Thunderdome

[QUOTE=Admin2;3430089]I don't care why you do, I'm telling you to knock it off.

Explaining to guys why a chick fucking up is their fault is the classic definition of white knighting and it gets tiresome.

We all understand, you really dig this chick. Stop shilling for her on the review threads. You may continue to do so on the fight thread. That's not a request, I'm not asking you, I'm telling you to do that. The next step, if you continue will be being restricted from commenting about her in anyway and placed back on moderation.

A2.[/QUOTE]I totally agree witj the Admin on this one; I don't have anything against that girl who's been overly glorified on the Providence Forum by some. I have seen her a couple of times and yes she's nice, doesn't rush, but as far as performance she's only great at oral, the rest is just average. As far as scheduling she's horrible. I can understand you may be running a bit late etc, but if you know you can't or won't see someone why have them wait forever or bailed on themwhen they're already there. Guys, there are still a few better options out there.

[QUOTE=GiilsonWH;3452425] I have seen her a couple of times and yes she's nice, doesn't rush, but as far as performance she's only great at oral, the rest is just average. As far as scheduling she's horrible.....Guys, there are still a few better options out there.[/QUOTE]Her time management skills are next to non existent. That being said, who are these better options?

[QUOTE=IceCreamMan33;3452620]Her time management skills are next to non existent. That being said, who are these better options?[/QUOTE]No one is going to argue that she's great at time management. Pretty sure she would even admit this herself. She does try, and I can say with 100% certainty that when she's late, it's not because she just doesn't give a shit or anything like that. For what it's worth, I've never had her completely bail on me after we set a definite time and she told me to come on over. And you'd think with all the times I've seen her that it would have happened by now if it was in any way a commonplace thing for her. Granted, I understand that it would frustrating if that has happened to you.

As for the the rest of her service being "just average", I can only assume he's only seen a lot of REALLY incredible providers if that's "average" to him (unless he just considers any provider who doesn't do full GFE to be average, which I know some guys do). Pretty sure any monger who's seen a good number of BP girls over the years would realize just how rare it is to find a girl who actually puts as high a priority on making her clients happy as she does. Most just want to get you off and get you out the door as quickly as possible. I mean, just take a look on BP now, and go reading through the BP advertiser forum. Sure seems like a pretty desolate wasteland for the most part.

Just flat out LAZY and wanting everything handed to him on a platter. Only four post, which were all made today BTW, and all four are questions. Not to mention that the answers to his questions are already here.

Ever hear of getting off your lazy ass and READING THE FORUM? Duh, that's what it's here for.

[QUOTE=FlairStick;3481057]I'm new to SW and I want just general advice? What time should I be hitting prov? What are the best locations? And what are general rates? Basically just want to bend a chick over real quick in a discreet spot. That possible? Lmk how shit goes down. I'm from Mass but Prov seems like a gold mine I can easily pop in addresses in my GPS. So shoot me some streets or whatever.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=YLonen;3494533]Only problem is the amount of effort and time needed to see her is so high that it's not really worth it.

She hardly ever answers texts. Maybe you and a handful of her top clients, otherwise it's futile.

I sent her a couple of texts one day, got no response back, two days later she sends a text asking if I want to see her. I could not as I was busy that day.
I respond about being unable to see her that day but would like to the next day or two. Again no response and days later another message from her. Totally useless!!!

Then throw in her attitude she now has from guys fawning over her.[/QUOTE]So, I'm not responding to this in the Thunderdome because I want to argue or yell at you, but just because this could be misconstrued as me "defending" her which A2 has told me to keep out of the review thread. Really I'm just trying to illustrate the reason for the problems you've experienced.

Yeah, there's no doubt that the scheduling can be tough. I mean, even for me it's not like I can just message her and head over in a half hour like you can with a lot of BP providers. Don't really have a good answer for you there, all I can do it try to put it into perspective. She had something like 40 messages that came in just during the time she was with me the other night. There's just no possible way one provider can even respond to all of that, never mind actually see that many clients (especially since she was done for the night after me, and by the time she started working the next day she no doubt had a bunch of new messages. So all of those messages that came in the previous night probably went mostly unanswered). Things tend to slow down some if she hasn't posted an ad in awhile, so those might be better times to try hitting her up? Other than that, just have to get lucky I guess. Obviously it's not going to be worth it for a lot of guys, especially if you have rather limited free time, so I'm not at all suggesting that you're wrong for giving up on trying to see her.

As for the "attitude" though, I honestly have no idea what you're talking about. I haven't detected any negative change. She has talked to me about how she's less willing to tolerate disrespect from people than she was early on. I think being in this line of work for awhile will harden any woman to some extent. But beyond that, unless you can explain what exactly happened where you experienced this attitude from her, I really don't know what to say.

Smilers is already. 7 entry. Is it just me or is. 6 for just HE with some up top roaming (UTC) just too high? (review didn't spell out anything exceptional) I mean, that's a. 4 or. 35, right?

[QUOTE=AlwaysLookin69;3550793]Definitely more of a risk with any full service girl. The fact she still doesn't offer FS (although she hears out offers now I guess LOL) has always made me feel more comfortable about it. She claims to be tested regularly and I believe her because for 1, wouldn't you want to know you have something asap and 2) I've remained clean since my first visit.

I did see those posts someone was trying to make and they used 2 conflicting stories and in such an obvious way you could tell it was some person upset because she wouldn't see them, and if they're that immature and brain dead could you blame her LOL.

If I catch anything I'll be sure to report it but she herself said she'd pull her ads the second she had anything pop up because she likes her people and business too much to let something like that ruin it and ruin peoples lives.

She's still my number 1.[/QUOTE]Given her volume of traffic, by the time she visits a doc to be screened, she's seen three times as many guys as most other providers. Like I said, she offers a terrific service for short money, but when you're seeing three times a many mongers, you can't help but wind up with the times the risk of a bug. Unless she gets screened twice a week, she's going to be seeing visitors when she's got a bug. No way around it. And of course, any of us can pass along a bug way before it shows up on a test, or presents with symptoms.

Not a diss at all. Like I said, she offers a nice service for short roses. But no matter how conscientious she tries to be, the sheer volume will mean. No need to repeat myself, right?

Just my two cents.

Adobe.

[QUOTE=Adobe;3556322]Given her volume of traffic, by the time she visits a doc to be screened, she's seen three times as many guys as most other providers. Like I said, she offers a terrific service for short money, but when you're seeing three times a many mongers, you can't help but wind up with the times the risk of a bug. Unless she gets screened twice a week, she's going to be seeing visitors when she's got a bug. No way around it. And of course, any of us can pass along a bug way before it shows up on a test, or presents with symptoms.

Not a diss at all. Like I said, she offers a nice service for short roses. But no matter how conscientious she tries to be, the sheer volume will mean. No need to repeat myself, right?

Just my two cents.

Adobe.[/QUOTE]What makes her come across as seeing any more people than any other provider? You think the other people advertising are saying no I've already seen people today sorry? Any full service girl is dirtier. Fact. I saw her today. I was like what's up with the craigslist ad. Apparently all this shit from that douche and the talk here worked. She says she was never high volume and that's why she dropped her price in the first place. Apparently all this killed her business. She said she mostly dealt with regulars and people she's seen before, got tested regularly and she thinks it would be illegal if she worked on someone knowing she had anything so shed never do it. She's thinking about moving now I guess since all her people have stopped messaging. So yeah still cleaner than anyone else on backpage.

I love the idiots that think a good deal means high volume and that the girls who will do anything with anyone are somehow only taking in 2 people a day and then turning down money cause they had two people that day. You're two cents comes with a couple pennies change. Your obviously the one who put tht stuff up about her in the first place. I just hope you didn't ruin a good thing by stupidly thinking full service junky girl would be cleaner than a girl next door with no drug habit and offering limited service who actually tries to stay on top of things. Youll go to a girl who swallows a bunch of loads because she wraps it forst and claims to see only you LOL.

How has she seen more guys than other providers who will do anything with everyone? She offers such a limited service and in the state of RI how many people do you really think are looking for a quick mouth only for a few minutes service? She's clean, she's great, she goes out of her way to stay on top of everything. I just can't believe anyone would be so blind as to say something so ultimately derogatory towards a limited provider whos verified legit and tries as hard as she does to provide a different and limited but untimately perfect for my needs service.

[QUOTE=AlwaysLookin69;3559881]How has she seen more guys than other providers who will do anything with everyone? She offers such a limited service and in the state of RI how many people do you really think are looking for a quick mouth only for a few minutes service? She's clean, she's great, she goes out of her way to stay on top of everything. I just can't believe anyone would be so blind as to say something so ultimately derogatory towards a limited provider whos verified legit and tries as hard as she does to provide a different and limited but untimately perfect for my needs service.[/QUOTE]Look, Destiny is a great provider and a nice girl, and I don't doubt that she's as careful as anyone in her line of work can be. But you're being awfully naive here. There's no way in hell that she's "low volume". Low volume providers don't only charge $40, or advertise on BP all day long, from 10 AM to 10 PM, or have 125 reviews on the oThER site. Again, not saying anything derogatory about her. I don't think she's "dirty" or anything. I'd never discourage anyone from going to see her, or try to hurt her business in any way. But let's be realistic here.

[QUOTE=HornyAsHell;3481488]Just flat out LAZY and wanting everything handed to him on a platter. Only four post, which were all made today BTW, and all four are questions. Not to mention that the answers to his questions are already here.

Ever hear of getting off your lazy ass and READING THE FORUM? Duh, that's what it's here for.[/QUOTE]God, you are SUCH a ****! An absolute miserable fuck, all you do is ***** people out. Get over yourself, asswipe.

[blue]I solved your problem for you.

You're welcome

A2[/blue]

[QUOTE=GrafDog1;3560561]What's up with the changes at BP W4 M? The fourth choice for the search bar "DATE" is gone! You can't really look up older posts and archived listings anymore. Anyone want to share any other productive sites to find providers, now that BP is in decline once again.[/QUOTE]Worse than that, depending on your perspective, they are forcing a "social media link" on providers to post. A provider must provide a social media link from one of the big ones. Which of course isn't a huge deal, but invasive to say the least. Even if someone was posting there legitimately looking for a partner and not a pay to play, who would want to be forced to have a facebook linked to it.

I've loved BP for a long time but lately its becoming like a twisted craigslist. I loke that for the most part with backpage the people answering ads tend to have some clue what things mean and what they are dealing with vs craigslist where its flag crazy and the most monosyllabic group home rejects around 99 out 100 responses.

But sadly after the whole someone posting lies about me on BP it actually did take its toll and effect my business. I haven't been high volume since over 2 years ago. Part of my offering a lower rate was due to seeing a drop off after not being new anymore and I've considered going back to 50 or 60 since I don't see many people but sadly I can't get away with lutting that info in a W4 M ad in there anymore so it would make it a whole lot of headaches everytime someone messages. But now since the incidents with someone being upset I wouldn't see them (because I do turn down a lot of people for just being sh**ty people) I have dropped off hugely. Like some days I'll see 2 people. So I occasionally now am on Craigs as I still come across people who used to see me from there who just don't know of bps existence so they hit me up when I do saying oh my god its been so long. But basically I'm just trying to keep myself going since the damage that was done a few weeks back.

Think you need to read his post again, he said limited service not low volume.

There is no indication in that post that he was even trying to say she is low volume just limited in the service she does provide.

[QUOTE=Prometheus77;3560309]But you're being awfully naive here. There's no way in hell that she's "low volume". But let's be realistic here.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AlwaysLookin69;3559881]How has she seen more guys than other providers who will do anything with everyone? She offers such a limited service and in the state of RI how many people do you really think are looking for a quick mouth only for a few minutes service? She's clean, she's great, she goes out of her way to stay on top of everything. I just can't believe anyone would be so blind as to say something so ultimately derogatory towards a limited provider whos verified legit and tries as hard as she does to provide a different and limited but untimately perfect for my needs service.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AlwaysLookin69;3559864]What makes her come across as seeing any more people than any other provider? You think the other people advertising are saying no I've already seen people today sorry? Any full service girl is dirtier. Fact. I saw her today. I was like what's up with the craigslist ad. Apparently all this shit from that douche and the talk here worked. She says she was never high volume and that's why she dropped her price in the first place. Apparently all this killed her business. She said she mostly dealt with regulars and people she's seen before, got tested regularly and she thinks it would be illegal if she worked on someone knowing she had anything so shed never do it. She's thinking about moving now I guess since all her people have stopped messaging. So yeah still cleaner than anyone else on backpage.

I love the idiots that think a good deal means high volume and that the girls who will do anything with anyone are somehow only taking in 2 people a day and then turning down money cause they had two people that day. You're two cents comes with a couple pennies change. Your obviously the one who put tht stuff up about her in the first place. I just hope you didn't ruin a good thing by stupidly thinking full service junky girl would be cleaner than a girl next door with no drug habit and offering limited service who actually tries to stay on top of things. Youll go to a girl who swallows a bunch of loads because she wraps it forst and claims to see only you LOL.[/QUOTE]You are out of your mind if you believe for 1 second that destiny is low volume, LOL. 40 damage and seeing 3 people a day. Right.

[QUOTE=Skatar018;3561165]Think you need to read his post again, he said limited service not low volume.

There is no indication in that post that he was even trying to say she is low volume just limited in the service she does provide.[/QUOTE]Read the other post he made right before that one...