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Last fall I played "text tag"with her for about a week and gave up. Initial contact was good but then she falls off the grid. Says she's on the south shore. I'm still curious so let us know if you make contact.

SPS.

[QUOTE=GiilsonWH;3772713]She's been posting for a while -since early 2017 at least- only does outcalls 1. 5 hh, 2 fhr. I spoke to her once over the phone,and she seemed friendly but I still haven't been able to meet her yet. Has anybody on this forum seen her? I couldn't find any hands-on review of her. I suspect she's probably a gem that some of you are trying to hide (joke)
I believe she's mostly active in the Greater Boston areas, northshore.
Any seniors or regular members know her?? 857-345-0942

PM if possible (if u prefer) please,and thank u.[/QUOTE]

Thinking of taking a plunge for the team. I would appreciate if anyone has some info so I use my hard earned money on some other.

PM would be good.

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So I recently went and saw this girl [URL]http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:WV5ovDMRrr0J:boston.postfastr.com/WomenSeekMen/978-979-4218/56741587[/URL]+&cd=4&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us who links her ad to her real instagram with the username badluckbarbiex3. Based on her instagram I had very high hopes of a cute and curvy little thing. I hate to be harsh but you guys deserve the facts and I have to say it was a big letdown. She is very nice and laid back but she has put on a lot of weight. The video in the cached ad is the closest but she has even put on probably 10 or 20 more pounds since then. Plus she was working out of a really low end motel and the place absolutely reeked of cigarette smoke. The service itself wasn't terrible. She does BBBJ and cfs. It was sort of GFE but she keeps her eyes closed the whole time and her sex noises were pretty unenergetic. $. 5 hh $$. 5 h. I think she probably hit her peak about 1 or 2 years ago.

As I've noticed many post both here, the AMP forum and the SW forum, I'm doing my best to make sure I 'fight' for the best price. I know the recession seems a distant memory, but why pay more if you don't have to? If I can save. 2 per session, the 7th session just paid for itself. Maybe it's just the way I was raised, but I try approach situations like the price is always negotiable (even though sometimes it is not! One has to be 'smart' about whom you negotiate with, which leads me to a discount dance I've found myself having with providers I classify under the 'Local Gal' category.

Who is the 'Local Gal'? Well, after spending a lot of time on BP I'm starting to get an 'eye' for these profiles much in the same way our SW brothers can spot a SW a mile away. Something about the pictures that tells me you are a Mass. Girl and not going anywhere any time soon. I am more and more interested in finding a local gem because I can foresee the day when we wake up and BP is off the air, in the same way CL descended into the grave, and pity the man who does not have a few good numbers stored on his phone! (Some seniors need not worry as they have numbers on tap. The rest of us have to cultivate, work and every so often toftt much as the elders have).

Now, I will disclaimer. I have outright 'lost' some providers with my techniques, but should I really give a fuck? I know providers are scarce, but the ones I 'lost' could quite equally have been flakes and in the absolute worst case, when you are desperate to feel the seed shoot out, pornhub is always at hand! And so the discount dance begins.

First, customary pleasantries and 'are you with law enforcement'. Then I get to where are you located (wow, 'so close', 'that works well for me') and what donation are you expecting for hh. Almost always, some bullshit reply comes back. This is where technique one begins. Silent treatment. I let it stew for a good few minutes, and some of them come back with a 'I can do it for x'. Gotcha! In the absence of a reply, I try technique two, 'hmm, you seem nice but x is a bit too much for me for a hh. Thanks for responding though. Goodnight'. Two minutes later - 'I can do it for x'. Gotcha!

Now, it's important to remember the profile. Almost all the cases where this has worked has been for girls hosting in a house / apartment. Home visits are some risky shit, I agree (and I've had to extricate myself from some hairy situations in the past), but risk / reward is a life principle we can't escape. I sometimes use this to my advantage with a 'hmm, private house, not sure, but thanks anyway'. Two minutes - 'I can do it for x'. Gotcha!

Maybe the private apartment thing is a factor because the provider doesn't have the same cost base as a hotel provider, so try as they might to pass themselves off as 'expensive', they know they aren't burdened with the cost-base and some dollar is better than no dollar. An out of town hotel girl is probably wondering about whether flight + hotel is paid, which is no mean feat in our dear Boston. I've tried this shit with out of town providers with much less success and let's not get started on the locals that think they are going to 'be somebody'.

Any other techniques the brethren can offer to a budget conscious regular?

[QUOTE=BPNinja;3776901]Any other techniques the brethren can offer to a budget conscious regular?[/QUOTE]I'm not a player, but not a complete social retard either, and have met women in bars. If they are alone and receptive to small-talk-chit-chat it's just about a sure thing.

There are dangers and downsides to this approach however. The quality is hit or miss. As a married man with a dead bedroom at home, one recent FWB I met in this way became psychotic after a year+ and tried to blackmail me.

She wasn't playing from a strong hand and I called her bluff. A divorce is just a matter of time, so her threats to blow up the marriage with disclosure was an empty threat.

There's been some posts on the seeking arrangement thread suggesting there are MILFs to be found who are just looking for a quickie, not necessarily an "allowance" or PPM. You need to pay for membership however and put the work in to find these "gems". There's a lot of "platonic-only" profiles, online-only and golden pussy syndrome (GPS) on that site, so it may not be for everyone. "whatsyourprice" is similar ask / bid site, but I've never used it myself.

I am paying an allowance to someone I met on that site (edit:SA) but am thinking of ending my current arrangement in favor of another woman half her age (20) and way sexier for the same "allowance". I would not be surprised if the current arrangement keeps seeing me without the "allowance" since we seem to have a lot in common and genuinely like each other. If it plays out that way, I'll take the MILF for "free" instead of the PYT for a price.

Just my US $0. 02.

[QUOTE=BPNinja;3776901]

And so the discount dance begins.

First, customary pleasantries and 'are you with law enforcement'. Then I get to where are you located (wow, 'so close', 'that works well for me') and what donation are you expecting for hh. Almost always, some bullshit reply comes back. This is where technique one begins. Silent treatment. I let it stew for a good few minutes, and some of them come back with a 'I can do it for x'. Gotcha! In the absence of a reply, I try technique two, 'hmm, you seem nice but x is a bit too much for me for a hh. Thanks for responding though. Goodnight'. Two minutes later - 'I can do it for x'. Gotcha!

Now, it's important to remember the profile. Almost all the cases where this has worked has been for girls hosting in a house / apartment. Home visits are some risky shit, I agree (and I've had to extricate myself from some hairy situations in the past), but risk / reward is a life principle we can't escape. I sometimes use this to my advantage with a 'hmm, private house, not sure, but thanks anyway'. Two minutes - 'I can do it for x'. Gotcha!

Maybe the private apartment thing is a factor because the provider doesn't have the same cost base as a hotel provider, so try as they might to pass themselves off as 'expensive', they know they aren't burdened with the cost-base and some dollar is better than no dollar. An out of town hotel girl is probably wondering about whether flight + hotel is paid, which is no mean feat in our dear Boston. I've tried this shit with out of town providers with much less success and let's not get started on the locals that think they are going to 'be somebody'.

Any other techniques the brethren can offer to a budget conscious regular?[/QUOTE]Very useful, thanks for sharing. I could have used some of these tips all this while!

[QUOTE=BPNinja;3776901]As I've noticed many post both here, the AMP forum and the SW forum, I'm doing my best to make sure I 'fight' for the best price. I know the recession seems a distant memory, but why pay more if you don't have to? If I can save. 2 per session, the 7th session just paid for itself. Maybe it's just the way I was raised, but I try approach situations like the price is always negotiable (even though sometimes it is not! One has to be 'smart' about whom you negotiate with, which leads me to a discount dance I've found myself having with providers I classify under the 'Local Gal' category.

Who is the 'Local Gal'? Well, after spending a lot of time on BP I'm starting to get an 'eye' for these profiles much in the same way our SW brothers can spot a SW a mile away. Something about the pictures that tells me you are a Mass. Girl and not going anywhere any time soon. I am more and more interested in finding a local gem because I can foresee the day when we wake up and BP is off the air, in the same way CL descended into the grave, and pity the man who does not have a few good numbers stored on his phone! (Some seniors need not worry as they have numbers on tap. The rest of us have to cultivate, work and every so often toftt much as the elders have).

Now, I will disclaimer. I have outright 'lost' some providers with my techniques, but should I really give a fuck? I know providers are scarce, but the ones I 'lost' could quite equally have been flakes and in the absolute worst case, when you are desperate to feel the seed shoot out, pornhub is always at hand! And so the discount dance begins.

First, customary pleasantries and 'are you with law enforcement'. Then I get to where are you located (wow, 'so close', 'that works well for me') and what donation are you expecting for hh. Almost always, some bullshit reply comes back. This is where technique one begins. Silent treatment. I let it stew for a good few minutes, and some of them come back with a 'I can do it for x'. Gotcha! In the absence of a reply, I try technique two, 'hmm, you seem nice but x is a bit too much for me for a hh. Thanks for responding though. Goodnight'. Two minutes later - 'I can do it for x'. Gotcha!

Now, it's important to remember the profile. Almost all the cases where this has worked has been for girls hosting in a house / apartment. Home visits are some risky shit, I agree (and I've had to extricate myself from some hairy situations in the past), but risk / reward is a life principle we can't escape. I sometimes use this to my advantage with a 'hmm, private house, not sure, but thanks anyway'. Two minutes - 'I can do it for x'. Gotcha!

Maybe the private apartment thing is a factor because the provider doesn't have the same cost base as a hotel provider, so try as they might to pass themselves off as 'expensive', they know they aren't burdened with the cost-base and some dollar is better than no dollar. An out of town hotel girl is probably wondering about whether flight + hotel is paid, which is no mean feat in our dear Boston. I've tried this shit with out of town providers with much less success and let's not get started on the locals that think they are going to 'be somebody'.

Any other techniques the brethren can offer to a budget conscious regular?[/QUOTE]So are you the one who is driving the conversation by posing questions about law enforcement and location and eventually hh, kind of laying the trap for "the pause" or are you describing what they usually do?

I try and drive the conversation as much as I can, and the intention is definitely to 'lay the trap' as you say. I want to give her reason to believe that I'm a follow through kind of guy after a day of 'want to fuk' messages. Some P.S. And Qs never hurt either.

Excerpt from a conversation last night.

Me: which area are you in?

SP: -provides address-.

Me: That's not too far, a quick run down road x and I can be there. It's a private house though?

SP: -responds in the affirmative including some details about the housing situation-.

Me: Hmm. Always a bit wary about non-hotel meets. You look legit though, so I'm torn. With CL down and BP soon to follow, I'm looking for someone reliable that can become a regular.

Me: Are you affiliated in anyway with law enforcement?

SP: Nooooooo.

Me: Cool, me neither. How many roses for hh?

SP: $ . 5.

SP: -sexy photo-.

Me 12:10: Damn. I could enjoy you for days, but $ . 5 though.

Me 12:19: I'm going to need to think on that one. Have a goodnight though and thanks for being responsive.

SP 12:25: I do hrs for $$ . 5 for a little discount, I go down to $ . 25 when a client says $ . 5 is high, but that's lowest I'll do.

Me: Ok, I could work with $ . 25. I'll give you a call in the morning. Sleep well.

Not too much effort for. 25 in my opinion. I know for some. 25 is a breeze, but my bank manager hasn't lifted the austerity budget yet.

[QUOTE=Nrlmus;3777983]So are you the one who is driving the conversation by posing questions about law enforcement and location and eventually hh, kind of laying the trap for "the pause" or are you describing what they usually do?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BPNinja;3778027]I try and drive the conversation as much as I can, and the intention is definitely to 'lay the trap' as you say. I want to give her reason to believe that I'm a follow through kind of guy after a day of 'want to fuk' messages. Some P.S. And Qs never hurt either.

Excerpt from a conversation last night.

Me: which area are you in?

SP: -provides address-.

Me: That's not too far, a quick run down road x and I can be there. It's a private house though?

SP: -responds in the affirmative including some details about the housing situation-.

Me: Hmm. Always a bit wary about non-hotel meets. You look legit though, so I'm torn. With CL down and BP soon to follow, I'm looking for someone reliable that can become a regular.

Me: Are you affiliated in anyway with law enforcement?

SP: Nooooooo.

Me: Cool, me neither. How many roses for hh?

SP: $ . 5.

SP: -sexy photo-.

Me 12:10: Damn. I could enjoy you for days, but $ . 5 though.

Me 12:19: I'm going to need to think on that one. Have a goodnight though and thanks for being responsive.

SP 12:25: I do hrs for $$ . 5 for a little discount, I go down to $ . 25 when a client says $ . 5 is high, but that's lowest I'll do.

Me: Ok, I could work with $ . 25. I'll give you a call in the morning. Sleep well.

Not too much effort for. 25 in my opinion. I know for some. 25 is a breeze, but my bank manager hasn't lifted the austerity budget yet.[/QUOTE]Thanks dude. You sure is a pro. I love the idea of starting with 20 questions in speedy sequence and then throwing a pause. Often when you actually start bargaining it could poorly affect your service.

TOFT, but the result was bad. Avoid this one with big black pimp:

(213) 839-xxxx.

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I saw Carmen a few months ago. She is generally around the south shore, but occasionally meanders to the North Shore. Set up was pretty easy, although she got a little nervous when I ran late.

She is the girl in the pictures, but the long blonde hair is extensions and she is actually latin, Puerto Rican? She actually wore the hot dress shown in the pictures.

I saw her for an hour. Standard service, nothing special, no kissing, but got the job done. As I remember, CBJ / cfs. Will not repeat, but she might interest you.

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[QUOTE=Nrlmus;3778211]Thanks dude. You sure is a pro. I love the idea of starting with 20 questions in speedy sequence and then throwing a pause. Often when you actually start bargaining it could poorly affect your service.[/QUOTE]An excellent point. In this game you already have to worry about providers rushing you through the session. It's likely to be even more rushed if you're a discount customer.

[QUOTE=DickySmith;3778510]TOFT, but the result was bad. Avoid this one with big black pimp:

(213) 839-xxxx.

[URL]http://boston.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/213-839-4471/56628692[/URL][/QUOTE]That body looks way too good to be real. Are those pictures of her for real? If so I might still try to see her. Were there other problems besides the pimp? PM is fine if you would rather not post.

I remember reading a review somewhere but can't find it now. Help.

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Took a plunge but unfortunately not my type. Pics are accurate and she even looks nicer in person. Decent sized boobs and I would love to see her only if.

I drove to a not so nice part of lowell. She greeted me at the front door of a multi-family condo. She takes me in and shows me steps that go down and I am like. Must be way to her room. But guess what, its the basement. Its dirty, dusty and kind of sketchy. She has a bed at the basement and seems like that's her way. She told me that she lives with her mom so this is her work place. $. 8 BJ and $2 FS was quoted. I did not feel comfortable and this was certainly not my piece of cake. Gave $. 2 and left.

Don't get me wrong, she is a fine person but its just not my taste of atmospher. I guess I am too old to do it in a cold dusty basement. If it weren't the basement I wouldn't hesitate.

[QUOTE=Clone1;3775454]Thinking of taking a plunge for the team. I would appreciate if anyone has some info so I use my hard earned money on some other.

PM would be good.

[URL]http://lowell.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/978-346-3239/44331328[/URL][/QUOTE]