Older than 50's, but that will make little difference among this crowd
I'm in my 50's and I know a lot of women in their 50's.
I would be willing to bet you dollars to donuts that Sheri is in her *60's*.
I would also be willing to bet that there is a certain percentage of guys here who would jump at a 60-something provider. There are several providers in their 50's who have a fan club here. So why not?
It's only a matter of time before we get a post about a 60-year-old provider who "can perform better than three 20-something ladies".
I will *never* understand the granny-fetishizing faction on this board. But it's definitely a thing for some of our colleagues.
Speaking of which, to Sheri's credit: If you could have met her in 1984 instead of 2024, she would probably have been a real hottie.
[QUOTE=IdleHands1;7063227]Any info on [URL]https://tryst.link/escort/sheri[/URL] Her profile states she is in her 50's. Appers to be much older and has a weird smirk in all of her pictures. Risk Takers Wanted?[/QUOTE]
Ashley Fires in town this weekend
Posting for her as a favor. She came in on short notice, will be in town today and possibly tomorrow. Phone number is in her Columbus Tryst Ad.
She's always a good time.
[URL]https://tryst.link/escort/ashley-fiirefantasy[/URL]
The good Dr.
Older providers: all my reasons why not
[QUOTE=GinCincy;7063876]Being an older guy myself, I am quite interested in older providers, but to many think that honey pot is like a fine wine, getting better with age.[/QUOTE]Sir, you didn't state your age. But I'm in my mid-50's. So I qualify as an older guy, too, even if you're older than me. (I'm sure the average 21-year-old would classify me as older.).
What follows is my respectful response to the Older Providers Fan Club, and I don't think I'm the only older guy who feels this way.
1.) Finer with age? Not.
I don't believe that any of us gets "finer with age". Look at yourself in the mirror with your shirt off today. Do you look as good as you did when you were nineteen? Twenty-one? I certainly don't.
The same goes for women. For women, age means prolapsed uteruses, saggy breasts, cellulite, wrinkles, etc. Sound sexy? Not.
I'm still friends with many of the girls I graduated high school with in the mid-1980's. (Thank you, Facebook.) There is not a single one who looks as good as she did in high school, or even twenty years ago. (I go to my high school reunions, too.).
I remember a cheerleader who, in 1984, I would have crawled through broken glass to sleep with. Me and every other guy in the school. Today I would politely decline an invitation from her.
Sorry, I have yet to see the woman who gets "finer with age" beyond 28 or so.
2.) Better "performance"?
Likewise, some fans of the older providers insist that older providers are better on the "performance" side. Young women, they claim, just don't know how to have sex.
We are not talking here about playing a Mozart concerto. This is a fairly basic human function. In my experience, women under 25 can figure it out just fine.
3.) Less trouble?
I would agree that "barely legal" providers (18 to 19) are often "more trouble than they're worth. " (Moreover, it's fairly rare to find an actual provider who is that young.).
But the guys who make this argument always assert that we should immediately go up to 40. What's wrong with 24? 27?
For me, 23 to 28 is the sweet spot. An adult, but still young.
4.) A monger's self-image is often an underlying issue.
Some older men experience self-image issues in the presence of much younger women. I can understand this. I go to the gym regularly and watch my weight. But I'm no 25-year-old stud. Heck, I'm no 35-year-old stud.
That's where the money comes in. If I'm paying, I want a woman who probably wouldn't sleep with me, all things being equal. Otherwise, why am I paying, again?
5.) Guilt is an issue, too.
Or the older man feels uncomfortable with the idea of being with a woman who is "young enough to be his daughter". (I hear this one a lot.).
If a woman is three years younger than me, then she is theoretically of an age to be my sister. So long as she's not, I don't see a problem. Same with young enough to be my daughter.
If you came of age any time after the 1970's (just about everyone on this forum), you've probably been preconditioned to have a lot of guilt simply for having the occasional erection.
The world wants to put you in a box, especially if you're an older man. I refuse to get into a box. I'm not getting into any boxes until the very end, and then I'll have no say about it.
6.) Bottom line: the hobby is about buying a fantasy.
If I'm paying by the hour, then I'm buying a fantasy, not a relationship. And my fantasy is not middle-age women. My fantasy is *young* women. That was true for me in 1984, and it's true for me in 2024.
Just my opinion, but I don't think I'm alone here.