The Woodshed

[QUOTE=ThePreacher;2687525]One other variable involved is the reviewers general experience with women. If a monger has not had the luxury to sample the many different levels of attractive women in real life for one reason or another, chances are that a BP girl would blow his mind pretty damn easy. For me, I only pull the trigger on specific body types and/or performance levels. I guess you can say that I am a monger specialist, not a generalist. That Caressa chick did not ping my radar at all. Not knocking her, just saying that she wasn't impressive enough to me to warrant taking her for a drive. Now those chicks Payton and Aubrey are REALLY pinging my radar! But I am trying to retire from the hobby though so I haven't pulled the trigger. YET! .[/QUOTE]Well said Preacher, any monger that has sampled a lot of women in real life typically will have higher standards when mongering, I'm speaking in general of course. One must also take into account personal preferences, we all have our likes and dislikes.

I have also recognized a continuing problem in my personal life. Women that I now date are generally older, I'm no spring chicken and don't expect to date one, the issue arises when we have sex and of course they look and act nothing like the 20-30 year olds I've been fucking in my mongering life. Lets face it, most 40-50 year old women have been through child birth and have aged, their mature women, even the ones that take very good care of themselves have some milage. It's not that I'm disappointed with these women, I'm not, it's just hard for me to sustain any type of long term sexual relationship in my personal dating life, I start yearning for a tight young body to fuck! There's also the sex itself. I've become a Greek freak of late and while there are plenty of regular women that will do anal I truly like to pound that ass almost daily and there's very few "normal" women that can take that kind of ass punishment day in and day out. Needless to say I've created a very hard role to fill with the attributes I'm looking for, a good looking in shape older woman that I get along with that's up for getting her ass fucked hard everyday! I'm fully aware that my mongering life is getting in the way of my personal relationships and I've thought about quitting but I've developed such a great verity of very good local providers that fulfill my every sexual want and desire I'm really torn between getting out of the life and trying to create a better personal life for myself. I also realize I've developed a sexual addiction but knowing this and actually doing something about it are two different things! JD.

[QUOTE=JaxForMe;2687756]I respectfully disagree.

If you contrast the content of the posts between YR and the rest (FZ, JD, etc), YR is apt to employ a very pointed stick to jab others that disagree with him.

But here's the important point for me, YR does it by invoking terms like "go ahead I'll rip your azz" or by referring to the poster disparagingly ("Fred Flinstone", "Jack Mutt" etc).

YR's diatribes are vitriolic and personal. And while others may have responded similarly, the frequency, intensity, and immaturity seemed to me less so than by YR.

So who was really bullying who?

Sorry dude. YR wasn't a victim of bullying. Although it never ceases to amaze me how often petulant behavior is rationalized by "victimization".

But thanks for changing the channel. As I stated in the title this is my last post on this matter.

(BTW I agree with Fishguy regarding the "Ignore" feature. It only truly works if there are no responses to the "ignored").

Respectfully.

J4 me.[/QUOTE]

I'll TRY to be very short on this one but Junior, let me explain something to you and others, for that matter! I don't really give a flying fruck who disagrees with me! Really! I am mature and realistic enough to understand that people will disagree. However, it is not the disagreement that gets me, for really and truly, everybody has an opinion! But what gets me is how one interacts with others. I mean, if one disagrees with me, that's fine. But when you do it in a condescending manner and disrespectful, that's when I get up on my toes and go to battle! One thing I've noticed about folks is that they readily can dish it out but man oh man they cannot take it when the shet comes back on them! They then want to start crying and pretending to be the victim. There's always a way to have a respectful discourse with someone without the insults BUT remember, if ya going to come at someone in a discourteous manner, be ready to get it back 10-fold! Now don't sit here and tell me that different ones have been so respectful and sweet; they have been anything BUT! If one goes back to all the different issues I've had with different ones (starting from the outset of the issue), you will see who initiated the negative exchange and I know FOR SURE it wasn't me because even in my personal life, I am not a contentious person. I'm really an under the radar type who bothers no one! And THEN, it's enough that one might have an exchange with the initial instigator but then his buddy wants to chime in with insults (those that have no frucking backbone) and then the shet gets started! If I am having a disagreement with someone, no one requires your input- rude ones, at that! Especially if you cannot be objective!

The issue here is, sometimes we say things that rub folks the wrong way; e. g., Like saying something negative about a provider they may LOVE SO MUCH and then they come after you in a nasty / untactful manner. Or like when I mentioned, in general, about even the high priced providers don't give a damn about you; who got their panties in a twist over that? Yeah, Fred Flintstone! Some things just touches nerves but guess what, there is no reason to smart off to someone for making general comments. Guess what? I also knew who would get their panties in a twist once I mentioned that thing about the high priced escorts- so called! Knew it! As you all like to mention, YMMV. What worked great for you in a session, might not work so great for me. Just the nature of the beast! And let me say this too, some people are rather passive-aggressive types. When they come after you, it might seem innocuous on the surface but I can see them seething underneath (through their writings)! Even when they approach you in a kind of subtle way, you can see (in their writings) that they really mean to insult you! You can see sometimes that they've wanted to say something to you for a while; at least I can. And no, I am not paranoid!

Am I being too sensitive? Hell to the naw! Do I expect to be spoken to like a got damn grown azz man? Hell yes! And so do you! Lastly and again, if you are going to dish it out, be ready to take it 10-fold when it comes back on you INSTEAD of crying like a biatch!

[QUOTE=JaxDog;2687780]Well said Preacher, any monger that has sampled a lot of women in real life typically will have higher standards when mongering, I'm speaking in general of course. One must also take into account personal preferences, we all have our likes and dislikes.

I have also recognized a continuing problem in my personal life. Women that I now date are generally older, I'm no spring chicken and don't expect to date one, the issue arises when we have sex and of course they look and act nothing like the 20-30 year olds I've been fucking in my mongering life. Lets face it, most 40-50 year old women have been through child birth and have aged, their mature women, even the ones that take very good care of themselves have some milage. It's not that I'm disappointed with these women, I'm not, it's just hard for me to sustain any type of long term sexual relationship in my personal dating life, I start yearning for a tight young body to fuck! There's also the sex itself. I've become a Greek freak of late and while there are plenty of regular women that will do anal I truly like to pound that ass almost daily and there's very few "normal" women that can take that kind of ass punishment day in and day out. Needless to say I've created a very hard role to fill with the attributes I'm looking for, a good looking in shape older woman that I get along with that's up for getting her ass fucked hard everyday! I'm fully aware that my mongering life is getting in the way of my personal relationships and I've thought about quitting but I've developed such a great verity of very good local providers that fulfill my every sexual want and desire I'm really torn between getting out of the life and trying to create a better personal life for myself. I also realize I've developed a sexual addiction but knowing this and actually doing something about it are two different things! JD.[/QUOTE]True!

It's hard to balance playing in dreamland and living in the real world.

[QUOTE=CantB1;2687309]If I remember correctly just a couple days ago a monger posted a pic of her. It only said something like guess who this is or maybe not. I think it was MH or KL. Not sure but I looked back and it's been removed from existence. So if your on the fence like me between the three. St8 up! Go for Peyton or Aubrey if you paying for looks. Most of Carressa pics looked tragic.[/QUOTE]Hmmm. If I'd have known that was Carressa's face I'd have pulled (would pull) the trigger on that one. Even without the good reviews I found it kinda hot in a MILF way. To each their own.

[QUOTE=JaxDog;2687780]Well said Preacher, any monger that has sampled a lot of women in real life typically will have higher standards when mongering, I'm speaking in general of course. One must also take into account personal preferences, we all have our likes and dislikes.

I have also recognized a continuing problem in my personal life. Women that I now date are generally older, I'm no spring chicken and don't expect to date one, the issue arises when we have sex and of course they look and act nothing like the 20-30 year olds I've been fucking in my mongering life. Lets face it, most 40-50 year old women have been through child birth and have aged, their mature women, even the ones that take very good care of themselves have some milage. It's not that I'm disappointed with these women, I'm not, it's just hard for me to sustain any type of long term sexual relationship in my personal dating life, I start yearning for a tight young body to fuck! There's also the sex itself. I've become a Greek freak of late and while there are plenty of regular women that will do anal I truly like to pound that ass almost daily and there's very few "normal" women that can take that kind of ass punishment day in and day out. Needless to say I've created a very hard role to fill with the attributes I'm looking for, a good looking in shape older woman that I get along with that's up for getting her ass fucked hard everyday! I'm fully aware that my mongering life is getting in the way of my personal relationships and I've thought about quitting but I've developed such a great verity of very good local providers that fulfill my every sexual want and desire I'm really torn between getting out of the life and trying to create a better personal life for myself. I also realize I've developed a sexual addiction but knowing this and actually doing something about it are two different things! JD.[/QUOTE]JD, if you happen to find one let me know if she has a younger sister, thanks!

[QUOTE=CantB1;2686403]Live and let go!

The YR drama serious was buried a couple days ago. You sir are trying to dig it up and and bring it back like pet cemetery. If he has retired then good for him. If not, I understand that too. You woke up this morning thinking about another monger? You probably going to miss him the most. Won't you?

And don't go tryna say that CB1 = YR. It won't add up.

CB1.

It's Monger Crush Monday!

Let's get Fred to admit to his crush on YR.

JTM used to have a crush on PoniBoi. Where are they now?

And my crush is Preacher because most mongers write with have no personal. LOL.[/QUOTE]Besides, everyone knows CB1 does not =YR, all of us know CB1 = Pipelayer10. Ha!

[QUOTE=ThePreacher;2686827]I've been looking high and low for my crush. Poni Boy. WTH happened to that guy? Hopefully he didn't get locked up![/QUOTE]Got Charlie Sheen'd maybe.

[QUOTE=JaxDog;2687780]Well said Preacher, any monger that has sampled a lot of women in real life typically will have higher standards when mongering, I'm speaking in general of course. One must also take into account personal preferences, we all have our likes and dislikes.

I have also recognized a continuing problem in my personal life. Women that I now date are generally older, I'm no spring chicken and don't expect to date one, the issue arises when we have sex and of course they look and act nothing like the 20-30 year olds I've been fucking in my mongering life. Lets face it, most 40-50 year old women have been through child birth and have aged, their mature women, even the ones that take very good care of themselves have some milage. It's not that I'm disappointed with these women, I'm not, it's just hard for me to sustain any type of long term sexual relationship in my personal dating life, I start yearning for a tight young body to fuck! There's also the sex itself. I've become a Greek freak of late and while there are plenty of regular women that will do anal I truly like to pound that ass almost daily and there's very few "normal" women that can take that kind of ass punishment day in and day out. Needless to say I've created a very hard role to fill with the attributes I'm looking for, a good looking in shape older woman that I get along with that's up for getting her ass fucked hard everyday! I'm fully aware that my mongering life is getting in the way of my personal relationships and I've thought about quitting but I've developed such a great verity of very good local providers that fulfill my every sexual want and desire I'm really torn between getting out of the life and trying to create a better personal life for myself. I also realize I've developed a sexual addiction but knowing this and actually doing something about it are two different things! JD.[/QUOTE]I hear ya'.

Trying to find right body type (spinner for me with a nice rack), mature, sober, competent, accommodating, civilized, and low volume. Is like searching for a Unicorn (that spews skittles).

But the good news is despite my age, the girls only seem to get younger and if I'm not keen on the current roster of girls I just sit back and wait for the next recruitment class. Sort of like Texas weather, if ya' don't like it, don't fret its bound to change soon.

Stay safe.

J4 me.

How do I break out of regular member shite?

I need a minimum number of posts or something?

It's annoying to post and wait until an admin approves my message or whatever it is that delays everything.

[blue]Six months and 25 posts. I wonder why we do that?

Oh yeah, because when we didn't assholes would register just to troll.

A2[blue]

Don't get me wrong, I agree with it. Thanks for clarifying the rules.

I tried searching but couldn't find them posted.