Dancers and their regulars
[QUOTE=ChaseStar;5201347]I hear ya bro. I think we've all run into scenes like that at one time or another (and not just at Brass) and it shouldn't ever be that way. The even more amazing part of that is that often the very same girls who spend all their working time hanging out with some regular who is not spending (or with their faces and fingers glued to their cellphone screens) while potential customers sit across the bar completely ignored, are usually the very same ones who, if you give them half a chance, will bitterly complain to you about how they're not making any money because no one is spending.
In such cases, your only recourse is to be more proactive (well that or simply give up, leave and never come back). If you're tipping them on stage and that's still not enough to get them to at least come around to thank you when the get off stage (and IF they were smart ask if you wanted a private dance), maybe you should have tried saying something to them while you were up there tipping them. It could be something as simple as "why not come see me when you're done on stage so we can talk about possibly doing some VIP". Or, if you were already fed up with their inattention, flash your wad of money as you take out a couple of bills to tip them and say "its a shame none of you girls came over to check with me while I was sitting there as I came here hoping to get some private dances but now I have to go" and then walk out the door.
Not saying that dancer would learn anything from such a "subtle hint", as many will just never get it, but you never know, for others it might slowly sink in.[/QUOTE]Often with the older regular guys, they'll pay the girls just to sit with them all day long. So, the girls are earning, it's just their bubbly personality and not their ass. You have 2 challenges to overcome, one, the regular has already made his bargain with her to spend his time there with her, so she's not going to alienate him by bailing before he leaves. Two, he comes in almost every day, so she isn't going to risk letting another girl possibly make a good impression on him and steal / share her regular just so she can take the risk that you might be a spender. It's the challenge of dayshift.