He just made an observation.
[QUOTE=Pink Chaser]I totally disagree, if you are at a strip club and sitting at the stage you should be tipping. Its not like she is obligated to come talk with you just because you tipped her, she did her part by taking her clothes off and you did yours by giving her your dollars. If she was sitting with a custumer before hand it is understandable that she would go back to him after she got off stage and continue to hustle him for that dance (most girls have a system of sitting and talking with a man and pretending they give a shit about him before they ask for a dance) quit feeling sorry for yourself and see the business for what it is.[/QUOTE]
He wasn't feeling sorry for himself. All he mentioned was that the girls used to stop by for a quick "thank you" if you had tipped them during the dance. I haven't been to a club in a couple of years, so I didn't know that they don't do that anymore. But he's right, that is what most of the dancers would do. It also served as a way to ask you to buy a dance.
Strippers' lack of thanks and getting them away from the other guy and on YOUR lap
Yeah, as others have said, strippers have forgotten how to thank those who tipped them on the stage. Or, rather, the idiots that now own and run the strip clubs have no idea how to manage the girls beyond saying, "Go to work."
They won't do it on their own. As Al Lucas, the owner of such legendary spots (on the Pinellas side) as Daddy-O's, Fountain Blue, Sugar Daddy's and (how many of you go back THIS far?) The Trap Lounge, used to say of strippers, "They are not smart."
So, knowing that strippers will not clue in to your interest on their own and that managers and owners are not smart enough to teach them this, here's Mr. Wazowski's simple advice on getting a stripper away from the guy she's wasting her time with.
After she ignores your stage tip - and, really, even a shitty stripper makes more in a day than the average working man. So, really, if you tipped her a buck, even five dollars, that is not enough money to make her believe you're going to make her night.
But I digress... So, don't let her lack of business sense keep you from getting that ass if you do, in fact, wish to sample that fine young thing's ass in the VIP, Champagne or whatever they call the back room at that club. After she ignores your stage tip and goes to sit with the guy who wasn't taking her in back before she got on stage, walk right over to where she's wasting her time.
Right in front of the dude, drop a twenty into her hand, bra or whatever is convenient. Don't whisper, say it so it can be heard... "If you are interested in making money, I think I have more for you in the VIP (or whatever) room than you seem to be making here."
Either that guy is going to pony up some cash to keep her to himself or he'll have to sulk because she leaves his line of bullshit for your cold, hard, real cash.
Here's the best part: Hope the guy opens his, previously, closed wallet. He'll be, already, spending more than he planned to AND he'll spend double what he THINKS you were going to spend.
What does that get you? Stick around. You'll, nine time out of ten, probably swing a freebie take-out from her for being the cool guy who made the loser spend money he never intended to spend.
That's the best thing about strippers vs. escorts. Strippers are quick with the freebies to the guys they think are cool.
But if the guy just has no cash, she'll be at your table in a heart beat and you should, in return, take her to the back in half a heart beat.
I don't know about the rest of you but in the pay for play game, I'm looking for a visual stunner. If I'm in a strip club and I spot the girl I've just got to introduce Little Wazowski to, I'm letting her know, no matter what she's doing or who she's sitting with, that Mike has money and is ready to play for real.
I know she's not smart. I know no one in the club has taught her how to spot guys who are interested in her. I accept that the only thing that will take her mind off whatever it is that is distracting her from figuring out I want her in the back room is to come right out and interupt her and let her know where the action is.