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[QUOTE=Batman317;2812359]Can the women reply back to me if they don't have premium membership?[/QUOTE]Yes. They're the bait for the site, you're the subscriber. Their premium membership allows them to hide activity on their profile, but even then it appears you can see if they viewed you.
[QUOTE=Mwdude;2812764]Yes. They're the bait for the site, you're the subscriber. Their premium membership allows them to hide activity on their profile, but even then it appears you can see if they viewed you.[/QUOTE]Is it worth joining inyour opinion? Parts of it looks good, I'm wary of it as well, want to know what alot of you guys think. Are alot of you getting action on there or is alot gps chicks?
[QUOTE=Batman317;2813341]Is it worth joining inyour opinion? Parts of it looks good, I'm wary of it as well, want to know what alot of you guys think. Are alot of you getting action on there or is alot gps chicks?[/QUOTE]If you look back thru this thread you will see lots of info.
[QUOTE=Batman317;2813341]Is it worth joining inyour opinion? Parts of it looks good, I'm wary of it as well, want to know what alot of you guys think. Are alot of you getting action on there or is alot gps chicks?[/QUOTE]From a man who no longer partakes in the hobby, a short answer to your question is that yes you'll find what you're looking for.
Longer answer? The positives are that the women are more beautiful and not nearly as high volume as those on BP. The experience will be more GFE, and much more exclusive. Conversely there are seldom reviews to safely guide and protect you. When a pro was reviewed it gave me invaluable information such as menu, accuracy of picture, how many men she's serviced, her daily volume, her accuracy in pricing, cleanliness and safety of her location, drug use, and criminal activity (heck even if she had a visit from our least favorite uncle). With SA you're mostly on your own, and just because she's not labeled as a duck, does not mean she doesn't quack. Do your homework. Be forewarned that significant drama will commence if you bite on the lure of desperation that will present you with at least 1/2 of the SBs listed. It's match, tinder, eharmony, pof, adult friend finder, NR, BP, Craig's list skype porn, and Princess Scam-a-lot from Nigeria, all within one web site. With all of that said, if one is risky enough to see the likes of Sammie, there is an endless supply of crazy on that site to keep you entertained.
As for GPS, yup there's that too, mostly those under 21, which I'd suggest steering clear from anyway.
Just do all of us a favor and don't pay for meet and greets.
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2814163]From a man who no longer partakes in the hobby, a short answer to your question is that yes you'll find what you're looking for.
Longer answer? The positives are that the women are more beautiful and not nearly as high volume as those on BP. The experience will be more GFE, and much more exclusive. Conversely there are seldom reviews to safely guide and protect you. When a pro was reviewed it gave me invaluable information such as menu, accuracy of picture, how many men she's serviced, her daily volume, her accuracy in pricing, cleanliness and safety of her location, drug use, and criminal activity (heck even if she had a visit from our least favorite uncle). With SA you're mostly on your own, and just because she's not labeled as a duck, does not mean she doesn't quack. Do your homework. Be forewarned that significant drama will commence if you bite on the lure of desperation that will present you with at least 1/2 of the SBs listed. It's match, tinder, eharmony, pof, adult friend finder, NR, BP, Craig's list skype porn, and Princess Scam-a-lot from Nigeria, all within one web site. With all of that said, if one is risky enough to see the likes of Sammie, there is an endless supply of crazy on that site to keep you entertained.
As for GPS, yup there's that too, mostly those under 21, which I'd suggest steering clear from anyway.
Just do all of us a favor and don't pay for meet and greets.[/QUOTE]Excellent synopsis. One key thing to know is that many of your interactions will involve much more work in getting anywhere, in the sense of compared to BP where straight to business is understood.
So if you like knowing mostly what you're getting into and usually communications that start and end at said business, stick with BP or escorts. If you're OK with a higher strike out rate but want more than being her fifth customer of the day, give this a try.
[QUOTE=Batman317;2813341]Is it worth joining inyour opinion? Parts of it looks good, I'm wary of it as well, want to know what alot of you guys think. Are alot of you getting action on there or is alot gps chicks?[/QUOTE]I've slowed down significantly on BP and am now exclusively on SA for the time being. There is a lot more work involved, as others have suggested, but it pays off. You will be emailing and texting a lot more to set up an arrangement than you do on BP. Usually you have a meet and greet at a restaurant to see if there is a connection. If so, you may even continue with the negotiation process. I have not given any money to a SB at a meet and greet, nor have I been asked yet. I think the women are a little more stable here than other sites I've tried, but I have run across a few weird one's as well. I'm seeing one now that is very pretty, has a great sense of humor, and we get along very well. I haven't given her a dime to yet, she hasn't even brought up the subject yet, and we have even had sex!
It's been work to get to this point, but its a lot less stressful than BP. I have yet to be stood up using SA. YMMV, but I'll be staying on SA for the time being.
Good Luck!
Any Intel on the below? Please PM. Thanks!
Erica.
Renexo (everything is said right, valid DL) something doesn't seem right.) mostly curious not likely to follow through.
Bella Renae (GPS?
Lovepink04200.
UniversitySB (GPS?
Sweet and Sassy Midwest.
Sunshine1977.
Not shopping, just ended an arrangement, had been talking to the above and deciding on the best option for me.
Time and energy, do pay off. Better quality and more girl next door, but scams, GPS. Have to do your research.
BG.
[QUOTE=Mwdude;2814257]Excellent synopsis. One key thing to know is that many of your interactions will involve much more work in getting anywhere, in the sense of compared to BP where straight to business is understood.
So if you like knowing mostly what you're getting into and usually communications that start and end at said business, stick with BP or escorts. If you're OK with a higher strike out rate but want more than being her fifth customer of the day, give this a try.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BigGuyUAteMe;2815868]Time and energy, do pay off. Better quality and more girl next door, but scams, GPS. Have to do your research.
BG.[/QUOTE]BigGuy is right, the time and energy can pay off. But PLEASE do NOT over pay or start paying for a meet and greet. Be smart and stay safe.
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2815712]Any Intel on the below? Please PM. Thanks!
Erica.
Renexo (everything is said right, valid DL) something doesn't seem right.) mostly curious not likely to follow through.
Bella Renae (GPS?
Lovepink04200.
UniversitySB (GPS?
Sweet and Sassy Midwest.
Sunshine1977.
Not shopping, just ended an arrangement, had been talking to the above and deciding on the best option for me.[/QUOTE]I have communcated with only Erika on your list. She was receptive to a meet and greet, but wanted to bring her girlfriend along, and wanted both to be paid at the meet. I promptly declined.
[QUOTE=BiteOfTheApple;2816060]I have communcated with only Erika on your list. She was receptive to a meet and greet, but wanted to bring her girlfriend along, and wanted both to be paid at the meet. I promptly declined.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the heads up, it's amazing how many of these ladies have a friend on there. It's like they're sitting next two each other on their phones chatting with us. There are two hotties in Lafayette that play this game. I prefer more one on one, and discrete.
FYI, Tammyistoofun is 4 K-5 k per month for up to 1 visit a week, up to 4 hours of her time, she hosts in a hotel. From her photos, if I had that kind of money I didn't care to invest in more meaningful things, she's a kick out. I'm not sure if she's for real, the entire conversation was horrible. Every reply ended with "allowance?
Me: "Hey baby. Blah blah. How is your evening?
Her: "good, can you email me more pictures? Allowance?
Me: "Be happy to but I prefer discussing allowance once we know if we have chemistry".
Her. "Ok my email is. Com. Allowance?
Me: "sent you pictures, and as mentioned I'd prefer we learn if our personalities click prior to discussing allowance. ".
Her: "ok coffee? Where? Allowance?
After several exchanges similar to the above, I'm thinking allowance is either really important to her, or someone messed with her phone to make all of her punctuation auto fill as "allowance!
She finally replies "you need to know that I expect a significant allowance, and I have found that men who can't discuss can't afford me. I'm afraid you can't either. " I took that as an easy way to end the conversation, and said "Contrary to your belief, I can afford you, I just make those type of investments to pretty faces with persistently pushy personalities as I find that type of behavior to relegate the experience we would have to average at best, at which time I feel a significant discount would be in order. " Translated "you're right, I can't afford you, if o could I'd probably do so because you're damn hot, despite you're ugly personality. ".
Her reply? "Ok. So are we meeting? Allowance?
I deleted as expected. Woke up this AM to her 4-5 k sales pitch. So question, anyone have 5 k I can borrow? She's sinfully attractive in a playboy bunny goes swank type of way.
Uhgg.
[QUOTE=BiteOfTheApple;2816060]I have communcated with only Erika on your list. She was receptive to a meet and greet, but wanted to bring her girlfriend along, and wanted both to be paid at the meet. I promptly declined.[/QUOTE]I have had some pms with her, she is hot and If I get it together would like to have a meet and greet with her.
BG.
Agreed to meet early Monday morning, texted me back at 3:30 am Stating she's nervous about meeting.
At 11 am The same day, agrees to meet at 2 pm. I get a room at a nice location, she no-shows me claiming there is a police car in a parking lot.
I offered to come down and meet with her, nothing but crickets. No response.
This morning, I text her offering to meet her for lunch or a drink, on her terms and her location that she picks. She agrees to a 2 pm Meeting for lunch, at a restaurant that she picked and no shows me again no text, no communication. At least I hadn't gotten another room.
Don't waste your time on this one guys.
Anyone have any intel on this one? I've been communicating with her, trying to work out an arrangement. I thought things were progressing well, then nothing! Am I just wasting my time?
[QUOTE=BigGuyUAteMe;2817057]I have had some pms with her, she is hot and If I get it together would like to have a meet and greet with her.
BG.[/QUOTE]She is very real, very sexy, nice young lady. Little talkative but man can she perform! Wow!
She is the real deal.
Stay away from this one. She is a known scam artist. She advertises on CL a lot.
She actually has a profile on a major scam alert website.
[URL]http://www.ripoffreport.com/r/Amy-Daughtry/Indianapolis-Indiana/Amy-Daughtry-Amy-Pilk-Amy-Rutledge-Amy-Radford-Bella-Mafiaa-Facebook-Con-Artist-Indianapo-1104343[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e0ede2e41/view?search-created-new[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ef560ddf/view?search-created-new[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/purchase/merchant?package=generous-male-membership-premium-30-discount&[/URL]
The link can be used for 30% discount on SA Premium membership. The link can be used repeatedly on months you renew premium.
[QUOTE=IndyGuy123;2822680][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/purchase/merchant?package=generous-male-membership-premium-30-discount&[/URL]
The link can be used for 30% discount on SA Premium membership. The link can be used repeatedly on months you renew premium.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the link. Works perfectly, just renewed mine.
[URL]https://www.yahoo.com/news/video/college-students-selling-themselves-pay-011511703.html[/URL]
She's been on Ashley Madison for a couple years. She creates a new profile at least once a week and often is logged on 2 or more at a time. She forgets she even talked to guys on one profile, days after she starts talking using a new one. It's either a dude screwing around, she's very high volume, missing a couple brain cells, or a combination. Steer clear.
[QUOTE=Bfeguy;2818363]Agreed to meet early Monday morning, texted me back at 3:30 am Stating she's nervous about meeting.
At 11 am The same day, agrees to meet at 2 pm. I get a room at a nice location, she no-shows me claiming there is a police car in a parking lot.
I offered to come down and meet with her, nothing but crickets. No response.
This morning, I text her offering to meet her for lunch or a drink, on her terms and her location that she picks. She agrees to a 2 pm Meeting for lunch, at a restaurant that she picked and no shows me again no text, no communication. At least I hadn't gotten another room.
Don't waste your time on this one guys.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2829745]She's been on Ashley Madison for a couple years. She creates a new profile at least once a week and often is logged on 2 or more at a time. She forgets she even talked to guys on one profile, days after she starts talking using a new one. It's either a dude screwing around, she's very high volume, missing a couple brain cells, or a combination. Steer clear.[/QUOTE]She is real. I actually met up with her a couple months back. She's by no means a pro or even a UTR, she genuinely is so overly cautious and nervous that she comes off as being weird. But regardless, I wouldn't waste my time with her. Not very attractive, bigger than her pics, and just odd. She actually wanted to get together at her place later, for practically nothing, and I still passed.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;2822695]Thanks for the link. Works perfectly, just renewed mine.[/QUOTE]Does this still work? Not working for me☹.
[QUOTE=KyBoyHere;2836489]Does this still work? Not working for me☹.[/QUOTE]I tried it myself, it still asks for 69.99 instead of discount rate.
She is hot, but has GPS and looking for one daddy with deep pockets.
BG.
[QUOTE=JohnBuddy;2819268]She is very real, very sexy, nice young lady. Little talkative but man can she perform! Wow![/QUOTE]
Met with Bre, good-looking, sweet and sexy, this one is a keeper!
BG.
[QUOTE=JohnBuddy;2819283]She is the real deal.[/QUOTE]
Anyone get an unsolicited $400 offer from this lady? The curious cat I am decided to play the email a little and it seemed TGTBT. While $400 is a high starting point, I figured negotiable; she seemed eager to acquire vacation money, but she rubbed me the wrong way. Took things to the bat phone for text and asked for a complimentary picture to show her sincerity, and to make sure she wasn't related. She just kept resending the stock photos from her SA account. No small talk, no screening, just two questions "when and which hotel. " She knew the castleton area well. I decided to back off, did I miss out?
As for sunshine, she's very hot, never met her, she's sweet to talk to, salacious pictures, however she cancels too often to take seriously. She has a live in SO, maybe that's why she back peddles so often (or a better offer?) She tries hard to convince that she's exclusively interested in me (doesn't realize this site reveals otherwise). While I could care less who she sees, for wanting large monthly amounts, I'd expect it to be more exclusive with a place to host. I'd love a PM on how things go on a "per date bases," as she alludes to be adamantly against the idea.
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2840925]Anyone get an unsolicited $400 offer from this lady? The curious cat I am decided to play the email a little and it seemed TGTBT. While $400 is a high starting point, I figured negotiable; she seemed eager to acquire vacation money, but she rubbed me the wrong way. Took things to the bat phone for text and asked for a complimentary picture to show her sincerity, and to make sure she wasn't related. She just kept resending the stock photos from her SA account. No small talk, no screening, just two questions "when and which hotel. " She knew the castleton area well. I decided to back off, did I miss out?[/QUOTE]Never met her but here is an opinion. She has had an acct for about a yr and a half. I personally doubt everyones least favorite family member would still be setting up people and reaching out to them for that long. I may be concerned if. It was a new. Account. Also, many of the ladies will only send stock photos for their own reason. Usually they are old, better than the real thing or they are dolled up also making them out to be better than the real thing.
Indy Guy.
I met with her earlier this week. Springboard and going off Indy Guy, I found some comfort in the amount of time she has been a member. We negotiated a donation that was reasonable and I met her at her incall.
She met me at the door in a sexy nighty, was clean, smelled nice and provided for me a GF experience. She is very direct and to the point which shows cause for caution if you haven't met her before.
Like I said, she is very friendly, tight, and down for whatever you are into. She will tell you right up front she loves to give head and is not afraid of the money shot and is not a sink runner.
I did feel a bit rushed but that might have just been me.
So take all of this for what it is worth, as of last Wednesday afternoon she was safe and legit.
[QUOTE=Bfeguy;2841426]I met with her earlier this week. Springboard and going off Indy Guy, I found some comfort in the amount of time she has been a member. We negotiated a donation that was reasonable and I met her at her incall.
She met me at the door in a sexy nighty, was clean, smelled nice and provided for me a GF experience. She is very direct and to the point which shows cause for caution if you haven't met her before.
Like I said, she is very friendly, tight, and down for whatever you are into. She will tell you right up front she loves to give head and is not afraid of the money shot and is not a sink runner.
I did feel a bit rushed but that might have just been me.
So take all of this for what it is worth, as of last Wednesday afternoon she was safe and legit.[/QUOTE]Great Intel, thank you. I failed to look at the membership status. I'm still concerned about what IndyGuy proposed about the stock photos as that has been my experience too. If her rates are negotiable, it may be worth a spin. She definitely was not crazy with texts and was cordial, it just seemed a little too easy for suck sexy photos. Thanks again.
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2841796]Great Intel, thank you. I failed to look at the membership status. I'm still concerned about what IndyGuy proposed about the stock photos as that has been my experience too. If her rates are negotiable, it may be worth a spin. She definitely was not crazy with texts and was cordial, it just seemed a little too easy for suck sexy photos. Thanks again.[/QUOTE]The photos she posts on her profile are older. I'd say 3-5 yrs maybe. Still an attractive woman, just not the sultry woman in the pics.
Ok I continue to see post by guys who are over thinking this because these girls are on a arrangement site. If they come straight to the point and are asking x amount of dollars to meet you without first meeting you or asking for pics of you then your meeting pros or utr girls. You don't panic when dealing with girls from BP or the classifieds here get right to the point so don't over think this. Again if they get right to the point they are pros or utr or have been in the sex trade before.
[QUOTE=Bfeguy;2842031]The photos she posts on her profile are older. I'd say 3-5 yrs maybe. Still an attractive woman, just not the sultry woman in the pics.[/QUOTE]I definitely agree. I got together with her at her incall a few months ago for $$, she was very pleasant, enjoyable, safe, and a good time. However, a little bigger than her pics and not as sexy as her pics make her out to be.
[QUOTE=JaxSon07;2842650]I definitely agree. I got together with her at her incall a few months ago for $$, she was very pleasant, enjoyable, safe, and a good time. However, a little bigger than her pics and not as sexy as her pics make her out to be.[/QUOTE]You also need to be a good BoyScout and bring your own raingear.
Anyone know where to get coupon codes or discount rates for SA? I really want to try it out but I'm too damn cheap to spend 70 on it, especially if it turns out the site sux.
[QUOTE=Batman317;2843495]Anyone know where to get coupon codes or discount rates for SA? I really want to try it out but I'm too damn cheap to spend 70 on it, especially if it turns out the site sux.[/QUOTE]I found some doing a google search. Good luck!
[QUOTE=Batman317;2843495]Anyone know where to get coupon codes or discount rates for SA? I really want to try it out but I'm too damn cheap to spend 70 on it, especially if it turns out the site sux.[/QUOTE]Not sure if you can get a discount without a paid membership. I've seen that offered but not for a first time. If $70 is to step for you then you might try sugar daddy for me (sd4 me). A gold membership is around $50 and they offer a 3 day trial period for a small amount.
[QUOTE=BiteOfTheApple;2843694]I found some doing a google search. Good luck![/QUOTE]I did that as well, not a single one of them works for any sort of discount to the site.
[QUOTE=Bfeguy;2843106]You also need to be a good BoyScout and bring your own raingear.[/QUOTE]Her very first message to me on SA included her phone #. I texted her and she shared what she was looking for after 2 or 3 text messages. No request for a pic or my name or anything at all about me. I asked about incall, but she claimed that her 86 yo grandma lives with her. Offered $$$ and hotel which she, of course, jumped at. She is supposedly leaving for Florida on Thursday and needs the $. She sounds desperate, so it may be a good time too make a lowball offer. I think I'll pass.