One drawback to legalization
[QUOTE=PervNerd48;5812611]*stands on soapbox*.
I personally don't think the situation is going to improve until we, as johns / clients / hobbyists, start telling politicians to back off on stupid ideas for trying to deal with legitimate sex trafficking.
Shutting down Craigslist and Backpage and the review sites did nothing to fight traffickers. And while I'm not trying to trivialize the real harm done, the truth is that most reported estimates of sex trafficking are wildly overestimated.
[URL]https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2018/10/11/are-people-day-trafficked-right-front-our-eyes-nope/[/URL]
[URL]https://whyy.org/segments/fosta-sesta-was-supposed-to-thwart-sex-trafficking-instead-its-sparked-a-movement/[/URL]
SESTA / FOSTA made hobbying more dangerous for both johns and sex workers.
We need to move sex work from the underground status it's in now to something more legitimate, where we can talk openly about safe situations for both johns and sex workers. It's ridiculous that it's hard to identify dangerous providers, just as it's ridiculous for sex workers to not be able to identify dangerous men who abuse the service they provide.
Most of us just want to be able to see a provider who's not going to rob us, not going to pass on a dangerous STD, and is going to be clear-headed enough to have a fun time with at a price agreed to by both parties. We do this in every other economic transaction we conduct in our lives. Why is sex work so hard to do this with? The puritanical approach isn't working and never did.
Sex work is real work. The sex economy is a real economy. Sex work needs to be legitimized to make it safer and more fun for all.[/QUOTE]I completely agree with all of this. However, in the legal brothels in Nevada, at least, condoms are required for everything, including BJs, which would be a deal-breaker for me. One of the girls from one of these establishments, BTW, is Alice Little, who has some free YouTube videos and maintains a pretty amusing blog.
86 The White Chick. Cocktails.
Yeah, you can officially chalk this one up as a waste. You can tell this broad is one of those white chicks who spent way too much time around trash, and thinks that just because she has friends that she can play that role too. You all know the type I'm talking about.
Either way, she's the only white stripper in Cocktails I've seen thus far. I'm not going to bother with this chick. If any of you decide to try, I won't stop you.
I'm done for the night. Going to maybe go for a drunken walk now.
E. X.
That might be the best choice
[QUOTE=MouthHunter;5815919]Dude you do understand those girls are there to work. Which means they need money. You go in there saying that you're not going to spend any. WTF do you expect them to act like? They just want to entertain you for free? Go to a regular bar and see how that goes for you.[/QUOTE]If your looking for a girl to start up a conversation with you for free you best off going to a regular bar. Now a days in strip clubs you got to tip them to approach you on anything. You might on rare occasions have a girl approach you and ask you about your day but it's super rare. If you just sit in the corner the women are just going to think your a weirdo or a creep. And if your looking for white girls the best club on the west side is solid gold.
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I'm not confused sir you maybe
[QUOTE=EthanX;5816587]Where. Exactly did I say I was coming in here not looking to spend money? I know I was drunk, but I've never once uttered those words. So like before, maybe you also have me confused with someone else, because I ever once said that. The most I said was that I was going to go find a dark corner so I don't get harassed for money. Yeah, because I literally JUST walked in. Nobody likes being jumped at the door.
If you and the other guy aren't going to actually read what I said, ask questions. Don't make things up that I never said.[/QUOTE]Not looking to spend any money.
What to do in the event of getting hustled
Since this is the debate portion of the board. I posted in the DND section about my virginal first experience of getting hustled by Melissa Sue in Argyle. (the standard 'guy walks in the room after she has your money and tells you to leave' hustle). I think over and over in my head how to handle those situations. Pretty much they just want your money and you just want the doorway cleared for you to walk out and you are out 60-120 (nobody is REALLY paying more than this right?) . I think about the various ways to protect myself including the 'gun' option. But as I think through each possible scenario, this can only be used as the last resort to get out without harm, not really to escalate things and get out with your money. This is a chess game and you are in check. You can't actually shoot and have it pass a legal self defense litmus test. Worse case scenario, the D. A. Shows that YOU were there in the commission of the crime of prostitution and thus its turned into a murder charge against YOU. I know about putting the money on the counter and telling the girls not to touch it. But 99% of the time they grabbed it, counted it, and everything went fine. (even though a few services were less than expected, but no actual hustle). What do you guys do? Just stick to your rules and if the insist on grabbing and counting then you walk out? What if you count the bills in front of them, then put it by the tv? I'm trying to find alternatives / suggestions. Also, have you guys noted that this really happens during late nights only ? So would daytime mongering be better ? I usually day monger when possible.
About white knight ShortlinerRico
Mr. ShortlinerRico, you are the quintessential white knight! Call me trash because I do qv's sometimes, but it looks like your girl is trailer trash with those cheese thighs! Marry the damn girl already and keep your recommendations to yourself if that's what you're going to offer us! Geez!
Don't carry unless you routinely carry everywhere
[QUOTE=TomCat4871;5831271]Since this is the debate portion of the board. I posted in the DND section about my virginal first experience of getting hustled by Melissa Sue in Argyle. (the standard 'guy walks in the room after she has your money and tells you to leave' hustle). I think over and over in my head how to handle those situations. Pretty much they just want your money and you just want the doorway cleared for you to walk out and you are out 60-120 (nobody is REALLY paying more than this right?) . I think about the various ways to protect myself including the 'gun' option. But as I think through each possible scenario, this can only be used as the last resort to get out without harm, not really to escalate things and get out with your money. This is a chess game and you are in check. You can't actually shoot and have it pass a legal self defense litmus test. Worse case scenario, the D. A. Shows that YOU were there in the commission of the crime of prostitution and thus its turned into a murder charge against YOU. I know about putting the money on the counter and telling the girls not to touch it. But 99% of the time they grabbed it, counted it, and everything went fine. (even though a few services were less than expected, but no actual hustle). What do you guys do? Just stick to your rules and if the insist on grabbing and counting then you walk out? What if you count the bills in front of them, then put it by the tv? I'm trying to find alternatives / suggestions. Also, have you guys noted that this really happens during late nights only ? So would daytime mongering be better ? I usually day monger when possible.[/QUOTE]My two cents. I personally carry everywhere I go. I have no intention on using it ever crept at the range, but its habbit. In no circumstances will a SW / provider know I'm carrying, or the db get the drop and take it like that other dude on the board LOL. I been "hustled", robbed, mugged at gunpoint with multiple guns on me. Even a knife pulled. Never pulled it, since I know that little birdie brings 10 x more trouble. Leave the money, don't be petty. If things are getting sketchy leave. If the girl is unruly leave. If when you enter, it seems she's stalling leave. If you get into a fight me personally I go for body blows. 3 times I dealt with db' I got lucky and I would assume I tagged the liver. Since they went down instantly. It's hard to knock out a crackhead believe me LOL. Need a hammer or something. Always check the bathroom closet under bed. If she acting suspect leave.
Don't be stupid and think buying a little hammer will help you navigate the hobby. Get a permit for you, everyone at the age (with exceptions) of 20 should be licensed. In my opinion. If you don't feel safe in a particular location, and think you might need a little tool than leave.
Sure it's not "responsible " to carry everywhere I go, but that's my vice I guess you can say LOL. (With the exception if I know I be drinking, to many of my peers jamed up for just that). I can't even say bring a blade. Learn to take hits, if you soft this ain't for you unless you really getting the highly reported, reviewed ladies. Yet sometimes they turn sour and may set you up as well. All in all to say. Weigh your options and don't be stupid. Stay in your lane, the moment you crossover, I,lt can all end.
Correction I did pull it on one dude nightwalker who was playing dress up. Thought was a chick, but after he talked, had to tell him exit. Then he get crazy. In a real annoying way. Tbh that's why I did what I did, them type of dudes annoy the fudge out of me, like I don't care what you do, but that ain't for me so be good with that, rather than drag it on. (play on words there LOL).
This is the same woman that tried to rob me
[QUOTE=BlackLightning;5885899]I had a dream I met Karmen this morning morning. Long story short, I get to the hotel. When I stepped in the room, I noticed her acting weird. Three guys come out of her bathroom with knives to try and robbed me. I'm licensed to carry, so I had other plans. I pull out my piece and slowly backed out the door. Karmen will get you caught up, be safe fellas. [URL]https://jacksonville.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/karmen-as-the-southside-sensa/020229639684[/URL].[/QUOTE]Hey blacklighting,
Look at my previous post about this girl from back in Feb. Now you know what I mean when I say avoid this girl! It's amazing how all these other guys defending her when I complained about her for what she tried to do to me. Fucking white knight cucks. Yeah, avoid youngerman circle, which is where I found her at the time, but I know she's at Baymeadows. Avoid that area too. In fact, there was shooting out there a couple nights go in that area. It's ironic how there happens to be shady shit that goes on out there but you a sheriff's office on the right side a few blocks down passed the Sonesta suites if I'm pronouncing that right.
Guys Proof These Girls Are Not Our Girl Friends and Not To Be Paid Insane Prices!
[QUOTE=BlackLightning;5885899]I had a dream I met Karmen this morning morning. Long story short, I get to the hotel. When I stepped in the room, I noticed her acting weird. Three guys come out of her bathroom with knives to try and robbed me. I'm licensed to carry, so I had other plans. I pull out my piece and slowly backed out the door. Karmen will get you caught up, be safe fellas. [URL]https://jacksonville.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/karmen-as-the-southside-sensa/020229639684[/URL].[/QUOTE]BL,
First I am glad you got out safe and second safe without getting robbed. At least you did not have to run naked to your car like I did.
Mongers, this is scary in more than the fact some providers are trying to rob us. What is scary is that these girls have been in Jax a long time and even have good reviews here. So they must be normal much of the time, but when desperate they decide to rob us. And, Mongers do not blame stg, this provider has been on Tryst and asking high prices!
Three lessons from all of this: First, even a positive rated long term provider may rob or even kill us. Second Mongers, do not ever trust a provider. You are only $ to her no matter how she makes you feel like a bf. Third, the girls make you feel special, but we are just $ to them so stop paying them insane rates, they are not our girl friends!
BL, again glad you are ok, you did every thing right the reviews have been positive and yet you were cautious and you baked out when you had to.