Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

Be forewarned on this one, guys: Classy in Camo.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/55a24525-211f-4f1d-aa32-3c7b00e130a8[/URL]

I got burned big time. Fortunately not financially, but on the privacy front. She is smarter than she comes across in person, tech savvy enough to know how to find people on social media. After the initial meet & greet (no sex at all, just drinks), I decided she wasn't what I wanted. She divulged enough info to know I should stay away from her, including pharma issues. Ignoring her texts weren't enough to give the idea I was not interested; so I had to send a straight up note stating as such, that's when she unleashed her fury and threatened to out me to my family unless I paid her $$ I called her bluff, BTW. But just be warned on this one, guys!

[QUOTE=Indplsgent4fu;5094688]If she keeps her profile up on SA, then you're not keeping anything to yourself, just enjoy the ride while it lasts.[/QUOTE]Always remember that being a SB is the number one indicator that a girl is full of shit! No, you are not the first SD she's been with (if she's under 23 and a 6 or above she probably already told me the same thing). And yes, she can explain why only you can't see her profile anymore lmao. Can't believe a word they say so just accept that and have fun!

You are not her first and you are not her only SD in rotation right now. Many SBs have two three some have even more SDs at the same time. So no you're not keeping her to yourself.

[QUOTE=SEIndyGuy;5094612]Sorry mongers, but I'm keeping this one to myself. She may have a little baby weight, but at $. 5, she's worth her weight in gold.[/QUOTE]

Seems legit. Conversational. Then it happens. While messaging, even before meeting, will eventually start asking for small amounts of money to be sent for different personal needs. Denied request. Conversations continued. More requests. Denied and now ghosted.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/35db5aac-ce30-4693-b4f1-b1fde23bc2d1[/URL]

Open to in person and online arrangement. Yellow flag #1. Asking for 200 a week allowance. Yellow Flag 2. Car is old and can't really drive it. Yellow flag 3. Online. Low arrangement. Bad car. Pass.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/39283145-0aee-4318-9661-16e00e403c00[/URL]

[QUOTE=Jdkllr308;5095040]Be forewarned on this one, guys: Classy in Camo.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/55a24525-211f-4f1d-aa32-3c7b00e130a8[/URL]

I got burned big time. Fortunately not financially, but on the privacy front. She is smarter than she comes across in person, tech savvy enough to know how to find people on social media. After the initial meet & greet (no sex at all, just drinks), I decided she wasn't what I wanted. She divulged enough info to know I should stay away from her, including pharma issues. Ignoring her texts weren't enough to give the idea I was not interested; so I had to send a straight up note stating as such, that's when she unleashed her fury and threatened to out me to my family unless I paid her $$ I called her bluff, BTW. But just be warned on this one, guys![/QUOTE]I'll keep that in mind if my tape player in the Pontiac goes down.

[QUOTE=Indplsgent4fu;5094688]If she keeps her profile up on SA, then you're not keeping anything to yourself, just enjoy the ride while it lasts.[/QUOTE]I'm just going to avoid having a bunch of mongers hitting her inbox after I took the plunge. It is what it is.

[QUOTE=Jdkllr308;5095040]Be forewarned on this one, guys: Classy in Camo.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/55a24525-211f-4f1d-aa32-3c7b00e130a8[/URL]

that's when she unleashed her fury and threatened to out me to my family unless I paid her $$ I called her bluff, BTW. But just be warned on this one, guys![/QUOTE]I guess I'm in better position not being married than some of you but I would just tell her she's committing a federal crime. Also the FBI building is within walking distance of my office in castleton.

[QUOTE=ZakkWylde;5095082]Always remember that being a SB is the number one indicator that a girl is full of shit! No, you are not the first SD she's been with (if she's under 23 and a 6 or above she probably already told me the same thing). And yes, she can explain why only you can't see her profile anymore lmao. Can't believe a word they say so just accept that and have fun![/QUOTE]I'd say you are 99% correct. There are very few that don't see more than one guy. In my experience I've met two. That's not many compared to the number I've entertained. Come to think of it that's less than 1% LOL How can you be sure? There's no way to be 100% sure of ANY woman even a married couple, but from my experience, that's what I know. And those two didn't last long. A year I think. Humans just aren't meant to be monogamous in my opinion and girls just are more open about it these days.

[QUOTE=NaptownNights;5089700]Picked up a second strike on seeking which banned my account. Paid $90/ mo for that account and all I can think is that I talked explicitly about $$ and PPM and that somehow site mods caught wind of it. Tried making new accts but they caught onto me quickly. Anybody have any strategies to get back on? I had really good experiences on the site and would love to continue. Any help would be appreciated.

My advice is to exchange numbers asap and talk offsite if there's mutual interest. That's difficult because many girls have to warm up to that I guess. They fear giving some creep their direct number who'll text them nonstop. There were a couple that totally warmed up after a few months of patient messages back and forth as I got with other women.[/QUOTE]1. Download a VPN browser (Opera or Mozilla Brave are good). Ot if you have a VPN redirect program use it.

2. Create new profile with new email / username etc. Free emails everywhere Gmail or yahoo.

3. Upload one pic that's not the same you used before.

4. Wait until your profile is completely approved (takes about 24-48 hours).

5. Once profile is fully approved, pay using a prepaid gift card, or you can try a different card, fake address, phone number etc.

Met this lady at strip club in Chicago after talking to her on SA. It was where she felt comfy meeting.

She started off at 5 benjamins on chat, but in the club I managed to get her to $$ . 5 She's fun and I could tell she had experience as a SB.

Saw her again this week after she texted me for a good deal and she was amazing the 2nd time, like alot better. I think she is alot more fun under the influence of 420. She was super relaxed and willing to please. She's not lying about the kinky part in her SA profile.

Can't go into detail about her 2nd offer, pm me if you must know. . Her pics make her look like a 10 and in person she's a 9. 5 LOL either way smoking hot.

I asked her if she ever considered dancing in INDy she said she did once at Red Garter during / after a Colts game with a friend. Said if she had a place to crash she might.

If you are up in that area, I'd try it. I'd hit it again for sure.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1a2dd63a-c055-4a85-9bf5-2942c1a7056b[/URL]
PS: she does have a friend works with her. I didnt try her friend out but I met her in the club. its on my to do list.

Took the plunge into a White pages premium subscription to test out the dozen or so SBs I've been texting. Obviously nothing will turn up if you're using a text app, but those using actual phones through a provider showed some interesting results. I found a couple that I confirmed through reverse number searches to confirm they're legit on Facebook assuming they haven't gone so far to create fake profiles involving selfies and pictures of babies as part of the con.

There are 5 that reverse number searches yielded names and addresses that match nobody of the approximate age and address of what their profile claims. In these situations, do you believe there's any chance in hell the SA profile is legit? Trying to determine if I want to just delete / block the profiles or play the game and draw out these catfishers.

What road would you take?

[QUOTE=SEIndyGuy;5099339]Took the plunge into a White pages premium subscription to test out the dozen or so SBs I've been texting. Obviously nothing will turn up if you're using a text app, but those using actual phones through a provider showed some interesting results. I found a couple that I confirmed through reverse number searches to confirm they're legit on Facebook assuming they haven't gone so far to create fake profiles involving selfies and pictures of babies as part of the con.

There are 5 that reverse number searches yielded names and addresses that match nobody of the approximate age and address of what their profile claims. In these situations, do you believe there's any chance in hell the SA profile is legit? Trying to determine if I want to just delete / block the profiles or play the game and draw out these catfishers.

What road would you take?[/QUOTE]Try to get their snap; facebook is where alot of them reserve their family stuff and the ones you found aren't real good at hiding. Girls have family on facebook, friends on snap. Good if you get both? I've seen plenty freak out if they know that YOU know their facebook but no issues if you know their snap. If she's " pro" her snap will show that pretty fast. Just from my experience.

That could be helpful in some situations, but if I get a whiff of scam I just move the boat. Don't have time to mess with them and they don't care anyways. I do find that if I don't meet face to face with a girl within about 2 days of first contact, the likelihood of meeting is almost 0%. Saves a lot of time messaging and messing with them.

[QUOTE=SEIndyGuy;5099339]Took the plunge into a White pages premium subscription to test out the dozen or so SBs I've been texting. Obviously nothing will turn up if you're using a text app, but those using actual phones through a provider showed some interesting results. I found a couple that I confirmed through reverse number searches to confirm they're legit on Facebook assuming they haven't gone so far to create fake profiles involving selfies and pictures of babies as part of the con.

There are 5 that reverse number searches yielded names and addresses that match nobody of the approximate age and address of what their profile claims. In these situations, do you believe there's any chance in hell the SA profile is legit? Trying to determine if I want to just delete / block the profiles or play the game and draw out these catfishers.

What road would you take?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MrPopular;5099435]That could be helpful in some situations, but if I get a whiff of scam I just move the boat. Don't have time to mess with them and they don't care anyways. I do find that if I don't meet face to face with a girl within about 2 days of first contact, the likelihood of meeting is almost 0%. Saves a lot of time messaging and messing with them.[/QUOTE]But I work nights and often have some a lot of downtime, so messing with these douches could yield a lot of fun.

[QUOTE=SEIndyGuy;5099339]Took the plunge into a White pages premium subscription to test out the dozen or so SBs I've been texting. Obviously nothing will turn up if you're using a text app, but those using actual phones through a provider showed some interesting results. I found a couple that I confirmed through reverse number searches to confirm they're legit on Facebook assuming they haven't gone so far to create fake profiles involving selfies and pictures of babies as part of the con.

There are 5 that reverse number searches yielded names and addresses that match nobody of the approximate age and address of what their profile claims. In these situations, do you believe there's any chance in hell the SA profile is legit? Trying to determine if I want to just delete / block the profiles or play the game and draw out these catfishers.

What road would you take?[/QUOTE]Is there one of those reverse phone lookups that actually works? Which one?

[QUOTE=Charming1;5099923]Is there one of those reverse phone lookups that actually works? Which one?[/QUOTE]I have it with ATT, it shows the owner of that phone number's name or unknown, provides Caller ID feature for less than $10 a month I believe. You could also use [URL]https://freecarrierlookup.com/[/URL], it tells you who is the service provider.

A true gem. $3000 a month pure platonic with no sexual activities. I've actually been talking to her for awhile and she says we M&G for $200. Told her I make $400 an hour as a legal consultant, not sure how a 22 year old is worth $200 for coffee.

Told me she dated for 2 years and never had sex with her actual BF, claim she is a virgin. Um, maybe it's true, maybe her virgin in her anus.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d4a1a1cb-f53b-455d-99cc-d078ac8bc07e[/URL]

This is her new profile but I had actually seen her 5 times. Cool girl, $$ each meet, anything goes, I even have a picture of her trying to DT me. She does have a BF so day time works better for her. I've stop seeing her because she keeps showing up late to our meets during the day and I have to work in between giving it to her in the anus.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ddd22685-5e45-4888-aff9-82eec17a9b9c[/URL]

Was suppose to meet up with her but her work schedule keeps making her cancel last minute. Anyone have any luck with her? $$.5 and can host in Fishers.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c0e44008-6abe-4e8b-953a-2b9260a27369[/URL]

[QUOTE=SEIndyGuy;5086445]She told me $400. I told her the PPMs I've had are more like $$ 5. No response.

Have another prospect hopefully lined up for Monday. Can't wait.[/QUOTE]I had her last month for $$.5, horrible in bed. Everything except Greek is on the menu with her, dead lay in bed to be honest, won't see her again.

[QUOTE=OnlyBlondes;5100086]Was suppose to meet up with her but her work schedule keeps making her cancel last minute. Anyone have any luck with her? $$.5 and can host in Fishers.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c0e44008-6abe-4e8b-953a-2b9260a27369[/URL][/QUOTE]Hung out with her when she first got in. She was 19. Curvier than her photos. Has a only fan now.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7f044980-58be-4ce6-8296-2c3126c4d070[/URL]

Hosts on the north side for 200. I passed but seemed legit.

[QUOTE=SEIndyGuy;5099339]Took the plunge into a White pages premium subscription to test out the dozen or so SBs I've been texting. Obviously nothing will turn up if you're using a text app, but those using actual phones through a provider showed some interesting results. I found a couple that I confirmed through reverse number searches to confirm they're legit on Facebook assuming they haven't gone so far to create fake profiles involving selfies and pictures of babies as part of the con.

There are 5 that reverse number searches yielded names and addresses that match nobody of the approximate age and address of what their profile claims. In these situations, do you believe there's any chance in hell the SA profile is legit? Trying to determine if I want to just delete / block the profiles or play the game and draw out these catfishers.

What road would you take?[/QUOTE]I had my own methodology on this. I'd buy a $20 video from them of a specific body part I like and then usually would get their full name from Cashapp or PayPal and could then access their social media via searches.

Best thing is to do a quick meetup ASAP before you invest too much time or energy. It's testing them to see how serious they are and if they actually look good.

[QUOTE=NaptownNights;5101004]I had my own methodology on this. I'd buy a $20 video from them of a specific body part I like and then usually would get their full name from Cashapp or PayPal and could then access their social media via searches.

Best thing is to do a quick meetup ASAP before you invest too much time or energy. It's testing them to see how serious they are and if they actually look good.[/QUOTE]You really don't have to buy anything. Just ask for the CashApp address. Greed will take over any common sense here. I do that all the time.

Or PayPal is a little more legit and requires bank account deposit verification to set up. They fork it over fast LOL.

[QUOTE=NaptownNights;5101004]I had my own methodology on this. I'd buy a $20 video from them of a specific body part I like and then usually would get their full name from Cashapp or PayPal and could then access their social media via searches.

Best thing is to do a quick meetup ASAP before you invest too much time or energy. It's testing them to see how serious they are and if they actually look good.[/QUOTE]

Ask the right questions so you don't have to jump through all these hoops to identify real SB's from all the fakes, scammers, picture sellers, time wasters, etc. on Seeking. No need to go into private eye mode when fishing and hunting for pussy. To each their own tho.

[QUOTE=SEIndyGuy;5099339]Took the plunge into a White pages premium subscription to test out the dozen or so SBs I've been texting. Obviously nothing will turn up if you're using a text app, but those using actual phones through a provider showed some interesting results. I found a couple that I confirmed through reverse number searches to confirm they're legit on Facebook assuming they haven't gone so far to create fake profiles involving selfies and pictures of babies as part of the con.

There are 5 that reverse number searches yielded names and addresses that match nobody of the approximate age and address of what their profile claims. In these situations, do you believe there's any chance in hell the SA profile is legit? Trying to determine if I want to just delete / block the profiles or play the game and draw out these catfishers.

What road would you take?[/QUOTE]

So, I been using SA for about 6 months and decided to take a break and didn't renew and been dormant for about 3 months. I decided today I would get back on and keep in mind I was still active and could see the messages I received from ladies but couldn't read them because I was not active and didn't pay the monthly fee. I was talking to a couple ladies but nothing explicit and not sure if they got pissed because I was off the site. But, needless to say I go back on today to put money back on my account and took all my information and keep in mind my account was active and could see people who viewed me and sent messages. So, I put my card information in the system and I get a notification after I hit send that my account was suspended. WTF is that all about. How could my account be active and logged in and as soon as I put money in tells me it's suspended. Needless to say sent email to get my money back and stop any additional charges.

[QUOTE=MichianaMale;5103581]So, I been using SA for about 6 months and decided to take a break and didn't renew and been dormant for about 3 months. I decided today I would get back on and keep in mind I was still active and could see the messages I received from ladies but couldn't read them because I was not active and didn't pay the monthly fee. I was talking to a couple ladies but nothing explicit and not sure if they got pissed because I was off the site. But, needless to say I go back on today to put money back on my account and took all my information and keep in mind my account was active and could see people who viewed me and sent messages. So, I put my card information in the system and I get a notification after I hit send that my account was suspended. WTF is that all about. How could my account be active and logged in and as soon as I put money in tells me it's suspended. Needless to say sent email to get my money back and stop any additional charges.[/QUOTE]Keep us updated on what happens. My month ends Wednesday and I was going to either go inactive or just not pay for a few months. I got a few options that should keep me busy for a couple months.

[QUOTE=BjcimSeeker;5103664]Keep us updated on what happens. My month ends Wednesday and I was going to either go inactive or just not pay for a few months. I got a few options that should keep me busy for a couple months.[/QUOTE]I will. It's got to be from some butt hurt chick I haven't got back to since I haven't been on. I asked in my email to show me reason why I was banned. Because I made ZERO sexual comments. Meanwhile I had a few ladies throwing their shit to me and using terms and language I would never. How can my account be active and not reply to anyone and get messages but as soon as I put money on my account it's now banned? I'm probably out this money.

[QUOTE=MichianaMale;5103581]So, I been using SA for about 6 months and decided to take a break and didn't renew and been dormant for about 3 months. I decided today I would get back on and keep in mind I was still active and could see the messages I received from ladies but couldn't read them because I was not active and didn't pay the monthly fee. I was talking to a couple ladies but nothing explicit and not sure if they got pissed because I was off the site. But, needless to say I go back on today to put money back on my account and took all my information and keep in mind my account was active and could see people who viewed me and sent messages. So, I put my card information in the system and I get a notification after I hit send that my account was suspended. WTF is that all about. How could my account be active and logged in and as soon as I put money in tells me it's suspended. Needless to say sent email to get my money back and stop any additional charges[/QUOTE]The card you had used to reactivate must of had been link to a suspended account. If you use the same social media, credit card from the suspended account, it will follow you through the end. It happens to me before, hence why I use different credit card and never got verify or same social media account.

[QUOTE=BjcimSeeker;5103664]Keep us updated on what happens. My month ends Wednesday and I was going to either go inactive or just not pay for a few months. I got a few options that should keep me busy for a couple months.[/QUOTE]I am inactive as well for couple months and all my msg are paid only.

Some of fav have left already so thinking to renew or move to any other site (don't recommend sugardaddyforme site it is medium version of old BP site.

[QUOTE=OnlyBlondes;5103788]The card you had used to reactivate must of had been link to a suspended account. If you use the same social media, credit card from the suspended account, it will follow you through the end. It happens to me before, hence why I use different credit card and never got verify or same social media account.[/QUOTE]No, it was first time I used this credit card on the site today. I still don't understand how I was able to be on the account and see who was sending me messages and also who would favorite me while I wasn't paying and be able to reply. The moment I put the credit card in to get back on said I was banned / suspended. I'll be damned if they get the money off me for this bogus charge.

[QUOTE=MichianaMale;5103581]So, I been using SA for about 6 months and decided to take a break and didn't renew and been dormant for about 3 months. I decided today I would get back on and keep in mind I was still active and could see the messages I received from ladies but couldn't read them because I was not active and didn't pay the monthly fee. I was talking to a couple ladies but nothing explicit and not sure if they got pissed because I was off the site. But, needless to say I go back on today to put money back on my account and took all my information and keep in mind my account was active and could see people who viewed me and sent messages. So, I put my card information in the system and I get a notification after I hit send that my account was suspended. WTF is that all about. How could my account be active and logged in and as soon as I put money in tells me it's suspended. Needless to say sent email to get my money back and stop any additional charges.[/QUOTE]I've been off and on the site for a couple of years, and that's never happened to me. I'm guessing some frustrated baby reported you for some ridiculous reason, or perhaps you were hacked? Whenever I sign up, I always turn off the auto renew because frankly, some months I collect enough contact info from SBs to keep me busy a long while. If I'm in an ongoing conversation with any, I'll let them know I'm about to exit the site, and if they want to continue communicating, I'll need their Kik ID, phone#, e-mail, something to stay in touch. I also deactivate (not delete, there's a big difference) my account each time I log off when I'm not a paid member and just want to browse, so no one can see my profile when I'm not on.

I'll be curious to hear what, if anything you find out because my account expires again in about 2 weeks.

I have visited many of the ladies but could do more frequent visits if they would have a south side option. Does anyone know if they ever have that option?

Might have better luck getting an answer if you posted in the di section and not the sugar baby. But as far as I know non if the girls are on southside. I wish they could venture a little more around the city.

[QUOTE=Indyguy1565;5108023]I have visited many of the ladies but could do more frequent visits if they would have a south side option. Does anyone know if they ever have that option?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SpinAndWin85;5106385]I've been off and on the site for a couple of years, and that's never happened to me. I'm guessing some frustrated baby reported you for some ridiculous reason, or perhaps you were hacked? Whenever I sign up, I always turn off the auto renew because frankly, some months I collect enough contact info from SBs to keep me busy a long while. If I'm in an ongoing conversation with any, I'll let them know I'm about to exit the site, and if they want to continue communicating, I'll need their Kik ID, phone#, e-mail, something to stay in touch. I also deactivate (not delete, there's a big difference) my account each time I log off when I'm not a paid member and just want to browse, so no one can see my profile when I'm not on.

I'll be curious to hear what, if anything you find out because my account expires again in about 2 weeks.[/QUOTE]Good news the card used was not charged. The bad I'm banned and when I asked in the email show me what I said was inappropriate they never replied or showed me. I know / knew how the site was w / language and made sure nothing was over the line. Got to chalk this up to some pissed off chick who when I left the site left her hanging. I sent one last email to them this afternoon to get the actual message because there was none for them to ban me. So, take warning fellas and apparently ghosting the wrong chick will get you banned. Be safe fellas.

So I had a 2nd meeting in Monday. She said some stuff about getting money for moving into her own place and today the text came across asking if I would co-sign with her. 🤣129315;129315;.

I was thinking about seeing her again next week but I see the drama already starting and may just have to ghost her.

I have noticed a certain system response on SA. If I hide or block their messages stay in my inbox but the picture goes away. But when I report them after some time (long enough for them to evaluate my report?) the messages disappear. I continue to report profiles that the girls scam (online payments upfront and those that want online only). Figure it's good for the community (SB's and SD's) to compromise these profiles. The more they get deleted, the more hasty they replace them and they become more obvious. Plus any marks they are talking to might think twice when they see them coming back repeatedly with new profiles! Call to arms men! Let's take down as many scammers as we can!

One girl even had on her profile "please don't report me just if you don't like what I say". We talked, she wants money up front to meet. Screenshot. Report. Repeat.

[QUOTE=LancePkrbttm;5109621]I have noticed a certain system response on SA. If I hide or block their messages stay in my inbox but the picture goes away. But when I report them after some time (long enough for them to evaluate my report?) the messages disappear. I continue to report profiles that the girls scam (online payments upfront and those that want online only). Figure it's good for the community (SB's and SD's) to compromise these profiles. The more they get deleted, the more hasty they replace them and they become more obvious. Plus any marks they are talking to might think twice when they see them coming back repeatedly with new profiles! Call to arms men! Let's take down as many scammers as we can![/QUOTE]