Seeking Arrangement

Joined about a week ago. Similiar experiences to what many of you have posted, some good, some bad, some laughably unrealistic, etc. Mostly a lot of work, searching, and communication. I chose this month because it is very light for me work wise, and I have time to travel around for meets. Initially, I jumped at anything that showed interest in me and turned out to be a lot of skanks wanting $300 basically worse than a backpage girl and more expensive. After a couple bad meetings I weeded those out. I changed my profile to be more narrow focused and I've become more patient. That worked, once I decided I was going to be picky and if I never found anything, I am no worse off than how I started. Being married, I have to cross that hurdle which, IMO, is significant for what I am looking for. Most of the girls on here are single and I feel like married is a complication to them that they don't need. Nevertheless, I did end up meeting several young girls (22-26) some of which lead to a hotel room fck and some not. This really takes a lot of time. And for me, the jury is still out if it's worth it or not. The ones I've banged I've held firm on 200 per session but at least one is already trying to raise her price and / or get a monthly allowance. I just want to pay 200 per time once a week, proving challenging to finding someone that matches with that (and my other requirements. Young hot, wants to fck for 2 hours). It's only been a week and I will give it 30 days but that is my report so far.

Highlight: young asian student who swore up and down at first she was taking it very slow and the first meet was not for sex, blah blah blah, after 30 minutes of coffee we were off to the hotel and she fcked like a banshee.

Lowlight: girl who said she was 19 and lived with her parents turned out to be a homeless 25 year old crack ***** wanting 300 showed up in sweatpants and no makeup absolute skank waste of time.

In between: lot of girls asking for cash just to meet for coffee, lot of "my rents due", "started a new job and don't get paid for 3 weeks" etc. All scams IMO. I quickly earned to ignore all that.

Have fun good luck peace out.

[QUOTE=Jd2011;3796231]My profile is very basic. Pics set to private. In the month I was on, I was basically only active for the first week or two. I viewed a lot of profile, favorited a lot, requested to see a lot of pics, etc. A lot of girls then requested to see mine. I'm not a GQ guy but I'm not bad looking either. I'm not chiseled but not in terrible shape either. I would rate my game as average or maybe a little above. In the 2 weeks I was activate, I banged 4 girls. Only one of the 4 I would consider a moped. (If you aren't aware, a moped girl is one that's fun to ride but you wouldn't want your buddies to see you riding her). I probably could have banged 2 or 3 more if I had the time. Just my 2 cents.

JD.[/QUOTE]I don't post a public pic, and don't share any private either. I will text it ONLY after a hell of a long conversation and actually end up describing myself in detail including a famous person I look like (which is true). That is sometimes good enough, sometimes not. Just really paranoid about the pic, but then again at the coffee meet she could snap a pic and go running off with it. So I am probably being too cautious. Main question is does lack of a pic hold you back from getting looks and responses. I am curious about that as well.

I will no longer be posting reviews in this section. Some dickhead actually showed a review I wrote on a girl to the actual girl. Real nice asshole.

[QUOTE=Jd2011;3799800]I will no longer be posting reviews in this section. Some dickhead actually showed a review I wrote on a girl to the actual girl. Real nice asshole.[/QUOTE]Morons expecting special favors.

[QUOTE=Jd2011;3799800]I will no longer be posting reviews in this section. Some dickhead actually showed a review I wrote on a girl to the actual girl. Real nice asshole.[/QUOTE]Fuck you to whomever did this.

[QUOTE=EricTheReddit;3800843]Fuck you to whomever did this.[/QUOTE]I've always been careful not to be too specific in my discussions about girls such that they could identify me or find it by a Google search that this forum showed up when previously on the. Info domain.

Do you know for sure someone showed it to her or could she have found it via a search engine?

She was shown the review by another member. I'm positive of this. Her and I are still cool. She told me what happen and totally described my review. If anything she was a little miffed that I went into detail about our encounter.

Whoever the dude is, he is a complete asshole to do something like that.

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;3800951]I've always been careful not to be too specific in my discussions about girls such that they could identify me or find it by a Google search that this forum showed up when previously on the. Info domain.

Do you know for sure someone showed it to her or could she have found it via a search engine?[/QUOTE]

I was scanning the site and came across one little lady that has a pic showing her with a rather large tummy bump. Her profile says. Update: pregnant and father doesn't want the baby. I was left speechless.

Anyone know a sugar-dating website other than SA which is less intimidating for the average guy like myself.

[QUOTE=ChiaHair;3809367]Anyone know a sugar-dating website other than SA which is less intimidating for the average guy like myself.[/QUOTE]By "less intimidating" do you really mean less money.

[QUOTE=GiveMeAss;3813016]By "less intimidating" do you really mean less money.[/QUOTE]What I mean by less intimidating is will there be any success for an average joe with no high social status that has some money but isn't say rich that wants to date the attractive girl next door type.

[QUOTE=ChiaHair;3814462]What I mean by less intimidating is will there be any success for an average joe with no high social status that has some money but isn't say rich that wants to date the attractive girl next door type.[/QUOTE]That's exactly what SA is for. You might not get every girl that you message, but you can definitely get an attractive girl next door type.

[QUOTE=ChiaHair;3814462]What I mean by less intimidating is will there be any success for an average joe with no high social status that has some money but isn't say rich that wants to date the attractive girl next door type.[/QUOTE]Other than Tinder or another dating site, no? I don't really get what you're asking for other than another Backpage or a simple dating site.

I found a few women on SA in the 150+/ hour range a few months back, I'm sure much hasn't changed since then. Don't let these women that are asking for a 5 grand monthly allowance intimidate you, some of them have no idea how to price their worth and will generally take whatever you offer as long as its reasonable. The others are delusional or are clearly looking for something you aren't and they aren't worth your time.

My best experience on SA started with an offer of 150 for an hour. Her only requirement was to go get drinks and dinner beforehand. Our sessions lasted more than an hour and were on a bi-weekly basis.

[QUOTE=CaptNugs;3816877]Other than Tinder or another dating site, no? I don't really get what you're asking for other than another Backpage or a simple dating site.

I found a few women on SA in the 150+/ hour range a few months back, I'm sure much hasn't changed since then. Don't let these women that are asking for a 5 grand monthly allowance intimidate you, some of them have no idea how to price their worth and will generally take whatever you offer as long as its reasonable. The others are delusional or are clearly looking for something you aren't and they aren't worth your time.

My best experience on SA started with an offer of 150 for an hour. Her only requirement was to go get drinks and dinner beforehand. Our sessions lasted more than an hour and were on a bi-weekly basis.[/QUOTE]I was on SA for 2 months and any offer of 150 was laughed at. These girls all wanted 300 minimum. Maybe I am going after the wrong (too high) quality or too young, who knows.

[QUOTE=HoldenCaul;3816911]I was on SA for 2 months and any offer of 150 was laughed at. These girls all wanted 300 minimum. Maybe I am going after the wrong (too high) quality or too young, who knows.[/QUOTE]I got three women without paying anything more than coffee / drinks / meal / etc.

YMMV and all, maybe someone is targeting the wrong type? Wrong profile setup? I don't know, just saying it's possible.