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[QUOTE=EddieLewis;1924142]In my opinion, I handled it the way I saw best.[/QUOTE]Eddie,
My two cents on the way you handled it is that you didn't need to leave her high and dry. I agree with Msanders in that type of behavior just hurts all of us.
I believe both guys and girls have the right to lie to get someone out of and away from their car / apt / room. That's a safety issue and takes precedent over being nice. After that, you could have called her and let her know you weren't coming back.
[QUOTE=EddieLewis;1924224]Time for that group hug! .[/QUOTE]I don't want to get embroiled in some big dispute but am going to throw in my 2 cents against my better judgement and for what it is worth.
First of all, I am sure this is not the first time a provider has been stood up so let's keep it in perspective. And we all know that providers can lie, cheat, scam etc. And many of their clients rape, beat and rip them off. Truly, it is an ugly, sordid business.
Having said that, however, I know I have adopted a personal code of conduct in over 25 years of hobbying. Basically I treat a provider as I would treat myself until the provider proves themselves to be untrustworthy. I might not like a situation, I might decide to back out at the last minute, walk away, etc. But if the provider has been straight with me then I will do them the courtesy of informing them that I will not participate. It might be a text I send down the road, a call or a direct communication to their face but it really doesn't matter. If they were willing to risk meeting me and treated me with decency then I am not going to do anything but treat them with professional respect no matter what their looks, condition, etc.
If a provider lies, cheats, bullshits, etc. Then I have no qualms about what might occur afterwards. I have zero tolerance in that situation.
In the case of Brooke, I have not read any review in which there was any indication that she was anything other than straightforward and professional with the reviewer and that was the case when I saw her as well. I wasn't there when EddieLewis and Brooke were together (thankfully! LOL) so maybe there was something more that happened that wasn't mentioned. But as the scenario was presented I do question why someone wouldn't have treated her with perhaps a bit more courtesy. A simple text would probably have sufficed.
I cannot tell EddieLewis what to do nor anyone else. As Eddie stated, to each his own. I can only share the perspective I take in these matters and I hope it can be taken in the spirit of some self-reflection and not an attack.
Be safe.
Like you said. We need a group hug!!
[QUOTE=Matt574;1924447]I don't want to get embroiled in some big dispute but am going to throw in my 2 cents against my better judgement and for what it is worth.
Like I said..... group hug!!
First of all, I am sure this is not the first time a provider has been stood up so let's keep it in perspective. And we all know that providers can lie, cheat, scam etc. And many of their clients rape, beat and rip them off. Truly, it is an ugly, sordid business.
Having said that, however, I know I have adopted a personal code of conduct in over 25 years of hobbying. Basically I treat a provider as I would treat myself until the provider proves themselves to be untrustworthy. I might not like a situation, I might decide to back out at the last minute, walk away, etc. But if the provider has been straight with me then I will do them the courtesy of informing them that I will not participate. It might be a text I send down the road, a call or a direct communication to their face but it really doesn't matter. If they were willing to risk meeting me and treated me with decency then I am not going to do anything but treat them with professional respect no matter what their looks, condition, etc.
If a provider lies, cheats, bullshits, etc. Then I have no qualms about what might occur afterwards. I have zero tolerance in that situation.
In the case of Brooke, I have not read any review in which there was any indication that she was anything other than straightforward and professional with the reviewer and that was the case when I saw her as well. I wasn't there when EddieLewis and Brooke were together (thankfully! LOL) so maybe there was something more that happened that wasn't mentioned. But as the scenario was presented I do question why someone wouldn't have treated her with perhaps a bit more courtesy. A simple text would probably have sufficed.
I cannot tell EddieLewis what to do nor anyone else. As Eddie stated, to each his own. I can only share the perspective I take in these matters and I hope it can be taken in the spirit of some self-reflection and not an attack.
Be safe.[/QUOTE]
First off, I must say it is good to see others here who have a 'moral compass' or at least a semblance of one!
Everybody plays and parties in their own way, I would never begrudge a fellow monger his fun. You like a feather duster up the wazoo while she whistles Dixie as you cum in cola can? :eek: More power to ya boys! You treat a girl as a throwaway cum-dumpster? Or less than a person? Yeah... I'm going to have a BIG problem with that.
Is that a threat? NO. Do I want to meet you 'up on the hill afterschool' ?.... NO Do I want to share information with you? NO!!!!
Plain and simple, the shit you pull reflects on us ALL. If you disagree with me, that is fine.... BUT, Remember, we project as much of our past history with others upon them, as they do on us. If you think it is ok to do that to her because of what other girls do to other guys, that is bad logic and flawed reasoning. Now, to suggest it is ok to pull that shit on a girl....{who DID NOTHING WRONG- other than not meet YOUR standards (which is a ridicules statement BTW)}. Is a total dick move bro. A text, a call, a simple 'thanks but not today' is all you needed to do. What the fuck is so hard to understand about that?!!?
The reason I asked what time this went down is that I had a tight window of opportunity yesterday and was trying to set-up with Brooke and I got hosed because somebody else was working the time slot just before me and screwed the whole operation for me. That was between 2-3 pm, so obviously not you or your fault.... Or really anybody's fault, sometimes it is just how the ball bounces...I have been doing it long enough to know this is how it goes and I don't get all wound up over it..... The point I'm trying to make is that SHE may have had a PAYING client who got 'parked' or dissed while she was WAITING for YOU....FUCK DUDE! Girls have to deal with no shows all the time, but to show up- make a new meet (in person). And then stiff the new / second session. May well have COST her $ And that is just not right.... You could have texted her from the end of the street, end of story.
Now..., for what it is worth, you should know I hate to 'white knight' for anyone!!! So for the record, I am not doing so now.... I am railing against the 'principle' of what you did and how it was handled, nothing more. You don't like the way she looked? I can dig that! She certainly has a 'goth-chic' appearance that may be more attractive in a dark room LOL :) . But DAMN she can suck a dick!! BUT, in the harsh light of day she didn't pass your litmus test- no worries! But just SAY SO. In any way, shape or form- OTHER than no show / stiff.
I am not looking for an apology (if you did I'd call you a fag ;) ) but to take a strong position on action like this is churlish and obtuse. When we have conversations regarding 'remember 'so and so'? Whatever happened to this chick or that one? THIS is the type of shit that pushes girls out of the biz. That turns them bitter and changes the attitude for the next guy on the wire. Food for thought.
Peace.
PK.
WOW!! Looks like I may have touched a nerve or two here. First off, FUCK YOU LOKI PK AND YOUR HORSE YOU RODE IN ON!
You tried real hard to DIS me on another site, [URL]eccie.net[/URL] and failed miserably on that attempt. You wish to play the word game with someone who knows how to do just that, simply let me know.
This game is just that, a game. You win some, you lose some. You get angry because I voice an opinion on a lady that you find attractive? You feel the need to rip me apart publicly because I disagree with your taste in women? You talk about morals yet you are paying for pussy likely because you can't find it anywhere else for free. You talk about treating a gal like shit or not. What the hell do you think you are doing?! You go on and on about these gals like they are a piece of meat, yet you call me out implying that I treat them like a piece of meat, less than human. DUDE. Please.
Is it that I stood in the way of your 2-3 pm action or that I spoke honestly about your latest trophy? For what its worth, I've received many PM's on my willing to speak the truth, and tell the real story about a gal. You speak about principals? Do you have any idea what that means?
For what it's worth, I am Eddie Fucking Lewis, yea, that's right. I am a human, probably more than you will ever know or at least be. I am the one you tried real hard to ripp apart on that other piece of shit site, saying I was cop, or the same as FranklinPierce. Basically, you tried to diss my character over there and are trying the same here. For that, I say again, FUCK YOU AND THE HORSE YOU RODE THE FUCK IN ON!
Back the fuck off asshole, and watch who you try to get into it with! Go ahead, try to figure out who I am and what IP address I use.
Do me and many others a favor, shut the fuck up and get the hell off your high fucking horse!
All that aside, I love you man!
I give to you, your 2-3 pm time slot with Brooke!!
FUCKING ASSHOLE! YEA, THAT'S RIGHT, YOU HEARD ME!!
Have a shitty night you fucking piece of shit!! With all due respect of course! :
[QUOTE=LokiPk;1924535]First off, I must say it is good to see others here who have a 'moral compass' or at least a semblance of one!
Everybody plays and parties in their own way, I would never begrudge a fellow monger his fun. You like a feather duster up the wazoo while she whistles Dixie as you cum in cola can? :eek: More power to ya boys! You treat a girl as a throwaway cum-dumpster? Or less than a person? Yeah... I'm going to have a BIG problem with that.
Is that a threat? NO. Do I want to meet you 'up on the hill afterschool' ?.... NO Do I want to share information with you? NO!!!!
Plain and simple, the shit you pull reflects on us ALL. If you disagree with me, that is fine.... BUT, Remember, we project as much of our past history with others upon them, as they do on us. If you think it is ok to do that to her because of what other girls do to other guys, that is bad logic and flawed reasoning. Now, to suggest it is ok to pull that shit on a girl....{who DID NOTHING WRONG- other than not meet YOUR standards (which is a ridicules statement BTW)}. Is a total dick move bro. A text, a call, a simple 'thanks but not today' is all you needed to do. What the fuck is so hard to understand about that?!!?
The reason I asked what time this went down is that I had a tight window of opportunity yesterday and was trying to set-up with Brooke and I got hosed because somebody else was working the time slot just before me and screwed the whole operation for me. That was between 2-3 pm, so obviously not you or your fault.... Or really anybody's fault, sometimes it is just how the ball bounces...I have been doing it long enough to know this is how it goes and I don't get all wound up over it..... The point I'm trying to make is that SHE may have had a PAYING client who got 'parked' or dissed while she was WAITING for YOU....FUCK DUDE! Girls have to deal with no shows all the time, but to show up- make a new meet (in person). And then stiff the new / second session. May well have COST her $ And that is just not right.... You could have texted her from the end of the street, end of story.
Now..., for what it is worth, you should know I hate to 'white knight' for anyone!!! So for the record, I am not doing so now.... I am railing against the 'principle' of what you did and how it was handled, nothing more. You don't like the way she looked? I can dig that! She certainly has a 'goth-chic' appearance that may be more attractive in a dark room LOL :) . But DAMN she can suck a dick!! BUT, in the harsh light of day she didn't pass your litmus test- no worries! But just SAY SO. In any way, shape or form- OTHER than no show / stiff.
I am not looking for an apology (if you did I'd call you a fag ;) ) but to take a strong position on action like this is churlish and obtuse. When we have conversations regarding 'remember 'so and so'? Whatever happened to this chick or that one? THIS is the type of shit that pushes girls out of the biz. That turns them bitter and changes the attitude for the next guy on the wire. Food for thought.
Peace.
PK.[/QUOTE]
If the mods don't ban you, not only will I be shocked but extremely dissapointed. You are quite a piece of work and its guys like you that give the rest of us a bad name. Go ahead and tell me what a piece of shit I am and blah blah blah. Your opinion means nothing to me.
[QUOTE=EddieLewis;1924639]WOW!! Looks like I may have touched a nerve or two here. First off, FUCK YOU LOKI PK AND YOUR HORSE YOU RODE IN ON!
You tried real hard to DIS me on another site, [URL]eccie.net[/URL] and failed miserably on that attempt. You wish to play the word game with someone who knows how to do just that, simply let me know.
This game is just that, a game. You win some, you lose some. You get angry because I voice an opinion on a lady that you find attractive? You feel the need to rip me apart publicly because I disagree with your taste in women? You talk about morals yet you are paying for pussy likely because you can't find it anywhere else for free. You talk about treating a gal like shit or not. What the hell do you think you are doing?! You go on and on about these gals like they are a piece of meat, yet you call me out implying that I treat them like a piece of meat, less than human. DUDE. Please.
Is it that I stood in the way of your 2-3 pm action or that I spoke honestly about your latest trophy? For what its worth, I've received many PM's on my willing to speak the truth, and tell the real story about a gal. You speak about principals? Do you have any idea what that means?
For what it's worth, I am Eddie Fucking Lewis, yea, that's right. I am a human, probably more than you will ever know or at least be. I am the one you tried real hard to ripp apart on that other piece of shit site, saying I was cop, or the same as FranklinPierce. Basically, you tried to diss my character over there and are trying the same here. For that, I say again, FUCK YOU AND THE HORSE YOU RODE THE FUCK IN ON!
Back the fuck off asshole, and watch who you try to get into it with! Go ahead, try to figure out who I am and what IP address I use.
Do me and many others a favor, shut the fuck up and get the hell off your high fucking horse!
All that aside, I love you man!
I give to you, your 2-3 pm time slot with Brooke!!
FUCKING ASSHOLE! YEA, THAT'S RIGHT, YOU HEARD ME!!
Have a shitty night you fucking piece of shit!! With all due respect of course! :[/QUOTE]
[quote=msanders;1924731]if the mods don't ban you, not only will i be shocked but extremely dissapointed. you are quite a piece of work and its guys like you that give the rest of us a bad name. go ahead and tell me what a piece of shit i am and blah blah blah. your opinion means nothing to me.[/quote][blue]loki said it right in the backpage thread; "meet me in rants and raves and i'll tell you the rest of what i think."
threads like this were designed for you guys to call each other names and work this kind of shit out and not pollute the review threads. some rules still apply, no threats, no revealing personal info, no std allegations or arrest reports, as always nothing about **** people.
you may however call somebody a fuckwad, douchebag, cocksucking nazi faggot if you want. though you can't call them a nigger, spick, kike, jap (but jap. is ok if they are japanese just like aa is ok if they are african american) cracker, and if they are actually gay you can't call them a faggot. we have no time for hate speech on the forum.
families are off limits, though i have in the past allowed guys to say that they enjoyed fucking somebodies sister (if it turns out the sister is dead or a nun though an apology, a serious apology not a bullshit one, must be immediately proffered)
these threads exist for this kind of shit. if this sort of thing bunches your panties (not aimed at you msanders i'm just hijacking your post for a psa) give this thread a skip in the future.
flame on ladies,
a2
ps i will admit i prefer seeing more originality than this;
[quote]have a shitty night you fucking piece of shit![/quote]you have the [b]entire[/b] english language at your disposal and that was the best you could do?[/blue]
[QUOTE=EddieLewis;1924639]WOW!! Looks like I may have touched a nerve or two here. First off, FUCK YOU LOKI PK AND YOUR HORSE YOU RODE IN ON!:[/QUOTE]Someone touched a nerve somewhere, THAT's for sure LOL- I'm all in disarray, oooohh!
[QUOTE=EddieLewis;1924639] You get angry because I voice an opinion on a lady that you find attractive? You feel the need to rip me apart publicly because I disagree with your taste in women?:[/QUOTE]I didn't RIP you apart publicly, but it sure does sound like you need a WHAAA-mmm-bulance.
I.
[QUOTE=EddieLewis;1924639]is it that I stood in the way of your 2-3 pm action or that I spoke honestly about your latest trophy? For what its worth, I've received many PM's on my willing to speak the truth, and tell the real story about a gal. You speak about principals? Do you have any idea what that means?:[/QUOTE]Trophy! Hardly! You somehow got that she is my new ATF from a single visit / report? Where the FUCK did I say that? Yes she gives good head, and I'll go back for more= so far, that's all I can say or have said. And why is it always the 'many PM's ' yada yada yada? Whatev's!
[QUOTE=EddieLewis;1924639]
FUCKING ASSHOLE! YEA, THAT'S RIGHT, YOU HEARD ME!!
Have a shitty night you fucking piece of shit!! With all due respect of course! :[/QUOTE]I just don't think I'll sleep well knowing how irate you are with my tart assessment of your actions. Instead of just saying 'perhaps I could have handled it better'- you go off like a devil in church. HAHAHA touched a nerve indeed- like a 12 yr old whose Mom found his porn stash! So with all due respect to you 'right honorable gentlemen'.
-"I would like to direct this to the distinguished members of the panel: You lousy cork-soakers. You have violated my farging rights. Dis somanumbatching country was founded so that the liberties of common patriotic citizens like me could not be taken away by a bunch of fargin iceholes... Like yourselves!
Peace.
PK.
[quote=admin2;1924769][blue]loki said it right in the backpage thread; "meet me in rants and raves and i'll tell you the rest of what i think."
threads like this were designed for you guys to call each other names and work this kind of shit out and not pollute the review threads. some rules still apply, no threats, no revealing personal info, no std allegations or arrest reports, as always nothing about **** people.
you may however call somebody a fuckwad, douchebag, cocksucking nazi faggot if you want. though you can't call them a nigger, spick, kike, jap (but jap. is ok if they are japanese just like aa is ok if they are african american) cracker, and if they are actually gay you can't call them a faggot. we have no time for hate speech on the forum.
families are off limits, though i have in the past allowed guys to say that they enjoyed fucking somebodies sister (if it turns out the sister is dead or a nun though an apology, a serious apology not a bullshit one, must be immediately proffered)
these threads exist for this kind of shit. if this sort of thing bunches your panties (not aimed at you msanders i'm just hijacking your post for a psa) give this thread a skip in the future.
flame on ladies,
a2
ps i will admit i prefer seeing more originality than this;
you have the [b]entire[/b] english language at your disposal and that was the best you could do?[/blue][/quote]to the point with more than just a bit of humor (funny shit a2) injected. this is exactly why this thread was started, so you can call a douch a douch without getting bounced.
[URL]http://albany.backpage.com/BodyRubs/touched-by-an-angel-in-calls-rnret-try-the-very-best-vetsspec-weekend45-and-75-off-44/5108362[/URL]
[QUOTE=SilverFox69;1925122][URL]http://albany.backpage.com/BodyRubs/touched-by-an-angel-in-calls-rnret-try-the-very-best-vetsspec-weekend45-and-75-off-44/5108362[/URL][/QUOTE]Thats hilarious. I saw her once...as been previously reviewed she doesn't stop talking for one second. The time I was at her place she couldn't get her music to play and that didn't help. Before the happy ending she paused the session to take a shit. Then went immediately for the HJ and was wondering why "I wasnt happy to see her"!
[QUOTE=SilverFox69;1925122][URL]http://albany.backpage.com/BodyRubs/touched-by-an-angel-in-calls-rnret-try-the-very-best-vetsspec-weekend45-and-75-off-44/5108362[/URL][/QUOTE]I've been touched by that Angel and I wouldn't wish that on anybody.
[QUOTE=SilverFox69;1925122][URL]http://albany.backpage.com/BodyRubs/touched-by-an-angel-in-calls-rnret-try-the-very-best-vetsspec-weekend45-and-75-off-44/5108362[/URL][/QUOTE]Ummmm. No. I saw her once and that was enough. If a bridge had been closer I might have jumped off of it.
This is an ellipses (...) this is a comma (,) this is a period (.) they are not fucking interchangeable! Please tell your friends.
Just saying,
A2.
Hi all in my humble opinion most of you need to grow up. I've spoken to the lady in question and found her sketchy. You may care less or ask why? I believe her mental status is frequently compromised by mind altering substances and her rates fluctuate frequently. The funny thing is as per her physical description, is it spinner? She's just what I like. PK with respect you tend to dominate the conversation and do attempt to impose your methodology on other consumers. I don't know or care to know the man who referred to these women as pieces of meat, crude dude. I like to be polite, I refuse to give detailed accounts about how much cum I unloaded on her tits, face or ass, in fact I find it unnecessary and crude. To each his own as one of you said. I'm not as active as I once was too many rate increases and less than polite providers. So I'll stick to the girls I know who provide basic service at a fair rate. Name calling is just plain ignorant, I won't engage. Peace, out.