"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=CoolRaj;2958859]Hello Seniors- I have read multiple threads abouts meet & greet allowance. In may boston area, I see many girls ask for that. I haven't given anyone so far so they don't meet me. Not sure what I will do. Don't know if people in my area give this allowance. Few girls ask pre-meet allowance to legitimize. Not sure what to do.

I appreciate any tip.

Thanks!![/QUOTE]There should be plenty of girls to meet without the paying. Stick to your guns, never pay for m / g. Alot of guys gift girls at m / g but this just gives the girls the thought its pay to show and expect it from from next guy. Whatever you decide to do, coffee, dinner or whatever is sufficient for the m / g.

[QUOTE=CoolRaj;2958854]Hello All,

I want to share my todays experience. I chatted with 20 year BOS college girl, red head, slim, 5. 6. Her pics were awesome. We chatted and decided to meet after 1 hour. She gave a figure of 200 to 300 and I offered 200 for 2-3 hours visit. She agreed. I booked a room and drove to hotel. I agreed to book a uber taxi for her as she can't afford (she told me). She only asked to exchange our numbers and then we texted with updates. At the last minute, she said she can only stay for 30-1 hour. I said we need to be more or may be we can book another time. She apologized me and said meet next week and in 5 min deactivated the profile. She had joined sA yesterday. I realized she was panicked or someone suggest her she can get more money.

Then I texted her and asked if she is not interested so that I won't text. She replied she is not interested.

Seniors. Any suggestion? What could be gone wrong or this happens?

Thanks in advance for reading this.[/QUOTE]If she deactivated more than likely a about of conscience set in. Your negotiating sex by hour and made her feel like an escort, which was something she wasn't prepared for.

[QUOTE=LikeMike1963;2959088]They are my own terms. LOL. SB) was a typo. Just meant SB 1-1 is meaning I look for a monogamous situation with my SB.[/QUOTE]LOL. Got it, thought I was falling behind on industry jargon there for a min.

[QUOTE=CoolRaj;2958854]Hello All,

I want to share my todays experience. I chatted with 20 year BOS college girl, red head, slim, 5. 6. Her pics were awesome. We chatted and decided to meet after 1 hour. She gave a figure of 200 to 300 and I offered 200 for 2-3 hours visit. She agreed. I booked a room and drove to hotel. I agreed to book a uber taxi for her as she can't afford (she told me). She only asked to exchange our numbers and then we texted with updates. At the last minute, she said she can only stay for 30-1 hour. I said we need to be more or may be we can book another time. She apologized me and said meet next week and in 5 min deactivated the profile. She had joined sA yesterday. I realized she was panicked or someone suggest her she can get more money.

Then I texted her and asked if she is not interested so that I won't text. She replied she is not interested.

Seniors. Any suggestion? What could be gone wrong or this happens?

Thanks in advance for reading this.[/QUOTE]Raj,

Sounds like she was UTR or just an overt BP girl. Hopefully, you were able to cancel the room and didn't get stuck with the charge.

Usually when a woman agrees to meet you right away at the FC, she's a UTR. So, you can look at it just like a BP meet except you're paying for the hotel- not exactly a bargain.

You didn't do to badly here. You avoided getting scammed by a BP girl. Stay the course, you'll get there.

BR.

[QUOTE=CoolRaj;2958859]Hello Seniors- I have read multiple threads abouts meet & greet allowance. In may boston area, I see many girls ask for that. I haven't given anyone so far so they don't meet me. Not sure what I will do. Don't know if people in my area give this allowance. Few girls ask pre-meet allowance to legitimize. Not sure what to do.

I appreciate any tip.

Thanks!![/QUOTE]Approach it along the lines of you want to get to know her and you wouldn't expect any intimacy without chemistry just as she shouldn't expect sugar without intimacy. She'll come back with her time is valuable blah blah, but tell her your time is valuable as well.

Good hunting!

[QUOTE=CoolRaj;2958854]I agreed to book a uber taxi for her as she can't afford (she told me). [/QUOTE]While I applaud one's creativity in getting the girl to you, isn't there a risk of doing this?

Is there a way to sign up on Uber without giving a CC and sharing one's personal information? Or am I being too paranoid?

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;2959333]While I applaud one's creativity in getting the girl to you, isn't there a risk of doing this?

Is there a way to sign up on Uber without giving a CC and sharing one's personal information? Or am I being too paranoid?[/QUOTE]I've wondered about this, I assume Uber drivers have the customer's name? So if she asks him she's got it, not a good idea if anonymity is needed. Maybe someone who does this a lot can comment. I would probably just call a cab for her and meet her at drop off and pay the driver cash, risk removed. The times I've had to deal with it in the past I told them to just take a cab and I will reimburse. If they can't afford cab fare to get there they are probably too desperate / nando for me anyway.

[QUOTE=JeezLizard;2959362]I've wondered about this, I assume Uber drivers have the customer's name? So if she asks him she's got it, not a good idea if anonymity is needed. Maybe someone who does this a lot can comment. I would probably just call a cab for her and meet her at drop off and pay the driver cash, risk removed. The times I've had to deal with it in the past I told them to just take a cab and I will reimburse. If they can't afford cab fare to get there they are probably too desperate / nando for me anyway.[/QUOTE]You can create an uber account under any name provided you've an email address. Use an alias, and then add your real card would work. I'm actually considering trying to create an account with a gift card. I'll report back.

[QUOTE=JeezLizard;2959362] I would probably just call a cab for her and meet her at drop off and pay the driver cash, risk removed.[/QUOTE]If you are meeting at the hotel, and privacy is an issue for you, now here you are in front of a hotel, paying a cab driver and a PYT piles out and follows you into the hotel and up to your room.

I told one baby I would send a cab to pick her up and take her to the hotel and I would join her soon after her arrival. It was suprisingly difficult to find a cab company that woudl do a 3rd party Credit Card charge -- I guess they have been burned alot by bum and fraudulent card usage.

Finally had to tell someone it was an employee I was bringing in for an interview (picked her up at Train station in town), blah blah blah. That seemed to make it sound legit to them.

[QUOTE=CoolRaj;2958854]Hello All,

I want to share my todays experience. I chatted with 20 year BOS college girl, red head, slim, 5. 6. Her pics were awesome. We chatted and decided to meet after 1 hour. She gave a figure of 200 to 300 and I offered 200 for 2-3 hours visit. She agreed. I booked a room and drove to hotel. I agreed to book a uber taxi for her as she can't afford (she told me). She only asked to exchange our numbers and then we texted with updates. At the last minute, she said she can only stay for 30-1 hour. I said we need to be more or may be we can book another time. She apologized me and said meet next week and in 5 min deactivated the profile. She had joined sA yesterday. I realized she was panicked or someone suggest her she can get more money.

Then I texted her and asked if she is not interested so that I won't text. She replied she is not interested.

Seniors. Any suggestion? What could be gone wrong or this happens?

Thanks in advance for reading this.[/QUOTE]A lot of possibilities here, but the fact her profile was new is probably the biggest problem. She's getting flooded with responses from people who have filters set to newest profiles, trying to get a feel for what she can ask, maybe questioning herself on whether she wants to do this or not, trying to prioritize the SDs that are making better offers, or all the above. Then again I don't like to see someone who has had a long-standing profile on there, I start to wonder if they are a career SB. Not always the case since they may have found a monogamous SD and deactivated for a while, but I do pay attention to join date. When they hide it, it just makes them look more rode hard and put away wet to me.

[QUOTE=ArcherSterling;2959451]If you are meeting at the hotel, and privacy is an issue for you, now here you are in front of a hotel, paying a cab driver and a PYT piles out and follows you into the hotel and up to your room.

I told one baby I would send a cab to pick her up and take her to the hotel and I would join her soon after her arrival. It was suprisingly difficult to find a cab company that woudl do a 3rd party Credit Card charge -- I guess they have been burned alot by bum and fraudulent card usage.

Finally had to tell someone it was an employee I was bringing in for an interview (picked her up at Train station in town), blah blah blah. That seemed to make it sound legit to them.[/QUOTE]Well for me privacy is an issue in terms of not wanting to reveal too much info about myself to the girl, but in terms of the hotel staff knowing that I'm getting ready to pound some young college chick, it doesn't bother me. In fact its kind of funny. It's happened more than once, last time it happened and I could feel the people in the lobby gawking / gossiping, watching what I was going to do so I just gave them a show, grabbing her and giving her an inappropriately public deep tongue kiss there in front of everybody there in the lobby (small cafe and bar in front) and sent her on her way, and I enjoyed all the smirky looks from these jealous and miserable prudes as I walked back to the elevator to my room. She was barely into her freshman year (kind of a innocent type that cares a lot about her self-image), so the shock value and "OMG" effect was fun for her too. When she got back to her dorm she immediately started texting me that's the most fun she's had in a long time and can't wait to see me again. LOL. But yeah in terms of hotel staff / cab drivers they see their fair share of that and I think are un phased.

Usually I like to see them pay their own cab fare or whatever to get there. I figure if they can't come up with twenty bucks or whatever and can't trust me to reimburse them there's probably no point in continuing anyway.

[QUOTE=BikeRider;2959416]You can create an uber account under any name provided you've an email address. Use an alias, and then add your real card would work. I'm actually considering trying to create an account with a gift card. I'll report back.[/QUOTE]So they bill straight to CC instead of thru app store?

[QUOTE=JeezLizard;2959474]So they bill straight to CC instead of thru app store?[/QUOTE]Correct. They bill to a CC. Nothing goes through the Appstore so a gift card with a hundred or so on it will give a fair number of rides.

[QUOTE=BikeRider;2959493]Correct. They bill to a CC. Nothing goes through the Appstore so a gift card with a hundred or so on it will give a fair number of rides.[/QUOTE]How readily do you find girls give you their address if they haven't met you yet (this is when this scenario comes up with me)? I look at it like asking them to grab their own cab then I reimburse gives them some peace of mind, too, because if I say what's your address I'll send a car it might scare them into cancelling, assuming first date.

[QUOTE=JeezLizard;2959498]How readily do you find girls give you their address if they haven't met you yet (this is when this scenario comes up with me)? I look at it like asking them to grab their own cab then I reimburse gives them some peace of mind, too, because if I say what's your address I'll send a car it might scare them into cancelling, assuming first date.[/QUOTE]Just tell them to walk to a busy corner or nearby store. Of course, this may not work well in the burbs.