The Rat Trap

[QUOTE=NCHunter;5678667]I agree. Treat everyone right but don't be a sucker. These lady's are not your friend or girlfriend. They view you as an ATM and can and will turn on you as the need for candy dictates. But it's your choice to do or not do more for them as I don't judge, condemn or praise either way. I have literally given a worker the jacket off my back, provided cash with no service involved, driven 1 hours to a safe location as I have stranded an attempted thief and rescued an underage girl from a gorilla pimp. My friendliness is reciprocal. I can be the nicest person in the world but in the end, I'm still a trick and to them, nothing more. Only fair, for to me they're only the next nut. I'm not looking for love or affection from these ho's. I get pussy but it's easier and less expensive, both emotionally and financially, with a ho. NC Hunter won't be donating gifts to ho's but if you do, Merry Christmas. To each his own.

Stay safe out there and happy hunting.

NC HUNTER.[/QUOTE]I'm one of those guys that just wants an outlet without the nonsense and drama that comes with dating. At the same time I also realize that they view me as a job they don't like and do what they must to get paid. I'm fine that because at the end of the day it's a business.

I think you guys are jumping to conclusions. Treating them decently, versus trying to walk them down the aisle are two different things.

All of you are correct in several aspects. Never fall in love with these girls. Try not to get too involved in their lives. Don't let them sucker you. Always keep your guard up. These are all good rules to monger by. I agree.

However, being a stand up kind of guy and showing that you appreciate what they do for us, usually works out well in my favor. In the end, to each his own but treating them right sure has been the way to go for me.

One other thing I will say: NOT treating these girls right has caused many awesome diamonds to quit the biz completely. Thus, fucking things up for everyone. Or, the ones that do stay in the biz become jaded and give uninspired service. So, thinking treating a girl shitty doesn't hurt anyone is the attitude of a pure piece of shit. Sadly, there's way too many of you guys out there and there's way too many of you guys on this great forum. My. 02.

[QUOTE=NCHunter;5678667]I agree. Treat everyone right but don't be a sucker. These lady's are not your friend or girlfriend. They view you as an ATM and can and will turn on you as the need for candy dictates. But it's your choice to do or not do more for them as I don't judge, condemn or praise either way. I have literally given a worker the jacket off my back, provided cash with no service involved, driven 1 hours to a safe location as I have stranded an attempted thief and rescued an underage girl from a gorilla pimp. My friendliness is reciprocal. I can be the nicest person in the world but in the end, I'm still a trick and to them, nothing more. Only fair, for to me they're only the next nut. I'm not looking for love or affection from these ho's. I get pussy but it's easier and less expensive, both emotionally and financially, with a ho. NC Hunter won't be donating gifts to ho's but if you do, Merry Christmas. To each his own.

Stay safe out there and happy hunting.

NC HUNTER.[/QUOTE]Well put. It seems like a lot of members here are jaded with their mongering. There's mongering & then there's loneliness veiled with some odd "humanitarian" effort for someone literally charging you to have access to their body. I now understand why strippers have bouncers walk them out to their car at night. Some of you guys give off that stalking creeper vibe that have a false sense of a non-existent fantasized / romanticized relationship (s) that leads to obsession.

[QUOTE=PussySmasher;5678711]Never trust an addict.[/QUOTE]Also, this.

[QUOTE=DixenCider;5678850]I'm one of those guys that just wants an outlet without the nonsense and drama that comes with dating. At the same time I also realize that they view me as a job they don't like and do what they must to get paid. I'm fine that because at the end of the day it's a business.[/QUOTE]Better luck taming a tiger to be your house cat.

My opinion there is nothing wrong with treating people the way you want to be treated.

I mostly deal with people on a very transactional basis, but always give respect. I also am quick to walk away and most likely to never return. We are blessed with lots of options here and I have no time or energy for the bs / drama!

Stay safe and have fun!

[QUOTE=Vino7373;5678294]I am going to put my. 02 on this subject. Over my many decades of mongering, I have found that treating girls right and with respect, goes a long way. These girls have their many issues but they are still human beings in the end. They all have wants and needs. I have found that being decent to them will go a long way, especially if you like a regular rotation, like I do. The service level increases dramatically when they actually like being with you. It increases big time.

With that being said, I encourage all mongers to buy their fav girls' a Christmas present. If you can, wrap it up properly. If you can't wrap it, just giving it to her is fine. With some of them, it may be the one and only gift they receive this Christmas. It means a lot to them. You don't have to spend much, a Jackson or two, will do it.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Vino7373;5678979]I think you guys are jumping to conclusions. Treating them decently, versus trying to walk them down the aisle are two different things.

All of you are correct in several aspects. Never fall in love with these girls. Try not to get too involved in their lives. Don't let them sucker you. Always keep your guard up. These are all good rules to monger by. I agree.

However, being a stand up kind of guy and showing that you appreciate what they do for us, usually works out well in my favor. In the end, to each his own but treating them right sure has been the way to go for me.

One other thing I will say: NOT treating these girls right has caused many awesome diamonds to quit the biz completely. Thus, fucking things up for everyone. Or, the ones that do stay in the biz become jaded and give uninspired service. So, thinking treating a girl shitty doesn't hurt anyone is the attitude of a pure piece of shit. Sadly, there's way too many of you guys out there and there's way too many of you guys on this great forum. My. 02.[/QUOTE]I'm in agreement with Vino on this topic. I only monger once every couple weeks and occasionally weekly. Since I started this hobby a little over 11 years ago I have had 4 girls I have seen on a regular basis. To this day I have remained friends with all 4 of them even though 3 are no longer active in the hobby. Personally I believe seeing them on a continued basis pays huge dividends. Whether it be better rates, extended time or things not on their regular menu that are offered to me. I've already bought a small gift for my current regular and know she has a gift for me. Anyway that's my opinion. I know it works for me.

This is where I get to see who the toxic assholes are; or at least who their alias is. Starting to figure these boards out.

[QUOTE=ChaseL;5679014]Well put. It seems like a lot of members here are jaded with their mongering. There's mongering & then there's loneliness veiled with some odd "humanitarian" effort for someone literally charging you to have access to their body. I now understand why strippers have bouncers walk them out to their car at night. Some of you guys give off that stalking creeper vibe that have a false sense of a non-existent fantasized / romanticized relationship (s) that leads to obsession.[/QUOTE]Again. Broad generalization about a person and situation you know barely anything about to rationalize a fucked up snap judgement.

Cheers to you, Vino. Well said. These girls are just people doing what the can to do life the way they know how. I enjoy a strong psychological component to the experience, and conversation is a big part of my foreplay. I enjoy the backstory immensely, and some of them have quite the tale to tell. I don't believe that anyone is ever helpless, and ultimately absolutely everything we do is a choice, but many girls didn't end up where they are by choice as much as by circumstance. I have many entertainer friends who I stopped seeing professionally, but with whom I maintained personal contacts. In my younger days I did run around with my Captain Save-A-Ho cape on trying to rescue these girls from their lives, but there is so much wrong with that, I don't even know where to start. They don't need saving from their lives. They are way too busy living them. And if you really think they do need saving from their lives, try checking out exactly what you have going on in yours. I am an executive white collar professional workaholic, and guess what. Most of these girls think I am a freakin' idiot for wasting so much of my life serving some company and sitting behind a desk. Some have even tried to save me from my miserable existence.

Whether we care to admit it or not, we spend our time and money in their company because we are lonely and want human attention and connection. For most of us males, a strong part of that is defined in our sexuality. Enjoy connecting with another human and celebrate that girl who was willing to take her time and devote it to you not feeling alone for a brief moment. She did more for you than most people in the world you have encountered ever could.

[QUOTE=Vino7373;5678979]I think you guys are jumping to conclusions. Treating them decently, versus trying to walk them down the aisle are two different things.

All of you are correct in several aspects. Never fall in love with these girls. Try not to get too involved in their lives. Don't let them sucker you. Always keep your guard up. These are all good rules to monger by. I agree.

However, being a stand up kind of guy and showing that you appreciate what they do for us, usually works out well in my favor. In the end, to each his own but treating them right sure has been the way to go for me.

One other thing I will say: NOT treating these girls right has caused many awesome diamonds to quit the biz completely. Thus, fucking things up for everyone. Or, the ones that do stay in the biz become jaded and give uninspired service. So, thinking treating a girl shitty doesn't hurt anyone is the attitude of a pure piece of shit. Sadly, there's way too many of you guys out there and there's way too many of you guys on this great forum. My. 02.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PussySmasher;5679231]Better luck taming a tiger to be your house cat.[/QUOTE]It can be done. But sometimes it ends badly.

[QUOTE=Twist;5681127]It can be done. But sometimes it ends badly.[/QUOTE]It should be illegal for fags to own animals, especially gerbils and hamsters.

Mainly senior members requesting digits and me ignoring them. They don't like it. They feel they are obligated to them since they have the senior member status. It don't work that way with me. You have to prove yourself by doing an honest review here, preferably 25 of them. So ChaseL is a perfect example, doesn't have one review. Only has 64 posts of what he calls "Supplemental Information". Worthless to me. Now Pussysmasher does better. Has one review! But it is a review of Grain 56. Then you have Too40, who does not want me to know his true identity. Someone who was a friend until he got caught trying to visit a provider more often than he should of. Told him to back off and he went ballistic. Which only proved his guilt. She still not interested in you Too40! Then of course you have the real bad, the pos's that I caught. Sending me hate DM's. These members really need to face reality that the world does not revolve around them. These members will never get digits from me.

RP.

Idk if I should say it feels good to be back LOL shit feels different.

WTF happened with the adultclassified? WTF.

Bmm.

[QUOTE=UnderMind;5681116].........Whether we care to admit it or not, we spend our time and money in their company because we are lonely and want human attention and connection. For most of us males, a strong part of that is defined in our sexuality. Enjoy connecting with another human and celebrate that girl who was willing to take her time and devote it to you not feeling alone for a brief moment. She did more for you than most people in the world you have encountered ever could.[/QUOTE]Are you French or something? What's with this "we" shit. Some of us are in this hobby for the thrill and chance to dabble in diverse sexual acts and partners. I assume some of you guys are lonely and possibly desperate thinking throwing money at these ho's will buy their affections. That's your business and do you. But it's dillusional to think you have to thank a ho. "who was willing to take her time and devote it to you not feeling alone. ". Are you serious? Are these ho's not being paid for their services? If you're seeking to soothe your loneliness through ho's you are in and headed for a world of butt hurt. Pull up and pull out dudes!! You're in too deep, and I'm not talking about in the pussy.

As stated in a previous post, I have no problems dating and fucking square chick's. What I don't like is the time and financial investment it takes to bed them. And when you do they expect commitment. And when / if they discover you're fucking others, all hell breaks loose. I compare it to cooking a meal at home, everything from scratch taking time and patience or yield to the temptation of an immediate meal and buying a #4 at MickeyD's.

I love the thrill of the hunt. I've never DM'ed a so called gatekeeper requesting a ho's contact info. I don't give them the opportunity to examine my worthiness and build up their egos. HA! Fuck that BS!! LOL.

I treat these ho's with respect and dignity after all I do have a heart but I am aware of this world I visit and don't entertain any fantasies about it.

Stay safe out there and happy hunting.

NC HUNTER.