Ty. Will report on it eventually.
Haha, great points. Looking forward to a new challenge.
[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;2696782]Here is how a typical conversation might go with a waitress:
While you're eating, just make small talk. How long have you worked here? What brought you to Charlotte / Gastonia whereever? When you're almost finished eating you can start to zero in. If it bombs then you're closer to leaving anyway. Compliment her hair or nails. If this doesn't creep her out say "You're gorgeous (even if she isn't)" then ask has she ever tried modeling? Photo modeling. Well you could do it. Would you like to try? Then offer a phone number or try to get hers. This doesn't always work, but it has worked.
A different conversation might go like this: to a waitress or girl in the dollar store or cashier:
Do you know anyone who might want to make a little extra money? You are not soliciting and not asking her. Just does she know anybody.
The best answer is: Yes ME. Then you're good. Tell her you need some housekeeping and exchange numbers. She knows what to do.
This can also work on a pair of girls or a mom / daughter combo if the daughter isn't a teenager. They might both be interested and you might meet at least one of them.
But if she says "Make money doing what?" Bad sign. You can say "Doing housekeeping" but she's already on the defensive and probably won't cooperate.
And if you really piss her off be prepared to leave quickly before she tells anyone what a creep you are.
Don't feel bad trying to hit on these women. They're never surprised when some dirty old bastard like you tries this. It's been going on for hundreds of years.
Hope this helps. Have fun and report back here. Good or bad. We would like to learn from your experiences.
GB40.[/QUOTE]