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[QUOTE=WhiteBear20;7456804]So I found a (reviewed) provider on PD. I'm experienced enough that I can sift through the fake reviews, and can get a good read on the provider via text messages. I'm also very picky about who I'll let come to my house. Because it's my house. Most of us here are locals without anonymous and risk-free hotel rooms.

This provider showed up and did everything I hate. She wanted more money ("a tip" before anything even started) and she wouldn't do the thing she was coy about via text ("we con talk about that when I get there honey, but I'm very open-minded! And even worse, her pics were pretty far from reality. Oh, and she had her girlfriend waiting in the car outside.

All of these things ruined the mood for me and I was no longer interested in anything with her. She'd made it to my room at this point. I calmly told her she'd ruined it for me due to the negotiating. She acted like it was my first time and should have known better. I gave her $ for gas and time and sent her on her way. She left in peace and didn't complain. I actually am a long drive, so that amount seemed fair.

Here's the thing. Most of me wanted to give her nothing as she misled me the whole time. And in a hotel I'd have tossed her right out and not given it a second thought. And for an incall I'd have bailed. But this is my home, and she now knows where I live. I wanted to keep the peace and not worry about her returning pissed off and doing some damage. $ was worth it to not have to worry about her. Of course I could also post a bad review. But she still knows where I live.

So. What say you, members? Worth the $? Should I just have tossed her and taken the risk of retribution? What am I not thinking of here?

I'm not Senior but I've seen many providers and am hardly a newb. This interaction has stuck with me. I don't want to post her profile just yet.[/QUOTE]Red flag phrases: "we can talk in person" & "I'm very open-minded" which are really euphemisms for "I'll agree to anything over the phone as long as we meet in person first" & "get ready to get upsold a lot".

I'd post them here and the scam reports thread so that this business practice becomes less common at least.

Personally, I'd have thrown her out as retribution but like you said, not a great idea to make an enemy for no reason.

[QUOTE=WhiteBear20;7456804]So I found a (reviewed) provider on PD. I'm experienced enough that I can sift through the fake reviews, and can get a good read on the provider via text messages. I'm also very picky about who I'll let come to my house. Because it's my house. Most of us here are locals without anonymous and risk-free hotel rooms.

This provider showed up and did everything I hate. She wanted more money ("a tip" before anything even started) and she wouldn't do the thing she was coy about via text ("we con talk about that when I get there honey, but I'm very open-minded! And even worse, her pics were pretty far from reality. Oh, and she had her girlfriend waiting in the car outside.

All of these things ruined the mood for me and I was no longer interested in anything with her. She'd made it to my room at this point. I calmly told her she'd ruined it for me due to the negotiating. She acted like it was my first time and should have known better. I gave her $ for gas and time and sent her on her way. She left in peace and didn't complain. I actually am a long drive, so that amount seemed fair.

Here's the thing. Most of me wanted to give her nothing as she misled me the whole time. And in a hotel I'd have tossed her right out and not given it a second thought. And for an incall I'd have bailed. But this is my home, and she now knows where I live. I wanted to keep the peace and not worry about her returning pissed off and doing some damage. $ was worth it to not have to worry about her. Of course I could also post a bad review. But she still knows where I live.

So. What say you, members? Worth the $? Should I just have tossed her and taken the risk of retribution? What am I not thinking of here?

I'm not Senior but I've seen many providers and am hardly a newb. This interaction has stuck with me. I don't want to post her profile just yet.[/QUOTE]Since you asked, I see several mistakes I would avoid in the future.

1. No such thing as a "good read" by texting, a phone call gives me so much information about the person, not only their sincerity but the basic attitude they bring towards meeting you. Maybe you are a young person and not used to talking on the phone, this is a real handicap for this newer generation.

2. I always do an incall first maybe 2 or 3 times. Then we talk about what I need to come to my place.

3. No person comes onto my house unless I know who they are, that means full name and DOB that I have verified ahead of time.

4. The first 2 visits I insist they park in my garage, this keeps no one else showing up with her, and there is no easy "get the money and dash scenario", but by the time I have them to my place the cash and dash is not a worry for me.

If you review my posts, you will see I have talked about the 3 point system I use to see someone new. It has worked well for many years now.

Good luck in the future.

I'm perfectly middle-aged haha.

No fear of the phone, and honestly I didn't think of it. I should do a video verify the same as some providers require. I like the garage idea too.

I always prefer incall for a first visit, it's just not always available.

Thanks!

[QUOTE=ForestWood;7457157]Since you asked, I see several mistakes I would avoid in the future.

1. No such thing as a "good read" by texting, a phone call gives me so much information about the person, not only their sincerity but the basic attitude they bring towards meeting you. Maybe you are a young person and not used to talking on the phone, this is a real handicap for this newer generation.

2. I always do an incall first maybe 2 or 3 times. Then we talk about what I need to come to my place.

3. No person comes onto my house unless I know who they are, that means full name and DOB that I have verified ahead of time.

4. The first 2 visits I insist they park in my garage, this keeps no one else showing up with her, and there is no easy "get the money and dash scenario", but by the time I have them to my place the cash and dash is not a worry for me.

If you review my posts, you will see I have talked about the 3 point system I use to see someone new. It has worked well for many years now.

Good luck in the future.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=WhiteBear20;7456804]So I found a (reviewed) provider on PD. I'm experienced enough that I can sift through the fake reviews, and can get a good read on the provider via text messages. I'm also very picky about who I'll let come to my house. Because it's my house. Most of us here are locals without anonymous and risk-free hotel rooms.

This provider showed up and did everything I hate. She wanted more money ("a tip" before anything even started) and she wouldn't do the thing she was coy about via text ("we con talk about that when I get there honey, but I'm very open-minded! And even worse, her pics were pretty far from reality. Oh, and she had her girlfriend waiting in the car outside.

All of these things ruined the mood for me and I was no longer interested in anything with her. She'd made it to my room at this point. I calmly told her she'd ruined it for me due to the negotiating. She acted like it was my first time and should have known better. I gave her $ for gas and time and sent her on her way. She left in peace and didn't complain. I actually am a long drive, so that amount seemed fair..[/QUOTE]I live here and only see girls with an incall of some sort. Her dime, motel her place, weekly, whatever. Not coming to my house unless I've seen her at her place a few times at least. Incalls are usually cheaper for the same thing. But now she knows where you live.

[QUOTE=WhiteBear20;7456804]So I found a (reviewed) provider on PD. I'm experienced enough that I can sift through the fake reviews, and can get a good read on the provider via text messages. I'm also very picky about who I'll let come to my house. Because it's my house. Most of us here are locals without anonymous and risk-free hotel rooms.

This provider showed up and did everything I hate. She wanted more money ("a tip" before anything even started) and she wouldn't do the thing she was coy about via text ("we con talk about that when I get there honey, but I'm very open-minded! And even worse, her pics were pretty far from reality. Oh, and she had her girlfriend waiting in the car outside.

All of these things ruined the mood for me and I was no longer interested in anything with her. She'd made it to my room at this point. I calmly told her she'd ruined it for me due to the negotiating. She acted like it was my first time and should have known better. I gave her $ for gas and time and sent her on her way. She left in peace and didn't complain. I actually am a long drive, so that amount seemed fair.

Here's the thing. Most of me wanted to give her nothing as she misled me the whole time. And in a hotel I'd have tossed her right out and not given it a second thought. And for an incall I'd have bailed. But this is my home, and she now knows where I live. I wanted to keep the peace and not worry about her returning pissed off and doing some damage. $ was worth it to not have to worry about her. Of course I could also post a bad review. But she still knows where I live.

So. What say you, members? Worth the $? Should I just have tossed her and taken the risk of retribution? What am I not thinking of here?

I'm not Senior but I've seen many providers and am hardly a newb. This interaction has stuck with me. I don't want to post her profile just yet.[/QUOTE]You did the right thing. It's a cliché, but it's true: You don't pay them to have sex, you pay them to leave.

[QUOTE=CreamPieSeeker;7457067]1) provide link to others don't get scammed.

2) this is exactly why I don't do outcalls to my home unless I 100% know provider is legit.

3) you did reasonable compromise given situation.[/QUOTE]You're right. I should have just put her PD handle here. It's sweetalexa phone ending in 9984.

Her pics looked like an older Sophie Rain body. The reality was more MomBod+. She also wasn't the advertised 5'1, probably 5'8.

Appreciate the tips in response to my post. I feel better about my $ after reading. Shit happens.

[QUOTE=Burpie;7457038]I saw her 3 years ago. She's a little odd in my opinion. Service was perfectly fine, she was accommodating. Small lady but kind of twitchy and constantly moving around positions and breaking up the rhythm. Not really my vibe. Also, check her tryst or sinsations profile. There is a long list of no's on there for her. More than when I saw her so YMMV.

So, given the other options, I would pass on her but then again, if I found myself in town, with free time, and she was what was available. I'm sure I would ring her up. But really, far down on the list.[/QUOTE]It was a mood killer. I got what I wanted but I thought I'd spend my money more wisely with another gal on my next call.

[QUOTE=WhiteBear20;7457664]You're right. I should have just put her PD handle here. It's sweetalexa phone ending in 9984.

Her pics looked like an older Sophie Rain body. The reality was more MomBod+. She also wasn't the advertised 5'1, probably 5'8.

Appreciate the tips in response to my post. I feel better about my $ after reading. Shit happens.[/QUOTE]I'd been curious about her too but the pics just didn't match with the price so I figured had to be too good to be true. Makes sense she was angling for more.

Hello Everyone, was wondering if anyone can give any insight. Visiting with a buddy in the coming weeks from Chi and we are looking for any suggestions on a gal that is down for some MFM and if possible even some DP in the Vegas area. Open to suggestions or insight on anyone specific or which areas to check out. Thanks and appreciate any info. You can PM me if anything as well.

[QUOTE=InAndOut404;7458249]Hello Everyone, was wondering if anyone can give any insight. Visiting with a buddy in the coming weeks from Chi and we are looking for any suggestions on a gal that is down for some MFM and if possible even some DP in the Vegas area. Open to suggestions or insight on anyone specific or which areas to check out. Thanks and appreciate any info. You can PM me if anything as well.[/QUOTE]She might be down. Very open minded. Seen her along time ago.

[URL]https://tryst.link/escort/dr-kiwi[/URL]

[QUOTE=ForestWood;7457157]Since you asked, I see several mistakes I would avoid in the future.

1. No such thing as a "good read" by texting, a phone call gives me so much information about the person, not only their sincerity but the basic attitude they bring towards meeting you. Maybe you are a young person and not used to talking on the phone, this is a real handicap for this newer generation.

2. I always do an incall first maybe 2 or 3 times. Then we talk about what I need to come to my place.

3. No person comes onto my house unless I know who they are, that means full name and DOB that I have verified ahead of time.

4. The first 2 visits I insist they park in my garage, this keeps no one else showing up with her, and there is no easy "get the money and dash scenario", but by the time I have them to my place the cash and dash is not a worry for me.

If you review my posts, you will see I have talked about the 3 point system I use to see someone new. It has worked well for many years now.

Good luck in the future.[/QUOTE]As I never do in calls. This is something I do from time to time. I just tell the girl, let me pull up to your place, we chat in the car a bit and see how that goes. I have screened out many and had just as many ride back to my place. It's worked for me the last 20 years. Some girls refuse to even meet, no big deal, no shortage of girls in this world.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;7459221]As I never do in calls. This is something I do from time to time. I just tell the girl, let me pull up to your place, we chat in the car a bit and see how that goes. I have screened out many and had just as many ride back to my place. It's worked for me the last 20 years. Some girls refuse to even meet, no big deal, no shortage of girls in this world.[/QUOTE]I've never had a girl come to my house. If they can't do incall, and it's not a decent one at that, I pass. I've almost always met up in a coffee shop or restaurant, and there's been many times we've just gone back to her place from there.

I don't want some possibly nutty chick going off her meds and knowing where I live, what types of things I own, etc.

[QUOTE=RogerOver;7459561]I've never had a girl come to my house. If they can't do incall, and it's not a decent one at that, I pass. I've almost always met up in a coffee shop or restaurant, and there's been many times we've just gone back to her place from there.

I don't want some possibly nutty chick going off her meds and knowing where I live, what types of things I own, etc.[/QUOTE]If only all mongers were this sensible. 100% agree and I'll take it further, I don't give them my real name, what I do for a living, my personal number (always use a burner), ANYTHING personal at all. You don't end up in that life coming from a "normal" upbringing, they all have serious issues and you should assume they can be dangerous if presented an opportunity. The chances some guys take. Crazy shit.

[QUOTE=JoeyNuts;7459910]If only all mongers were this sensible. 100% agree and I'll take it further, I don't give them my real name, what I do for a living, my personal number (always use a burner), ANYTHING personal at all. You don't end up in that life coming from a "normal" upbringing, they all have serious issues and you should assume they can be dangerous if presented an opportunity. The chances some guys take. Crazy shit.[/QUOTE]LOL they say the same thing about mongers.

You might try Kelsey. I'm not sure about DP, but I'm guessing she'd be down for MFM as she's very open minded.

[URL]https://www.eroticmonkey.ch/kelsey-lea-escort-las-vegas-470799[/URL]

[QUOTE=InAndOut404;7458249]Hello Everyone, was wondering if anyone can give any insight. Visiting with a buddy in the coming weeks from Chi and we are looking for any suggestions on a gal that is down for some MFM and if possible even some DP in the Vegas area. Open to suggestions or insight on anyone specific or which areas to check out. Thanks and appreciate any info. You can PM me if anything as well.[/QUOTE]