Massage Parlor Reports

[QUOTE=SkinJr; 1851809]Went by Eden Monday evening. Had a great handshake by Lin Den. Went by Oriental on Capital Tuesday afternoon. Older Chinese lady was nice and did a lot of grazing and teasing but offered to let me complete the massage. I declined. This was after I had been rubbing her ass and crotch so I don't think she thought I was uncle Leo.

Skin[/QUOTE]I rarely have issues at Oriental on Capital. My past half dozen visits have been great. I have been leaving very happy. Not sure if this has anything to do with it but I try to get a room towards the back. I need to hit some of these great places mentioned in Cary for a change. Eden may be next on my list. Thanks for the updates.

I completely Agree! LuckyAzn is correct. Some of you guys are just scumbags! They will remember you! Conversely, show some respect and tip appropriately and you will become a welcomed customer! I was visiting one of my FAV establishments and one of the girls told her boss that she did not want to see a certain customer. I later inquired and she just said he's a bad customer! He was either smelly, pushy and overbearing and may have stiffed her previously.

AFlu.

[QUOTE=LuckyAzn;1852764]I have spoken to some of the ladies at some of these AMPs and they have been telling me that a lot of you have been stiffing them bc you didn't leave happy. And even some of you tipping a dollar. A single f*king dollar. You mind as well not leave anything if your going to leave a dollar. Seriously, thats a slap in the face. These ladies work hard for their tips regardless if you leave happy or not. If you can't afford to at least tip 10-20 bucks you shouldn't even be going to these places. And don't think for one second that they won't remember you either. If you stiff them or tip them bad don't think your chances of leaving happy are going to get better. I'm just saying. When I heard that a guy tipped her a dollar I was shocked. And trust me when I'm telling you that if you go back there they will prob turns away and tell you everyone is busy. They can do that ya know. And no I don't work for any of these places if your thinking that. I have built some relationships with some of these ladies and they like to vent about some of you guys. Sorry to be so harsh it just really upsets me when scumbags do stuff like this.[/QUOTE]

I agree. Some of the stories these girls tell me are really sad. Guys who come in smelling like they haven't showered in a week, or saying that they have to go to their car to get the tip and then never return.

In most of the establishments the girls will get fired if the owner finds out that they have given a HE. Some of the girls are in stable relationships with significant others and simply want to be practising massage therapists; not HE artists. They work hard and the AMP owners do not pay them much. Like a waiter, most of their pay comes from tips. And like a waiter, if you they know that you are a good tipper they will work harder to give you a good massage. Some of them, in order to get repeat business with good tips with go the HE route and will usually urge discretion since it is their job that is on the line.

Of course, there are the exceptions, such as VIP, DuPond, and Red Rose. But the average AMP not a guarantee of a HE even when they know that you are not LEO and you leave a good tip.

Your best bet is to be clean, be polite, and try to nurture a friendly atmosphere. If they do not give a good massage, leave a minimal tip ($10) and ask for someone else the next time you go. If they give a good massage, leave a decent tip. For an hour, $25-$30 and for 90 minutes $40-$50. Then you will be remembered. Also, do not leave the tip on the credit card. If you do, and you leave more than about $10, the owner may accuse of the therapist of giving HE and fire them. Better to have the tip in cash that you hand the to the therapist discreetly, even if you put the session on a credit card.

[QUOTE=Asianflu; 1853042]I completely Agree! LuckyAzn is correct. Some of you guys are just scumbags! They will remember you! Conversely, show some respect and tip appropriately and you will become a welcomed customer! I was visiting one of my FAV establishments and one of the girls told her boss that she did not want to see a certain customer. I later inquired and she just said he's a bad customer! He was either smelly, pushy and overbearing and may have stiffed her previously.

AFlu.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Gt8662; 1852902]Lucky:

You sound like you work for the AMP's and were one of the ones that got stiffed. Bad service = no tip. Good service = Respectable tip. Excellent service = my checking account number.[/QUOTE]I'm a guy first of all and I have never stiffed or been stiffed by any of these ladies at any AMP. I have been fortunate to hang out with some of the ladies outside of work and I have built relationships with them where they trust Me and tell me things about how guys treat them when they don't do what some of you ask of them. And after hearing all these stupid stories about lame scumbags like yourself I felt I needed to help these ladies out by reiterating some common sense to some of you cheap asses. They work hard and provide a service. It's not like they just stand there and and just oil you up and nothing else. They actually rub and knead your joints and muscles to relieve tension and give you a relaxing experience. You try doing it for an hour or even a half an hour and I guarantee you your going to be aching. Imagine doing it for hours on end a day. It's very tiresome. So to your stupid post on whether I work for one there's your answer. And I can almost guarantee you none of the masseuses are proficient enough in English to respond to you. I'm just sayin.

[QUOTE=Luv Massage; 1853115]I agree. Some of the stories these girls tell me are really sad. Guys who come in smelling like they haven't showered in a week, or saying that they have to go to their car to get the tip and then never return.

In most of the establishments the girls will get fired if the owner finds out that they have given a HE. Some of the girls are in stable relationships with significant others and simply want to be practising massage therapists; not HE artists. They work hard and the AMP owners do not pay them much. Like a waiter, most of their pay comes from tips. And like a waiter, if you they know that you are a good tipper they will work harder to give you a good massage. Some of them, in order to get repeat business with good tips with go the HE route and will usually urge discretion since it is their job that is on the line.

Of course, there are the exceptions, such as VIP, DuPond, and Red Rose. But the average AMP not a guarantee of a HE even when they know that you are not LEO and you leave a good tip.

Your best bet is to be clean, be polite, and try to nurture a friendly atmosphere. If they do not give a good massage, leave a minimal tip ($10) and ask for someone else the next time you go. If they give a good massage, leave a decent tip. For an hour, $25-$30 and for 90 minutes $40-$50. Then you will be remembered. Also, do not leave the tip on the credit card. If you do, and you leave more than about $10, the owner may accuse of the therapist of giving HE and fire them. Better to have the tip in cash that you hand the to the therapist discreetly, even if you put the session on a credit card.[/QUOTE]Yea I agree about the credit card tips. But even if they don't get fired most of the tips that are left on credit cards they don't even get. Most of the time they are told that they aren't even left a tip and some of the owners give them 10 instead of the 40 that you may have left as a tip in the card. Cash makes everyone happy.

[QUOTE=LuckyAzn;1852764]I have spoken to some of the ladies at some of these AMPs and they have been telling me that a lot of you have been stiffing them bc you didn't leave happy. And even some of you tipping a dollar. A single f*king dollar. You mind as well not leave anything if your going to leave a dollar. Seriously, thats a slap in the face. These ladies work hard for their tips regardless if you leave happy or not. If you can't afford to at least tip 10-20 bucks you shouldn't even be going to these places. And don't think for one second that they won't remember you either. If you stiff them or tip them bad don't think your chances of leaving happy are going to get better. I'm just saying. When I heard that a guy tipped her a dollar I was shocked. And trust me when I'm telling you that if you go back there they will prob turns away and tell you everyone is busy. They can do that ya know. And no I don't work for any of these places if your thinking that. I have built some relationships with some of these ladies and they like to vent about some of you guys. Sorry to be so harsh it just really upsets me when scumbags do stuff like this.[/QUOTE]I'd like to know what AMP you went to to find a woman who spoke THAT good of English!

Many of the girls do speak good English but do not let every customer know that. Many are concerned about their English skills so they only open up to good and safe customers. But they can communicate well enough to get their main points across. If they are having trouble getting a point across they will use the translator App on their Smart phone. I have had many conversations this way. But they need to feel safe with you and want to communicate with you. That usually means you have treated them well in the past or know you have treated the other girls well at that location. They don't talk to problem clients.

[QUOTE=RJizzle;1853422]I'd like to know what AMP you went to to find a woman who spoke THAT good of English![/QUOTE]

Being subtle is what it is all about. I have never had a problem getting the services that I wanted.

As most of the posters here say. Be nice, and patient.

BTW, never even thought of paying via credit card.

Forgot to post this. I hit Tomcats (70) several weeks back just due to convenience. Same deal as years back.

Girl was very attractive, no complaints on service. I was just surprised that their service model hasn't changed at all given all the current competition.

Of course, if I would have known Red Rose was that close by, I would have kept driving.

I am heading to Charlotte tomorrow. Any posters here familiar with Salisbury? I hear there are establishments worth visiting. Would appreciate any info.

[QUOTE=Raleigh 1975;1853972]I am heading to Charlotte tomorrow. Any posters here familiar with Salisbury? I hear there are establishments worth visiting. Would appreciate any info.[/QUOTE] (North Carolina). (NC-Other Areas). (Salisbury)

Check it out.

Another visit to ATSU in Garner. Seems like every time I go the service gets better and better. Left Happy!

Happy Hunting

[QUOTE=Raleigh 1975;1853972]I am heading to Charlotte tomorrow. Any posters here familiar with Salisbury? I hear there are establishments worth visiting. Would appreciate any info.[/QUOTE]I have found Nicole's can be very good in the evenings. Not so much before 6:00 pm or so though.

NC

Had a dream I went to Oriental Massage yesterday. Got an hour w / a TS at the end. Was offered to take care of myself, but with a little persuasion my hands got to do some roaming while I was taken care of. Left feeling very relaxed and very happy!

[QUOTE=Lumpy06;1853016]I rarely have issues at Oriental on Capital. My past half dozen visits have been great. I have been leaving very happy. Not sure if this has anything to do with it but I try to get a room towards the back. I need to hit some of these great places mentioned in Cary for a change. Eden may be next on my list. Thanks for the updates.[/QUOTE]Got back to Eden in Cary, some dude walked in while I was getting serviced. He was talking very loud and asked to use the bathroom, then came out and went into a room with a girl. Was still really loud, kept asking a lot of odd questions about what would he get for an hour, can the girl tell him if he'd leave happy, if there were girls there who did more then others. My girl said excuse me then left to go into the hallway and call the other girl out. They chatted in Chinese, then my girl came back in, the other girl went into her room with the loud guy, said something, he left in a huff. I think she kicked him out. Anyways, first time I've been in there when a dude came in and made the girls nervous. This, on top of my seeing three uncle leos hanging around out front a couple weeks back means I'll probably start looking at other spas. Just getting weird there, but the girls are awesome. To each their own, I just don't want to feel nervous when I'm in there.