[QUOTE=FigLeaf]What say, Fellow Daddies?[/QUOTE]Sounds like your big head stopped thinking.
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[QUOTE=FigLeaf]What say, Fellow Daddies?[/QUOTE]Sounds like your big head stopped thinking.
[QUOTE=MrChooShoes;3305172]Sounds like your big head stopped thinking.[/QUOTE]Yeah you might be right. I really thought with both of us in the buff and her willingness to go with the BBBJ (unasked for the first time) was a sure indication we were headed down the right path.
Damn but I feel embarrassed looking back at it. Have to admit, that is the first time I have been played like that.
Time to cut the line. Just needed to someone else to confirm what I thought.
[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3305090][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/fa3c4459-4e8e-461c-9c0a-056be6f072a2[/URL]
I spent quite alot of time texting with this one. Had a M&G and I thought things went great but I didn't have the time at that moment for a trip to the FC. All signs indicated that is what she was down for.
Ended up several days later picking her up from a location north of town when I was headed back from a a little trip. The texting between us gave every indication that we were on the same page. She even said "we can get a room".
So we head back into town, get a room, and she wants to take a shower. Of course I let her. I knew we were going to have to at some point take her to pay a debt owed. Shortly out of the shower, both of us naked on the bed, when she says we need to go pay debt now. I was very hesitant about the whole thing thinking she was going to cash & dash. She convinced me that leaving all her stuff in the room guaranteed that she would come back with me. I asked her, while both naked, to ease my mind and grab hold of Little Man. She did more than that and proceeded with a very nice BBBJ. Reeled me in just enough before she said we need to go meet them now.[/QUOTE]Did you read her profile it says light smoker and social drinker in her profile, so right off the bat she's a liar got to use the other head sometimes man.
[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3305304]Yeah you might be right. I really thought with both of us in the buff and her willingness to go with the BBBJ (unasked for the first time) was a sure indication we were headed down the right path.
Damn but I feel embarrassed looking back at it. Have to admit, that is the first time I have been played like that.
Time to cut the line. Just needed to someone else to confirm what I thought.[/QUOTE]I say do the minimum to bust a nut (either BBBJ or CFS) or both before you cut ties. i would imagine your overall investment of money is probably low. Probably more time spent invested. Once you do, then cut ties.
[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3305090][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/fa3c4459-4e8e-461c-9c0a-056be6f072a2[/URL]
I spent quite alot of time texting with this one. Had a M&G and I thought things went great but I didn't have the time at that moment for a trip to the FC. All signs indicated that is what she was down for.
Ended up several days later picking her up from a location north of town when I was headed back from a a little trip. The texting between us gave every indication that we were on the same page. She even said "we can get a room".
So we head back into town, get a room, and she wants to take a shower. Of course I let her. I knew we were going to have to at some point take her to pay a debt owed. Shortly out of the shower, both of us naked on the bed, when she says we need to go pay debt now. I was very hesitant about the whole thing thinking she was going to cash & dash. She convinced me that leaving all her stuff in the room guaranteed that she would come back with me. I asked her, while both naked, to ease my mind and grab hold of Little Man. She did more than that and proceeded with a very nice BBBJ. Reeled me in just enough before she said we need to go meet them now.
Long story short, we went and paid debt and came back to the room. She said she was starving so I had her order a pizza which would be there in 15 minutes. Hey baby, while we are waiting let's go back to the BBBJ. No problem. I stopped her before I blew and she asked why. I said I wanted to wait until we were having sex.
I don't have sex on the first date was her response. Either I read her texts completely wrong, or I just got scammed.
I am thinking I got scammed but I do like this POT. Several other things don't mesh such as no drugs. Oh I used to do opiates and heroin but am clean 5 years now. I don't smoke. Well, I do but only occasionally and vape the rest of the time. I don't drink. Well occasionally I will have a glass of wine.
I am leaning toward saying goodbye but really do like her as a person.
What say, Fellow Daddies?[/QUOTE]What was the damage? At least you got some play out of the situation. If you like her, you could always just try one more and see if she's ready to go all the way on the second date.
So I ran into some trouble the other day, I cancelled on a SB (I decided not to meet her, because she wanted to raise her allowance by $300 the day before we met). She started freaking out and sending me screenshots of my profile and asking if this was me and if I was nice and sent her $100 to get her hair done she wouldn't be mad. I told her that she was trying to extort / blackmail me and I was more than happy to get in touch with my lawyer and the police. She texted back saying I was stupid and cussing me out, but I haven't heard from her after that. Was that the right thing to do? I'm not married or anything, but need to be discrete due to my job. I just don't want to end up on The Dirty or one of those gossip websites.
[QUOTE=Donwhite;3305555]So I ran into some trouble the other day, I cancelled on a SB (I decided not to meet her, because she wanted to raise her allowance by $300 the day before we met). She started freaking out and sending me screenshots of my profile and asking if this was me and if I was nice and sent her $100 to get her hair done she wouldn't be mad. I told her that she was trying to extort / blackmail me and I was more than happy to get in touch with my lawyer and the police. She texted back saying I was stupid and cussing me out, but I haven't heard from her after that. Was that the right thing to do? I'm not married or anything, but need to be discrete due to my job. I just don't want to end up on The Dirty or one of those gossip websites.[/QUOTE]She is just a stupid **** trying to extort money from you. You are fine. I applaud you for not showing up.
[QUOTE=Donwhite;3305542]What was the damage? At least you got some play out of the situation. If you like her, you could always just try one more and see if she's ready to go all the way on the second date.[/QUOTE]Damage was only $. 4 The thing is, I would have kept it going with her if she hadn't pulled that stupid crap. Now she got me for $. 4 but will never get anything else. If she felt so bad about not wanting to give it up then all I can say is "why the fuck did you come out of the shower naked AND go straight to BBBJ when asked to just touch little man?
Nah, guys, I am done with her.
Any of ya'll feel lucky hit her up. PM me if you want more info.
[QUOTE=Donwhite;3305555]So I ran into some trouble the other day, I cancelled on a SB (I decided not to meet her, because she wanted to raise her allowance by $300 the day before we met). She started freaking out and sending me screenshots of my profile and asking if this was me and if I was nice and sent her $100 to get her hair done she wouldn't be mad. I told her that she was trying to extort / blackmail me and I was more than happy to get in touch with my lawyer and the police. She texted back saying I was stupid and cussing me out, but I haven't heard from her after that. Was that the right thing to do? I'm not married or anything, but need to be discrete due to my job. I just don't want to end up on The Dirty or one of those gossip websites.[/QUOTE]As far as the site is concerned- only use neck down pics if you are concerned about your job. If you move to texting then send a face shot if the conservation goes that way.
You're safe on The Dirty now, assuming you aren't a well know celebrity. The site went toward the TMZ route. There are others out there like RipOffReport and such but not any site like this that I know of yet that the girls could link and critique SD's. Yet. I imagine it's a matter of time though.
In the meantime- just be smarter to not throw your face on the site where the girls can screenshot it.
The second one on this list:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c1c0b745-e30b-dffc-2edf-919d7e6fab9b[/URL]
Is half of the 2 girls on this account:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9073b113-9b74-456c-8bba-025a42b73c80[/URL]
They're looking to be paid to be taken to dinner etc. So avoid this one too.
[QUOTE=HornDawgs;3296938]Yes indeed, very helpful! Here's two to avoid, scammers:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7072f77c-8343-221d-29f5-74be8f6933d5[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c1c0b745-e30b-dffc-2edf-919d7e6fab9b[/URL]
These are legit:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2b709661-b1ce-4307-b943-d1c1e9209800[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/4e54a4a6-c61a-b9b2-8669-38b622a029bf[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/5eec3581-563d-4e9b-9c7b-f2440e9c2b71[/URL]
I can provide more info via PM if desired.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Donwhite;3305555]So I ran into some trouble the other day, I cancelled on a SB (I decided not to meet her, because she wanted to raise her allowance by $300 the day before we met). She started freaking out and sending me screenshots of my profile and asking if this was me and if I was nice and sent her $100 to get her hair done she wouldn't be mad. I told her that she was trying to extort / blackmail me and I was more than happy to get in touch with my lawyer and the police. She texted back saying I was stupid and cussing me out, but I haven't heard from her after that. Was that the right thing to do? I'm not married or anything, but need to be discrete due to my job. I just don't want to end up on The Dirty or one of those gossip websites.[/QUOTE]Always use a burner phone, man. $20 at Wal-Mart and $20-45 a month will save you a ton of headaches in this hobby.
You can even set up a fake FB profile with the burner number and some random profile pic of something other than you if you like.
Even if you don't have an SA, burner or GV is only way to go. The burner is easier without SO probably.
[QUOTE=Tncocksman;3308078]Always use a burner phone, man. $20 at Wal-Mart and $20-45 a month will save you a ton of headaches in this hobby.
You can even set up a fake FB profile with the burner number and some random profile pic of something other than you if you like.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Sport313;3305897]As far as the site is concerned- only use neck down pics if you are concerned about your job. If you move to texting then send a face shot if the conservation goes that way.
You're safe on The Dirty now, assuming you aren't a well know celebrity. The site went toward the TMZ route. There are others out there like RipOffReport and such but not any site like this that I know of yet that the girls could link and critique SD's. Yet. I imagine it's a matter of time though.
In the meantime- just be smarter to not throw your face on the site where the girls can screenshot it.[/QUOTE]I know you may not have known she was going to go ballistic, but if you were going to blow her off, you could have blocked on SA her first. There is a possibility, of course, that she had saved your profile already (this is my practice, BTW, to always save everything I can about POTs, including intel I get from their own social media and internet presence). Still, if you do this and follow the other precautions mentioned, you'll be safer. Blocking people is a handy tool - wackos, current SBs you don't want to know you are still looking, etc.
If you block them, they don't know they're blocked? I guess it shows you deleted your profile?
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3308834]I know you may not have known she was going to go ballistic, but if you were going to blow her off, you could have blocked on SA her first. There is a possibility, of course, that she had saved your profile already (this is my practice, BTW, to always save everything I can about POTs, including intel I get from their own social media and internet presence). Still, if you do this and follow the other precautions mentioned, you'll be safer. Blocking people is a handy tool - wackos, current SBs you don't want to know you are still looking, etc.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3308834]I know you may not have known she was going to go ballistic, but if you were going to blow her off, you could have blocked on SA her first. There is a possibility, of course, that she had saved your profile already (this is my practice, BTW, to always save everything I can about POTs, including intel I get from their own social media and internet presence). Still, if you do this and follow the other precautions mentioned, you'll be safer. Blocking people is a handy tool - wackos, current SBs you don't want to know you are still looking, etc.[/QUOTE]I've said it before on here. My current showed me how the site looks on her end. Hiding your log on date is pointless. It still loads the SD's based on login date if a SB chooses to search that way except it will just say 'hidden' in that field so if you're online she can still tell because the of the SD's in the list. So don't think you're fly under their radar if they really want to see if you're window shopping unless you block them but even that poses its problem if you want to keep your current SB because of what is listed if you do block a SB so keep that in mind.
Moving on, text free apps work well. You can load 100 talking minutes if you choose to for 2 dollars and the app is free for texting. As long as you use the generated number at least every 30 days you can retain your number. That's an easy solution. You could literally just text yourself once a month even if you aren't messing with SB's to keep the number. Plus you can turn off notifications to avoid that nosy SO.
Now last minute cancelling. That can always be tricky to handle especially if the girl has kids, has to line up a sitter, etc. Now in this case you said you canceled because she raised her allowance at the last minute. Sweet talking goes a long way with handling any situation including not being able to come to an agreement on the sugar. Depending on how you told her no and canceled this whole situation could have possibly been avoided. Don't immediately write the SB of in text even though you have in your head. You're right, she has screenshots, possibly now your real number because you thought everything was going to be fine, etc so you don't want to cause yourself any problems. You can let a girl down easy by putting it on you to just avoid the bullshit in the long run. ATM can only take out X amount daily and you don't have time to run into the bank, wait a hour before responding and be caught up at work, anything is better than telling ANY woman that she can't have what she wants point blank. We all know that haha. These girls for the most part aren't used to being rejected and can be significantly younger than us. Keep in mind what you're working with here especially the ones in their early 20's it's not like reasoning with one that's 30+.
If you haven't heard from the girl anymore I'll assume you'll be ok with this one but just handle your business better moving forward.
[QUOTE=TomDickNHarry;3308876]If you block them, they don't know they're blocked? I guess it shows you deleted your profile?[/QUOTE]I just wrote a big post on this. I'm a newer poster so it's in review. My SB showed me this as well. She's had been blocked by members simply because they offered an allowance that was too low for her, she said no thanks and then they simply blocked her because they were apparently pissed about being denied. We laughed about those ones as she would read through messages and told our own horror stories from the site. Again, I lucked out with this one.
If you block a SB it comes up on their end that 'the user is no longer active. ' They know they have been blocked.
A deactivated profile says it's deactivated.
[QUOTE=TomDickNHarry;3308876]If you block them, they don't know they're blocked? I guess it shows you deleted your profile?[/QUOTE]Tom: There is no (easy) way for them to tell. If you inactivate your profile (I don't think there is any way to actually delete one, though you could zero out all the text and uncheck all the boxes) and someone tries to click it, like in a message stream, there is a standard page that comes up, saying that you have either blocked them or inactivated. The same if you blocked them, obviously. Someone could really go FBI on you by setting up a new profile (requiring a new email address) and then go hunting for your profile, or have a GF who has her own profile on the site see if you are still active. It's more trouble, and some girls may not realize this is possible. Many SBs aren't the brightest.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2b709661-b1ce-4307-b943-d1c1e9209800[/URL]
Anyone have any info on this one? PM me if you prefer.
Love some of these profiles. She's 18 years old, but joined nearly 2 years ago.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/15df30c6-5f14-2617-497b-adb6bc0fe593[/URL]
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3308997]Tom: There is no (easy) way for them to tell. If you inactivate your profile (I don't think there is any way to actually delete one, though you could zero out all the text and uncheck all the boxes) and someone tries to click it, like in a message stream, there is a standard page that comes up, saying that you have either blocked them or inactivated. The same if you blocked them, obviously. Someone could really go FBI on you by setting up a new profile (requiring a new email address) and then go hunting for your profile, or have a GF who has her own profile on the site see if you are still active. It's more trouble, and some girls may not realize this is possible. Many SBs aren't the brightest.[/QUOTE]Yep, thanks, saw the description of blocking and that checks out. Makes it much more interesting as unless they really snoop, you could've just deleted your profile.
[QUOTE=TomDickNHarry;3309940]Love some of these profiles. She's 18 years old, but joined nearly 2 years ago.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/15df30c6-5f14-2617-497b-adb6bc0fe593[/URL][/QUOTE]Ahh yes, the 18 and holding profiles. LOL Plenty of those.
Based on some advice, I decided to try one more time. Good Lord! What. Huge mistake. Everytime I texted her it ended up with a sob story for money, blah, blah, blah!
Finally told her we were not after the same goals, she went ballistic.
Stay the frick away from Nikki Fun Girl.
Reached back out to her after my cancellation of two previous m&g attempts due to work. Made it to this one today and all I can say is the future looks bright indeed. She is down for our next visit to be to the FC! Just got to get it planned quick before she gets cold feet.
Site says upload a photo and message members. I'm thinking you can't exchange contact information without paying for membership. Could someone confirm this for me? They must not let phone numbers or email addresses out unless you buy membership.
[QUOTE=Hammerman010;3315630]Site says upload a photo and message members. I'm thinking you can't exchange contact information without paying for membership. Could someone confirm this for me? They must not let phone numbers or email addresses out unless you buy membership.[/QUOTE]Correct. Males must pay for a membership before we can message other members. A photo isn't required. Females get free memberships.
Anybody else get a chance to see this girl this week?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/44c9fa92-e846-4069-bde5-94a962480f7c[/URL]
She was here on break, quite a sexy little number and a great time! Seems she is back in StL but will make a return visit.
[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3313557]Reached back out to her after my cancellation of two previous m&g attempts due to work. Made it to this one today and all I can say is the future looks bright indeed. She is down for our next visit to be to the FC! Just got to get it planned quick before she gets cold feet.[/QUOTE]The trip to the FC is set and agreed upon for Friday night! NO sugar discussion yet other than for me to say at the meet & greet, "Financial considerations will only be discussed once you are comfortable enough to move to a physical relationship with me in a private setting. " Her response was "I am good with that. I have never been with anyone older than 23 before. I want to try it with an older man. ".
Little Man immediately said "TEN-HUT"!
Now to make him think of other things until then.
[QUOTE=LovesMuffins;3315701]Correct. Males must pay for a membership before we can message other members. A photo isn't required. Females get free memberships.[/QUOTE]Sort of. Males can actually send a message without paying if you add a photo. But any contact info gets filtered out and you can't read the replies without paying, so it's useless.
I've been playing with SA for a couple of years now.
Man if you could only have unlimited funds and Time, plus the ability to travel to the best SA cities, it could be the (monger) adventure of a lifetime.
But even with my limited means, travel schedule, hard work and pure luck I've slayed many a fine young lass.
I guess I like the hunt almost as much as I like the lay.
Its Sporting and ads fun.
Its bartering and winning the deal.
Some were and I hope Many More will be unforgettable!
SD.
Part one.
Read my posts in the Richmond, VA forum about having my life flash before me this week by a blackmailing baby in Richmond, VA.
Part two.
I kept my first date with my brand new 19 year old HYCB. Oh lord I am so glad I did.
After dinner, we immediately went to the FC where she gave me two shots within an hour which never happens. First via CG and second via BBBJNQNS. Get this. I asked during the BBBJ if she was OK with CIM. UH-huh was what she managed to mumble around a mouthful. What about swallowing? She stopped looked at me and said "Spitters are quitters!" Holy Cow!.
We cuddle an talked and lightly rubbed on each other for the next 15 minutes or so before agreeing it was time to leave as she had plans and I had to get home.
I will keep seeing this one but everything else is backburnered for awhile. This one agrees to never calling me and will only meet me when I call her. And she is open to try anything and everything!
Well Hell, if I am going to go down in flames, at least I can keep some 19 year old smoking hot college babe that apparently fucks like a damn rabbit on the side. And she def has daddy issues I am willing to help her with.
This girl is real and quite fun. Her pics are recent and she reminded me of a club girl back when I was younger and attended raves. She doesn't talk much but will show you a good time for Rea $onable damage.
If you like tall, skinny, with small breasts she is for you.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6617cda1-7737-4833-84a8-8b8d51c010f1[/URL]
I'm placing Berryyyy into the time waster category.
She seems legit and willing to meet but suffers from severe GPS. She originally quoted 500 for GFE and 1 k for Greek tour.
I laugh. The number she shared was easily linked back to her FB page which got me excited but when I countered for 200, she said 300 for BJ. I really would have gone to my outer limits of 400 if she would agree but she stuck with 500.
She did send some nice videos to entice me but they just reconfirmed that I shouldn't overspend.
Best of luck to you if you catch this one for <500.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6d47180a-db6c-4b99-ba9e-85dce9d7274d[/URL]
[QUOTE=DCOutlaw;3328631]I'm placing Berryyyy into the time waster category.
She seems legit and willing to meet but suffers from severe GPS. She originally quoted 500 for GFE and 1 k for Greek tour.
I laugh. The number she shared was easily linked back to her FB page which got me excited but when I countered for 200, she said 300 for BJ. I really would have gone to my outer limits of 400 if she would agree but she stuck with 500.
She did send some nice videos to entice me but they just reconfirmed that I shouldn't overspend.
Best of luck to you if you catch this one for <500.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6d47180a-db6c-4b99-ba9e-85dce9d7274d[/URL][/QUOTE]I agree. Total time waster. I Have fortunately not wasted any money with her but definitely wasted too much time on her GPS. Hopefully someone has met her and had a good or decent experience with her.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/cd711174-52c8-f705-7413-e6ebd59b4650[/URL]
Her "only rule" is she doesn't do intimate relationships. Oh, is that all, everything else is cool? Hahah.
Who are these losers that pay for this, someone must be doing it.
[QUOTE=TomDickNHarry;3330570][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/cd711174-52c8-f705-7413-e6ebd59b4650[/URL]
Her "only rule" is she doesn't do intimate relationships. Oh, is that all, everything else is cool? Hahah.
Who are these losers that pay for this, someone must be doing it.[/QUOTE]No kidding, or the ones that will only do an online thing.
[QUOTE=Heliman;3330611]No kidding, or the ones that will only do an online thing.[/QUOTE]Well, I'm back on SA. Current SB moves out of state on Tuesday. Great girl, super fun but our time is done and she landed her dream job.
Moving forward. I've posted before. What's the bowl looking like these days? I like long term SB's. 350-800 per meet is fine with me. I'll move it to a monthly allowance once the time is right. Not covered in ridiculous tattoos and piercings, no drug habits, must be 27 or older and smart. My profile ends up yielding all sorts of types so if you guys send me the so called GPS's that look promising, I'll send over the 100-300 range ones to trusted members looking for a trill that doesn't break the bank.
[QUOTE=HornDawgs;3316388]Anybody else get a chance to see this girl this week?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/44c9fa92-e846-4069-bde5-94a962480f7c[/URL]
She was here on break, quite a sexy little number and a great time! Seems she is back in StL but will make a return visit.[/QUOTE]STL guy here. She gets around quite a bit. Has daddies all over the US. Ok fuck but great head.
[QUOTE=DCOutlaw;3328618]This girl is real and quite fun. Her pics are recent and she reminded me of a club girl back when I was younger and attended raves. She doesn't talk much but will show you a good time for Rea $onable damage.
If you like tall, skinny, with small breasts she is for you.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6617cda1-7737-4833-84a8-8b8d51c010f1[/URL][/QUOTE]Honestly, I found this to be attractive, but really there are much better options in terms of personality and attitude.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6dda9ff7-b2be-483e-8439-6a568e0f8a7d[/URL]
Nice girl. Not as thick as you might think. Good energetic sex. BBBJ CFS. 400 but you might get it it for 250. Let us know if you make it happen or did already. Face looks like scarlet johansen. Not desperate but not GPS.
[QUOTE=LuvBoobies;3331046]STL guy here. She gets around quite a bit. Has daddies all over the US. Ok fuck but great head.[/QUOTE]Looks like she is coming back in mid April. Talking to get about a meet up, but not feeling a good vibe. Is it me or am I missing something?