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couldnt agree more
[QUOTE=I Hobby]I actually prefer having a significant other. I’m not a huge monger and I use SW/escorts as a stop-gap solution to prevent me groveling back to an ex when I get what Jimi calls EHE.
My $.02 on this issue, Avenue, is this:
If this girl is important to you, all she wants to hear is “me and you, ‘til end of time.” Even though you might think she “encourages” you, its just an act. I was in the same situation (long and complicated story) once and I made the wrong call. Believe me, all she wants to hear is those words when you are looking at her eyes.
If this girl is not important to you, by all means go for it.
And if you do go for it, from my experiences, I have some tips for you:
1) Kiss your girl only
2) [u]Always[/u] come with/on your girl
3) Make sure you split your time in a 2:1 ratio, i.e. for every minute you spend with the third girl, make sure you spend 2 minutes with your SO
I like to state again if you like this girl, don't even do it. Because, I don't care how secure she is, jealousy will rear its ugly head. I was forwarned before I dove in and I still f-ed up :). Now I'm warning you. Good luck, either way.[/QUOTE]
Couldn't agree more. It's been proven that with only very rare exceptions, "open" or other alternative relationships do not work. It's just not within our DNA to allow our significant other to get their freak thing on with other people without it somehow affecting how we feel about ourselves in relationship to the others that are also feeding at our trough. Good luck to you man, but if it really is important to you I'd focus on it 100%.
I prefer being in a relationship, and try to remain 100% loyal to my SO when I am. I'm not always successful, but that is usually a good determinate of how well the relationship is going. When I cheat the relationship is usually doomed.
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[QUOTE=Deepthroat6987]Couldn't agree more. It's been proven that with only very rare exceptions, "open" or other alternative relationships do not work. It's just not within our DNA to allow our significant other to get their freak thing on with other people without it somehow affecting how we feel about ourselves in relationship to the others that are also feeding at our trough. Good luck to you man, but if it really is important to you I'd focus on it 100%.
I prefer being in a relationship, and try to remain 100% loyal to my SO when I am. I'm not always successful, but that is usually a good determinate of how well the relationship is going. When I cheat the relationship is usually doomed.[/QUOTE]Yea, but the opposite argument can be made that males are not biologically wired to have sex with only one woman for the rest of their lives; this is where the argument for open marriages comes in. But I agree with you that most open marriages do not work because they take a heavy emotional toll and usually lead to disaster. I mean, can you imagine really loving your wife and watching another man banging her?
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My White Whale
I just saw my white whale, Jennifer (BSW), on my way home from work today. Good gracious, she is lot more stunning then I remember. With the heavy traffic, by the time I turned around, she disappeared into the waves of streets.
I would like to apologize in advance to all the Seattle mongers for my selfish, hypocritical way. Since I'll be the first one to say to tow the line and not give in into high prices. But, f*&k it I don’t care, I’m human. Whatever it takes, this CPT Ahab [b]GOTS[/b] to have her. I know some of you basterds, inglourious or otherwise, have some 411 on my girl. Cough it up!
[QUOTE=Goforitdude]Where is the Winona stroll? Sorry, new to this.[/QUOTE]
[url]http://bit.ly/PQhhS[/url]
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Winona
I don't think there's actually any stroll on Winona.
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pulled over in DP
9:30pm Friday evening, made a circle through DP saw an older gal but not very attractive so I swung back around and was heading for Aurora when a cop pulled me over. Asked for license and insurance, asked if I was lost and that was why I was driving in circles. Told him no I was heading home to Burien, he tried to get me to tell him where I was going to or from and I played dumb, started politely saying "I don't know" to his questions. He actually smiled (almost like he appreciated my unwillingness to implicate myself and the fact I was doing it in a polite manner) and after running my license told me I was free to go with a warning and said that if I knew what the folks down here had (as in diseases) I would be horrified and wouldn't be looking around down there. At one point he said "this is my beat" and I got the clear implication he's noting my presence and won't be so nice the next time he finds me down there. Overall though, he was very nice, almost cordial, and not the asshole that the Vancouver BC cops are when they hassle john's on the Hastings strip.
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Wtf... AAA dead???
Ok, it's 3 am Saturday morning, what the hell is going on? There are so many cops out and stopping the sw's. It's dead for the most part. There were a few that I did consider stopping for, but didn't.
Oh well, time to go to bed.
Take care all!
MP
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[QUOTE=Deepthroat6987]9:30pm Friday evening, made a circle through DP saw an older gal but not very attractive so I swung back around and was heading for Aurora when a cop pulled me over...At one point he said "this is my beat" and I got the clear implication he's noting my presence and won't be so nice the next time he finds me down there. Overall though, he was very nice, almost cordial, and not the asshole that the Vancouver BC cops are when they hassle john's on the Hastings strip.[/QUOTE]Brother, no pig is a good pig, but at least you didn't get pulled over by the [u]worst[/u] pig.
Better luck next time, my friend.
'Scuse me while I kiss the sky... -- Jimi Hendrix
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It Has Begun
On The news last night, there was a report on Kent Police doing a John Sting and then impounding the cars of those caught. They got 12 cars, I think.
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[QUOTE=Deepthroat6987]I don't think there's actually any stroll on Winona.[/QUOTE]
No, the Winona Stroll only refers to the area of Aurora in the general proximity of Winona.
[QUOTE=Mud Pup]Ok, it's 3 am Saturday morning, what the hell is going on? There are so many cops out and stopping the sw's. It's dead for the most part. There were a few that I did consider stopping for, but didn't.
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It's almost always dead at 3am. As soon as the clubs close, the SW's lose their cover and the police clean the area out. It's a strictly 11pm to 2am stroll, Friday and Saturday nights only.
[QUOTE=Colnago]On The news last night, there was a report on Kent Police doing a John Sting and then impounding the cars of those caught. They got 12 cars, I think.[/QUOTE]
Actually there were 12 arrests and 8 auto impounds. I'm assuming the 4 who were arrested and didn't get their cars impounded approached the decoy by foot. No one got busted picking up or patronizing a prostitute, they all got busted and lost their cars talking to a police decoy through the window of their cars. Something of course that we know is a bad idea.
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This is why I get digits
[QUOTE=Colnago]On The news last night, there was a report on Kent Police doing a John Sting and then impounding the cars of those caught. They got 12 cars, I think.[/QUOTE]This is why I stick with known sw's. If I happen to luck into a sw and have a nice time with her, I get her digits so that whenever I get horny I can just call. I stick with the same sw's. Mongering is exciting, but very risky.I mean, can you imagine finding the job of your dreams and then 3 months later you're fired because the results of your background check came back?
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[QUOTE=Goforitdude]Where is the Winona stroll? Sorry, new to this.[/QUOTE]
Winona Avenue is the southern extremity of the North Aurora stroll. There is no activity between The H'overpass (Blue Video) and Winona Avenue. The actual "stroll" is north on Aurora from Winona. We use the term because several years ago the Winona/Aurora intersection was the favored location of several SWs of unusual quality.
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[QUOTE=Mud Pup]Ok, it's 3 am Saturday morning, what the hell is going on? There are so many cops out and stopping the sw's. It's dead for the most part.[/QUOTE]
I swept through with a friend again on my way out of Seattle at about midnight, it was calm but quite a few hotties in mini-dresses to choose from. There was one fat white SW with glasses standing right out in the middle Thomas - literally right out in the middle of the street - stopping cars and trying to get attention. Dumbasses were rolling down their windows and talking to her while she tried to solicit business. She tried doing that with my buddy and I and I told her to get the fuck out of the street. On my next pass, another fat white blonde SW stepped right out into traffic on Sixth and expected all of us to just stop for her - she nearly got nailed. Funny when a girl is so fat and so ugly that she has to step into the road to stop traffic, rather than her looks doing it for her.
Other than that, any man could have had his choice of very hot, shapely young BSWs out there last night...including Precious and her nice looking friend.
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[QUOTE=Deepthroat6987]9:30pm Friday evening, made a circle through DP saw an older gal but not very attractive so I swung back around and was heading for Aurora when a cop pulled me over. Asked for license and insurance, asked if I was lost and that was why I was driving in circles. Told him no I was heading home to Burien, he tried to get me to tell him where I was going to or from and I played dumb, started politely saying "I don't know" to his questions. He actually smiled (almost like he appreciated my unwillingness to implicate myself and the fact I was doing it in a polite manner)[/QUOTE]
Same thing happened to me several months ago while pulling out of DP into the Hostess area. The cop had tailed me for a long time and I began to think about heading toward I-5 to shake him. Sure enough, as soon as I made a beeline for Mercer he pulled me over and asked me the same questions. He kept asking why I was there by myself, cruising through the area alone. He said, "guys just...circle. They circle this area for hours on end. What are you doing here?". I just kept replying, "I guess I don't really understand why you are asking me that question" in a polite tone. He finally smiled and said, "look, i'm conducting a [i]survey[/i] - and you don't have to answer - on why guys come down to this area at night alone and just circle the blocks". I stuck to my guns and said again, "I really just don't understand why you are asking me such questions". He finally smiled and said calmly, "I don't have time for this", turned and walked back to his car.
Since then i've been tailed a few times in the area by police and I always head straight to I-5. The cop always does a u-turn to head back to DP/Hostess once I hit the I-5 entrance ramp.
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[QUOTE=Avenue]...Since then i've been tailed a few times in the area by police and I always head straight to I-5. The cop always does a u-turn to head back to DP/Hostess once I hit the I-5 entrance ramp.[/QUOTE]So much for civil liberties... -- Jimi Hendrix
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AAA Sat-Sun Night
Last night, the police sat in their suv and videoed people driving through the area. What a huge wast of resources. I can see why why people in Seattle gave Nick(A)holes the boot.