[QUOTE=Vip11;4789526]I get alot of likes from South American women on Seeking is that normal and are they legit?[/QUOTE]What would you consider legit? Thinking that they are real and here in the Detroit area ready meet you in person?
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[QUOTE=Vip11;4789526]I get alot of likes from South American women on Seeking is that normal and are they legit?[/QUOTE]What would you consider legit? Thinking that they are real and here in the Detroit area ready meet you in person?
[QUOTE=BigBootyFan;4789589]I just have the free profile set up on Seeking arrangements and I'm not sure if I should get a "membership".
Reasons:
1. There is barely any women on there within 100 miles of me when I do a search. I live in the Flint area but even when I do a search in the Detroit area there are few profiles. Most of the profiles of women that people have posted on this forum don't even show up on seeking when I do a search. Do you get access to more profiles when you join?
2. A lot of the profiles seem fake.
3. Is the low volume of women because of Covid-19 or is it always scare on profiles?
Any advice much appreciated!
Thanks.[/QUOTE]Me personally I live 45 minutes from Detroit and I have lots of choice's I probably have anywhere between 200-300 choices make sure you preferences are setup properly. Before covid-19 there was a lot of choices now I'm not sure I haven't been on in 3 months.
[QUOTE=BigBootyFan;4789589]I just have the free profile set up on Seeking arrangements and I'm not sure if I should get a "membership".
Reasons:
1. There is barely any women on there within 100 miles of me when I do a search. I live in the Flint area but even when I do a search in the Detroit area there are few profiles. Most of the profiles of women that people have posted on this forum don't even show up on seeking when I do a search. Do you get access to more profiles when you join?
2. A lot of the profiles seem fake.
3. Is the low volume of women because of Covid-19 or is it always scare on profiles?
Any advice much appreciated!
Thanks.[/QUOTE]I paid for a 3 membership promo in March and I totally regret it.
Only meet a few girls in person and they all looked pretty nasty in person.
There are a lot of fake profiles, prostitutes, strippers, girls selling pics and videos, kids that are bored and creating profiles with the intention to never meet in person and many more.
I have asked several hot young sugar babies why the heck are they in the site if hey never plan to meet in person now or in the future after the pandemic is over and they've said because I'm bored and have nothing else to do.
If you find someone you really like please do yourself a favor and ask for a live full body selfie with a smile where you can see their teeth.
It's amazing how many girls that look pretty hot in their pics who I have meet from the site just to be extremely disappointed when I meet them in person (missed and rotten teeth, fat, bruises in their arms).
I'm not saying all are like this but this has become the norm unfortunately.
Unfortunately my regulars (hot and young) that I used to see often have moved out of state or disappeared from the site.
I'm sure it will take me some time to find some other gems like them.
Stay safe!
[QUOTE=Robertin75;4790371]What would you consider legit? Thinking that they are real and here in the Detroit area ready meet you in person?[/QUOTE]Sorry I meant they live in South America as in they are not local.
[QUOTE=Robertin75;4790387]I paid for a 3 membership promo in March and I totally regret it.
Only meet a few girls in person and they all looked pretty nasty in person.
There are a lot of fake profiles, prostitutes, strippers, girls selling pics and videos, kids that are bored and creating profiles with the intention to never meet in person and many more.
I have asked several hot young sugar babies why the heck are they in the site if hey never plan to meet in person now or in the future after the pandemic is over and they've said because I'm bored and have nothing else to do.
If you find someone you really like please do yourself a favor and ask for a live full body selfie with a smile where you can see their teeth.[/QUOTE]I, on the other hand, have had pretty good success as of late. I just recently renewed my membership as I had a nice rotation of women to see for a little while. I usually sign up in 1 month intervals. Go hard for that month and build a roster. And then enjoy that roster until it fizzles out, or I get a taste for something new. It takes some time to weed through the bad apples, but if you're patient, you can really find some gems.
I currently have a very sexually driven 20 year old who is a submissive. Never been with one of those before. Kinda awesome! Also a couple single moms in their 30's who look extremely good for their age.
The hot 19 yr old I had, has decided that Covid will take her on a hiatus. Smh. That one hurt. She was wonderful, cheap, and freaky as hell. I had just got her into anal and everything!
Anyway, those are my 2 cent worth of thoughts. I think the site can be very beneficial.
Even in my last go-round, when I was complaining about the quality going down, I still got 4 or so good to most, decent to me women around 25 or so, on there that were fine and could have been long term if I wanted something longer.
You're going to get a lot of fake profiles from the Philippines and such, but those are easy to ignore.
The most important thing to remember, though, is that half of the women aren't super pros and picky, so your looks and appeal matter more as compared to if they were just straight escorts or strippers. They can typically get guys in normal situations without the extra baggage that a lot of pros bring, so half are a lot more discriminate.
[QUOTE=Johns550;4791056]I, on the other hand, have had pretty good success as of late. I just recently renewed my membership as I had a nice rotation of women to see for a little while. I usually sign up in 1 month intervals. Go hard for that month and build a roster. And then enjoy that roster until it fizzles out, or I get a taste for something new. It takes some time to weed through the bad apples, but if you're patient, you can really find some gems.
I currently have a very sexually driven 20 year old who is a submissive. Never been with one of those before. Kinda awesome! Also a couple single moms in their 30's who look extremely good for their age.
The hot 19 yr old I had, has decided that Covid will take her on a hiatus. Smh. That one hurt. She was wonderful, cheap, and freaky as hell. I had just got her into anal and everything!
Anyway, those are my 2 cent worth of thoughts. I think the site can be very beneficial.[/QUOTE]I've been on a couple of weeks now and have a few prospects. You willing to share any of yours? PM and I'll share a few on mine.
[QUOTE=Vip11;4790635]Sorry I meant they live in South America as in they are not local.[/QUOTE]Well then I suppose you are ok with online stuff. I would never have any kind of arrangement with someone that is not from the Detroit area and much less from another Country but that's my personal preference.
[QUOTE=BrandoM;4791884]Even in my last go-round, when I was complaining about the quality going down, I still got 4 or so good to most, decent to me women around 25 or so, on there that were fine and could have been long term if I wanted something longer.
You're going to get a lot of fake profiles from the Philippines and such, but those are easy to ignore.
The most important thing to remember, though, is that half of the women aren't super pros and picky, so your looks and appeal matter more as compared to if they were just straight escorts or strippers. They can typically get guys in normal situations without the extra baggage that a lot of pros bring, so half are a lot more discriminate.[/QUOTE]As another fellow monger mentioned on a different thread good looks have very little to do in this business.
Would you think that a sugar baby will go for the "good looking guy" offering $300-$400 per date versus a 60+ years old rich fat bald dude that would offer them $3,000 per month allowance plus trips, shopping sprees, cars, apartment, etc?
You're using (mostly) unrealistic ends of the spectrum to try and make a point that doesn't really happen in reality with the group I'm talking about.
What you get more often is a woman willing to meet up with a guy for 250 that isn't a turn off for her as opposed to a guy that would spend 500 that is. A pro will take the 500, a non pro may often gor for the 250. When its not the major job or focus for them, more lines get drawn in the sand and the prices get higher to cross those lines. And you run into a good number of women on there that aren't quite at the "this is my job" point.
A lot of the "I just couldn't" stories I've heard are from the ones that are *actually* in college for something prospective that they will shift over into in a couple of years, which is just a sympathy or cover story for most strippers and such.
That's also where you draw the experiences of "I didn't even pay for it" too, which you aren't going to get with the pros. With those people sprinkled into the mix, things change.
2 years or so ago, I was at the point where I wasn't even paying for anyone I was seeing except normal actual normal date prices when hanging out on SA. Its way more pro now and has shifted, but the existence of actual college women kind of screws up some expectations and approaches for people that are used to strippers and escorts. Someone who still sees themselves with a career future in 2-3 years will approach things differently than someone just living for their next fix or who are getting their lights cut off in a week.
Edit: I know a lot of the service industry in this area and have seen them pop in and off in the space of a week. Their complaints and why they quit so quickly are generally just getting a lot of really old guys for hotels instead of the 40ish handsome businesses dudes that come to their bars and restaurants that they imagined coming on there to wine and dine before asking them to put out. They're willing to put out for money when it all comes down to it, but are still in situations where they imagine someone coming off a chariot as opposed to just needing money right now and not caring.
[QUOTE=Robertin75;4791972]As another fellow monger mentioned on a different thread good looks have very little to do in this business.
Would you think that a sugar baby will go for the "good looking guy" offering $300-$400 per date versus a 60+ years old rich fat bald dude that would offer them $3,000 per month allowance plus trips, shopping sprees, cars, apartment, etc?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Vip11;4789526]I get alot of likes from South American women on Seeking is that normal and are they legit?[/QUOTE]I get them, too, and just ignore them. I figure they are either scams or cam girls. If I want a cam girl, there are plenty of other avenues out there for me. If you're looking for someone to be just remote, something like the dirty pals subreddit might be a better (cheaper, likely free) option.
I just got an email from SA that premium members will be able to video chat with other members.
Hopefully this will be to our advantage to somehow weed out scammers and fake profiles.
What do you guys think?
[QUOTE=Robertin75;4794742]I just got an email from SA that premium members will be able to video chat with other members.
Hopefully this will be to our advantage to somehow weed out scammers and fake profiles.
What do you guys think?[/QUOTE]It could be useful. I generally switch over to kik if things are going well and ask for a quick little live video of them saying something silly or my name or whatever. Always worked out well for me. The scammers refuse to do it and the legit girls are happy to prove that they are legit.
[QUOTE=SomeDetroitGuy;4795933]It could be useful. I generally switch over to kik if things are going well and ask for a quick little live video of them saying something silly or my name or whatever. Always worked out well for me. The scammers refuse to do it and the legit girls are happy to prove that they are legit.[/QUOTE]Problem with kik is that the short videos could be misleading.
Yes they can help you confirm that the girl is not a scammer but it's difficult to know how she looks physically (especially their teeth), how she talks (a lot of times they're high or stoned), etc.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6095a6b0-58d2-4c68-9d4e-dbe430d9e1b0[/URL]
I did a PPM with Haley, Tiny is her nickname. She will turn 20 on Tuesday but looks much younger because she is petite. Hence Tiny Love.
Meeting was at a location I use. It is a friends office space that has a love seat converts to a bed. Good attitude. She goes straight to it. BBBJ but no CIM. At least not yet in my case. Started with BBBJ, then mish, then doggy, then mish again then BBBJ to finish. I will repeat with her.
If you need her number PM me. Just don't tell her that you got it from me.