I got a very nice offer from a spinner in a central/south Tampa club the other day. During our dance session it was sort of like an interview for take-out. She seemed like she might be a lot of fun. I'll take a shot and report back on it.
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I got a very nice offer from a spinner in a central/south Tampa club the other day. During our dance session it was sort of like an interview for take-out. She seemed like she might be a lot of fun. I'll take a shot and report back on it.
[QUOTE=Justin Urrkunt]Everyone be careful. Hillsborough County sheriff's deputies are staking out clubs undercover. An officer was at Deja Vu on Hwy 60 in Brandon.[/QUOTE]
And you know this how? If you are going to make such a statement, you should at least offer some proof.
I went this weekend. Had a blast. Spent a ton on 4 private dances, but left happy. One dance was better than the rest, but no details, she made me promise it was our little secret.
[QUOTE=Parker Ave]I went this weekend. Had a blast. Spent a ton on 4 private dances, but left happy. One dance was better than the rest, but no details, she made me promise it was our little secret.[/QUOTE]
That's funny, I met a girl there last Wednesday who told me that the things we did were our little secret too. Long brown hair and nice ass! I wonder how many little secrets she has out there, lol.
The only thing I don't like about this club is that there never seem to be a lot of customers so all the girls keep walking up to you and asking for dances. I like to go in and watch to see who is working, who I am going to get a dance from and which one's look attractive to me. I hate sitting there and saying "no" all the time. Anyone have any ideas or have similar situations? I would love to know how you handle them.
[QUOTE=Jnsmcd]That's funny, I met a girl there last Wednesday who told me that the things we did were our little secret too. Long brown hair and nice ass! I wonder how many little secrets she has out there, lol.
The only thing I don't like about this club is that there never seem to be a lot of customers so all the girls keep walking up to you and asking for dances. I like to go in and watch to see who is working, who I am going to get a dance from and which one's look attractive to me. I hate sitting there and saying "no" all the time. Anyone have any ideas or have similar situations? I would love to know how you handle them.[/QUOTE]I like it when there are less customers. Then I get to look around and pick whichever one I like. I hate having to say no all the time too but these girls are used to it. They get it all day long. Other girls look too so if you decline a few the others will kind of get the hint. This is bad if you expect the girl you want to approach you cause she may not want to waste time trying if she saw U-turn down everyone. Just tip her while she's dancing and say you want a dance.
I'm starting to hate YS. Seems like the girls I like don't put out and the only ones that do are not that great or worth what they're asking. I've spent way too much $ finding out which ones don't offer extras.
The room fee and the "buy the girl a drink" bullshit fees are almost enough for me to stop going just on principle. We should all boycott YS until this BS changes.
[QUOTE=Jnsmcd]That's funny, I met a girl there last Wednesday who told me that the things we did were our little secret too. Long brown hair and nice ass! I wonder how many little secrets she has out there, lol.
The only thing I don't like about this club is that there never seem to be a lot of customers so all the girls keep walking up to you and asking for dances. I like to go in and watch to see who is working, who I am going to get a dance from and which one's look attractive to me. I hate sitting there and saying "no" all the time. Anyone have any ideas or have similar situations? I would love to know how you handle them.[/QUOTE]I really don't go anymore, but I had a response to that scenario when I did. If I hadn't been there long I'd say I wanted to have a few more drinks and relax a bit. If I had already been there for a while I'd say I wanted to get more of a buzz before I was ready for a dance. If I was interested in her I'd ask her to check back later. If I knew I wasn't I'd ask her about one of the other girls who I was attracted to. She usually would get the point and it always worked out well.
[QUOTE=Jnsmcd]That's funny, I met a girl there last Wednesday who told me that the things we did were our little secret too. Long brown hair and nice ass! I wonder how many little secrets she has out there, lol.
The only thing I don't like about this club is that there never seem to be a lot of customers so all the girls keep walking up to you and asking for dances. I like to go in and watch to see who is working, who I am going to get a dance from and which one's look attractive to me. I hate sitting there and saying "no" all the time. Anyone have any ideas or have similar situations? I would love to know how you handle them.[/QUOTE]
Honesty actually works well. "I just got here and I want to enjoy the show." Do that to a couple and usually the others (or at least the others watching) will take note. Better (though more costiler) tack is to just sit at the stage and tip a bit. Costs a couple bucks but you're usually OK.
[QUOTE=Jnsmcd]That's funny, I met a girl there last Wednesday who told me that the things we did were our little secret too. Long brown hair and nice ass! I wonder how many little secrets she has out there, lol.
The only thing I don't like about this club is that there never seem to be a lot of customers so all the girls keep walking up to you and asking for dances. I like to go in and watch to see who is working, who I am going to get a dance from and which one's look attractive to me. I hate sitting there and saying "no" all the time. Anyone have any ideas or have similar situations? I would love to know how you handle them.[/QUOTE]
Was it Jamie? Sounds like her.
As for where to sit, try the tables against the wall by the ATM. Or just sit at the bar.
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The only thing I don't like about this club is that there never seem to be a lot of customers so all the girls keep walking up to you and asking for dances. I like to go in and watch to see who is working, who I am going to get a dance from and which one's look attractive to me. I hate sitting there and saying "no" all the time. Anyone have any ideas or have similar situations? I would love to know how you handle them.[/QUOTE]
I just tell them "I'm waiting on Jayden" They will say 'OK' or 'I'll go get her" Sometimes they ask if they can sit by me while I wait, which is cool because I just ask them questions about the new girls while I wait. Scarlett's @ Ybor Strip is an SEP, (Skiper Endorsed Provider)
Stay safe & have fun Boys!
[QUOTE=Longhairngotee] If I hadn't been there long I'd say I wanted to have a few more drinks and relax a bit. If I had already been there for a while I'd say I wanted to get more of a buzz before I was ready for a dance.[/QUOTE]So...when did Y start serving REAL drinks?
NMJ
[QUOTE=Not My Job]So...when did Y start serving REAL drinks?
NMJ[/QUOTE]You mean O'Douls ain't real?!?!? YMMV, but some of my buds usually sneak in a mini of rum or vodka with them into the club to pour into their cokes once they get there.
Where to sit? I'd MUCH rather sit AWAY from the stage and go up and tip whenever they have a particularly hot dancer rather than sit there continuously and be expected to tip EVERY dancer that goes up (including the ones that don't appeal to me at all). Is it really such a big hassle to tell the few that come up to you when seated at the tables, that either: a) you're not interested or b) you just walked in and want to enjoy the show a little bit first before you make any decisions. Like Tucker said as long as you have a little backbone and just tell them like it is, there are only so many dancers there after the 1st few get turned away the rest will usually get the idea. And if they choose to sit with you anyway then that is their choice just as it is your choice how and when to spend your money. It is really much MORE of a hassle to sit at the stage and look like a real cheapskate by not tipping when every dancer who goes up there performs right in front of you and then pulls at her garter in expectation of a tip. So I definitely disagree with that part of his post. IMHO, Wook had the much better suggestion about sitting either along the back wall or at the bar. Personally, I like to go and sit down right at the tables on the far side of the stage after you come in, cuz that is where the dancers usually cluster and I often like to stir things up a bit by taking over their space :)
BTW, I think a bigger problem is in NOT having the dancers that you're really interested in doing some dances with come up to you, particularly after you've been blowing off all their uglier co-workers since the moment you came in. It amazws me how many dancers at many of these clubs don't bother to go around to thank all the guys who've tipped them on stage after they get off. You'd think they'd realize that these guys liked them enough to tip (particularly when they tip them more than they tip the other girls) and that therefore they'd be more likely to be interested in doing a special dance or at least buying them a drink. Anyway, the solution to dancers ignoring you is simple straightforwardness just as it was for blowing off the ones who won't leave you alone. When you see one you like on the stage (or even just passing by your table) just come right out and invite them to stop by your table when they get a chance.
Re: Jayden, IMHO easily the hottest looking spinner in there and she certainly does give a good lap dance (if you can ignore the upselling) but she really has her limits on what she'll do (at least at any reasonable price) so IMHE she really ISN'T the one to go with if you're looking for extras. Or has anyone here had a different experience with her?
[QUOTE=Not My Job]So...when did Y start serving REAL drinks?
NMJ[/QUOTE]My bad. Wasn't referring to YS specifically, just the problem the OP asked about. My usual haunts were topless bars where I could get a beer. That's just the way I handled the situation in any club. Of course it would be tailored to suit no alcohol locations.
[QUOTE=Chase Star]... It amazes me how many dancers at many of these clubs don't bother to go around to thank all the guys who've tipped them on stage after they get off. ...[/QUOTE]Back in the '90s, when I was going multiple days a week, every girl you stage tipped would come by with a thank you and a peck on the cheek. Didn't matter what club it was. I stopped going for several years around '02 or '03. The handful of times I've gone since that often doesn't even happen. Off the stage and straight to the dancer/employee huddle near the bar or dressing room. Or straight back to the customer she was with before being called on stage, ignoring everyone who tipped her up there. Just added to the other things that left me feeling burned out on the dancer scene. Anymore I only go if a woman I know wants to see what it's like.
[QUOTE=Longhairngotee]Back in the '90s, when I was going multiple days a week, every girl you stage tipped would come by with a thank you and a peck on the cheek. Didn't matter what club it was. I stopped going for several years around '02 or '03. The handful of times I've gone since that often doesn't even happen. Off the stage and straight to the dancer/employee huddle near the bar or dressing room. Or straight back to the customer she was with before being called on stage, ignoring everyone who tipped her up there. Just added to the other things that left me feeling burned out on the dancer scene. Anymore I only go if a woman I know wants to see what it's like.[/QUOTE]I totally disagree, if you are at a strip club and sitting at the stage you should be tipping. Its not like she is obligated to come talk with you just because you tipped her, she did her part by taking her clothes off and you did yours by giving her your dollars. If she was sitting with a custumer before hand it is understandable that she would go back to him after she got off stage and continue to hustle him for that dance (most girls have a system of sitting and talking with a man and pretending they give a shit about him before they ask for a dance) quit feeling sorry for yourself and see the business for what it is.
[QUOTE=Pink Chaser]I totally disagree, if you are at a strip club and sitting at the stage you should be tipping. Its not like she is obligated to come talk with you just because you tipped her, she did her part by taking her clothes off and you did yours by giving her your dollars. If she was sitting with a custumer before hand it is understandable that she would go back to him after she got off stage and continue to hustle him for that dance (most girls have a system of sitting and talking with a man and pretending they give a shit about him before they ask for a dance) quit feeling sorry for yourself and see the business for what it is.[/QUOTE]Disagree as much as you like. I simply made an observation about a bit of decorum that seems to have disappeared over the years, similar to a comment made by a previous poster. I NEVER said I was sitting at the stage. Like many patrons, I would get up from the bar or a table to tip the girl on stage. Better yet, get the girl sitting with me to stage tip. Much hotter! It was once fairly standard practice that the ladies thanked all tippers in the manner I described. Even if they were working a guy they'd make a circuit to say thanks. It's just how they did it "back then." BTW, I spent as much time in the DJ booth as I did in the crowd, so I get the business dynamic. I've had plenty of dancer friends outside the clubs, and I've heard their commentary on the ups and downs of it. Overall I just got bored with the strip club scene and moved on. Feeling sorry for myself? Not at all, that's your illusion. Switch to decaff and calm down.