The big issue is how people take feedback and get defensive. You can get the best experience of you life with someone that is old, ugly or taking all your money. It is not a personal attack or shame or hate for people to say you over paid or there is hotter at the same price.
Be happy paying $5 for a dollar menu burger or be happy eating a microwave burger when grilled burgers are better but don't get offended. The statements are true even if they don't align with your perceived values. Comments like there's better out there or you overpaid is more for the others comparing the reviews and not a personal attack on you or your favorite girl.
Someone says your favorite girl could be hotter or cheaper is not false because you are happy. Don't hate on others for exposing facts you don't want to hear or don't care about. Don't freak out and go quiet or run away with all your toys like an upset child.
Adults would say "sure I might have over paid but she is worth it" or "sure hotter girls are out there but I loved my time with her performance". Don't throw a tantrum if you don't care or want to hear something, let's all be adults.
The site is to expose scammers, expose over chargers, justify the extremes, share details/rules/limits, and you can brag about good times. Just don't get upset if your good time review has feedback.
[QUOTE=Werve22;6258125]The only time I post anymore is when I hobby out of the area. The main reason being the toxicity of a few on here ruining it for me. It seems after anyone posts on a provider, there is frequently the same couple of people on here saying "you paid too much" or "you wasted your resources on her. There are better out there" blah blah blah. Its always the same post. Its always the same people. Just boosting their post count I'm sure. I will reply to a request here or there but I'm pretty much done posting until things get better. I suspect I'm not the only one as some other regular posters have dropped off the map and rarely resurface.
The thing that kills me is when I go to another area's board looking for recommendations, most people jump at the chance to share and give feedback. It is rare for me to strike out when I'm out of town, and it's because of the boards. None of that "she's legit but you can find better" bs.
Trust me. People haven't stopped hobbying. They just stopped posting about it.
Rant over. For now.[/QUOTE]
