Can't believe I am saying this, but where is an attorney??
Tinaa,
Having charges dropped or getting aquited or being found guitly are all legal statuses of cases, previous cases, and charges against your person.
That is NOT the same a whether you are in fact guilty as charged. Or in your case HIV +.
It is not just the health, welfare, and lives of your customers that you risk, it is those of people you dare to call friends as well.
People are upset with you for violating their trust. At this point, even two clay tablets from a burning bush certifying you more D&D free than Christ on the first Christmas morn is not going to be enough to repair the trust you violated by failing to inform people about something they have a right to know when dealing with you.