What you did Right & did Wrong break down
Thank you Bill for your candor story. What you experienced isn't new or unusual for these kind of encounters. I'm going to break down what you did right and what you did wrong in your recent encounter with a new SW.
[QUOTE=Bill Fanta]Turns out she really is deaf, by the way. We hardly need any checks, but I make a check anyway and we drive out of the parking lot. She asks how much I'll pay and I hold up two fingers and say, "twenty. " She seems to understand and in fact she is really good at reading lips.[/QUOTE]You did the check and set the price at the start. This is [b]Good[/b]. Now you can roll and get on with the fun. :D
[QUOTE=Bill Fanta]Then she asks where we are going and I kind of shrug as I'm not sure at that moment just where I want to go. I'm thinking of a spot I have used before when she says, "I've got a room. " Now I have a decision to make. Should I take a chance and go with her to a room? I figure I will just be super careful and watchful and take the chance.[/QUOTE]This is where you made a [b]mistake[/b] by not having a plan. Always know where you want to go once you make the scoop. You left yourself open and unsure as to where you want to go with her. By being uncertain, she takes control and leads you at this point and you are now following her directions. You lost control and this is [b]bad[/b]. Not the right situation to be in especially with a new SW. :confused:
[QUOTE=Bill Fanta]We go to the lovely Parkway Inn & Suites on Central Ave. And pull around to the back of the place. There are no other cars in the back lot, so I'm thinking this may not be such a bad idea after all. Turns out this was incorrect.[/QUOTE]Going to a notel isn't always a bad idea especially if you know the SW. It's better to go to a notel than a private resident house or apartment. Many mongers had been robbed by going to the SW's house. She could of taken you to a place that's not hers where others could be waiting to rob you. This has happen to several hobbyist in the UPH area. At the notel you know the SW or escort had probably registered and don't want to make trouble. But the possibilities of getting rip-off still exist but not as near as going to someone's house. :mad:
[QUOTE=Bill Fanta]Naturally, I carefully check the small room and bathroom to be sure there is no one else there. We are alone and I slide the dead bolt into place. I'm thinking that I'll be in this room 15 minutes at the most, probably less, so not to worry, right?[/QUOTE]This is [b]good[/b] that you checked the room and dead bolt the door. You should had placed the "do-not-disturbed" door sign at this point. :cool:
[QUOTE=Bill Fanta]It's a bit hard to communicate with her because of her deafness[/QUOTE]Sounds like you might try learning some sign language for future visits. :)
[QUOTE=Bill Fanta]I'm really not enjoying watching her load those little pellets into the pipe and fire it up. I'm wondering what the legal implications might be and wishing I were back in time about 20 minutes.[/QUOTE]I might be wrong here but based on others who were in the room while someone lights up are busted as well. Not completely sure how the law would work against you now a days but others had told me if only they had stepped out of the room at the time like go the the bathroom or just another room when LE busted into a room they wouldn't had drug charges against them then. If that happens again to you just go into the bathroom till she is done or step out in the hall would be better. This is something to check out for the specifics in the law. Good question Bill. :confused:
[QUOTE=Bill Fanta]I was trying to figure out how to say I'd give her half up front when I remembered that I had only three bills on me; a twenty, a ten, and a five.[/QUOTE]Again you didn't [b]plan[/b] carefully by having the exact dollar bills to show half now and the other half later. You were lucky she believed you.
[QUOTE=Bill Fanta]hear a knock on the door. Of course, she hears nothing and I am hoping that if we just don't answer the door, whoever it is will just leave. Then another knock on the door. 've pulled my pants up by this time and I'm trying to think of some options, but nothing good is coming to mind.[/QUOTE]This is why you always go to your place or spot because interruptions can happen at the SW's place. :eek:
[QUOTE=Bill Fanta]I told her I was going to leave, but she said she wanted to finish what we had been doing. I thought, what the heck, I might as well make use of those "few minutes. "[/QUOTE]Sounds like she a decent SW and was committed to giving you service while other SW's would had let you leave without getting you nut busted. :o
[QUOTE=Bill Fanta]This was about the strangest episode that I have experienced in the past year of mongering and I wanted to post it while it is still fresh in my mind. It's a pretty good argument for using escorts over SWs, but danger can lurk in that arena as well.[/QUOTE]Not so on Escorts! I would say it can be 50 to 50 chance of really getting rip-off with a high priced escort working at a notel these days and possible Sting set-up. Worse circumstance you could of been out $20 that day while a pro scammer could of robbed you 2. 00 or more. :mad:
Glad you shared this story with us, Bill. It points out several things to watch for and to be prepared for in situations like this one which isn't uncommon. Even though you probably didn't get the kind of [b]happy ending[/b] you wanted, chalk this experience as a good lesson. :p
Harpo
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Bill Fanta, The Miracle Worker.
[QUOTE=Bill Fanta]Then she says she's deaf. Turns out she really is deaf, by the way. [/QUOTE] Geez! We have all been there, wanting simply to be 20 minutes back in time, just to keep driving away. Are there any engineers in the group? We sure could use a Monger Time Machine. (And why do more and more SWers look like Morlocks?) Just a thought.
Bill, next time you are out, this chart may help you a bit!
Thank YOU Harpo. Great referal.
I had a great time with the referal Harpo gave me. I was in town for a few days and sent him a PM from a fellow Sr. And he gave me a great referal for a Blond Spinner, Nina.
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I was looking for someone thin, hot, and passionate and she delivered. Great time with multiples, BBBJ and lots of positions. No arguments, no "rules", just lots of hot sweaty sex with a spinner.
This encounter gave me the impetus to go on a spinner jag when I returned home and I have burned through 3 hot young spinners since I have returned home.
If you are ever in the TC, Harpo, don't hesitate to PM. I owe you.