Seeking Arrangements (SA)

Has anyone met this girl? I would appreciate any kind of info.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8fc613c7-d800-c407-9834-0c71b5c3ee6b[/URL]

I had a sb play me good. We met and had a wonderful night, alot in common, etc. At the end of the night she asked if I wanted to hang out again but for free, and it wod be nice if I could just help her out once and awhile. We talked daily, she was very caring and sweet. We were going to hang out one night and made plans. During the day she asked if she could "borrow" $400 until Friday. I said yes, that I would give it to her tonight. She could keep $300. That night I never heard from her and she didn't reply to my messages. It wasn't like her to disappear, so I sent her a few texts asking her to let me know she was ok. Finally, 3 days later she responds saying that I "didn't seem enthused to help", and now she is "seeing someone" so our relationship is over. I haven't heard from her since. I just don't understand. If it was always about money, why ask me to hang out for free? So my wuestion is, is the whole "I want to hang out and not charge you" a trick sugar babies play?

[QUOTE=SoleKollectah;3318186]I had a sb play me good. We met and had a wonderful night, alot in common, etc. At the end of the night she asked if I wanted to hang out again but for free, and it wod be nice if I could just help her out once and awhile. We talked daily, she was very caring and sweet. We were going to hang out one night and made plans. During the day she asked if she could "borrow" $400 until Friday. I said yes, that I would give it to her tonight. She could keep $300. That night I never heard from her and she didn't reply to my messages. It wasn't like her to disappear, so I sent her a few texts asking her to let me know she was ok. Finally, 3 days later she responds saying that I "didn't seem enthused to help", and now she is "seeing someone" so our relationship is over. I haven't heard from her since. I just don't understand. If it was always about money, why ask me to hang out for free? So my wuestion is, is the whole "I want to hang out and not charge you" a trick sugar babies play?[/QUOTE]Trying to figure out the younger generation is impossible.

More than likely she was never into you, she just wanted to use you for money. If you had given her the $400 she still would have disappeared. So consider yourself lucky you're not down $400.

She could have found someone else who will give her more money, but don't kid yourself, 99% of these ladies are in it for the money and that's it. When the money stops, they stop caring.

After you have been doing this for a few years you just got to move on and say. NEXT. Who knows, maybe I'm just jaded.

[QUOTE=SoleKollectah;3318186]If it was always about money, why ask me to hang out for free? So my wuestion is, is the whole "I want to hang out and not charge you" a trick sugar babies play?[/QUOTE]Bottom line: never "loan" them money; consider it a gift. If you expect to get it back, you're just fooling yourself. Personally, I've NEVER NEVER NEVER paid for sex, I've paid for her time and companionship, the sex is ALWAYS FREE. How would she have responded if you had said: "Let me 'borrow' some sex until Friday". She'd look at you like you were nuts. Don't trust them when it comes to repayment.

Those scammers tend to behave as well or as poorly as the dudes pursuing them permit. If there are no repercussions to a cash and dash, they'll continue that trait and try it on the next guy. The supply of available SBs is so plentiful, the price for companionship is seriously low. Imagine if all the women colluded to ensure that even the lowest price was at their desired level. However, women generally view themselves as competition with each other and consistently undercut their own prices. Technically, if she had followed through, she could claim that the sex was free and that you were simply paying for her time.

I commend you for having the courage to let the board know what happened. I know of some dudes who will make her life h3 ll over any amount of money. I encourage you to chalk it up to the game and learn from the experience, brother.

Stay safe,

Milfman.

[QUOTE=AsiansBoy;3317256][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ccbca6f6-27c2-4460-80f2-fc934ce6d97b[/URL]

Just give you guys a head up this one cash and dash me 2 moths ago. Go report her let's get her out of our game.

Play safe guys.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the heads up. I thought it was weird when she asked me if I liked golden showers in our 3rd or 4th text. It set off a red flag. Now it makes sense why she's be that forward and out there. It's a shame, too. She's cute.

[QUOTE=VolMan6203;3317215]It's amazing how easy they are to find on Facebook and you can see who their friends are and that tells you a lot about what you are dealing with LOL.[/QUOTE]Vol Man,

What's the secret for finding them on FB? I'm practically illiterate when it comes to internet sleuthing. PM if you'd rather. Thanks.

She has a great spinner body and tattoos. A good time was had by all. I carried some extra cash in a bank envelope in my pocket when I came in. I left my clothes in a pile on the floor while I rinsed off in the shower. I was in there less than 5 minutes. I was getting dressed and noticed the envelope missing. Of course she denied all knowledge of this and let me search everywhere but I couldn't find it. She told me to go look in my car which I did and I fully expected to find her gone when I came back to the room but she let me in and lo and behold my envelope magically appeared under the bed, short of cash of course. She still denied everything and I left. She never complained about me leaving her nothing in payment and still denies it. Now this is all my fault for letting my guard down and not taking my clothes with me to rinse off. How do you guys handle these situations if they do arise? If you see her, watch your ass!

[QUOTE=VolMan6203;3318597]She has a great spinner body and tattoos. A good time was had by all. I carried some extra cash in a bank envelope in my pocket when I came in. I left my clothes in a pile on the floor while I rinsed off in the shower. I was in there less than 5 minutes. I was getting dressed and noticed the envelope missing. Of course she denied all knowledge of this and let me search everywhere but I couldn't find it. She told me to go look in my car which I did and I fully expected to find her gone when I came back to the room but she let me in and lo and behold my envelope magically appeared under the bed, short of cash of course. She still denied everything and I left. She never complained about me leaving her nothing in payment and still denies it. Now this is all my fault for letting my guard down and not taking my clothes with me to rinse off. How do you guys handle these situations if they do arise? If you see her, watch your ass![/QUOTE]I never take more cash in with me than I intend to leave. I never take credit cards or I'd. And I maybe paranoid but I leave my keyless entry in the car. I have heard about instances when your keyless entry is used while you are showering and an accomplis goes through your car.

These girls all operate out of the Tri-Cities and Asheville area, but I know they work in Knoxville, too. Just wanted to pass this along.

Ok, my last 3 SA experiences have sucked in the wrong way.

Carmen SanDiego.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/725260b6-0bda-2525-43d3-e171f3d5a922[/URL]

This was the worst experience I've ever had in the hobby. Looks great, but she seemed fucked up when we met. All she did through the whole date was complain about things that had nothing to do with us, like politics. Then, just as we were about to get down to business, she cash and dashed me. A few days later I bumped into her in a bar in Johnson City and she went out of her way to start a big scene. She's psycho with major demons that make her erratic! AVOID!

KelseyAnne.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/93c8c588-80b2-2949-01d5-d581b3cc5f01[/URL]

Set up a meeting at a hotel. Refused to give me phone number. Messaged me via SA right up until the time to meet. No showed. Thankfully I didn't get the room without her showing up first.

Mjsky12.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/5af79730-3523-4ca1-898b-abfc682acdf9[/URL]

Set up a meeting a day in advance. She gave me her address. Then crickets the last 4 hours before the meeting and refused to confirm.

Molly7792.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/fd256abc-674d-4cc6-906a-e84b907bae11[/URL]

Had her go quiet or cancel on me 4 times now. I kept trying because she's the hottest local girl on SA, but now I'm done. Waste of time.

Had this one come over last night, $200. Minimal back and forth before she just gave me her number. We texted some, simple chit chat, nothing specific over text which I prefer. She arrived on time, and was in text communication the whole time. We had a good conversation, which lasted about an hour. Had an interruption in the conversation, so I threw something on the TV just to have in the background before initiating. She said "you look bored". Then proceeded to cure my boredom with everything you'd hope for.

She was pretty good, and seemed to actually enjoy herself which I appreciate.

I try hooking up with Nikkilove17 last week and thought we had something going but never heard from her again. However, I have met Sarah Marie and she is a jewel. These girls move too fast for me.

So I join SA because I really want a SD / SB relationship. But it seems to me that most of these ladies are UTR providers and some have GPS. I noticed the UTR's give you their numbers right away. Hell, I have turn down a few because that's not what I'm looking for. I might as well go to BP if that what I want. I'm babbling but I do have a question. Are there really any legit Sugarbabies that can be found on SA?

She wants $600 because she hasn't ever done this before. Doesn't like to give head. No Greek. Anyone going for this?

[QUOTE=TheCoolDude;3318989]So I join SA because I really want a SD / SB relationship. But it seems to me that most of these ladies are UTR providers and some have GPS. I noticed the UTR's give you their numbers right away. Hell, I have turn down a few because that's not what I'm looking for. I might as well go to BP if that what I want. I'm babbling but I do have a question. Are there really any legit Sugarbabies that can be found on SA?[/QUOTE]Depends on your definition of a SB. You can find a true SB but its going to take time and effort. Also depending on the age bracket your looking for the arrangement could be pricey.

[QUOTE=VolMan6203;3319232]She wants $600 because she hasn't ever done this before. Doesn't like to give head. No Greek. Anyone going for this?[/QUOTE]That's GPS brother. I won't give a sim for this one.