More Observations for Honolulu Girl
[QUOTE=HonoluluGirl;2730394]This is the perfect time for me to learn from people who enjoy good massages, because I have no preconceived notions to dispel and no bad habits to unlearn. My question is: what makes a good massage? Is it the environment, comliness of practitioner, skill level, location, all of the above, none of the above, or some combination. Forgive me for my didactic nature, that is simply the quirky way that I am. I just read a treatise about what goes into measuring "well-being" and I realized the same analysis could benefit the massage practice. I'm totally open to your thoughts. Thanks.[/QUOTE]
HG, thanks much for your PM, I appreciate it and will definitely think about what you said and suggested.
I have one other observation about you which I'd like to share. This is something that occurred to me after I posted my previous suggestions yesterday. I'm not exactly sure how to articulate my idea, so let me see if I can attempt to unpack this: I have a feeling you are floating between two worlds now and either you haven't figured out how to present your latest re-invention of yourself, or how you want to play things going forward, or maybe you have figured this out, but my impression is you haven't yet made a clear public statement to your customers regarding your (new) position as of yet. Here's where I'm trying to go with this: First you were telling us guys you were essentially working as a provider doing in-call at your place of residence, and you would make your appearances on the appropriate thread on this board. However, now you are showing up as a massage therapist. What hat or hats are you wearing now? Are you still available as a provider? Are you going to incorporate being a provider into your massage work? Are you intending to continue with both professions but keep them entirely separated from each other? Are you moving towards being totally legit with massage and (possibly) include hand-jobs, but dropping the provider angle? An example of my own confusion with sorting out your stance is, and I can't recall the wording I used, but I had sent you a PM some time ago, and I suggested something about what if I came over to visit you for both sex and massage since now you were wanting to give free massages so you could practice on guys. While I do not recall your exact reply, it was something to the effect that offering sex with massage together was illegal! I totally get that you are an extremely creative person who is making every effort to put your best foot forward in successfully developing your new endeavor. But it seems to me you have simply got to arrive at clarity as to what precisely this endeavor is going to look like; and then state it for us guys in a concise way so we know what your deal is now. Make sense? As things stand with you at this moment, at least as I perceive them, I am extremely reticent to do business with you because your stance lacks a grounded position, IMHO. Speaking for myself personally, I wouldn't mind exploring sex with you again, since I admit to still being curious about you. Also I wouldn't mind receiving a massage from you, maybe same reason, curiosity. But I'm keeping my distance from you until such time as I obtain a clear unambiguous idea as to what your position is, what the parameters of the exchange are, what is offered in terms of options, and what is expected.
CK out.
Even Sherlock would be clueless.
[QUOTE=HMobius;2731988]That's pretty much what UC will be asking her now.
I suggest keeping Private Message discussions Private.
Careful, HG.[/QUOTE]Mobius, Am I being even more dense and naive than usual, or are you waxing overly-cryptic? Exactly what are you trying to say regarding private messages, bro? Care to unpack YOUR "Private Message"? Stop beating around the bush and just say it! BTW, what is this dreaded "UC" which HG needs to be careful of? I'm not Sherlock but if HG is than I guess it's all good since your post is apparently directed at her. However, what you are expressing is in reference to MY post so I figure it's my prerogative to butt in at this point. And IF you don't mind, sir; What in holy hell does "UC" stand for: Ultra Cooties? Underarm Cancer? "That's pretty much what UC will be asking her now. " OMG. Is poor sweet innocent HG at this very moment being interrogated and tortured in some dark dank underground facility by the fascist Uber Cops? Is there no JUSTICE in this wicked world? Listen up, UC, you vile blight on humanity: LEAVE OUR PAL HONOLULU GIRL ALONE! FREE HONOLULU GIRL FROM THE CLUTCHES OF THE UBER COPS!
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Cosmic Kid.