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If he was the one who gets burned by her next time I bet he would be complaining about her left and right. I would prefer to see him post that over and over than for someone to get ripped off.
[QUOTE=Mallard1;1653697]Don't read his post if you don't like it. I personally hope he keeps posting that info for every monger to see. If it keeps one monger from ending up the same as him, he has done a great job.[/QUOTE]
Hi guys. My MO has always been to maximize the interaction than quantity of ladies conquered Started the hobby last Jan. 1st girl was just abandoned by her baby's daddy. She was telling me she loved me from date 3. Saw a few more and they all disappeared at some point. July I had a great time with a 18yr old black stripper. Bought her an outfit and she boosted my ego telling me I'm the man that's f'and her while all other men can't. She moved to Dearborn and we don't see each other since. She was wowed by 2nd date. Current girl exclaimed NICE half way thru 1st visit. She has slept over and we do uncovered lately. Some weirdness got me thinking I don't want to mess up a good thing and volunteered to hook her up on this board. She saw a couple guys, and yada yada yada. Yesterday we were talking about how her cousin gave me a BJ behind her back. I said something about honesty and wanted to moved her in. She now wants to move in early Feb to finish school and only see me.
How do I go about making my needs clear and be up front that I'm not going to compensate her daily. That room, board, being serviced by me daily is mostly what I have to offfer? I prefer that she is invested as a girlfriend and not an on-site provider?
She was the girl kicked out at 15, learned a few things and.
What questions should I ask, and what things should I insist on? How do I not laugh at her first ubsurd offers?
Can I draw up a contract? If she is not a renter, can I have her removed from my house if things don't work out?
[QUOTE=Curtess; 1654812]Hi guys. My MO has always been to maximize the interaction than quantity of ladies conquered Started the hobby last Jan. 1st girl was just abandoned by her baby's daddy. She was telling me she loved me from date 3. Saw a few more and they all disappeared at some point. July I had a great time with a 18yr old black stripper. Bought her an outfit and she boosted my ego telling me I'm the man that's f'and her while all other men can't. She moved to Dearborn and we don't see each other since. She was wowed by 2nd date. Current girl exclaimed NICE half way thru 1st visit. She has slept over and we do uncovered lately. Some weirdness got me thinking I don't want to mess up a good thing and volunteered to hook her up on this board. She saw a couple guys, and yada yada yada. Yesterday we were talking about how her cousin gave me a BJ behind her back. I said something about honesty and wanted to moved her in. She now wants to move in early Feb to finish school and only see me.
How do I go about making my needs clear and be up front that I'm not going to compensate her daily. That room, board, being serviced by me daily is mostly what I have to offfer? I prefer that she is invested as a girlfriend and not an on-site provider?
She was the girl kicked out at 15, learned a few things and.
What questions should I ask, and what things should I insist on? How do I not laugh at her first ubsurd offers?
Can I draw up a contract? If she is not a renter, can I have her removed from my house if things don't work out?[/QUOTE]The first question you need to be asking yourself is: What am I going to lose when things end badly? Because it WILL end badly. If you are going to the USASG forums to discuss this woman in the first place, you already know what you are dealing with. Good luck with that, seriously. If it all works out great for you, then this is no longer the appropriate forum for you to discuss that relationship. If it is just another in the sequence of your particular hobby, then refer back to the above question.
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[QUOTE=Curtess; 1654812]Hi guys. My MO has always been to maximize the interaction than quantity of ladies conquered Started the hobby last Jan. 1st girl was just abandoned by her baby's daddy. She was telling me she loved me from date 3. Saw a few more and they all disappeared at some point. July I had a great time with a 18yr old black stripper. Bought her an outfit and she boosted my ego telling me I'm the man that's f'and her while all other men can't. She moved to Dearborn and we don't see each other since. She was wowed by 2nd date. Current girl exclaimed NICE half way thru 1st visit. She has slept over and we do uncovered lately. Some weirdness got me thinking I don't want to mess up a good thing and volunteered to hook her up on this board. She saw a couple guys, and yada yada yada. Yesterday we were talking about how her cousin gave me a BJ behind her back. I said something about honesty and wanted to moved her in. She now wants to move in early Feb to finish school and only see me.
How do I go about making my needs clear and be up front that I'm not going to compensate her daily. That room, board, being serviced by me daily is mostly what I have to offfer? I prefer that she is invested as a girlfriend and not an on-site provider?
She was the girl kicked out at 15, learned a few things and.
What questions should I ask, and what things should I insist on? How do I not laugh at her first ubsurd offers?
Can I draw up a contract? If she is not a renter, can I have her removed from my house if things don't work out?[/QUOTE]Most mongers learn the hard way, so play house, have fun. Just don't be surprised when the goodtimes stop. They always do with these broken darlings.
[QUOTE=Mw Jrp;1654831]Most mongers learn the hard way, so play house, have fun. Just don't be surprised when the goodtimes stop. They always do with these broken darlings.[/QUOTE]Hate to put it that way but that appears to be the bottom-line. Lease her a room with an actual contract. Anything else is just an adult relationship. Keep everything on cash basis. Actually make her pay something for the room, even if just on paper. If you have to kick her out you are looking at worst the legal eviction method and that takes about 4 months to do. You are too kind; be careful, hide all weapons.
[QUOTE=StreetLegal;1654842]Hate to put it that way but that appears to be the bottom-line. Lease her a room with an actual contract. Anything else is just an adult relationship. Keep everything on cash basis. Actually make her pay something for the room, even if just on paper. If you have to kick her out you are looking at worst the legal eviction method and that takes about 4 months to do. You are too kind; be careful, hide all weapons.[/QUOTE]As a girl friend can't I have her removed for trespassing if the adult relationship is over?
I don't have a lot of valuables, but she might run out on first day that I work. I couldn't see Fatima anymore either. Sounds less good as the day goes on.
[QUOTE=Curtess; 1654914]As a girl friend can't I have her removed for trespassing if the adult relationship is over?
I don't have a lot of valuables, but she might run out on first day that I work. I couldn't see Fatima anymore either. Sounds less good as the day goes on.[/QUOTE]I usually don't comment on post, but you are setting yourself up for a big kick in the ass. Listen to the experienced guys here. If you let her in and she starts using your address as a legal address, your done. If your not using a cover & she gets pregnant on you! She already has all your legal information and you will be "Baby Daddy" for the next 18 plus years. Slow down my friend and think this one out and seek some trusted advise.
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[QUOTE=Misterb899;1653784]If he was the one who gets burned by her next time I bet he would be complaining about her left and right. I would prefer to see him post that over and over than for someone to get ripped off.[/QUOTE]Someone who is willing to walk into a seedy neighborhood house with no electricity and not think about the great risk that is involved. I'm not sure what to tell you or the person that would be that naive.
If you are going to go see a BP provider, you best be doing it in a hotel. Not the hood! But if that is your cup of tea, you might as well go pick up SWs on the R and have them pick a burnt out house or a crack house for your next date. I'm sure that they would never set someone up for a robbery.
The point is that if YOU put YOURSELF in a ridiculously risky situation. Be prepared for consequences. This same individual also posts about the time that he was with a provider in a hotel and FIVE! Other girls came falling out of the bathroom and he was shocked! Perhaps he should check the premises when he arrives. Plus I find it hard to believe that five young women jammed in a hotel bathroom could remain so quiet that he couldn't hear them. Just a public service to anyone that does a hotel date. Check the bathroom when you arrive.
"Life is tough."
So I'm not really worried about "getting burned" like that as I have enough sense not to put myself in such a situation.
[QUOTE=Curtess; 1654812]Hi guys. My MO has always been to maximize the interaction than quantity of ladies conquered Started the hobby last Jan. 1st girl was just abandoned by her baby's daddy. She was telling me she loved me from date 3. Saw a few more and they all disappeared at some point. July I had a great time with a 18yr old black stripper. Bought her an outfit and she boosted my ego telling me I'm the man that's f'and her while all other men can't. She moved to Dearborn and we don't see each other since. She was wowed by 2nd date. Current girl exclaimed NICE half way thru 1st visit. She has slept over and we do uncovered lately. Some weirdness got me thinking I don't want to mess up a good thing and volunteered to hook her up on this board. She saw a couple guys, and yada yada yada. Yesterday we were talking about how her cousin gave me a BJ behind her back. I said something about honesty and wanted to moved her in. She now wants to move in early Feb to finish school and only see me.
How do I go about making my needs clear and be up front that I'm not going to compensate her daily. That room, board, being serviced by me daily is mostly what I have to offfer? I prefer that she is invested as a girlfriend and not an on-site provider?
She was the girl kicked out at 15, learned a few things and.
What questions should I ask, and what things should I insist on? How do I not laugh at her first ubsurd offers?
Can I draw up a contract? If she is not a renter, can I have her removed from my house if things don't work out?[/QUOTE]Are you nuts don't be surprised when you come home from work and you house is empty, go rent the move Riskey Busness.
[QUOTE=Curtess; 1654812]Hi guys. My MO has always been to maximize the interaction than quantity of ladies conquered Started the hobby last Jan. 1st girl was just abandoned by her baby's daddy. She was telling me she loved me from date 3. Saw a few more and they all disappeared at some point. July I had a great time with a 18yr old black stripper. Bought her an outfit and she boosted my ego telling me I'm the man that's f'and her while all other men can't. She moved to Dearborn and we don't see each other since. She was wowed by 2nd date. Current girl exclaimed NICE half way thru 1st visit. She has slept over and we do uncovered lately. Some weirdness got me thinking I don't want to mess up a good thing and volunteered to hook her up on this board. She saw a couple guys, and yada yada yada. Yesterday we were talking about how her cousin gave me a BJ behind her back. I said something about honesty and wanted to moved her in. She now wants to move in early Feb to finish school and only see me.
How do I go about making my needs clear and be up front that I'm not going to compensate her daily. That room, board, being serviced by me daily is mostly what I have to offfer? I prefer that she is invested as a girlfriend and not an on-site provider?
She was the girl kicked out at 15, learned a few things and.
What questions should I ask, and what things should I insist on? How do I not laugh at her first ubsurd offers?
Can I draw up a contract? If she is not a renter, can I have her removed from my house if things don't work out?[/QUOTE]As the others have said, you will likely be robbed blind. So you're going to have to buy a lot of new shit. You may want to look up a counselor or lawyer in the phone book too. For legal recourse or to talk you out of this folly. And you may need an obstetrician and pediatrician if you knock her up.
Try Match. Com or other website for a LTR, not a provider.
Are you related to Jooop?
[QUOTE=Curtess;1654812]Can I draw up a contract? If she is not a renter, can I have her removed from my house if things don't work out?[/QUOTE]No, I don't think a sex for room and board contract is legal, but would almost guarantee a spot on the Judge Judy show.
You would have to have her evicted and that could take 30-60+ days.
She could move in and the next day turn off the sex unless you pay.
Two words,"baby daddy."
Two more words " child support."
[QUOTE=Passenger; 1655188]As the others have said, you will likely be robbed blind. So you're going to have to buy a lot of new shit. You may want to look up a counselor or lawyer in the phone book too. For legal recourse or to talk you out of this folly. And you may need an obstetrician and pediatrician if you knock her up.
Try Match. Com or other website for a LTR, not a provider.
Are you related to Jooop?[/QUOTE]Boy you have a HO for joooop.
[QUOTE=Curtess; 1654914]As a girl friend can't I have her removed for trespassing if the adult relationship is over?
I don't have a lot of valuables, but she might run out on first day that I work. I couldn't see Fatima anymore either. Sounds less good as the day goes on.[/QUOTE]As all the others here have warned you, I will add one more voice to it. DON'T Move these girls in with you!
Unless you want to be sucked into their personal hell, and you are someone who feels their life doesn't already have enough headaches.
This will not end well at all. Not one chance that it will end with you saying "What a good idea that was."
I think I would rather repeatedly stick my Johnson in a stapler.
Have your fun, hand them a few bucks for food and expenses, and move along down the road.
This hobby is supposed to be about variety. I agree with whoever said: go to match. Com if you want a girlfriend. There are plenty of clean good girls dying to meet a dude for a monogamous relationship.
As the movie line says: "You don't pay a working girl for sex, you pay her to go away."
Ya. I know. I just needed to hear it.
She's not moving in. Too many possible bad out comes