Safety is number 1 priority
[QUOTE=RP469;7491374]Lhern has left us. This is what I have from him: "No longer gatekeeping for Seleste and I actually no longer want anything to do with this community. I was going to write a whole spiel about why, but I just don't care anymore".
Gatekeeping is definitely not easy. It's very time consuming to look at posts of members who want digits. But you have to. There are a lot of sick fucks out there, and the only thing I got are your posts. So basically I have to read in between the lines to determine what kind of person you are. If I can't determine that, or if there is a concern, no digits will be given. Then of course, you got the attackers. Who are pissed because they didn't get any digits. For me, I call them the RP haters, and trust me I got plenty of them. I try to make this as safe as possible for both. So please post your experiences so I can better determine your eligibility. Let's make this community safe for all.
RP.[/QUOTE]Gatekeeping is not easy. The provider that wants you to help her is obviously comfortable with you and trusts you. She might be too busy with real life to do it all herself. At least 1/3 of the guys on USA are a holes which is why Gatekeeping is necessary. If I have any concerns, then that person doesn't get digits. It's that simple. Gatekeepers are not on here to make friends with mongers, they are here to make sure the provider they are screening for remains safe.
You would not make the cut
[QUOTE=S6776;7492021]So what is the criteria? Because no one on here knows anyone else personally so your judgement is really random. You don't know, that is why these girls have their own screening process. And how do you make sure the provider remains safe? Do you go to the date and watch, be a bodyguard? That sounds like a pimp to me. Regardless, picking and choosing who gets a number based on your own criteria is not the way to do it. I've spoke with many of these girls about this issue when I've seen them and they all say the same thing, they just want business and want their number given as much as possible. They want to do their own screening process. Check out the post in the UTR #16764. That sums it up perfectly.
So unless you can tell me that you personally can vouch for every monger on here, then don't use some silly criteria to make them jump thru hoops to get a number. This site is all about sharing experiences, lets do that. And again, this is what the girls on here want. Not my call, this is them saying this. Ask them yourself.[/QUOTE]Why? Look at your posts.
Agree with some disagree with others
[QUOTE=JohnyBig;7492049]That's why if you want to help a girl show them how to get their own escort profile point people to them directly then with reviews. Then its up to the girl to figure it out. They can post thank yous to good reviews and then people just message them directly. Its their issue then. JB.[/QUOTE]I have suggested to a few girls that they should get an advertiser profile here, and do thier own screening.
[QUOTE=S6776;7492021]So what is the criteria? Because no one on here knows anyone else personally so your judgement is really random. You don't know, that is why these girls have their own screening process. And how do you make sure the provider remains safe? Do you go to the date and watch, be a bodyguard? That sounds like a pimp to me. Regardless, picking and choosing who gets a number based on your own criteria is not the way to do it. I've spoke with many of these girls about this issue when I've seen them and they all say the same thing, they just want business and want their number given as much as possible. They want to do their own screening process. Check out the post in the UTR #16764. That sums it up perfectly.
So unless you can tell me that you personally can vouch for every monger on here, then don't use some silly criteria to make them jump thru hoops to get a number. This site is all about sharing experiences, lets do that. And again, this is what the girls on here want. Not my call, this is them saying this. Ask them yourself.[/QUOTE]I have been a gatekeeper a few times and the girls always thank me for watching out and not sending scum bags. There are some that just want numbers, but real UTR's what to feel somewhat safe. No, I don't know who is on the other side of a screen name, but I can tell a lot about what type of person you are by the way you write your posts.
