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Decided to test the waters a bit in the local SC OTC arena. My first impressions are that it definitely requires more effort and resources than going with a sure thing. Have had a few bait and no date occasions for dances, one follow through for an introductory dream (promised much and did not deliver) and one prospect in the pipelines.
[QUOTE=NdayGuy;2383405]At The Harem you get the legs, kissing and dick rubbing as well and most of the better girls do not hustle you for a dance until they have spent a respectable amount of time with you. And then you can get 2 for $20 if you play your cards right. Later in the evening close to closing, you can get an even better deal. DO NOT listen to the girls who tell you "management" does not let us sell dances that low. Or - "My price is 2 for $30. " The answer to that one is simple - "Well. I never spend more than spend 2 for $20. " It's her option to walk away with nothing, or get $20 for 7-8 minutes of work.
Also, drinks at The Harem are dirt cheap, especially in the afternoon.[/QUOTE]I have been to both and have posts in Dayton and Cincy to prove it. Playpen is a sick joke. Saw one attractive girl in there during 2 visits. Made the mistake of a private dance with her, got some hand extras which she expected a stupid expensive tip she didn't get. Harem has had some off visits lately, but still insanely better than Playpen. Their strippers aren't even Sharkeys grade.
[QUOTE=NickTheDick;2383127]Always tip the bartender and anyone else serving you food or drinks.
Never tip the door girl.
Never tip a girl that sits and talks to you, unless you ask her to.
I never tip extra on dances unless they perform a service on me, or have hooked up with me in the past.
Take what you're willing to spend and stay away from the ATM.[/QUOTE]I'd say this is good advice. Tip the bartender. Tip the dancer for the dance if you think it was worth extra.
I don't tip for conversation.
I throw the door girl a buck (it's only a dollar).
Never take in more cash than you can afford to lose. I never use a credit card or the ATM.
I asked an inside source in the subject of dance prices. There are NO standard prices for couch dances. None. If a girl wants to take you to the couch room for an hour and charge you $1, that is her choice. The only fees they are required to pay is a tip out at the end of the night which I was told is less than twenty bucks. Champagne room is a different story, but everything else is on them.
[QUOTE=BigDaddyHappy;2386039]I asked an inside source in the subject of dance prices. There are NO standard prices for couch dances. None. If a girl wants to take you to the couch room for an hour and charge you $1, that is her choice. The only fees they are required to pay is a tip out at the end of the night which I was told is less than twenty bucks. Champagne room is a different story, but everything else is on them.[/QUOTE]Exactly right. One night near closing a young lady who obviously needed a bit more cash offered SIX for TWENTY. I spelled that out so no one though I made a TYPO. Now that was after she was turned down on a 2 for $20 and then again on a 4 for $20. She must have really needed that last $20 that evening for something special!
[QUOTE=BigDaddyHappy;2386039]I asked an inside source in the subject of dance prices. There are NO standard prices for couch dances. None. If a girl wants to take you to the couch room for an hour and charge you $1, that is her choice. The only fees they are required to pay is a tip out at the end of the night which I was told is less than twenty bucks. Champagne room is a different story, but everything else is on them.[/QUOTE]Absolutely true. My friend used to dance there, I think it was $17. They pay to be there, but it isn't much.
[QUOTE=NdayGuy;2386086]Exactly right. One night near closing a young lady who obviously needed a bit more cash offered SIX for TWENTY. I spelled that out so no one though I made a TYPO. Now that was after she was turned down on a 2 for $20 and then again on a 4 for $20. She must have really needed that last $20 that evening for something special![/QUOTE]Great job nday, nobody can beat that deal, cowboys in Lexington is $5 per table dance on your lap and the girls are good looking too.
Went and visited this club with my buddy recently and have to say I was not too impressed. For starters, I think the dances are way overpriced. I mean come on, 40 bucks a dance? Seriously! WTF? And overall I think these girls are just average nothing special. That and I found some of them to be rather rude. One girl called me a douche bag after I said no to her when she asked me if I wanted a dance. I did nothing to her and did not deserve to be called that. Stayed there for not even 2 hrs and glad to say I won't be back. I requested a refund for my entry fee before I left but they said no they don't give them. This club is a joke, save your money go elsewhere.
[QUOTE=Branman;2390782]Went and visited this club with my buddy recently and have to say I was not too impressed. For starters, I think the dances are way overpriced. I mean come on, 40 bucks a dance? Seriously! WTF? And overall I think these girls are just average nothing special. That and I found some of them to be rather rude. One girl called me a douche bag after I said no to her when she asked me if I wanted a dance. I did nothing to her and did not deserve to be called that. Stayed there for not even 2 hrs and glad to say I won't be back. I requested a refund for my entry fee before I left but they said no they don't give them. This club is a joke, save your money go elsewhere.[/QUOTE]When Diamonds first opened, they were supposed to be an upscale Gentleman's Club and they were for about five years. The girls were prettier than what the other clubs had to offer and the service was great. Plus they had full nude shows because of the BYOB policy. Getting to drink your own BYOB was over priced, but they were upscale after all. Over the years though, the quality of the service and quality of the talent took a nose dive. They still have the upscale pricing on everything, but the quality of the service and the quality of the talent has dropped to the level of the other clubs in the Dayton area. But the attitude of the girls and other staff, who think that they are something special because they work at Diamonds, had made the joint an absolute hole for the prices charged. As Branman said, save your money and go elsewhere. Cheeks is not that far away from there and is ten times better and much more cost effective.
This afternoon I stopped in the Harem with a lot of cash in my pocket to watch the Flyers game. The dancers were flabby for the most part and the only one who talked to me was the power lifter. Did not get a dance. Figured I'd go to the Living Room, hadn't been there in over ten years. The only dancer looked fifty with huge stretch marks. Only took a few sips of my beer and left. I need to stop coming to this part of town.
[QUOTE=StripJunkie;2391250]When Diamonds first opened, they were supposed to be an upscale Gentleman's Club and they were for about five years. The girls were prettier than what the other clubs had to offer and the service was great. Plus they had full nude shows because of the BYOB policy. Getting to drink your own BYOB was over priced, but they were upscale after all. Over the years though, the quality of the service and quality of the talent took a nose dive. They still have the upscale pricing on everything, but the quality of the service and the quality of the talent has dropped to the level of the other clubs in the Dayton area. But the attitude of the girls and other staff, who think that they are something special because they work at Diamonds, had made the joint an absolute hole for the prices charged. As Branman said, save your money and go elsewhere. Cheeks is not that far away from there and is ten times better and much more cost effective.[/QUOTE]Yes, before Total X got shut down, Dianonds was THE club to go to and they could get away with high prices, cause every girl looked like a Playboy Bunny or Victoria Secret Model. He'll even the girls at their sister club, Total X, have very attractive girls there and even had features there, for being a small club. Unlike Living Room & their sister club Sharky's.
When Total X got shut down and the owner sold Diamonds, everything went down hill so fast! From the quality of the girls to the EXTREMELY over priced club membership. Remember, $10 was a life time membership, then it turned into $60 for 6 months?!
I see Diamonds actually had a feature just recently, cause I just happen to see stuff on Instagram of her being in town.
But yeah, I have no plans on returning to Diamonds anytime sooner. Haven't stepped foot in there once 2006.
Cheeks and Living Room are the places to go. And features are at Harem every other month or so.
Should have stuck around, uncle decided to pay a visit and make sure the Harem keeps it's chastity.
[QUOTE=SkippyD;2391494]This afternoon I stopped in the Harem with a lot of cash in my pocket to watch the Flyers game. The dancers were flabby for the most part and the only one who talked to me was the power lifter. Did not get a dance. Figured I'd go to the Living Room, hadn't been there in over ten years. The only dancer looked fifty with huge stretch marks. Only took a few sips of my beer and left. I need to stop coming to this part of town.[/QUOTE]
I was in Louisville this weekend and thought I would check out a few of the strip clubs. Completely disappointed. Went to dives so I wasn't seeking high quality but some bargain fun. It was Saturday at 10:30 pm few girls in each place, all larger girls which isn't my thing. The real shocker for me. They don't take their clothes off when dancing and a drink or one dance was $22. Five song deal for $100. $160 for 1/2 with just dancing and $210 for an hour (the hour price was all goes). What a ripoff. I will take the clubs around here any day!
[QUOTE=Joey2738;2378565]I have gone to the Harem many times over the past several years and found that several girls have talked about their boyfriends being in the club and watching them. I find it very disconcerting to know that their BF is eyeing them the entire time. I remember going in one time and walking past a guy talking to a stripper and him telling her "get over there and make us some money (or something to that effect)". Based on the recent UDF scenario and the increasing number of BF's (in my experience / opinion) coming in to watch their girl, I think I will be making trips to Cheeks instead of the Harem (no idea if Cheeks is as bad). Am I telling others to stay away from the Harem, no. Just saying I don't feel as comfortable there as I used to. Personal opinion is that Management should probably get a handle on the situation.[/QUOTE]I've been noticing the same thing the last few times I've been to the Harem. It pisses me off because I sit there waiting for the right hottie to come ask me for a lapper or two and I see 2 or 3 of the best-looking girls are tied up all night with the boyfriend or dealer. Do they want to make money or just come to work and BS? I guess earning some cash is not that much a priority for them. I'm certainly not going to walk up and tap them on the shoulder and ask them to take a timeout from the boyfriend so I can get a lap dance or VIP session. Most of the dancers are too stupid to realize that guys come into the club for a fantasy where pretty girls are scantily clad and shower you with attention. If we wanted to hang out in a place where women ignored us, we'd stay at home or go drink at the pub LOL.
[QUOTE=TMeister;2394558]I've been noticing the same thing the last few times I've been to the Harem. It pisses me off because I sit there waiting for the right hottie to come ask me for a lapper or two and I see 2 or 3 of the best-looking girls are tied up all night with the boyfriend or dealer. Do they want to make money or just come to work and BS? I guess earning some cash is not that much a priority for them. I'm certainly not going to walk up and tap them on the shoulder and ask them to take a timeout from the boyfriend so I can get a lap dance or VIP session. Most of the dancers are too stupid to realize that guys come into the club for a fantasy where pretty girls are scantily clad and shower you with attention. If we wanted to hang out in a place where women ignored us, we'd stay at home or go drink at the pub LOL.[/QUOTE]Couldn't agree more, well said TM, you made me chuckle, thanks. Stay safe and utr.
KT.