'd have ever guessed possible. No idea what happened to her, but this was well over a year ago. Anybody had actual success and would be willing to share your secret?[/QUOTE]For one reason or another banging a stripper seems to be the holy grail for some guys. With the rise of backpage most strippers are overpriced and not worth it. I've got some free time so I'll break down some info on what's worked for me and other guys I know.
How to Fail the Fastest:
1. Tip too much. It probably feels good to make it rain, but strippers who go home with guys who make it rain usually don't do so until the guy has come in several times. Feel free to tip, but do it in moderation and make sure it looks like you're having fun and not being some ostentatious ahole.
2. Buying too many dances. The VIP room is expensive and unless you know she's going to break some rules up there you're in for a lot of sexual frustration. I know they're there to make money so I usually buy the bartender a table dance or two or I pay two girls to give each other a table dance. That way you are spending some money but allowing them to have fun and put on a show for you.
3. Wasting money buying several drinks for a stripper and her friends. A couple of drinks are fine but don't buy any shots.
4. Dressing the wrong way. Leave the suit at home. 99% of the time a suit is overkill and 90% of men wear ill-fitting suits anyway. You can look just as sharp and more relaxed in slacks and a shirt. Leave the athletic wear at home. I've yet to meet a stripper who wants to dance with the guy in sweat pants.
5. Focus on the wrong strippers. There are some that won't go home with you no matter what so use your best judgement about who to spend time with.
6. Sit near the stage. Don't sit near the stage unless you're tipping.
7. Being too needy. The right ones will come to you eventually.
How to succeed:
1. Maintain a sense of control. You're competing with other guys for her time, attention and everything else. Most of them are going to compete with dollars in their hand so give her what they can't, a bit of personality and something to chase.
2. Dress the part. You want to look like you're employed and have your stuff together, but at the same time like you're relaxed. I recommend jeans / slacks, a nice shirt and some decent shoes (no tennis shoes or flip flops).
3. Show a little money. Again this comes down to control. Tip, but don't over tip; buy dances, but not from everyone. Remember, showing that you have money doesn't mean being the guy who tosses money on stage or who walks around all night with the same stack on singles.
4. Make them entertain you. Tell some jokes and whatnot.
5. Let her open up to you but don't be her shoulder to cry on or girlfriend. Most guys try to "save" strippers or want to know their personal details. She'll tell you if she wants if not just have fun even if you have to pretend that her mom named her Karisma with a 'K'.
6. Be direct when it's time. If you're there for p4 p then just make an offer. Even if she gets offended most have heard it before and will take it in stride.
7. Know where you are. Research the club as best you can so that you have realistic expectations walking in.
8. Pay attention to everyone, especially the customers coming back from the VIP. You can usually see in a guys face how far he got.
If you're there looking for takeout then be bold enough to ask. She's going to do it or she's not, just be tactful. I've found that asking a stripper if she does private parties usually goes over better than offering money for sex or asking if she wants to make some money out of the club. In a lot of cases the biggest key is timing and you being bold but tactful in the way you ask.
[QUOTE=JoeLooking;2267334]For one reason or another banging a stripper seems to be the holy grail for some guys. With the rise of backpage most strippers are overpriced and not worth it. I've got some free time so I'll break down some info on what's worked for me and other guys I know.
How to Fail the Fastest:
1. Tip too much. It probably feels good to make it rain, but strippers who go home with guys who make it rain usually don't do so until the guy has come in several times. Feel free to tip, but do it in moderation and make sure it looks like you're having fun and not being some ostentatious ahole.
2. Buying too many dances. The VIP room is expensive and unless you know she's going to break some rules up there you're in for a lot of sexual frustration. I know they're there to make money so I usually buy the bartender a table dance or two or I pay two girls to give each other a table dance. That way you are spending some money but allowing them to have fun and put on a show for you.
3. Wasting money buying several drinks for a stripper and her friends. A couple of drinks are fine but don't buy any shots.
4. Dressing the wrong way. Leave the suit at home. 99% of the time a suit is overkill and 90% of men wear ill-fitting suits anyway. You can look just as sharp and more relaxed in slacks and a shirt. Leave the athletic wear at home. I've yet to meet a stripper who wants to dance with the guy in sweat pants.
5. Focus on the wrong strippers. There are some that won't go home with you no matter what so use your best judgement about who to spend time with.
6. Sit near the stage. Don't sit near the stage unless you're tipping.
7. Being too needy. The right ones will come to you eventually.
How to succeed:
1. Maintain a sense of control. You're competing with other guys for her time, attention and everything else. Most of them are going to compete with dollars in their hand so give her what they can't, a bit of personality and something to chase.
2. Dress the part. You want to look like you're employed and have your stuff together, but at the same time like you're relaxed. I recommend jeans / slacks, a nice shirt and some decent shoes (no tennis shoes or flip flops).
3. Show a little money. Again this comes down to control. Tip, but don't over tip; buy dances, but not from everyone. Remember, showing that you have money doesn't mean being the guy who tosses money on stage or who walks around all night with the same stack on singles.
4. Make them entertain you. Tell some jokes and whatnot.
5. Let her open up to you but don't be her shoulder to cry on or girlfriend. Most guys try to "save" strippers or want to know their personal details. She'll tell you if she wants if not just have fun even if you have to pretend that her mom named her Karisma with a 'K'.
6. Be direct when it's time. If you're there for p4 p then just make an offer. Even if she gets offended most have heard it before and will take it in stride.
7. Know where you are. Research the club as best you can so that you have realistic expectations walking in.
8. Pay attention to everyone, especially the customers coming back from the VIP. You can usually see in a guys face how far he got.
If you're there looking for takeout then be bold enough to ask. She's going to do it or she's not, just be tactful. I've found that asking a stripper if she does private parties usually goes over better than offering money for sex or asking if she wants to make some money out of the club. In a lot of cases the biggest key is timing and you being bold but tactful in the way you ask.[/QUOTE]Okay, I'll share my secret with you guys. If you go to the Gentleman's Club off Yonkers and wait until 2 am when they have last call on alcohol. Bouncers will come around and ask you if you want to buy a wristband for $10 which allows you entry into a different part of the club between 2 am and 5 am. The only thing is it's a private after club hours and they're not allowed to serve alcohol. They serve non alcoholic drinks like O'douls. Anyhow, this is when you can find yourself a hottie that didn't make enough money or wants to make a little extra. You take her upstairs to the VIP room where you get charged $40 a dance. The last time I was there I had this gorgeous little african american spinner and I can't for the life of me remember her name. I'm usually pretty good about names but maybe the excessive alcohol I consumed and the fact that I had just met her and only spoke to her for about 2 minutes before we went upstairs has something to do with it. Anyway, during the first song as she got close to me I tried to kiss her and she dfk and lfk back with no hesitation. By the second song she was moving her panties over so I can get a close look at her kitty and that's when I started to daty and she was very responsive. By the third song, I take my dick out and she starts grinding it and I asked her if we were safe. She told me she took care of the bouncer and no one would be bothering us. BBBJ followed by BBFS followed by BBBJCIM. Now I will admit it was 11 songs later ($440 a little excessive) but I had the time of my life. I spent a lot more than I would have with any escort but the thrill of busting 2 nuts with a stripper inside the club, I can't explain the rush. Just be careful and don't fuck it up for the rest of the girls if your particular girl isn't down. Other tactics that have worked for me is I follow joe's advice and just ask them straight out if they want to leave and give me private shows where they can keep all the money instead of sharing with the house. I've been told no by more girls than I can remember but I've gotten lucky on many occasions too.
Has anyone been to CC (Capital Cabaret) recently? I am asking because the last few times I went, it was emptier than a library in there.
Been mostly dead everytime I have gone. Of course, I don't go at peak hours for a reason. More of an off-peak guy. But that does not work at CC.
[QUOTE=Timmy55;2268266]Has anyone been to CC (Capital Cabaret) recently? I am asking because the last few times I went, it was emptier than a library in there.[/QUOTE]
This guy nailed it with the tips. If you are going to pay, then you do have to be bold. However, some strippers are normal gals, and some do indeed get a bit lonely, etc. I have ended up dating two strippers that I met while they were working. They were great gals, not sluts. Some gals will P4 P. Sometimes, if you are interested in a stripper and they are interested in you, things can happen outside the club. But they also know when a guy is full of crap because they make their living reading men.
Just remember, its common for a stripper to promise the moon and the stars if you spend enough in the VIP. But normally your rocket aint going anywhere into space!
[QUOTE=JoeLooking;2267334]For one reason or another banging a stripper seems to be the holy grail for some guys. With the rise of backpage most strippers are overpriced and not worth it. I've got some free time so I'll break down some info on what's worked for me and other guys I know.
How to Fail the Fastest:
1. Tip too much. It probably feels good to make it rain, but strippers who go home with guys who make it rain usually don't do so until the guy has come in several times. Feel free to tip, but do it in moderation and make sure it looks like you're having fun and not being some ostentatious ahole.
2. Buying too many dances. The VIP room is expensive and unless you know she's going to break some rules up there you're in for a lot of sexual frustration. I know they're there to make money so I usually buy the bartender a table dance or two or I pay two girls to give each other a table dance. That way you are spending some money but allowing them to have fun and put on a show for you.
3. Wasting money buying several drinks for a stripper and her friends. A couple of drinks are fine but don't buy any shots.
4. Dressing the wrong way. Leave the suit at home. 99% of the time a suit is overkill and 90% of men wear ill-fitting suits anyway. You can look just as sharp and more relaxed in slacks and a shirt. Leave the athletic wear at home. I've yet to meet a stripper who wants to dance with the guy in sweat pants.
5. Focus on the wrong strippers. There are some that won't go home with you no matter what so use your best judgement about who to spend time with.
6. Sit near the stage. Don't sit near the stage unless you're tipping.
7. Being too needy. The right ones will come to you eventually.
How to succeed:
1. Maintain a sense of control. You're competing with other guys for her time, attention and everything else. Most of them are going to compete with dollars in their hand so give her what they can't, a bit of personality and something to chase.
2. Dress the part. You want to look like you're employed and have your stuff together, but at the same time like you're relaxed. I recommend jeans / slacks, a nice shirt and some decent shoes (no tennis shoes or flip flops).
3. Show a little money. Again this comes down to control. Tip, but don't over tip; buy dances, but not from everyone. Remember, showing that you have money doesn't mean being the guy who tosses money on stage or who walks around all night with the same stack on singles.
4. Make them entertain you. Tell some jokes and whatnot.
5. Let her open up to you but don't be her shoulder to cry on or girlfriend. Most guys try to "save" strippers or want to know their personal details. She'll tell you if she wants if not just have fun even if you have to pretend that her mom named her Karisma with a 'K'.
6. Be direct when it's time. If you're there for p4 p then just make an offer. Even if she gets offended most have heard it before and will take it in stride.
7. Know where you are. Research the club as best you can so that you have realistic expectations walking in.
8. Pay attention to everyone, especially the customers coming back from the VIP. You can usually see in a guys face how far he got.
If you're there looking for takeout then be bold enough to ask. She's going to do it or she's not, just be tactful. I've found that asking a stripper if she does private parties usually goes over better than offering money for sex or asking if she wants to make some money out of the club. In a lot of cases the biggest key is timing and you being bold but tactful in the way you ask.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Utalkentome;2268342]Been mostly dead everytime I have gone. Of course, I don't go at peak hours for a reason. More of an off-peak guy. But that does not work at CC.[/QUOTE]Last time I went about 6 weeks ago it was dead when I arrived at 8 PM but was busy around 10 PM. Now it was a Friday night so you have to factor that in.
Well they finally announced the new location which will be 8609 Jersey Court. Looking at google map that's just off Hwy 70/ Glenwood Ave and near Fred Anderson Toyota. They say it will be about 3 weeks before they open. Never went to the old location since most of the reviews weren't that good.
Straight to the point: I like to touch and suck on nipples and can't stand when I get a dancer who is no-touch. When the Gentleman's Club was the Dollhouse (back when I lived in Raleigh in the 90's) I never found this possible. I know things have changed there but how much? I was also not a big spender in those days but now that I'm older and have more money, maybe more is on the table at this club.
Or is there a better club with attractive girls in the area to achieve this? Thanks.
[QUOTE=Jsc629;2268711]Straight to the point: I like to touch and suck on nipples and can't stand when I get a dancer who is no-touch. When the Gentleman's Club was the Dollhouse (back when I lived in Raleigh in the 90's) I never found this possible. I know things have changed there but how much? I was also not a big spender in those days but now that I'm older and have more money, maybe more is on the table at this club.
Or is there a better club with attractive girls in the area to achieve this? Thanks.[/QUOTE]Things started to change in the early 2000's when they started the private dance room. Pretty much all the girls allow boob touching and titty sucking varies but I had several that allowed that. I would say TMC is your best bet you might have similar success at Capital Cabaret but the dances in my opinion aren't as good on average. That being said it can happened also at CC but I've had girls move my hands more often at CC then TMC.
[QUOTE=Utalkentome;2268351]This guy nailed it with the tips. If you are going to pay, then you do have to be bold. However, some strippers are normal gals, and some do indeed get a bit lonely, etc. I have ended up dating two strippers that I met while they were working. They were great gals, not sluts. Some gals will P4 P. Sometimes, if you are interested in a stripper and they are interested in you, things can happen outside the club. But they also know when a guy is full of crap because they make their living reading men.
Just remember, its common for a stripper to promise the moon and the stars if you spend enough in the VIP. But normally your rocket aint going anywhere into space![/QUOTE]I used to ask about private shows as a way to find out if a stripper offers takeout. Somewhere along the line I changed to just asking, "Can I have your number?" It seems to work pretty well.
Thanks for the guidelines. I very been doing some things wrong and it seems obvious in retrospect.
Finally made my first visit to Pure Gold since it became nude last night. I received a text saying no cover before 10 PM so I was why not. Parked at the train station and walked over. Since I'm not a big drinker I skipped getting beer next door and after the wanding out front went in. Since my membership was expired I thought I might have to pay $5 to renew it but that wasn't the case as I went on in. Club was busy since it was the 21st Anniversary Party and the had a feature Angela Sommers performing. I say about 20 to 25 girls dancing ranging for 9 (Reese) few 8's 7's to a few 4's. Only a few girls didn't get nude on stage as I was told girls that danced before club became nude had the option to only go topless. The bad thing about when they are nude no contact at all on stage which is a bummer. I was tipping Reese on stage and she had her hands on my shoulders and the bouncer told her no contact when nude. I didn't get any private dances since I figured they wouldn't be that good. Did see some table dances that looked good and asked one girl on stage to come over after her set but instead she sat with somebody else. The porn star feature was pretty good and she put on a good show. Not a bad night but I'm more on a touching two way contact guy which you have a better chance of at TMC.
From now until Dec 22nd The Men's Club is offering free admission when you bring in a new unwrapped toy for The Toy to Tots program. I for one would much rather help a kid for Christmas then give my cover to the club.
[QUOTE=SportsFan;2278900]Finally made my first visit to Pure Gold since it became nude last night. I received a text saying no cover before 10 PM so I was why not. Parked at the train station and walked over. Since I'm not a big drinker I skipped getting beer next door and after the wanding out front went in. Since my membership was expired I thought I might have to pay $5 to renew it but that wasn't the case as I went on in. Club was busy since it was the 21st Anniversary Party and the had a feature Angela Sommers performing. I say about 20 to 25 girls dancing ranging for 9 (Reese) few 8's 7's to a few 4's. Only a few girls didn't get nude on stage as I was told girls that danced before club became nude had the option to only go topless. The bad thing about when they are nude no contact at all on stage which is a bummer. I was tipping Reese on stage and she had her hands on my shoulders and the bouncer told her no contact when nude. I didn't get any private dances since I figured they wouldn't be that good. Did see some table dances that looked good and asked one girl on stage to come over after her set but instead she sat with somebody else. The porn star feature was pretty good and she put on a good show. Not a bad night but I'm more on a touching two way contact guy which you have a better chance of at TMC.[/QUOTE]Pure Gold in Cary is a total waste of time.