All who play drink but all who drink may not play
[QUOTE=Jack Mehoff]This one girl (viet) always drinks when I sit with her. But I haven't really been able to get any serious play from her. I think shes just a cockteaser.[/QUOTE]Does she drink real alcohol or just water? If she has to lie about drinking alcohol I think the chances of her being a player are nil. Suggest you position yourself so that you can see what she gets from the bartender. If it's a mixed drink usually the bartender is in on the deception and will pour 90 percent water and a little bit of wine or some other alcohol for color and smell. They drink Oly Gold because they say it contains less alcohol although I have seen women get smashed drinking enough of it.
To drink or not to drink . . .
My KB ex used to tell me, the girl's choice to drink is usually based on three general rules: She is depressed and wants to get a buzz (real drinks), she thinks you have money and will play the drunken flirt role to make you feel you may get some later (watered down drink), or she feels you may leave if she doesn't drink alcohol. It has nothing to do with if she's is loose or not. Make a small advance and she if she backs away, make a move to leave and see if she gets closer. If she wants you to stay, she will allow play (to what degree is subjective). But be willing to pay. They can get play outside of the bars to satisfy their hormones. Play inside the bar means making money. Their attitudes really differ from the VB's. In Vietnam, you have sex or they kill you, in HI you have sex and they pay you. If you will stay with her while she drinks water, she will drink water. If you'll leave if she doesn't drink alcohol, she will drink alcohol. Again, we have the power. If she lets you leave because she has other customers that won't play with her, or a boyfriend on the side, you've lost the power, just say next! With the exception of my buddy, who gets a thrill from trying to break a specific chick's will, we all get too fixated on 1 girl, trying to get play or sex, when we should be exploring the field for the ones that will. This is the theory of only the fittest getting to mate in the animal kingdom to carry on the strongest of lines. This is the KB-man's downfall. We want the hottie with chains around her knees when we can easily have the homely with the welcome mat carved in her pubs. But it's not in our programming.
Tiantain . . . you're so right!
The only lie detector us guys have on our side is . . . will she sit with you, without you buying her a drink, if she has no other customers. If you keep feeding her drinks, you'll never know for sure. The choice/agony is yours.
An alternative to London Hub
Leilani Lounge on the upper side of Keeaumoku. Opposite of Cheveron. .6 for fs. Chicks are skanky though and the place is a dump.