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[QUOTE=NCTransplant;6736771]Text is my preferred method of contact. Texts can be sent quietly while you have to talk when you call someone. Most of the time I am in a situation where I need to remain quite to make contact.[/QUOTE]I agree. I also like texts as I can be texting with multiple providers and then follow up with the ones that respond or meet my desired criteria. The downside is it can take a lot longer to get a response. A phone call can provide immediate responses.
I'm sure this will spread to most mainstream porn but hopefully not to anything like this site. Time to go VPN if you haven't yet.
[URL]https://www.engadget.com/pornhub-blocks-montana-and-north-carolina-as-their-age-verification-laws-take-effect-033830719.html[/URL]
What if they take their website offshore like this one has?
[QUOTE=LowdownOne;6738688]I'm sure this will spread to most mainstream porn but hopefully not to anything like this site. Time to go VPN if you haven't yet.
[URL]https://www.engadget.com/pornhub-blocks-montana-and-north-carolina-as-their-age-verification-laws-take-effect-033830719.html[/URL][/QUOTE]
Is there any other heavyset guys that see beautiful escorts? I'm a bit on the heavyset side. Tend to only go for big girls or older women.
My brother, who also frequents escorts told me the dumbest thing last week. He told me that he sees this one girl who looks to be about 18 or 19 so he has this theory that she probably hasn't been with too many guys. My thing is this. If she's posting her services on a site then she's probably had more dick in her than the average girl. Anyway, he says that this girl requires condoms but what he'll do is when they're not looking he'll cut the condom so they think he has one on but in all actuality he's going in bareback. He told me he has nutted in this particular girl a number of times without her knowing. I told him, "oh, she knows because cum doesn't just stay in there, it oozes out at some point. " I then asked him what he'd do if the girl gets pregnant and he said that's not his concern because chances are she won't know who the daddy is. So on one hand you're saying she's young so she probably hasn't had that much dick in her but on the other hand she's seeing so many it'll be hard to figure out who the father is. Not to mention any STDs he could possibly get. He then catches an attitude with me saying "well you BB girls too and cum in them. " Yes, when that's agreed upon up front. I'd never go see a girl who required condoms then cut the condom when she's not looking. I have a few regular girls I see, who aren't escorts per se, but will let me see them for a little compensation. And yes, they do BB with me. When they aren't on BC then I will gladly pull out and finish on them but I'm not going to finish in them without their knowledge or consent. I told him that's like going to a grocery store that has self-checkout and not swiping a few items. If no one sees you doing it that doesn't mean those items are free, it's still shoplifting.
Have you guys ever heard of a guy intentionally cutting a condom so he can hit BB without her knowledge.
[QUOTE=FourthTwin;6754695]My brother, who also frequents escorts told me the dumbest thing last week. He told me that he sees this one girl who looks to be about 18 or 19 so he has this theory that she probably hasn't been with too many guys. My thing is this. If she's posting her services on a site then she's probably had more dick in her than the average girl. Anyway, he says that this girl requires condoms but what he'll do is when they're not looking he'll cut the condom so they think he has one on but in all actuality he's going in bareback. He told me he has nutted in this particular girl a number of times without her knowing. I told him, "oh, she knows because cum doesn't just stay in there, it oozes out at some point. " I then asked him what he'd do if the girl gets pregnant and he said that's not his concern because chances are she won't know who the daddy is. So on one hand you're saying she's young so she probably hasn't had that much dick in her but on the other hand she's seeing so many it'll be hard to figure out who the father is. Not to mention any STDs he could possibly get. He then catches an attitude with me saying "well you BB girls too and cum in them. " Yes, when that's agreed upon up front. I'd never go see a girl who required condoms then cut the condom when she's not looking. I have a few regular girls I see, who aren't escorts per se, but will let me see them for a little compensation. And yes, they do BB with me. When they aren't on BC then I will gladly pull out and finish on them but I'm not going to finish in them without their knowledge or consent. I told him that's like going to a grocery store that has self-checkout and not swiping a few items. If no one sees you doing it that doesn't mean those items are free, it's still shoplifting.
Have you guys ever heard of a guy intentionally cutting a condom so he can hit BB without her knowledge.[/QUOTE]Your brother is a piece of shit. What's her number.
[QUOTE=FourthTwin;6754695]My brother, who also frequents escorts told me the dumbest thing last week. He told me that he sees this one girl who looks to be about 18 or 19 so he has this theory that she probably hasn't been with too many guys. My thing is this. If she's posting her services on a site then she's probably had more dick in her than the average girl. Anyway, he says that this girl requires condoms but what he'll do is when they're not looking he'll cut the condom so they think he has one on but in all actuality he's going in bareback. He told me he has nutted in this particular girl a number of times without her knowing. I told him, "oh, she knows because cum doesn't just stay in there, it oozes out at some point. " I then asked him what he'd do if the girl gets pregnant and he said that's not his concern because chances are she won't know who the daddy is. So on one hand you're saying she's young so she probably hasn't had that much dick in her but on the other hand she's seeing so many it'll be hard to figure out who the father is. Not to mention any STDs he could possibly get. He then catches an attitude with me saying "well you BB girls too and cum in them. " Yes, when that's agreed upon up front. I'd never go see a girl who required condoms then cut the condom when she's not looking. I have a few regular girls I see, who aren't escorts per se, but will let me see them for a little compensation. And yes, they do BB with me. When they aren't on BC then I will gladly pull out and finish on them but I'm not going to finish in them without their knowledge or consent. I told him that's like going to a grocery store that has self-checkout and not swiping a few items..[/QUOTE]Your brother is a rapist and POS. Intentionally violating someone by not disclosing that you are fucking bare back, when one party has not agreed to it is rape and it is despicable. Your brother should be arrested. This is why STD rates are so high. He's exposing her and himself to a potential death sentence and at the very least an incurable disease.
That is a huge violation. If you know who this girl is, you need to tell her and anybody else he's seeing. Brother or not, he should be reported to the police.
[QUOTE=FourthTwin;6754695]My brother, who also frequents escorts told me the dumbest thing last week. He told me that he sees this one girl who looks to be about 18 or 19 so he has this theory that she probably hasn't been with too many guys. My thing is this. If she's posting her services on a site then she's probably had more dick in her than the average girl. Anyway, he says that this girl requires condoms but what he'll do is when they're not looking he'll cut the condom so they think he has one on but in all actuality he's going in bareback. He told me he has nutted in this particular girl a number of times without her knowing. I told him, "oh, she knows because cum doesn't just stay in there, it oozes out at some point. " I then asked him what he'd do if the girl gets pregnant and he said that's not his concern because chances are she won't know who the daddy is. So on one hand you're saying she's young so she probably hasn't had that much dick in her but on the other hand she's seeing so many it'll be hard to figure out who the father is. Not to mention any STDs he could possibly get. He then catches an attitude with me saying "well you BB girls too and cum in them. " Yes, when that's agreed upon up front. I'd never go see a girl who required condoms then cut the condom when she's not looking. I have a few regular girls I see, who aren't escorts per se, but will let me see them for a little compensation. And yes, they do BB with me. When they aren't on BC then I will gladly pull out and finish on them but I'm not going to finish in them without their knowledge or consent. I told him that's like going to a grocery store that has self-checkout and not swiping a few items. If no one sees you doing it that doesn't mean those items are free, it's still shoplifting.[/QUOTE]A well known provider on here told me she was ghosted (where the guy starts off with a condom but then slips it off during K9) and she got really sick. Never told me what she got but she was traumatized by the experience.
Some of you animals need to be put down like dogs.
[QUOTE=BigDaddyDog;6754730]Your brother is a piece of shit. What's her number.[/QUOTE]Who, the girl? I don't know her. Haven't seen her ad.
I mean, I've read on here a lot of guys will pick up a SW and go BB with them and finish in them but again, that's because they agreed on it. But to go see a girl, pull out a condom, and whn she' snot looking cut it so she doesn't know that you're fucking her raw is crazy to me.
[QUOTE=BulldogJwhit;6739320]Is there any other heavyset guys that see beautiful escorts? I'm a bit on the heavyset side. Tend to only go for big girls or older women.[/QUOTE]Why would you limit yourself and only go for big girls or older woman. You are paying for a service. You should be trying to get the best quality for both performance and looks based on the money your spending.
[QUOTE=FourthTwin;6754695]My brother, who also frequents escorts told me the dumbest thing last week. He told me that he sees this one girl who looks to be about 18 or 19 so he has this theory that she probably hasn't been with too many guys. My thing is this. If she's posting her services on a site then she's probably had more dick in her than the average girl. Anyway, he says that this girl requires condoms but what he'll do is when they're not looking he'll cut the condom so they think he has one on but in all actuality he's going in bareback. He told me he has nutted in this particular girl a number of times without her knowing. I told him, "oh, she knows because cum doesn't just stay in there, it oozes out at some point. " I then asked him what he'd do if the girl gets pregnant and he said that's not his concern because chances are she won't know who the daddy is. So on one hand you're saying she's young so she probably hasn't had that much dick in her but on the other hand she's seeing so many it'll be hard to figure out who the father is. Not to mention any STDs he could possibly get. He then catches an attitude with me saying "well you BB girls too and cum in them. " Yes, when that's agreed upon up front. I'd never go see a girl who required condoms then cut the condom when she's not looking. I have a few regular girls I see, who aren't escorts per se, but will let me see them for a little compensation. And yes, they do BB with me. When they aren't on BC then I will gladly pull out and finish on them but I'm not going to finish in them without their knowledge or consent. I told him that's like going to a grocery store that has self-checkout and not swiping a few items. If no one sees you doing it that doesn't mean those items are free, it's still shoplifting.
Have you guys ever heard of a guy intentionally cutting a condom so he can hit BB without her knowledge.[/QUOTE]About a week or two ago, someone in the Charlotte Reddit community put a guy on blast. This guy who looked to be in their early to mid 20's went around fucking girls in Charlotte unprotected and he has HIV. The fucked up thing is this piece of shit KNEW he had HIV and wasn't disclosing it to the girls because he wanted to fuck bare. Now the girl (or girls as I think there were multiple women involved) are suing this bottom feeding piece of shit and pressing charges. Man I wish the post hadn't been taken down because it had pics of the guy, texts admitting to the whole thing, the whole 9 yards. I do want to mention that it was never disclosed whether this involved escorts or just girls the POS was picking up / dating but either way, a person infected is a person infected which puts everyone else at risk.
All of this to say, your brother is ranked right up there with this asshole who went around infecting women. Sooner or later, Karma shows up to collect the debt, for better or worse.
[QUOTE=Laicir;6755211]About a week or two ago, someone in the Charlotte Reddit community put a guy on blast. This guy who looked to be in their early to mid 20's went around fucking girls in Charlotte unprotected and he has HIV. The fucked up thing is this piece of shit KNEW he had HIV and wasn't disclosing it to the girls because he wanted to fuck bare. Now the girl (or girls as I think there were multiple women involved) are suing this bottom feeding piece of shit and pressing charges. Man I wish the post hadn't been taken down because it had pics of the guy, texts admitting to the whole thing, the whole 9 yards. I do want to mention that it was never disclosed whether this involved escorts or just girls the POS was picking up / dating but either way, a person infected is a person infected which puts everyone else at risk.
All of this to say, your brother is ranked right up there with this asshole who went around infecting women. Sooner or later, Karma shows up to collect the debt, for better or worse.[/QUOTE]I seen that post. There was a follow up though that the girl made it all up, she admitted to it and everything. The guy even posted test results as well. I'm guessing that's why they removed it. But yes still sketchy.
BTU is correct. Years ago, the Wiki Leaks guy was charged with rape for removing his condom during consensual intercourse with 2 different girls. Yes, both girls consented to the intercourse but did not consent to the bareback.
[QUOTE=BetterThanU;6754873]Your brother is a rapist and POS. Intentionally violating someone by not disclosing that you are fucking bare back, when one party has not agreed to it is rape and it is despicable. Your brother should be arrested. This is why STD rates are so high. He's exposing her and himself to a potential death sentence and at the very least an incurable disease.
That is a huge violation. If you know who this girl is, you need to tell her and anybody else he's seeing. Brother or not, he should be reported to the police.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=FourthTwin;6754695]My brother, who also frequents escorts told me the dumbest thing last week. He told me that he sees this one girl who looks to be about 18 or 19 so he has this theory that she probably hasn't been with too many guys. My thing is this. If she's posting her services on a site then she's probably had more dick in her than the average girl. Anyway, he says that this girl requires condoms but what he'll do is when they're not looking he'll cut the condom so they think he has one on but in all actuality he's going in bareback. He told me he has nutted in this particular girl a number of times without her knowing. I told him, "oh, she knows because cum doesn't just stay in there, it oozes out at some point. " I then asked him what he'd do if the girl gets pregnant and he said that's not his concern because chances are she won't know who the daddy is. So on one hand you're saying she's young so she probably hasn't had that much dick in her but on the other hand she's seeing so many it'll be hard to figure out who the father is. Not to mention any STDs he could possibly get. He then catches an attitude with me saying "well you BB girls too and cum in them. " Yes, when that's agreed upon up front. I'd never go see a girl who required condoms then cut the condom when she's not looking. I have a few regular girls I see, who aren't escorts per se, but will let me see them for a little compensation. And yes, they do BB with me. When they aren't on BC then I will gladly pull out and finish on them but I'm not going to finish in them without their knowledge or consent. I told him that's like going to a grocery store that has self-checkout and not swiping a few items. If no one sees you doing it that doesn't mean those items are free, it's still shoplifting.
Have you guys ever heard of a guy intentionally cutting a condom so he can hit BB without her knowledge.[/QUOTE]Is "your brother" actually you? The way this is told it certainly seems like a personal admission lowkey bragging.
[QUOTE=TonguesOfFun;6756713]Is "your brother" actually you? The way this is told it certainly seems like a personal admission lowkey bragging.[/QUOTE]Trust me, it's not me. Why would I come here and announce to everyone that I cut the condoms of girls I see. What would I have to gain by that? It's not like the people here are going to give me an award for it. There are plenty of providers that allow BBCIP so all you have to do is ask and negotiate. If they say no move on and find someone else.
I have a crazy one contacting my significant other. FCK! Annoying to say the least. I am not sure how she figured out the contact number. How should I handle this? Any thoughts appreciated. What a mess.
LM.
[QUOTE=LuccaMac;6759725]I have a crazy one contacting my significant other. FCK! Annoying to say the least. I am not sure how she figured out the contact number. How should I handle this? Any thoughts appreciated. What a mess.
LM.[/QUOTE]First you need to see what are some clues that you left behind that this provider could have used. Did you use your personal cellphone, did you send her a picture for verification, did you video chat, or did you pillow talk and reveal personal information without even thinking about it? Once you get a good idea where she got enough information to identify you, then you can come up with a good way to handle it. I just have a feeling that you gave her enough information that you may have to tell your wife the truth.
[QUOTE=LuccaMac;6759725]I have a crazy one contacting my significant other. FCK! Annoying to say the least. I am not sure how she figured out the contact number. How should I handle this? Any thoughts appreciated. What a mess.
LM.[/QUOTE]If she contacting your wife what can you do but the question is even if you using your real number instead of a text app how would she get your wifes number? My ex and I had separate cell phones even though I wasnt cheating or in the hobby when I was married if I were know one could call her using my number. Just how did this person contact your wife does she have your address and went to your house? Anyway don't see her anymore and get a text now app number always uninstall app before getting home so providers can't call or text you at home. When I meet Ms Right I will know longer hobby or have a side chick its just not in my nature but I understand a lot of mongers are married but they must take precautions so the hobby doesn't follow them home. Always leave wallets in the car don't use real phone number don't get into conversations about where you work or live or anything about your family. Its just a business transaction like going to a store. But when you try to become friends with them always in contact you will share info just like we do with any other friend. Don't let the kindness fool ya these women are criminals who hang with worst criminals. And for the time we with them we are criminals also unless we in a state where its legal. Part of Nevada on the Reno side is legal the Las Vegas side isn't. Can you tell me the other state where its legal?
[QUOTE=LuccaMac;6759725]I have a crazy one contacting my significant other. FCK! Annoying to say the least. I am not sure how she figured out the contact number. How should I handle this? Any thoughts appreciated. What a mess..[/QUOTE]You're fucked.
The only good that can come out of this is you disclosing the stupid shit you may have done to get your private life info compromised, so that others on here learn what not to do.
It doesn't take much: left your cell phone open, real name, work / company info, why disclose marriage status to being with? We reverse search these chicks all the time and these chicks can do the same.
You might try to lie your self out of a short term conflict but your wife will eventually catch on.
[QUOTE=LuccaMac;6759725]I have a crazy one contacting my significant other. FCK! Annoying to say the least. I am not sure how she figured out the contact number. How should I handle this? Any thoughts appreciated. What a mess.
LM.[/QUOTE]I'm sure you'll get some other decent advice on here, but one thing I'd do right away & to start is to block the crazy girl's number on your wife's phone. Get it when she is asleep or in the shitter. That might buy you some time to figure out how to shut down ole crazy girl's other attempts. It is shitty that they would betray their clients like that.
If you go to the following website and search a person name and city, you can get there phone number. I search for my name and it showed my current cell phone number. It also gives a list of some of your closes relatives that will also show their number. [URL]https://www.truepeoplesearch.com/[/URL].
[QUOTE=King0453;6759978]If you go to the following website and search a person name and city, you can get there phone number. I search for my name and it showed my current cell phone number. It also gives a list of some of your closes relatives that will also show their number. [URL]https://www.truepeoplesearch.com/[/URL].[/QUOTE]OMG I put my brothers name in search and it showed his his number his wife and kids name other cites he lived in his old landline number that is crazy. This is why we should not pillow talk with providers I use a text app and all they know is Gemini. But you guys who want to be their friends its the risk you take. Thanks Bro.
[QUOTE=LuccaMac;6759725]I have a crazy one contacting my significant other. FCK! Annoying to say the least. I am not sure how she figured out the contact number. How should I handle this? Any thoughts appreciated. What a mess.
LM.[/QUOTE]Bro, any updates on this? You could always say you were setting up a bachlor party for a coworker and called a number a friend / coworker gave you? Lame I know but you got to deflect or redirect! Unless you want to come clean LOL. I text a spinner AA lady the other day for some info, when I said I could be there around lunch time she said I needed to send the dontaiton now. I was like naw not really, I will give it to you when I get there. THEN the exhortation, I laughed. I was using a burner app and I guess the last guy who had it was linked to his cell phone? She started sending me screenshots of a guys name and family and threatended to tell them! I would have let it drop but didn't want some poor schmuck taking the fall for something he didn't do (or enjoy) so then I threatenend her with calling various LEO agencies. She went silent, tried to find her ad to post it but it was already gone.
I remember there was a guy on the other board, Beefeater, who had litteraly thousands of reviews. Tons of money and seeing new women like 3 xs a week. Rumor was it didn't go great for him when his wife found out, removed all his reviews.
My worst nightmare are the stories below about a crazy one contacting a mongers SO. Got me thinking out of curiosity. Those with an SO, why do you monger?? And, are there limits to your mongering such as HJ only or more?
For me- marriage is good, but last few years sex has dwindled considerably due to kids. It's a lie I tell myself, so feel free to judge me. I am strictly an HJ only monger. I've prepared a justification level in my head that it's the most detached form of release and the lowest risk. But I admit I do think about more a lot. Stay safe out there.
[QUOTE=Bouinage;6760401]Bro, any updates on this? You could always say you were setting up a bachlor party for a coworker and called a number a friend / coworker gave you? Lame I know but you got to deflect or redirect! Unless you want to come clean LOL. I text a spinner AA lady the other day for some info, when I said I could be there around lunch time she said I needed to send the dontaiton now. I was like naw not really, I will give it to you when I get there. THEN the exhortation, I laughed. I was using a burner app and I guess the last guy who had it was linked to his cell phone? She started sending me screenshots of a guys name and family and threatended to tell them! I would have let it drop but didn't want some poor schmuck taking the fall for something he didn't do (or enjoy) so then I threatenend her with calling various LEO agencies. She went silent, tried to find her ad to post it but it was already gone.
I remember there was a guy on the other board, Beefeater, who had litteraly thousands of reviews. Tons of money and seeing new women like 3 xs a week. Rumor was it didn't go great for him when his wife found out, removed all his reviews.[/QUOTE]Here is an update: And thank you for all the responses and thoughts.
I use burner phone numbers and pay attention to protecting personal indentifiable information. My number is from another area code and not traceable with open source tools. (LE could find it most likely). Overall I think my opsec is tight with this hobby. Clearly not tight enough. The person contacting my sig other is from Miami area. Of the two I met one was Colombian and the other Russian in South Beach. I have never seen them active in North Carolina- so don't worry as its not anyone posting here. I've concluded it is one of these two. They only way I think she received my info was from the hotel there. I did check-in and kept my real name and not an alias for the contact screen. Perhaps the front desk provided info? IDK. All I know is she contacted her via DM on social media. (IG). I traced the IG account and its some new account with few followers. I wish I could figure out a way to unveil the sender there. Unfortunately there is no phone number to cross reference and search.
I have been separated for some time now and allowed to see others, but this really could F up the agreement. Frustrating to say the least.
[QUOTE=ParlorShogun;6760938]My worst nightmare are the stories below about a crazy one contacting a mongers SO. Got me thinking out of curiosity. Those with an SO, why do you monger?? And, are there limits to your mongering such as HJ only or more?
For me- marriage is good, but last few years sex has dwindled considerably due to kids. It's a lie I tell myself, so feel free to judge me. I am strictly an HJ only monger. I've prepared a justification level in my head that it's the most detached form of release and the lowest risk. But I admit I do think about more a lot. Stay safe out there.[/QUOTE]Yeah, after nine months of honeymoon period of the relationship (and with a beautiful Latina), with the best intimacy of my life, her drive went over a cliff. Been like this for years now, even before kids. She has a lot of issues she needs to work through. She at one point recently was fine with me having sex with others as long as it was only physical but got worried about feelings after seeing texts with a FWB. I need touch so badly, though. So yeah, I'm newer here, trying to figure this out as I don't have a ton of funds for this hobby. Massage HJs are nice, but I would love to figure out a great, ideally Latina, GFE escort.
Stay safe.
[QUOTE=ParlorShogun;6760938]My worst nightmare are the stories below about a crazy one contacting a mongers SO. Got me thinking out of curiosity. Those with an SO, why do you monger?? And, are there limits to your mongering such as HJ only or more?
For me- marriage is good, but last few years sex has dwindled considerably due to kids. It's a lie I tell myself, so feel free to judge me. I am strictly an HJ only monger. I've prepared a justification level in my head that it's the most detached form of release and the lowest risk. But I admit I do think about more a lot. Stay safe out there.[/QUOTE]When I was married I didn't monger my wife left me for a coworker may they live happy ever after. I monger because I wasnt ready to be in another relationship, I am now but women are worst than men in fact they are the new men stone players. The better they look the less you can trust them. So mongering is fast cheaper no strings attached its like ordering a pizza. Most of these women might as well post ads because they just as bad as providers stacking up body counts demanding money. So for anyone not wanting to get into the dating scene mongering is the way to go. Because of our kids I let her have everything moved here from LA and started over. I am looking for a nice down to earth lady to date not one of them short dress wearing long finger nails chest out thots. Providers provide a good service for those in need and for those in greed. When I meet my mate I will know longer monger I am not a cheater even after being cheated on.
[QUOTE=LuccaMac;6761279]Here is an update: And thank you for all the responses and thoughts.
I use burner phone numbers and pay attention to protecting personal indentifiable information. My number is from another area code and not traceable with open source tools. (LE could find it most likely). Overall I think my opsec is tight with this hobby. Clearly not tight enough. The person contacting my sig other is from Miami area. Of the two I met one was Colombian and the other Russian in South Beach. I have never seen them active in North Carolina- so don't worry as its not anyone posting here. I've concluded it is one of these two. They only way I think she received my info was from the hotel there. I did check-in and kept my real name and not an alias for the contact screen. Perhaps the front desk provided info? IDK. All I know is she contacted her via DM on social media. (IG). I traced the IG account and its some new account with few followers. I wish I could figure out a way to unveil the sender there. Unfortunately there is no phone number to cross reference and search.
I have been separated for some time now and allowed to see others, but this really could F up the agreement. Frustrating to say the least.[/QUOTE]Ok cool. Thanks. For the update. As. Damange control you could easily say your were hacked? Kinda sounds like you have it mitigated? I would not put it past anyone to get info from a desk clerk. Sucks that this happened but seems like it could have been way worse, which of course is a platitude in a way but got to stay positive. Adapt and overcome yea.
Mongering started for me as I was so freaking horny all the time. Masturbation never satisifed me. A buddy turned me on to the AMPs in Greensboro 20+ years ago. I got hooked! Lately I have tried the civilian dating scene. My last date was 150 with only a hug at the end and no future date. Being married seems like it would be great. But married guys say it's not. 100 rawdawg all the time, endless creampies LOL. I think I'm 100% spoiled now and ruined for marriage LOL. If I were to marry it would be to a retired escort LOL, this way I would never have to hide my past LOL. I agree, I think a HJ is least troublesome activity.
[QUOTE=ParlorShogun;6760938]My worst nightmare are the stories below about a crazy one contacting a mongers SO. Got me thinking out of curiosity. Those with an SO, why do you monger?? And, are there limits to your mongering such as HJ only or more?
For me- marriage is good, but last few years sex has dwindled considerably due to kids. It's a lie I tell myself, so feel free to judge me. I am strictly an HJ only monger. I've prepared a justification level in my head that it's the most detached form of release and the lowest risk. But I admit I do think about more a lot. Stay safe out there.[/QUOTE]Two years ago I made an attempt at rekindling our sex life, but my wife was against the idea. I tried, but she was frigid as hell. Thought I would get frost bite. She asked if I wanted a bu and I sad yes. I stopped it quickly since she was very mechanical with no feeling at all. I found a provider in Greenville, SC that was basically a nymph and it felt good to feel a woman's body again. She only visited about every other month. From what I read on the boards there was no talent from Charlotte to Greenville SC. My provider disappeared the first of last year and I went without until November when I visited an AMP. I have always had a thing for Asian women and with what I had been reading, this was the best thing to do. I enjoyed the experience, but it was more of a snack that satisfied me for a while. I would like to have something more sustaining, but affairs are not going to happen. I enjoy rubbing a woman's body and how great it feels. My last AMP visit, the woman spent more time on the table than I did as I caressed and kissed her body and licked her pussy.
I would prefer my wife, but I know that is not going to happen.
[QUOTE=Oldguy1960;6761990]Two years ago I made an attempt at rekindling our sex life, but my wife was against the idea. I tried, but she was frigid as hell. Thought I would get frost bite. She asked if I wanted a bu and I sad yes. I stopped it quickly since she was very mechanical with no feeling at all. I found a provider in Greenville, SC that was basically a nymph and it felt good to feel a woman's body again. She only visited about every other month. From what I read on the boards there was no talent from Charlotte to Greenville SC. My provider disappeared the first of last year and I went without until November when I visited an AMP. I have always had a thing for Asian women and with what I had been reading, this was the best thing to do. I enjoyed the experience, but it was more of a snack that satisfied me for a while. I would like to have something more sustaining, but affairs are not going to happen. I enjoy rubbing a woman's body and how great it feels. My last AMP visit, the woman spent more time on the table than I did as I caressed and kissed her body and licked her pussy..[/QUOTE]I remembered this a few moments after I made my post. Several years ago we went to Amsterdam. As we were walking somewhere the path took us back through the red light district. It is very interesting that as you walk you pass a cafe and a shop and then a couple of windows with barely dressed women. Later in the day my wife said she would pay for me to visit a prostitute and wanted to watch me have fun. WTF! Yeah I want to fuck another woman while my wife watch (sarcasm). I declined because I still wanted to fuck only my wife which did not happen. It did not like thought of going into a room with a woman, fucking her, and leave without any type of foreplay. I still wonder what would happen if I took her up on her request offer. I am still shocked by it. There were a lot of gorgeous women, but the sex seemed so sterile. I wonder now was that a signal to go and enjoy myself with other women.
As you guys know, my brother, who also is a monger, has a weird way of thinking. As mentioned before, he will go see an escort then when they aren't looking he'll cut the condom so he can fuck them raw and nut in them without their knowledge. Yeah, he thinks that they don't know or by the time they realize he nutted in them he's already left. Here's his next thing he told me yesterday.
There was a girl I introduced him to a number of years ago that I either met off Craigslist or Backpage. I guess back then she was probably 19 or 20 yrs old. Poor and uneducated, probably didn't even finish high school. She was no where near attractive. Cute in her own way. Skinny. Probably weighed 90 lbs but she had descent boobs on her. And when I say cheap, she was CHEAP. We use to hook up for like $20 a pop. No, she didn't post on any escort site. She was just known around as the neighborhood jumpoff for a few dollars. Anyway, when I would hook up with her I think the most I ever gave her was $40 but that quickly dropped down to $20. And she would let you fuck raw and nut in her. Definitely not GFE so she would basically lay there till you nut in her. My brother started seeing her, upon my introduction, and they kicked it for a while. At one point I heard she moved out of state. Little did I know a short time later she moved back and her and my brother continued to hook up. My brother told me the other day that she was back in town and had been for a few years so he gave me her new number. I hit her up and tried to negotiate with her. She did quote $30 but we never could get together because she was worried that I would go back and tell my brother that she and I were hooking up again. It's not like she didn't already know we talked because I introduced her to him back then.
Come to find out she has feelings for my brother but since my brother has a steady GF she says she's tired of him just treating her like just a side piece. Well. . . . isn't that what you are? Ok, I was talking to my brother yesterday and he brings her up. Saying stuff like "I wonder if she has ever done a gangbang or a three-some. I told him probably not. He then tells me that he is just tired of her just laying there, so nothing has changed in the years since I last hooked up with her. He said that he's offered her more money to maybe change positions, to let him nut in her mouth, or on her face, or even do anal and she has declined. His theory is that because he's paying her for pussy she should do any and everything he asks or wants to do. He can't understand how she can let him fuck her raw and nut in her pussy but she won't let him nut on her face, in her mouth, or do anal. I told him that not every girl wants to be treated like that and simply because she sells pussy that doesn't mean you can get every fantasy met for $20 or $30 a pop. This girl won't even take more money to do it so she obviously has her limits. Again, he can't understand why not. "She's selling pussy so why can't I get satisfied for what I'm paying for?" In his mind, I'm giving you money let me treat you like a porn star. He then says that his gf does anal, loves anal, will let him nut in her mouth or on her face so it's not like his requests aren't being met so why won't this other girl do it? I posed this question to him. I said, "given your gf will do anal and let you nut on her face and in her mouth would you push the envelope with her and ask her to do a gangbang, a three-some, or let some other guy fuck her while you sat and just watched?" Using his own logic against him, I mean if she does anal, nut on her face or in her mouth why wouldn't she do those other things simply because you ask, right?
I hate to say it but I honestly think my brother has a sex addiction problem. He treats these girls like they are his personal sex slaves. He has sent me pics of a number of girls he's fucked in the past few years and has even gotten a hotel room for the $20 chic but he said they only fucked once while in the room and he was mad about that. He sent me a pic of one girl he was going down on and you can tell in the pic she is obviously smoking crack. He told me that he fucked her while she was smoking crack then when she passed out he fucked her again.
Yeah, my brother has a problem. He doesn't or can't understand why he should give these girls money and they won't do everything he asked. I told him "look, you're only giving the girl $20 or $30, be happy she's letting you fuck at all. " Then he keep wondering about her sexual history. Why do you care if she's had more than one guy at a time or has done a 3-some?
[QUOTE=FourthTwin;6765167]As you guys know, my brother, who also is a monger, has a weird way of thinking. As mentioned before, he will go see an escort then when they aren't looking he'll cut the condom so he can fuck them raw and nut in them without their knowledge. Yeah, he thinks that they don't know or by the time they realize he nutted in them he's already left. Here's his next thing he told me yesterday.
There was a girl I introduced him to a number of years ago that I either met off Craigslist or Backpage. I guess back then she was probably 19 or 20 yrs old. Poor and uneducated, probably didn't even finish high school. She was no where near attractive. Cute in her own way. Skinny. Probably weighed 90 lbs but she had descent boobs on her. And when I say cheap, she was CHEAP. We use to hook up for like $20 a pop. No, she didn't post on any escort site. She was just known around as the neighborhood jumpoff for a few dollars. Anyway, when I would hook up with her I think the most I ever gave her was $40 but that quickly dropped down to $20. And she would let you fuck raw and nut in her. Definitely not GFE so she would basically lay there till you nut in her. My brother started seeing her, upon my introduction, and they kicked it for a while. At one point I heard she moved out of state. Little did I know a short time later she moved back and her and my brother continued to hook up. My brother told me the other day that she was back in town and had been for a few years so he gave me her new number. I hit her up and tried to negotiate with her. She did quote $30 but we never could get together because she was worried that I would go back and tell my brother that she and I were hooking up again. It's not like she didn't already know we talked because I introduced her to him back then.
Come to find out she has feelings for my brother but since my brother has a steady GF she says she's tired of him just treating her like just a side piece. Well. . . . isn't that what you are? Ok, I was talking to my brother yesterday and he brings her up. Saying stuff like "I wonder if she has ever done a gangbang or a three-some. I told him probably not. He then tells me that he is just tired of her just laying there, so nothing has changed in the years since I last hooked up with her. He said that he's offered her more money to maybe change positions, to let him nut in her mouth, or on her face, or even do anal and she has declined. His theory is that because he's paying her for pussy she should do any and everything he asks or wants to do. He can't understand how she can let him fuck her raw and nut in her pussy but she won't let him nut on her face, in her mouth, or do anal. I told him that not every girl wants to be treated like that and simply because she sells pussy that doesn't mean you can get every fantasy met for $20 or $30 a pop. This girl won't even take more money to do it so she obviously has her limits. Again, he can't understand why not. "She's selling pussy so why can't I get satisfied for what I'm paying for?" In his mind, I'm giving you money let me treat you like a porn star. He then says that his gf does anal, loves anal, will let him nut in her mouth or on her face so it's not like his requests aren't being met so why won't this other girl do it? I posed this question to him. I said, "given your gf will do anal and let you nut on her face and in her mouth would you push the envelope with her and ask her to do a gangbang, a three-some, or let some other guy fuck her while you sat and just watched?" Using his own logic against him, I mean if she does anal, nut on her face or in her mouth why wouldn't she do those other things simply because you ask, right?
I hate to say it but I honestly think my brother has a sex addiction problem. He treats these girls like they are his personal sex slaves. He has sent me pics of a number of girls he's fucked in the past few years and has even gotten a hotel room for the $20 chic but he said they only fucked once while in the room and he was mad about that. He sent me a pic of one girl he was going down on and you can tell in the pic she is obviously smoking crack. He told me that he fucked her while she was smoking crack then when she passed out he fucked her again.
Yeah, my brother has a problem. He doesn't or can't understand why he should give these girls money and they won't do everything he asked. I told him "look, you're only giving the girl $20 or $30, be happy she's letting you fuck at all. " Then he keep wondering about her sexual history. Why do you care if she's had more than one guy at a time or has done a 3-some?[/QUOTE]What's the point of you telling us what your brother is doing. He's not here to give his side of the story or defend himself. Also for this to be your brother, you sure do know a lot of the details. I'm starting to believe these are your stories and your trying to pass them off on your brother. Also if this is truly your brother then why have you not reported him to the police? If you feel comfortable enough to tell strangers about the crimes your brother is committing then you should have no problem telling the police.
[QUOTE=King0453;6765452]What's the point of you telling us what your brother is doing. He's not here to give his side of the story or defend himself. Also for this to be your brother, you sure do know a lot of the details. I'm starting to believe these are your stories and your trying to pass them off on your brother. Also if this is truly your brother then why have you not reported him to the police? If you feel comfortable enough to tell strangers about the crimes your brother is committing then you should have no problem telling the police.[/QUOTE]Get a grip dude. We all are here because we're fucking around or our girlfriends or wives. Don't place yourself on a pedestal like you're some moral authority. I know the details because my brother told me this.
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[QUOTE=FourthTwin;6765663]Get a grip dude. We all are here because we're fucking around or our girlfriends or wives. Don't place yourself on a pedestal like you're some moral authority. I know the details because my brother told me this.[/QUOTE]Just sayin.
SG.
[QUOTE=FourthTwin;6765663]Get a grip dude. We all are here because we're fucking around or our girlfriends or wives. Don't place yourself on a pedestal like you're some moral authority. I know the details because my brother told me this.[/QUOTE]1. I'm single so don't try to group me in with you or the others. Any man that cheats on his wife or girlfriend with an escort is a coward. Just be a man and end the relationship.
2. I'm not placing myself on a pedestal, but I won't defend garbage like you and your brother.
That guy sounds like a narcissistic sociopath and honestly even if he were my brother I'd likely disassociate with him.
There is hobbying and then there's whatever that guy is doing. I sorta wish I hadn't even read that. Obviously in the back of my mind I know that there are folks out there like that, but hearing of specifics doesn't sit well with me at all.
[QUOTE=FourthTwin;6765167]As you guys know, my brother, who also is a monger, has a weird way of thinking. As mentioned before, he will go see an escort then when they aren't looking he'll cut the condom so he can fuck them raw and nut in them without their knowledge. Yeah, he thinks that they don't know or by the time they realize he nutted in them he's already left. Here's his next thing he told me yesterday.
There was a girl I introduced him to a number of years ago that I either met off Craigslist or Backpage. I guess back then she was probably 19 or 20 yrs old. Poor and uneducated, probably didn't even finish high school. She was no where near attractive. Cute in her own way. Skinny. Probably weighed 90 lbs but she had descent boobs on her. And when I say cheap, she was CHEAP. We use to hook up for like $20 a pop. No, she didn't post on any escort site. She was just known around as the neighborhood jumpoff for a few dollars. Anyway, when I would hook up with her I think the most I ever gave her was $40 but that quickly dropped down to $20. And she would let you fuck raw and nut in her. Definitely not GFE so she would basically lay there till you nut in her. My brother started seeing her, upon my introduction, and they kicked it for a while. At one point I heard she moved out of state. Little did I know a short time later she moved back and her and my brother continued to hook up. My brother told me the other day that she was back in town and had been for a few years so he gave me her new number. I hit her up and tried to negotiate with her. She did quote $30 but we never could get together because she was worried that I would go back and tell my brother that she and I were hooking up again. It's not like she didn't already know we talked because I introduced her to him back then.[/QUOTE]This sounds outlandish first of all. Secondly, "thou protesters too much" as Shakespeare would say. Meaning: you may be publicly lamenting what you ratify in private. In short no moral to your declaration. Rather odd you would use this forum to anonymously attack an anonymous person.
My last post was deleted by admin, so I guess all I can say is your brother is a real nice a guy. A great member of the hobby community, a real gem.