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[QUOTE=FatLever;2707150][B][U]Sexual Addiction?[/U][/B]

You make it sound like it's a problem addiction like crack, meth, heroin, cocaine. "Sexual addiction" is a natural state. It's a part of evolution, it's in your fucking genes for survival of the species. I hope someone else has seen this National Geographic documentary because it's much funnier than I can describe it. There is a bad ass alpha male lion who has a small pride with two female lionesses and a few cubs. The documentary film makers suddenly find him abandon his 2 lionesses and his cubs and walks off, walking for miles. The Lionesses LEAVE their cubs and go after him. The documentary people are wondering what is going on. Then they realize, that the Lion has caught a scent of a lone young lioness miles up wind and he's left his 2 lioness, cubs and has been walking two days to get some new young pussy! He eventually catches up with the new young lioness, and grunts with sexual excitement. Unfortunately at the same time so do his 2 lionesses. His 2 lionesses go after the new pussy lioness intending to kill her. She flees for her life. The three then head back home to their cubs.

Now do we say, that the lion has a "sexual addiction" problem? Maybe he needs to see a therapist? No, he's doing what evolution has programmed him to do -- go after new pussy. The hunt itself is compelling. Then you see those tight young bodies, soft radiant skin, and perky curves, you get effortless hard with these new designer bodies. And it feels good, it feels satisfying, you feel alive and vibrant. You don't have a "sexual addiction" problem, you're fucking alive.

[B][U]Priorities[/U][/B]

Now the problem is priorities. If you are living paycheck to paycheck, you probably shouldn't be doing this or at least limit yourself to one a month or something. Just think of it as another phone bill. I am guilty of spending way too much but this is how I prioritize. Pay Bills, Save for Old Age, Get Pussy. So money always goes in 401 k if you have one, IRA for everyone, some emergency savings that should never sniff pussy. No debt except mortgage because interest could be used for pussy. I even sold my house because as a single person it made no sense. . But if you're married with family, this prioritization becomes difficult. So again, at worst case you'd have to limit yourself to one treat a month. But you don't really have an addiction problem, you just need to prioritize correctly according to how much you can afford in your situation.[/QUOTE]Are you not reading or reading into my posts? I NEVER said problem. I said sexual addiction, as in I do this to spite of knowing I probably shouldn't and it being risky. Risky as in uncle, pimps, robbers, hiv, std's. In that yes is is like a drug I do it even though I know it is a risk. I go into situations knowing I might be walking into trouble all for that thing I crave, yep that sounds like addiction.

And priorities, my modest home. Is paid for, my car with 290,000 miles is paid for. I have no other debt. I choose this hobby over a new car or nicer house or credit card bill, thus "priorities". That is an individual choice.

Yesterday I sent you a pm praising you for helping trinadee. Today you turn around and dissect, misquote, and attack my post. WTF? Really WTF?

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And priorities, my modest home. Is paid for, my car with 290,000 miles is paid for. I have no other debt. I choose this hobby over a new car or nicer house or credit card bill, thus "priorities". That is an individual choice.

[/QUOTE]I'm not a financial adviser, but, instead of selling a kidney, you might want to consider a home equity line of credit.

[QUOTE=Crtchadialhntr;2707282]Are you not reading or reading into my posts? I NEVER said problem. I said sexual addiction, as in I do this to spite of knowing I probably shouldn't and it being risky. Risky as in uncle, pimps, robbers, hiv, std's. In that yes is is like a drug I do it even though I know it is a risk. I go into situations knowing I might be walking into trouble all for that thing I crave, yep that sounds like addiction.

And priorities, my modest home. Is paid for, my car with 290,000 miles is paid for. I have no other debt. I choose this hobby over a new car or nicer house or credit card bill, thus "priorities". That is an individual choice.

Yesterday I sent you a pm praising you for helping trinadee. Today you turn around and dissect, misquote, and attack my post. WTF? Really WTF?[/QUOTE]Honestly, Backpage and all the fat and underweight drug addicted nut cases have pretty much cured me of my addiction.

Even if the pics look good we know it is fake. Not to sound high and mighty but this hobby has gotten way to dirty to continue.

No thanks to going to sleazy hotels to see drug addicts willing to risk their health as well as yours. Once in a while there might be a visitor working for an agency worth seeing but even that happens less and less. Sorry to say it but all the bad experiences had

By others helps me to stay away.

[QUOTE=Ronnor;2707287]I'm not a financial adviser, but, instead of selling a kidney, you might want to consider a home equity line of credit.[/QUOTE]Needed that.

[QUOTE=Ronnor;2707212]The question on everyone's mind is: Is the lion still getting pussy from the 2 lionesses or is he just raising cubs?[/QUOTE]Timone and pumba do a hh 3 way special.

Saw Miss Scorpio today. Looks just like pictures. Very well spoken and I can tell she is well educated. Smoothest skin I have ever touched, which provides a perfect canvas for her colorful tattoos. She reminds me of that Gothic artsy chic in college that you always wanted to fuck. She's got the goth look going on, including dark nails and dark eye shadow.

Smelled nice, all over, just like a woman should. Clean. Decent place but it was cold as shit in there, and I'm hot natured. No signs of demon use, though.

As another monger here has mentioned, she will assign you a nickname to remember you by and I earned the honorable nickname of "Clint Eastwood", hopefully due to my gunslinging abilities. Or maybe it was just my cowboy boots.

Number on BP ends in 8947.

[QUOTE=Crtchadialhntr;2707282]Are you not reading or reading into my posts? I NEVER said problem. I said sexual addiction, as in I do this to spite of knowing I probably shouldn't and it being risky. Risky as in uncle, pimps, robbers, hiv, std's. In that yes is is like a drug I do it even though I know it is a risk. I go into situations knowing I might be walking into trouble all for that thing I crave, yep that sounds like addiction.

And priorities, my modest home. Is paid for, my car with 290,000 miles is paid for. I have no other debt. I choose this hobby over a new car or nicer house or credit card bill, thus "priorities". That is an individual choice.

Yesterday I sent you a pm praising you for helping trinadee. Today you turn around and dissect, misquote, and attack my post. WTF? Really WTF?[/QUOTE]Sorry Crtchadialhntr, re-reading my response it came across wrong. I wasn't trying to attack your post at all. I just was stating that I don't agree with your view. What I meant was I don't even see what we do as a "sexual addiction" because "addiction" connotes "problem" and constantly wanting "new pussy" to me is not an "addiction" but how we were designed by evolution. Societal laws and morals actually tries to constrain that natural instinct and regard it as an "addiction" which again don't feel it is. I guess we disagree in opinion here. Yes the hobby presents a risk but I've lived in 7 other countries and it's not the same level of risk everywhere -- and certainly not to the extent we have here. Lot of countries don't have the same risk, taboo and what we do is just seen as being a virile man.

The part of priorities was not directed at you but in general how we in this hobby we can handle balancing getting new pussy and still keeping a financially secure future intact. Obviously, I know nothing of anyone's financial situation here but in various stages of my life whether completely broke or swimming in money, I've always been able to budget for pussy and was trying to state that it was possible.

Anyway, again did not mean for it to come off as an attack. My apologies.

BP had quality girls. There was always new ones passing through to go along with local talent. These days however what you see on BP advertising is what you use to find on walking the streets before CL and BP. These glorified SW's think they have escort or call girl status since they advertise online. Pubb69 is correct and these girls are trashy and aren't worth the roses they request. I wouldn't touch a SW years ago and I gave up on BP girls in 2010 when the quality wasn't there anymore. Technology is wonderful but it has hurt the hobbyist. The good local talent and out of state college talent kept a low profile while they escorted and stripped there way to get by but with instant video and picture capability of phones now privacy is no longer possible. Hence with the void in the middle tier talent and the common SW elevated their status. Just my opinion but the bottom line is that BP girls these days are of low quality and very risky.

[QUOTE=Pubb69;2707299]Honestly, Backpage and all the fat and underweight drug addicted nut cases have pretty much cured me of my addiction.

Even if the pics look good we know it is fake. Not to sound high and mighty but this hobby has gotten way to dirty to continue.

No thanks to going to sleazy hotels to see drug addicts willing to risk their health as well as yours. Once in a while there might be a visitor working for an agency worth seeing but even that happens less and less. Sorry to say it but all the bad experiences had

By others helps me to stay away.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ToySoldier;2707312]Saw Miss Scorpio today. Looks just like pictures. Very well spoken and I can tell she is well educated. Smoothest skin I have ever touched, which provides a perfect canvas for her colorful tattoos. She reminds me of that Gothic artsy chic in college that you always wanted to fuck. She's got the goth look going on, including dark nails and dark eye shadow.

Smelled nice, all over, just like a woman should. Clean. Decent place but it was cold as shit in there, and I'm hot natured. No signs of demon use, though.

As another monger here has mentioned, she will assign you a nickname to remember you by and I earned the honorable nickname of "Clint Eastwood", hopefully due to my gunslinging abilities. Or maybe it was just my cowboy boots.

Number on BP ends in 8947.[/QUOTE]Also confirm a recent good time with her. All covered.

[QUOTE=BeepBeepItsMe;2707474]Also confirm a recent good time with her. All covered.[/QUOTE]Yes, I forgot to mention that. I actually appreciate it when everything is covered. It tells me that the girl is at least concerned enough with her own health to protect herself. And that, in turn, protects ME. If a girl ever offers me BBFS, I stop right then, and never go back.

[QUOTE=Pubb69;2707299]Honestly, Backpage and all the fat and underweight drug addicted nut cases have pretty much cured me of my addiction.

Even if the pics look good we know it is fake. Not to sound high and mighty but this hobby has gotten way to dirty to continue.

No thanks to going to sleazy hotels to see drug addicts willing to risk their health as well as yours. Once in a while there might be a visitor working for an agency worth seeing but even that happens less and less. Sorry to say it but all the bad experiences had

By others helps me to stay away.[/QUOTE]One part of myself says go for it and then wisdom and survival says no.

MO so going to meet these BP SW would be like playing Russian roulette.

Some of us like living life on the edge.

I like living life, and you can't when you have a knife or bullet in your back and that's what keeps me from visiting a BP hook up.

If this is sexual addiction I'm not sure, but thing for sure it's satisfying the flesh when the brain chemicals start to rise by thinking about it.

Hobby? Never thought it to be a hobby so I'm putting it in that category to be safe and to justify my desire in a moderate way.

So be safe everone and look out for uncle.

[QUOTE=Purple45;2707472]BP had quality girls. There was always new ones passing through to go along with local talent. These days however what you see on BP advertising is what you use to find on walking the streets before CL and BP. These glorified SW's think they have escort or call girl status since they advertise online. Pubb69 is correct and these girls are trashy and aren't worth the roses they request. I wouldn't touch a SW years ago and I gave up on BP girls in 2010 when the quality wasn't there anymore. Technology is wonderful but it has hurt the hobbyist. The good local talent and out of state college talent kept a low profile while they escorted and stripped there way to get by but with instant video and picture capability of phones now privacy is no longer possible. Hence with the void in the middle tier talent and the common SW elevated their status. Just my opinion but the bottom line is that BP girls these days are of low quality and very risky.[/QUOTE]It's post like this that make me wish I could upvote posts on here. There's no doubt that quality has suffered since now any chick internet access can be an "escort", a title one held only by those who provided GFE. Couple that with girls travelling and not realizing that what a guy in DC pays will probably be higher than what a guy here pays for various reasons. I still check backpage and occasionally see one but most days I can't find a single provider who is both attractive and answers the phone.

[QUOTE=ChaphillMan;2706268]Christie sounded good but turned out to be a time waster. Went all the way there with calls and text then she stops answering. Please don't put up with that crap or we will all get more and more of it.

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This girl had good reviews on the other site but same thing on warring my time. Called her up spoke, text address, I gave time to destination, she said yes, I get there and no response for 15 minutes with a couple of texts and a couple of calls. She texts 10 min after I left to see if I was still there. What crap. Send her packing back to Jersey:

[URL]http://backpage.com.raleigh.hoxnif.com/post/10807217/[/URL][/QUOTE]That's usually the sign of a provider who is high volume, shares a room or both. I long ago stopped waiting especially if I made an appointment. At times I'll double book just in case one flakes (they do it too so I don't feel bad) or I'll call when I'm maybe 2/3 of the way there and if they don't answer I bail for something else. I had one the other night take 1 hr to text me the address and then have the nerve to asked why I didn't come.

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Ridicule me, I turn into a fucking idiot with one of these girls every few years, thinking I can help.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't be able to ridicule you without ridiculing myself. There's no guy who has been in the hobby for any length of time who has not fallen for a provider harder than he should have. At least in your case it only costs you a little bit of money. I met a provider once who bragged about the car some John was paying off for her. Personally I'm guilty of driving a provider all over, giving her money for the room (that she spent on the sweepstakes because someone told her people were hitting that day) and then gave her more because I knew her kids were back in the room.

I've been texting with her, I am detecting its not her but a handler. I don't know, just when I think I may be wrong, then come the "generic" replies. Anyone?

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