Financial Domination Client
I prefer doing full service GFE. Maybe it's because I feel more comfortable doing this. I don't mind some fetishes, but I don't advertise them on my ad and site. I couldn't imagine what I'd be asked to do LOL. I did advertise dom services, but took that down. I don't mind being dominant, but oftentimes with this service it involved humiliation too which isn't my thing. I did do a call where my client asked for domination with humiliation and all I could think was here I am with a be. A. In Psychology and a social worker trying to help people in need yet I'm abusing some poor guy who probably has a history of being abused or bullied. Maybe I'm wrong, but I cannot fathom why a guy would want me to call him a no good loser. And laugh at him and tell him he has a small penis when he jacks off in front of me. It was really weird for me. I shouldn't be judgmental I know, but it made me uncomfortable so I never did another session with him again. Now with domination fetishes they generally don't want to have sex, at least in my limited experiences. He wanted to jack off, not touch me. He didn't even want me to take my clothes off! I wore a long black goth dress and pointy black boots. He also wanted me to stomp on him and he paid me $300 for an hour. What do you guys think of this fetish?
So the financial domination client wants to be humiliated too! I forgot to mention this in my last post. He wants me to belittle him in private and public! Demand money for him and call him derogatory names in front of the people around us! It's just not my thing. I don't think I can see him anymore. Even without the humiliation I don't want to see this client. I've always been a workaholic, working for really low wages, but I did something meaningful. Providing GFE services is meaningful too. I really am making a positive difference in people's lives, don't you think? Most of the mentally ill clients and the adults I worked with drug and alcohol addictions never got better. It was damn frustrating when you want to see results from the work you do and sometimes the clients make no progress and even decline. Also I'm not used to money being handed to me without doing anything for it and to possibly bankrupt someone?? Not like I wouldn't want to win the lottery and if I had a sugar daddy, sure I'd go on vacations with him and if he wanted to give me an allowance that'd be great. But I'd plan to spend a lot of time with him in and out of the sack and I'd expect him to be able to afford me.
It's weird that the financial domination client picked me out of all the escorts on backpage. With some of these terrible service providers who want to rip the guys off, with pimps and such, this would be their dream job! Actually when you do see a SP and she isn't into it, upsells or tried to rush you, why don't you suggest she become a dom who offers humiliation as welli? It'd probably suit her more and the guys would be willing to pay more for her services. I don't know how many calls she'd get, but I'm pretty sure it's a popular fetish and not much competition on backpage.
Another unusual session involved a client who only wanted me to spank him while he laid face down on my lap. He wouldn't let me touch his cock. He put a condom on and jerked off into it while I spanked him. He wasn't there very long, maybe a little over half an hour to 45 min, most of the session he wanted to chat. He had bought me victoria's secret lingerie, and a card with the donation in it. I didn't open the envelope until after he left. He knew my donation was 125 hh and 200 an hour. He left me $475! I text him and thanked him profusely. The guys who want dom services seem to want to pay higher rates! So far that's my experience as limited as it is. I'm in Long Island trying to decide whether I want to escort or not. I'm not familiar with this area so it makes me uncomfortable (with le) That would really suck if I miss the races on Sat due to me being arrested! Anyway I hope everyone is doing well and Yellowfever I'm glad you are back from your hiatus! Xoxo.
I posted this article in my sex worker's rights group on fb
[URL]http://www.bostonglobe.com/opinion/2014/05/30/curb-prostitution-concentrate-johns/MZcgXTN3INN1jEg4A2Ow8K/story.html[/URL]
I know you have already posted the original story. This is another one where the news reporter is offering his opinion on human trafficking and sex work. Maybe he doesn't realize this, but most of the escorts I'm familiar with are willing participants, not coerced like he suggests. Seriously, I didn't realize I was being coerced into escorting! Why don't they interview the SP's anonymously and see how many of us are being coerced?? Especially the SPs who are charging $300 an up and hour. This guy is an imbecile! He compares "johns" to reckless drivers. Also that the majority have criminal records. I see guys from all walks of life, from teachers, to doctors, lawyers, therapists and I doubt that most of them have criminal records! I wonder how they are coming up with these results. Now I can't understand if this article is implying that they will only be arresting the guys, not the SP's? Is it the end of taking one for the team? Too bad for the new ladies who are most likely getting into the business of their own free will. I know that trafficking must exist, because some of the SP's do have pimps, but I'm thinking it's the exception not the rule. If someone conducts a study that's more objective I wonder what the results would be? Although who in the heck would want to participate anyway?
