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Gentlemen,
I've been asked to dial it back so I will. Here are the points:
Treat people with respect. They deserve it until they give you a good reason not to.
A good reason is defined individually, but in my opinion in the hobby it is not because communication wasn't perfect. Mongers really should have some perspective. You're messaging one, two maybe 5 ladies because you're hard up, while they're getting at least 10 times that and often see major spikes in times of the day when it goes from zero to sixty in terms of messages coming in. Imagine you have five lines at work and all five light up. If you have caller I'd on each, you sure as hell answer your bosses call first.
Respectful communications sets the table with a provider. It does stand out because a LOT of what they get is from disrespectful guys. So you're going to stand out right away. Then keep it up and she's going to WANT to see you. And if she likes the way you communicate, you are more likely to get a more engaged session, and I don't know about you but that's a lot better than her answering texts while you're pounding away because she's just hoping you get done and leave soon.
There's a difference between good providers and bad ones. It's not determined by communications, although good ones generally are good communicators with those that have earned their respect. The bad ones. If you're trolling this area, you're going to have as many or more bad experiences than good. And the good won't be as good as the top providers. So choose whether you want good to begin with or if you're just looking for a bargain on paper. Oh, and then support the hell out of the good ones.
To clarify below. Most providers are not as giving as Natalie says. That is unique. So don't assume that treating people well will get you freebies and stuff. The benefit is in the connection, the session, and if you are a good time they'll put your name and number in their phone so that when they see your next call they answer it immediately.
Believe it or not, providers like good sex. They tolerate mediocre or bad sex because it is how they make some money, that part is true. But they'd much rather have you be friggin awesome because no one hates an orgasm or three. It starts with how you talk to them.
This whole thing is directed at the guys that haven't figured this stuff out. This discussion is happening on the Nashville board, but it could and should occur everywhere. There are plenty of jerks in Indianapolis. It's easy to see some of the guys that do get it, so guys like Jeepster, MrC, CanDo. They can confirm for you the things I'm saying. So I apologize if you believe I'm branding all of Nashville with a broad brush. I'm not, this merely came to a head here.
Lastly, this is just my personal opinion, reviews should be about performance. I don't expect everyone to have even-keeled perspective, but it's what is most fair to a working lady. A lot of ladies are actually very good providers but get branded because of these communication things. I had a couple communication snafu's with a couple of the top rated ladies in BNA, but I didn't let that stop me because I'd read all the good reviews telling me that it would be rewarding in the end. Sure, it'd be great if everything were perfect, but I've been hung up on by providers and multinational company support departments. How they handle their actual work is the most important part.
Again, thank you Nashville for an unforgettable visit. Beautiful city, tons of fun and tons of cranes so it's only going to get bigger and better.
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[QUOTE=Hl123;2838473]It always amazes me when some guy thinks he is so special to a provider, that he is somehow her favorite, and he feels a need to defend her. MWDUDE, you're just a Dick with a Dollar to Her. MrMrGigz was stating his opinion, which is why USASG is here. Calling him a Douche is way out of line.[/QUOTE]I agree with that. I would be more impress if he did not spend a dime for anything at all. In the end you pay for pussy one way or another. I had my share of providers who call me wanting to just hang out but yu kno what? I still pay for something, food, take her shopping whatever cause I don't feel right not giving back in return. I once spent thousands on a provider I was friends with and a lot of times she didn't have to do anything. Yea she cooked for me and spent night with me many times. So all this stuff about respect and what it gets yu is nothing new to me. Maybe others can take a hint from that but nothing new to me. But if one were so special not cause of money then aprovider would only see them and no one else. It is special when one canconnect with a provider like that but just kno to keep some distance cause eventually she moves on and you only a memory.
By the way I never sent Natalie any disrespectful texts I been doing this to long to kno what works. And all I did was post facts nothing else. In the end she didn't respond to many cause poor planning not cause they sent disrespectful messages but I'm sure some did. Would of been better to had posted sayin she only going to see a few people cause that's what it sound like happened. I'm out!
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[QUOTE=MrMrBigz;2840828]I agree with that. I would be more impress if he did not spend a dime for anything at all. In the end you pay for pussy one way or another. I had my share of providers who call me wanting to just hang out but yu kno what? I still pay for something, food, take her shopping whatever cause I don't feel right not giving back in return. I once spent thousands on a provider I was friends with and a lot of times she didn't have to do anything. Yea she cooked for me and spent night with me many times. So all this stuff about respect and what it gets yu is nothing new to me. Maybe others can take a hint from that but nothing new to me. But if one were so special not cause of money then aprovider would only see them and no one else. It is special when one canconnect with a provider like that but just kno to keep some distance cause eventually she moves on and you only a memory.
By the way I never sent Natalie any disrespectful texts I been doing this to long to kno what works. And all I did was post facts nothing else. In the end she didn't respond to many cause poor planning not cause they sent disrespectful messages but I'm sure some did. Would of been better to had posted sayin she only going to see a few people cause that's what it sound like happened. I'm out![/QUOTE]Dude, you posted a "review" that consisted of calling her a low quality provider that would no show you anyways, all because you didn't get a reply text. That's shitty, in my opinion. If you had actually been no showed after signification conversation and setting all the details, I could see it. But you publicly harmed her reputation based on not having your two texts replied to on your schedule. That's the height of narcissism. Look it up.
I'm all for posting reviews about performance, since that what your money is going towards. But you're not making friends or helping anyone by ripping busy providers for not being at your beck and call.
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Dragging us down
[QUOTE=Mwdude;2841105]Dude, you posted a "review" that consisted of calling her a low quality provider that would no show you anyways, all because you didn't get a reply text. That's shitty, in my opinion. If you had actually been no showed after signification conversation and setting all the details, I could see it. But you publicly harmed her reputation based on not having your two texts replied to on your schedule. That's the height of narcissism. Look it up.
I'm all for posting reviews about performance, since that what your money is going towards. But you're not making friends or helping anyone by ripping busy providers for not being at your beck and call.[/QUOTE]I have spoken with more than one provider who will no longer respond to potential clients that are members of this board. Mostly because it has become common practice to bash providers for any perceived slight. Add to that the fact that about 75% of the new posts really provide no useful information (they either agree / disagree with some one else's post, or are of the generic "Does anyone have any info about so and so?" variety, and no doubt about it, we are going downhill fast.
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Concur
[QUOTE=Jeepster1;2828118]BP is the wrong place to look if you're a beginner. Plenty of review sites out there, including this one of course.
The SAFE way to begin is find a review you like, then determine if the menu and visuals match your preferences.
Nashville BP is NOT a place to try out your training wheels.
We've all fallen in lust with a pretty picture, but the fake / scam / robber content on BP has steadily increased. Throw in LEO and you have a risk / benefit ratio that's out of kilter.
This is not meant as a slam to legit, reviewed ladies who use BP as one of several ad venues. Many of those reference their review histories and don't play hide-and-seek with their phone numbers and other specifics.
-Jeepster1.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DawgPoundhound;2828211]Yep BP is no place to play.[/QUOTE]I would like to state unequivocally that I concur with DP's concurrance relating to Jeep's recent comments.
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Correction
[QUOTE=Mwdude;2841105]Dude, you posted a "review" that consisted of calling her a low quality provider that would no show you anyways, all because you didn't get a reply text. That's shitty, in my opinion. If you had actually been no showed after signification conversation and setting all the details, I could see it. But you publicly harmed her reputation based on not having your two texts replied to on your schedule. That's the height of narcissism. Look it up.
I'm all for posting reviews about performance, since that what your money is going towards. But you're not making friends or helping anyone by ripping busy providers for not being at your beck and call.[/QUOTE]"So as mentioned here by Mr Crazy she can't keep schedule and want to argue about it? I contact her two diferent times tryin to setup date but no reply. That don't sound to me like a top notch provider. What? I have to wait and maybe get a reply and if I'm lucky enough to get a date most likely she may not show or have to reschedule. Sounds to me just like a lot of lower quality providers. A simple hello or not available would be nice. ".
I never call her "low quality" nor did say she would do no show. I posted in exact words part of the post above. If I known my words would be taken wrong by a white knight I would of spelled it out. Basically I said her actions or lack of was more like a low quality provider never said she was. My expectations were too high maybe and there was reason for that. Hope don't have to explain what I meant by no show part. Some sarcasm used there. Others including yu Dude said she still learning 'nuances of communication' and scheduling. Like I said before all I did was tell facts nothing more nothing less. And no it was not a review do I need to explain what a review is? Funny how dudes get bent out of shape but had it been a different provider or less known one no one would give a rats ass. If anything they would probably thank me for info. Im sure we can agree that things could had gone better and if we could have do over we would. Same for me. That's my final say on that.
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Brand New Member?
Juat noticed this was your very first post.
[QUOTE=EddyJones985;2844021]I just had a wonderful visit with Skylar, guy's if you get a chance to see her you'd be crazy to pass her up she's absolutely gorgeous with a body that defies the imagination, this is the fourth time I've seen Skylar and it's always a great time she has this sweet but naughty look she gets when your having fun that sends chills through me she's 100% safe and has mad skills I can never get enough of watching her as she is on top the way she moves is nothing short of amazing and she has the hottest ass which she likes to have smacked I swear I'd go broke if she was here on a constant basis she is every bit the girl in the photos on her ad & this time she has a very cute friend with her if I had the money I would have seen them both I don't write reviews normally but Skylar's is worth taking the time to review if you get the chance to see her you'd be crazy to pass it up and if you get a chance to see her & her friend together I will envy you.[/QUOTE]
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Hmmmm
[QUOTE=Apcchd;2844398]Just noticed this was your very first post.[/QUOTE]And it sounds like it was written by the female persuasion.
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Could be
[QUOTE=Apcchd;2844398]Juat noticed this was your very first post.[/QUOTE]Either a self report by Skylar or maybe her handler? Who knows, but a glowing report like that from a first time poster may be true but deserves to be met with skepticism. OTOH, her ad does have screen shots of reviews on TER and a USASG forum from somewhere (maybe Savannah it looks like). Pics are cute but too tall for my taste, so I did not try to do a full search. Be careful out there.
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EddyJones has been busy
[QUOTE=Apcchd;2844398]Juat noticed this was your very first post.[/QUOTE]He's been a busy guy. One review at eccie for Skylar and one review at ter. Also for Skylar. My research indicates she's real and your mileage may vary widely.
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[QUOTE=OJones;2844488]He's been a busy guy. One review at eccie for Skylar and one review at ter. Also for Skylar. My research indicates she's real and your mileage may vary widely.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I have read mixed reviews as well. Definitely sounds like everything is covered from what I have read.
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Skylar / EddyJones
[QUOTE=Apcchd;2844398]Juat noticed this was your very first post.[/QUOTE]That is more like an advertisement than a review.
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Skylar is gone
[QUOTE=OJones;2844488]He's been a busy guy. One review at eccie for Skylar and one review at ter. Also for Skylar. My research indicates she's real and your mileage may vary widely.[/QUOTE]Skylar Adams's ad is down already. Guess she wasn't feeling the love.
Skylar might be in the wrong line of work for a germaphobe, maybe she should stick to stripping (the three-foot rule was made for gals like this).
Dental dam? Damn!
-Jeepster1.
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Where Have They Gone?
Seems like less and less Ads on this board? See a lot of old faces on P-411 but once they arrive there you have to begin to negotiate prices.
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Classifieds Revamp
[QUOTE=FriendlyFace;2856528]Seems like less and less Ads on this board? See a lot of old faces on P-411 but once they arrive there you have to begin to negotiate prices.[/QUOTE]Read the post here on Site Changes and Improvements. Sounds like the admins have been disappointed in the Classified site rollout.
Much more than that in the works, it seems.
[b][URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?20071-Site-Changes-and-Improvements&p=2853212&viewfull=1#post2853212[/b][/URL]
-Jeepster1.
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Awkward
When I'm wrong, I'm wrong. My apologies to PortlandPride. For whatever reason, when I am logged into the site, I can not find your posts. Not sure why. Have tried several times, same result. However, when I'm not, I can. Therefore, my statements related to your posts not being on the board are inaccurate. I'm sorry.
Although the other points I mentioned that are unrelated to that point are still valid in my mind, the whole post is tainted by that inaccurate statement. For this reason, I have asked for the post to be removed. Again, my apologies.
[blue]I put him on your ignore list because I got tired of you arguing with him.
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Ashley of Lebanon
Ashley of Lebanon is now banned from this site, so you can't PM her here any more. She's still active on the ad site, so you can see her various contact methods there. She typically prefers text.
No big blow-up happened, sounds like a series of small common infractions added up. Possibly provider accounts might be held to a little different standard than the average joe.
I see Ashley regularly and she's 100% legit and fun!
-Jeepster1.
[Url]http://usaadultclassifieds.info/classifieds/424/posts/1-Independent-Escorts/1-Independent-Escorts/14979-Ashley-of-Lebanon-1-reviewed-in-middle-Tn-Verified-NEW-PICS.html[/url]
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Kailah
[QUOTE=WildBear420;2888883]Here is a photo of Kailah they are working on her ad now.[/QUOTE][URL]http://nashville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/brunette-bombshell-kailah-in-nash-now/17155667[/URL]
Here is a link to her ad. Oddly enough, the screen shot in her ad is of WildBear420's review in preview before it was actually submitted. She does look cute
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Kailah
[QUOTE=WildBear420;2892831]They haven't posted yet as soon as they do I'll post it.[/QUOTE]Here's the link to Kailah's ad before I posted the review I wrote about my Dream with her the other day I sent a screen shot to them as a courtesy that's why there's a preview in the ad.
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Yes
[QUOTE=Jayb2003;2892919][URL]http://nashville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/brunette-bombshell-kailah-in-nash-now/17155667[/URL]
Here is a link to her ad. Oddly enough, the screen shot in her ad is of WildBear420's review in preview before it was actually submitted.[/QUOTE]Yes I just posted the link and explained I sent them a screen shot of it as a courtesy I neglected to ask them not to post it.
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Skylar
Here is the Link to Skylar's ad she has added new photo's and the video is part of one I shot for her on a previous dream.
[URL]http://nashville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/pretty-as-a-sweet-like-a-skylar-adams-here-in-tennessee/17194659[/URL]
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[QUOTE=Jayb2003;2892919][URL]http://nashville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/brunette-bombshell-kailah-in-nash-now/17155667[/URL]
Here is a link to her ad. Oddly enough, the screen shot in her ad is of WildBear420's review in preview before it was actually submitted. She does look cute[/QUOTE]That's what I was thinking. Very odd, not sure what's going on here.
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[QUOTE=Password1977;2893061]That's what I was thinking. Very odd, not sure what's going on here.[/QUOTE]I agree, would love to do the 2-girl special with her and Skylar however, this situation leaves more doubt that certainty.
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Posting history
[QUOTE=Jayb2003;2892919][URL]http://nashville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/brunette-bombshell-kailah-in-nash-now/17155667[/URL]
Here is a link to her ad. Oddly enough, the screen shot in her ad is of WildBear420's review in preview before it was actually submitted. She does look cute[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Password1977;2893061]That's what I was thinking. Very odd, not sure what's going on here.[/QUOTE]I posted about another preview report (different user name) screenshot used in a BP ad yesterday under the Escorts Reviews thread, so this looks like a trend.
The odd thing about WildBear420's preview screenshot is the markings that look to be made by pen on a printed copy of the page, so maybe he helped her get her ad together, who knows? It does look suspicious, and if you look at his posts, he has almost 40 posts in just 2 weeks sounding like he knows all about a number of ladies who have just recently arrived on the scene here. At least one of them was about Kailah announcing she was coming to town before her ad even popped up.
I'm not sure and not accusing him of anything here, but I tend to take his posts with a huge grain of salt at this point.
Just saying.
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Did you take the shot?
[QUOTE=OdinsBeard;2892163]Been in contact through text with this one, thinking about pulling the trigger. Anybody have any info? Phone number links up to a social media account, same pictures.
[URL]http://nashville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/beautiful-sexy-and-sweet-red-head-shana/17166188[/URL][/QUOTE]Did you take the shot? Can you explain a little bit if you did.
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Posted reviews
[QUOTE=UpForItNow;2893227]I posted about another preview report (different user name) screenshot used in a BP ad yesterday under the Escorts Reviews thread, so this looks like a trend.
The odd thing about WildBear420's preview screenshot is the markings that look to be made by pen on a printed copy of the page, so maybe he helped her get her ad together, who knows? It does look suspicious, and if you look at his posts, he has almost 40 posts in just 2 weeks sounding like he knows all about a number of ladies who have just recently arrived on the scene here. At least one of them was about Kailah announcing she was coming to town before her ad even popped up.
I'm not sure and not accusing him of anything here, but I tend to take his posts with a huge grain of salt at this point.
Just saying.[/QUOTE]Just to clear things up anytime I write a review I send a screen shot of it to the girl I wrote it about as a common courtesy so she knows what to expect I even sent one to the one that robbed me I neglected to ask her not to use that screen shot in her ad because I didn't realize that it would start such a conspiracy theory. Here is the link to Skylar's ad.
[URL]http://nashville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/pretty-as-a-sweet-like-a-skylar-adams-here-in-tennessee/17194659[/URL]
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Just a Knight?
[QUOTE=UpForItNow;2893227]I posted about another preview report (different user name) screenshot used in a BP ad yesterday under the Escorts Reviews thread, so this looks like a trend.
The odd thing about WildBear420's preview screenshot is the markings that look to be made by pen on a printed copy of the page, so maybe he helped her get her ad together, who knows? It does look suspicious, and if you look at his posts, he has almost 40 posts in just 2 weeks sounding like he knows all about a number of ladies who have just recently arrived on the scene here. At least one of them was about Kailah announcing she was coming to town before her ad even popped up.
I'm not sure and not accusing him of anything here, but I tend to take his posts with a huge grain of salt at this point.
Just saying.[/QUOTE]I could be wrong, but the Wildbear420 posts here and elsewhere might be consistent with a guy who's smitten with Skylar Adams & Co.
I dunno.
-Jeepster1.
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Bullshit
[QUOTE=WildBear420;2893270]Just to clear things up anytime I write a review I send a screen shot of it to the girl I wrote it about as a common courtesy so she knows what to expect I even sent one to the one that robbed me I neglected to ask her not to use that screen shot in her ad because I didn't realize that it would start such a conspiracy theory. Here is the link to Skylar's ad.
[URL]http://nashville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/pretty-as-a-sweet-like-a-skylar-adams-here-in-tennessee/17194659[/URL][/QUOTE][BLUE]After your hysterical PM's to me I reviewed your posts, 100% you're this Skylar chick.
You have also done this before with a user EddyJones985
I know what I would do if I was a monger in Nashville, chicks that are good at what they do NEVER have to do this.
Knock it the fuck off or I'll prohibit any positive mentions of you on the USASG.
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I am Skylar!!
Hi!! I posted under another area but read furthermore and saw this must be the area I need to post. First and foremost I am Skylar.
Not Eddy / wild bear. Eddy is a very loyal and repeat client of mine whom I stay in close contact with so yes he is aware of when I come to town because I inform him in advance due to the fact that he visits me every time. I do NOT need to write fake reviews about myself because I provide excellent service which speaks for itself and I have been reviewed by several other senior members in Georgia Alabama Florida Mississippi Tennessee Kentucky Louisiana and I am on ter, erotic monkey, daddys list, eccie and other sites. As for Kailah she is just starting out and eddy did see her individually as well as with both of us and we are tying to build her reputation as a provider so people do not think she is fake or LEO so yes eddy did send a screen shot of the preview to put on her ad. Kailah has seen other clients since she has been in town and I have been coming to Nash for several months now and have never had an issue with any clientele. Eddy posts when he sees me. Not just because. I am sure he would be more than happy to give out his phone number to yal so that you all know he is a legit client. I cannot believe grown men have such an issue with another grown man posting something he did and I honestly feel as if you all owe an apology to both him and me.
Do your research on skylar adams. I am legit and other senior members in those states mentioned above will all tell you the same. I also have references if needed.
[blue]Wow, that is sooooo weird. For different people it's freaking amazing that you both don't know what proper sentences are, neither of you consistently uses commas when creating lists, both of you have a tendency to capitalize words that don't need it, and he only like you or your friends and really dislikes chicks that you used to work with but don't any longer.
Man those are some really fucking weird coincidences, I mean like super weird. Not to mention that you only registered IMMEDIATELY after I banned his name and called you out for pretending to be a monger.
Apologize my ass. I suggest you slink away, you don't have the ammunition you need to fight me on this and it's only going to get worse if you keep it up.
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This is a post for "Regular / Nubes" like myself. Also for others who need a clue.
Recently on the board there has been a lot of discussion on a couple different items. One is Ashley 069 and the other has been information for new members to the website. I am going to attempt to combine both of those subjects to bring forth information to those who have recently joined:
[QUOTE=ElConquistador;2884855]Despite all the recent hulabaloo concerning Ashley069, I decided to give her a try. I thought it was odd that she had impressed so many members and then all the sudden she is on the shit list. Let me make it clear: The following review is by no means meant to discredit anything other members have said about Ashley, positive or negative. It is simply an account of my experience. Take of it what you will.
I chatted with Ashley over the course of a few days to get a feel for her dependability and her attitude. Being satisfied, I set up a lunch time appointment. [/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BnaGuy;2873947]Hey guys, no fool like an old fool. Don't hit me with a lot of 'you should have known better', since I did know better but did it anyway. I booked a return engagement with Ashley 069. I guess having seen her before caused me to extend an unusual level of trust. Anyway, I do know better. I decided to repeat the with Ashley 069 yesterday. We agreed on a motel, but I made the rookie error of giving her more than enough for the room and thought for a couple of seconds she was going to drive around to the front like a new arrival. But in less than a minute she texted that she would text me the room # in a couple of minutes.[/QUOTE]El Conquistador's posts as well as Bna Guy's post were posted on the "Escort Reports" page. I have chosen to comment On their posts here in the "Rants, Opinions and Arguments" page because I think this is the more appropriate page for my post. Remember, always consider which thread is most appropriate for your post before posting. Nothing says nube more than posting on a thread that is not appropriate for what you have to say. Well maybe with the exception of asking for information before you have provided anything. If you have something to say that may piss people off, this thread is where it should go.
El C, nice post! Thorough and good information. I agree and can confirm that Ashley 069 is exactly as you have posted. I can confirm this because I too have experienced almost identical encounters with her on multiple occasions. Both before the "alleged" cash and dash incident and after. I think it is obvious based on your post as well as many others, including my own, that she has a process that works and she follows it.
For what it is worth, I have never been concerned about her ripping me off. Once I came to meet her straight after I left working all day. When I arrived, I placed my donation on the dresser (as I normally do if I trust the provider and have not simply forgot due to the little head taking over thinking for me at that point) and then requested to use her shower before our date began. After my shower, she was waiting for me and proceeded to treat my clean body in a way that could only be described as obscene and thoroughly enjoyable.
When I first read Bna Guy's post about her, relative to the "alleged" cash and dash, I was shocked and literally felt ill. Only because it seemed to be totally out of character for her. I posted as much saying so and went on to express my disappointment. Since then I have deleted that post. You see, I neglected doing my research and due diligence before I made that post. I am certain, based on the research that I have done now that my post was in error. If you make a mistake in something you post, own it.
I believe it is worth mentioning that if a post comes out that is 180 degrees different from all other posts (see BNA Guys post) it may be prudent to wait, do research on all parties involved, and confirm or not if the incident repeats before commenting. I made the mistake of not doing that. The only possible explanation for a provider to exhibit this type of behavior (at least in my mind) after building a resume of satisfied clients in a very public forum is an increasing drug related problem. Usually, once this behavior begins it continues and escalates. Drug addicted providers who have this problem also begin to get sloppy with their quality of service and their ability to hide their problem. I have not witnessed anything even close to this with Ashley 069. Neither has anyone else. Ashley069 is fun, clean, and independent. She does not have a black driver. That is total bullshit as well.
I am not speaking about the incident where the one fella was stood up. I have been in that situation far too many times and can only empathize with the amount of frustration and anger that results from it. This type of event can be extremely painful for us as men. We tend to focus on the upcoming date sometimes for hours or days before the scheduled time. Thinking of it incessantly. Visualizing in our minds how it is going to play out. Enduring all of the excitement, anticipation. Then silence as we sit alone waiting in a parking lot for the final instruction on where to go. I am convinced that there is no provider who can fully understand that pain and how this makes us feel. However it does happen. There have been a few times that I have not shown up for work without calling. A couple of those times were due to significant events within my family and a couple were due to me being just too damn drunk. I don't think my employers felt the same way, but I'm sure they were pissed. Fortunately, I was never fired for any of those times. However, I could have been.
One other point: It is very prudent to not take any provider's advertisements or monger's posts / reviews at face value. Way too many providers oversell, especially on backpage. Many of the gentlemen posting here do a good, very good, and excellent job with their reviews relative to being factual and accurate. However, all mongers are not perfect, factual, or beyond reproach. Do the research. Both on the provider and the person doing a review. A review is only one piece of data. Do not make decisions based on one piece of data. *Furthermore, do enough research to determine if even that one piece of data is valid or can be trusted before considering it as usefull. Also, just because someone is a "Senior" member it does not necessarily anoint them as being a truth speaker.
Lastly, if you like it rough, this is good information to let the provider know before the date. Don't be vague. Many providers are NOT willing to go there. If you do, without giving prior notice with her acknowledgement and approval, life in general can become complicated. Just because you donate, it does not give you the right to determine how the charity is to be ran. Be a gentleman. However, some providers are willing to go there. There are even a few that specialize in this type of date. Seek out those providers. ALWAYS check. It is NEVER a good idea to surprise them with this type of information while in the middle of a date. Especially ones that specialize in GFE. Think of it as you being an ambassador for this community. Do not bring all of us down with your bad behavior.
I stand behind all my posts as being truthful and accurate. Always have. If I make a mistake, I correct it.
CanDo.
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Nice!
Sometimes when you aren't even looking, you stumble upon a nice looking little slice. . .
-Jeepster1.
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Re: Nice!
[I]Sometimes when you aren't even looking, you stumble upon a nice looking little slice. . .
-Jeepster1.[/I]
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Oooh, that smell!
[QUOTE=Jeepster1;2904296][I]Sometimes when you aren't even looking, you stumble upon a nice looking little slice. . .
-Jeepster1.[/I][/QUOTE]You know it has it.
But Jeep, that is not up to your normal standards, man!
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Looks good to me!
[QUOTE=UpForItNow;2904312]You know it has it.
But Jeep, that is not up to your normal standards, man![/QUOTE]Some guys are into browneye, I like sockeye.
-Jeepster1.
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Back page research
[QUOTE=CanDoForU;2895541]This is a post for "Regular / Nubes" like myself. Also for others who need a clue.
Recently on the board there has been a lot of discussion on a couple different items. One is Ashley 069 and the other has been information for new members to the website. I am going to attempt to combine both of those subjects to bring forth information to those who have recently joined:
El Conquistador's posts as well as Bna Guy's post were posted on the "Escort Reports" page. I have chosen to comment On their posts here in the "Rants, Opinions and Arguments" page because I think this is the more appropriate page for my post. Remember, always consider which thread is most appropriate for your post before posting. Nothing says nube more than posting on a thread that is not appropriate for what you have to say. Well maybe with the exception of asking for information before you have provided anything. If you have something to say that may piss people off, this thread is where it should go.
El C, nice post! Thorough and good information. I agree and can confirm that Ashley 069 is exactly as you have posted. I can confirm this because I too have experienced almost identical encounters with her on multiple occasions. Both before the "alleged" cash and dash incident and after. I think it is obvious based on your post as well as many others, including my own, that she has a process that works and she follows it.
For what it is worth, I have never been concerned about her ripping me off. Once I came to meet her straight after I left working all day. When I arrived, I placed my donation on the dresser (as I normally do if I trust the provider and have not simply forgot due to the little head taking over thinking for me at that point) and then requested to use her shower before our date began. After my shower, she was waiting for me and proceeded to treat my clean body in a way that could only be described as obscene and thoroughly enjoyable.
When I first read Bna Guy's post about her, relative to the "alleged" cash and dash, I was shocked and literally felt ill. Only because it seemed to be totally out of character for her. I posted as much saying so and went on to express my disappointment. Since then I have deleted that post. You see, I neglected doing my research and due diligence before I made that post. I am certain, based on the research that I have done now that my post was in error. If you make a mistake in something you post, own it.
I believe it is worth mentioning that if a post comes out that is 180 degrees different from all other posts (see BNA Guys post) it may be prudent to wait, do research on all parties involved, and confirm or not if the incident repeats before commenting. I made the mistake of not doing that. The only possible explanation for a provider to exhibit this type of behavior (at least in my mind) after building a resume of satisfied clients in a very public forum is an increasing drug related problem. Usually, once this behavior begins it continues and escalates. Drug addicted providers who have this problem also begin to get sloppy with their quality of service and their ability to hide their problem. I have not witnessed anything even close to this with Ashley 069. Neither has anyone else. Ashley069 is fun, clean, and independent. She does not have a black driver. That is total bullshit as well.
I am not speaking about the incident where the one fella was stood up. I have been in that situation far too many times and can only empathize with the amount of frustration and anger that results from it. This type of event can be extremely painful for us as men. We tend to focus on the upcoming date sometimes for hours or days before the scheduled time. Thinking of it incessantly. Visualizing in our minds how it is going to play out. Enduring all of the excitement, anticipation. Then silence as we sit alone waiting in a parking lot for the final instruction on where to go. I am convinced that there is no provider who can fully understand that pain and how this makes us feel. However it does happen. There have been a few times that I have not shown up for work without calling. A couple of those times were due to significant events within my family and a couple were due to me being just too damn drunk. I don't think my employers felt the same way, but I'm sure they were pissed. Fortunately, I was never fired for any of those times. However, I could have been.
One other point: It is very prudent to not take any provider's advertisements or monger's posts / reviews at face value. Way too many providers oversell, especially on backpage. Many of the gentlemen posting here do a good, very good, and excellent job with their reviews relative to being factual and accurate. However, all mongers are not perfect, factual, or beyond reproach. Do the research. Both on the provider and the person doing a review. A review is only one piece of data. Do not make decisions based on one piece of data. *Furthermore, do enough research to determine if even that one piece of data is valid or can be trusted before considering it as usefull. Also, just because someone is a "Senior" member it does not necessarily anoint them as being a truth speaker.
Lastly, if you like it rough, this is good information to let the provider know before the date. Don't be vague. Many providers are NOT willing to go there. If you do, without giving prior notice with her acknowledgement and approval, life in general can become complicated. Just because you donate, it does not give you the right to determine how the charity is to be ran. Be a gentleman. However, some providers are willing to go there. There are even a few that specialize in this type of date. Seek out those providers. ALWAYS check. It is NEVER a good idea to surprise them with this type of information while in the middle of a date. Especially ones that specialize in GFE. Think of it as you being an ambassador for this community. Do not bring all of us down with your bad behavior.
I stand behind all my posts as being truthful and accurate. Always have. If I make a mistake, I correct it.
CanDo.[/QUOTE]I'm not sure if this is where I post this but everytime a girl posts her ad on backpage, webcrawler grabs it. So even if she deletes it off of backpage it will remain on webcrawler for everytime she posts. You can use something in ad to search whether its a contact number or something I forget. My friend was posting on backpage and thought she had deleted her ads and was shocked to receive calls months later and one of the gentlemen gave her the link. So now we can go thru there to search all their ads. I'm not positive but think this is how you get in there by clicking on backpage from [URL]webcrawler.com[/URL]. Something worth looking in to.
[URL]http://www.webcrawler.com/search/web?fcoid=417&fcop=topnav&fpid=27&aid=6b3fe769-0a0b-4d12-8d1e-1b7b4bdafce1&ridx=1&q=Backpage&ql=&ss=t[/URL]
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Ok, but
[QUOTE=Jeepster1;2904338]Some guys are into browneye, I like sockeye.
-Jeepster1.[/QUOTE]Not being judgmental here, but I think you could buy a silicone pocket pussy that looks a lot like that and not end up with a salmon smell in your pants. Just saying.
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Mistaken Identity
[QUOTE=UpForItNow;2904459]Not being judgmental here, but I think you could buy a silicone pocket pussy that looks a lot like that and not end up with a salmon smell in your pants. Just saying.[/QUOTE]While I can understand the confusion, I would like to state for the record that the close-up in my earlier post DOES NOT depict Piper Lynn.
[url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?5754-Rants-Opinions-and-Arguments&p=2904288&viewfull=1#post2904288[/url]
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?5754-Rants-Opinions-and-Arguments&p=2904296&viewfull=1#post2904296[/URL]
Couldn't possibly be her, as the pic wasn't taken anywhere near I-24.
-Jeepster1.
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No confusion here
[QUOTE=Jeepster1;2904846]While I can understand the confusion, I would like to state for the record that the close-up in my earlier post DOES NOT depict Piper Lynn.
[url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?5754-Rants-Opinions-and-Arguments&p=2904288&viewfull=1#post2904288[/url]
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?5754-Rants-Opinions-and-Arguments&p=2904296&viewfull=1#post2904296[/URL]
Couldn't possibly be her, as the pic wasn't taken anywhere near I-24.
-Jeepster1.[/QUOTE]Your posts were clear, and I was just poking a little fun at the idea that somebody might try to fuck a slab of sockeye salmon that does bear a striking resemblance to a pussy.
Where I am a little confused is where the reference to Piper came from. I don't remember any posts complaining about a smell in that area with her, and the times I saw her (the last being a good while back), the only smell issue I encountered with her was a slightly smoky room.
The pics of the salmon do bring a lot of images to mind. I resisted the urge to say anything about serving it with hollandaise sauce, though.
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[QUOTE=UpForItNow;2905077]Your posts were clear, and I was just poking a little fun at the idea that somebody might try to fuck a slab of sockeye salmon that does bear a striking resemblance to a pussy.
Where I am a little confused is where the reference to Piper came from. I don't remember any posts complaining about a smell in that area with her, and the times I saw her (the last being a good while back), the only smell issue I encountered with her was a slightly smoky room.
The pics of the salmon do bring a lot of images to mind. I resisted the urge to say anything about serving it with hollandaise sauce, though.[/QUOTE]Maybe it was the lips, not the smell.
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Ding Ding Ding!
[QUOTE=Sensei69;2905469]Maybe it was the lips, not the smell.[/QUOTE]Team, we have a winner! Piper quickly came to mind once the topic of meaty punani was raised.
-Jeepster1.