Looks like I dodged a bullet on her
A while ago (a couple of years? I decided to give her a try. I called her to see if she had time that evening, and if not, when she thought she might be available the next day. I think I was checking for a session at least 3-4 hours ahead, and her post had just gone up (I remember it was at or near the top of the BP ads), so I assumed she was free for sessions. When I called, I didn't say, "Yo, skank, I want to come over in 20 minutes, that cool?" -- when scheduling something like this, I acknowledge it's a same-day request and ask if the lady has availability, not assume it. (Basic manners go a long way, after all.).
In response, I got a tirade about how people expect her to drop everything and take care of them, how she's a professional woman and does this on the sideline, can't handle short notice requests, etc. She told me she had no way to check what her availability was because she was in the middle of some critical work thing and I'd need to call later. The whole tirade was seriously at least 2 minutes long. (I have to wonder what sort of "workplace" wouldn't look askance on someone ranting in a normal voice about this sort of thing.).
I guess I caught her on a bad day or something, but I assume that if you get rude treatment on the phone -- and I mean rude, not cautious, like asking for references or screening -- you'll be treated no better in the session. I told her I'd call her back and of course never did. Based on your report, it looks like I dodged a bullet.
Finding someone on BP who does edging well is tough, I suppose because of the number of clockwatchers out there, and maybe it's not something a lot of guys explicitly look for. (One time, I asked for it in a MP. I described what I was looking for instead of just saying "edging", and she was a native English speaker, so there was no confusion over what I was saying. Her response was honest confusion, and she asked, "why would you want to delay it when I could just finish you?
It's great there's someone who can do it well; too bad the negatives far outweigh the positives for her.
[QUOTE=Dominick69;2882500]Got a kick out of this one. She ads for massage in area and is mature in age. Lives in nice residential area so she asked me to come over carrying a brief case or folder to look like a business person. I'm surprised she didn't ask me to dress in a suit. She got a large head and shoulders like a linebacker. No sex appeal. Massage was very good for price and not rushed. Got a very happy edging which was so good I started to moan out loud in completion, and she said shut up, shut up, the neighbors will hear. I told her if you were not so good I would not scream and she settled down. Did some roaming and fingering but this is something I would not want to go down on and did not pursue. More may be available if you are hard up.[/QUOTE]
Help out a traveling monger
Hello Chicago mongers. I am traveling to the area in a couple weeks, staying in the NW Burbs. Was hoping to enjoy the time with some local talent. Any chance you'd recommend someone who does outcalls?
Thanks! If you're ever in the baltimore area, I will return the favor.
Downtown vs. Suburban Provider Hosting.
Downtown you have no choice but to absorb some of the cost of the Hotel. If you have to get a Hotel on your own downtown I sure hope she's worth it. And if you have to pay for parking, well we all know how expensive parking is downtown.
Suburban Motels are a better cost alternative. Most have hourly rates for around 40 dollars and free parking. During my most recent play the motel costs me 40 dollars for four hours. Granted I didn't use the entire four hours to play. But it was worth it to see this provider.
Some city providers have their own place to play.
Almost worse. Finding that a provider and I had the same close friend.
[QUOTE=Vbenny;2883522]Had an unreal moment at work today when one of the providers I have had dreams with came in. The nice thing is that we're a larger organization (more than 200 employees) and that she did not notice me walk right by her. She came in talking with some guy who I assume was her boyfriend and just kept walking by. I 100% knew it was her and am thankful that she didn't notice me. Anyone with a similar experience?[/QUOTE]I once contacted one of the higher-end ladies, one you'd all know at least the name of. She was very, very nice on the phone Very forthcoming, maybe because I had been pre-screened through P411. So, we got to talking and, lo and behold, a real-life friend of hers and mine lived a couple of blocks away. Because of who that friend was, I knew who she was and she could have found out who I was, as in real names.
For expense reasons, I never did see her but that could have been a bit awkward.
