Life's too short to be angry
Hey JJ,
You the man. Keep your head up and let's move on. Life's good, so why make it not be? You all my dark side bros for hos!
Grandpa? I hope so! I know I must have some kids that I don't know about!
[QUOTE=JJFresh;5192868]Oh so I have to post my encounters to prove myself? HA! To who....You? GTFO I only share my dreams with a VERY small select few, don't want to spoil my stash with generous suckers! 😂.
Stay in your lane grandpa![/QUOTE]
Recap, Rebuttal and Fun & Educational Economic Fact
[QUOTE=Dugglc;5192809]It's not really about the money to me. It's about the hobby. I probably have more in my checking account then you will make in your lifetime. That doesn't mean I have to show my ass and pay these girls 10 times their value just to say I did. I started my own company at 19 years old and retired at 45. So what, that don't make me any better than anyone else, and doesn't mean I need to go out and ruin this hobby for other people that can't afford to pay the stupid prices you guys are paying. This is supposed to be kind of a brotherhood where we all look out for each other and keep the hobby safe and fun. Give each other advise on which girls are good and which are bad and share leads to the good finds. It's not a competition. There will always be little boys like yourself in the group that maybe make a little 6 figure income and think you're big shit LOL. When you price yourself out of the hobby I'll be fine but a lot of guys won't. Those are the ones I'm trying to speak up and look out for. I used to go out and spend the big bucks on the eros girls and 3 or 4 thousand dollar overnights until I figured out it doesn't matter what you spend a nut is a nut. I still spend around $1500 a month, but that's 6 to 10 different times not one or two. Personally I spend most of my time and energy on AMP visits these days. I kinda like the young asian girls with no drug problems or drama. Most of the independent girls out there are trash. There may be a handful of decent girls out there at best. What do you have for cream of the crop these days, M1 L and Avalon? Wouldn't give you $50 for an overnight duo with the both of them. Keep your so called swag little boy. Try being a brother to your fellow mongers and keep your swag to yourself.[/QUOTE]Your point is well made. I believe the point of trying to help others sums it up. It's got nothing to do with personal spending. This post initially started in the Advertiser Thread because one person mentioned how out of control asking prices are getting and some others agreed. It was based on a new-to-the-area provider wanting nearly $300 for HH FS and seeing several long time advertisers bumping asking rates to 100 to 150 for QV. For some reason one person got their panties in a wad, needed to play devil's advocate and try to prove what a big spender he is and called in the posse to self-salute the position. I'm sure he, under the guise of the posse will now add a post to this comment and call me a stupid doo-doo head, call anyone I see a skank or say they are has-beens or yesterday's news and also try to insult anyone else who actually makes sense about the subject. I simply won't argue with him endlessly as he quickly loses his temper and often becomes befuddled, which is somewhat funny but mainly I choose not to not argue endlessly with him is because I am of the belief to not go into a battle of integrity, wits and logic against someone who is pretty much unarmed.
I do have two comments about a couple comments in your posts though. One is a rebuttal to what you said and the other is a helpful financial hint to help some to better understand what you are saying.
The rebuttal: It isn't BS that you can get a quality girl for 80 and even 60 for QV FS with a quality girl. The trick is that it can take some work to do it. They aren't always advertisers either although I have also gotten some better known providers (at one time or another) for less than 100 many times. Not left-overs or ones on their way downhill either. Some are from grandfathered rates so to speak as well, some were on their way up. It is a skill that some may or may not possess to negotiate down that low and the key is to make the girl not regret it. I keep my promises NOT to reveal low prices in those situations and live up to my word.
I believe that you don't lack that skill at all, I just believe you choose to go a different path due to your own preferences. I personally am a cheapskate. I will also add that Walmart is a breeding ground for decent women who just want to make a few extra bucks. I'm talking $40 to $75. I was in your same shoes at one time, long before I joined this Forum and although I am not a self-made independently-wealthy man, I do make a very-very healthy living. I would be spending way too much for way too little. Then I realized what you did, you can get more volume of visits for less per visit and be even happier. Great philosophy to live by.
The helpful financial hint: When talking big dollar amounts, like when you said you spend $1500 a month on girls, it might resonate more and be more relatable for about 5 of the current contributors to this conversation if you broke it down to how many Grandma's Peanut Butter Cookies that equals. So saying $1500 is equal to almost 1,300 Grandma's PBC at $1.09 + tax at your local Home Improvement Store, might help. Now, if you are a true cheapskate like me, it is equal to almost 1,600 Grandma's PBC because I would get them at Walmart where they are only $.88 + tax.
Grain 56.